Content warning: This article includes mentions of rape and sexual assault. Fantasies; those delicious little half-truths we whisper to ourselves which get our wheels turning and our sexual appetites whet. Perhaps calling them “half-truths” is a euphemistic stretch—but fantasies are never so bound to facts and figures as we tend to be. That is part…
While exactly who created Steak and Blow Job day remains unclear, it’s been kicking around the internet for about as long as we’ve had memes. Taking place on March 14th, it’s meant to be a sort of ‘Valentine’s Day for Men’ when their partners make them a steak and give them head rather than the…
The thing that everyone wants to know the answer to, is how to have great sex . Not just as a one off or occasionally, but consistently. Just type into your search bar ‘How to have a good sex life’ and Google tells me that it has “About 2,680,000,000 results (0.73 seconds)”. That means that…
Throughout the menstrual cycle, your hormones are undergoing lots of changes , so it makes sense that your sexual preferences and needs might shift as well. But rarely do we pay attention to the ways our menstrual cycles affect us in the bedroom. According to Alisa Vitti, functional nutritionist, creator of the MyFlo period-tracking app…
My partner and I discovered naturism and the joys of naked camping completely by accident five years ago. We were on holiday in France, strolling along a beach on the Atlantic coast when we inadvertently walked across the threshold onto the naturist (nude) beach. We quickly discovered this was far more than just a beach.…
When it comes to sex toys, positions , ideas, and fantasies, it’s pretty hard to surprise me. But when I came across an episode of Slutever, a Vice original TV series that takes a look at sex in the modern world, I was introduced to a whole new concept of getting off. That is, the…
The thought of our genitals being stimulated by a warm, wet mouth is pretty hot. But what’s not hot is worrying if someone will do it right. Receiving oral can be a gamble, which is understandable because women’s anatomy isn’t exactly straightforward and stimulation preferences can change day to day. That’s why LELO created ORA…
Happy International Women’s Day! This March 8th we celebrate female pleasure liberation! Did you know that according to Kinsey Institute , only 40–60% of women masturbate, compared to 95–99% of their male counterparts. Women’s bodies were designed for pleasure. We can experience orgasms up to 2 minutes long (compared to men’s 10 seconds!) and may…
We hear a lot about ‘spicing it up ’ and helping couples to keep the spark alive , particularly during the Hallmark holidays, but what perhaps is more important than focusing on making one day amazing, different or making a huge effort to show our partners that we love them; is to take that initiative…
Don’t be too quick to scoff at that friend you have who communicates every little thing through emojis: it’s very possible they’re having more sex than you. Unless you are that friend, in which case, STOP IT. You see, according to this 2019 scientific report into the relationship between emojis and dating success , there…
Having sex for the first time can mean a lot of different things to different people, but when it comes to doing the dirty there are still a few things to take into consideration going into it, from whether we’re really ready to have sex at that moment to which type of protection we want…
There are tons of guides and classes out there on giving blowjobs , but cunnilingus just doesn’t get the same amount of attention. This is unfortunate, because around three quarters of vulva owners need clitoral stimulation to consistently orgasm, and oral sex is one highly effective way to provide that. Some people are intimidated by…
We were sitting on a bench watching Mable, our Labrador, edge closer towards the next sightseers enjoying their picnic – it was our away-day ritual — after the daily grind of work, we would decide to go down to the coast – near the cliffs preferably – to gather our thoughts and relax to the…
On the face of it, your gag reflex is only trying to help out. The human body comes with a bunch of little fail safes and reactions that are aimed at keeping you alive. Your gag reflex in particular is meant to stop things from getting into your throat that are too big to swallow…
To the cynical among us, the common thinking around penises is that ‘if you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all. But many owners of penises — men — know that every peen is different and unique in its own way: like snowflakes, with no two the same. Yes, the size and shape of a penis…
The cosplay subculture is one that’s definitely thriving. And it’s not rare to see cosplay enthusiasts going to all kinds of different lengths in order to immerse themselves into the cosplay world. Which is why the idea of cosplay sex isn’t actually that much of a shocker for some… But before we talk about the…
Most of us own sex toys, but are we using them in partnered play? The TIANI 3 is a couples’ massager that stimulates both partners simultaneously. It’s also hands-free, which means you can take it out for a night on the town and let your partner control your vibrations at the dinner table. You’ll be…
I’m 25 years old, and I grew up thinking there were two types of sexes: male and female. I didn’t learn about what being intersex was in high school, and I didn’t really learn about it in college either. At the time, I identified as a cisgendered woman (and still am) with a sexual preference…
When you’re making contraceptive choices, it pays to know exactly what’s going in your body. IF perfectly used, condoms have a pretty good success rate when it comes to preventing pregnancy and transmission of STIs. And, that’s before you consider the unique design of a condom like HEX ! But, does HEX use spermicide? And…
Asking for sex is a tricky art because it comes not just with the threat of a refusal, but an implicit criticism of your partner. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, asking for sex is a loaded question for all of us, loaded with risks and pitfalls at every turn. So how do…
There are many thoughts that may run through a person’s mind when they think of a sex toy. How do you use it? Does it vibrate? How big is it? Is it discrete? Silent? One thing that most don’t think about however, is the smell. But if you really think about it, why wouldn’t you…
If you’ve been reading about how awesome it feels to use sex toys with your partner, but aren’t quite sure what type you’re looking for, let us humbly suggest a wearable couples’ massager like TIANI 2 ! This little device is worn vaginally during penetrative partnered sex to offer intense sensations that can be felt by both!…
When I think of recycling sex toys, I somehow remember the scene in Sorority Boys where the popular guys sling shot dildos over to the less-than-popular female sorority. Sure, it wasn’t actually recycling, but one woman did eventually use one of them, which is kind of the same. Jokes aside, every day we’re getting more…
Personally speaking, I have never owned a pet and a sex toy simultaneously. But after some research, I realized that animals finding, chewing, and destroying sex toys actually happens quite often. Awkward. A simple gander on Twitter left me with a slew of somewhat hilarious tweets talking about the game: ‘Sex Toy or Dog Toy?’…
It’s the time of year for runny noses, sniffles and coughs. If you’re feeling the effects of a cold or flu, you probably don’t feel much like getting intimate with a partner or practicing self-love while you’re in that state. However, if you’re like this author and believe that an orgasm a day keeps the…
Got your hands on your first SONA or contemplating your next sexual wellness purchase? Before you begin your sexual liberation, we’ll cover common topics like: what SONA is, how to use it, the technology behind it, cleaning techniques and more. As you’ve probably heard by now, SONA is the first sonic massager that penetrates 75%…
We believe that all the buzz surrounding vibrators are completely valid, and that these nifty sex toys deserve the spotlight. They’re great for all kinds of occasions… like solo play, couples fun, intense foreplay, and more, making them a versatile treat in the bedroom. And if you’re somewhat intimidated by the appearance of a vibrator,…
Before getting personally acquainted with the latest device in sex tech for him, we encourage you to read the F1s User Manual. It will explain the necessary steps for starting your pleasure experience, from charging and connectivity to controlling the buttons on the device. Download F1s User Manual It also explains two advanced technologies, the…
There are a zillion places in which one can give or receive oral sex. In the shower, in bed, on the kitchen counter, on the sofa… the list goes on and on. But when it comes to road head, there’s a certain element of danger, and thrill to it, making it even more enticing. Of…
Sex addiction comes with a plethora of negative connotations and preconceived notions. While essences of truth exist in stereotypes, the sex addict archetype of an international playboy with an ostentatious sports car and an icy aortic valve under his tailored suit is in the minority. We heard about sex addiction from a female perspective ,…
Gavin was glad to get home from work. He wanted to change clothes, get a healthy shot of Captain Morgan, and kiss his very sexy wife. He chuckled. In just that order too, because if he started out by kissing Lexy… well… Gavin sighed. Just the thought of her could make him hard. He walked…
Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity for adventurous players and couples to enjoy a mixture of romance and kink. And because there’s no such thing as one-size-fits-all when it comes to love and lust, it would be truly impossible to recommend one date idea or gift that will surely get one’s motor running. Fear not!…
We’re midway through February, and you know what that means, right? National Condom Day, of course! What – did you think overpriced five-course meals and ugly heart-shaped jewelry were the only ways to celebrate February 14th? Not so, my amorous amigos and amigas. National Condom Day is a holiday that’s been alive and kicking since…
You’ll often find men and women cursing the opposite sex for one or other reason. “Men!” she may exclaim, after just having had her heart broken (and vice versa). And so, we continue to tell ourselves that men are from Mars and women are from Venus… two totally separate entities that are so indecipherable that…
Prostate massage can be brand new territory for a lot of folks, but once you’ve fallen in love with it, it’s hard to get enough. Enter LOKI Wave . Able to rise and fall within you like the manual massage of a partner’s fingers, LOKI Wave gives you a lot to get excited about. Just…
Orgasming without any manual stimulation of your genitalia might seem like a mission impossible, but in reality, it is an attainable skill for all genders, and even if you don’t succeed, it can help you gain more control over your sexual energy. Let’s start by clearing one thing up – hands-free orgasm is not strictly…
Did you know that France’s hottest-ever export has never had a French name? And no, we’re not talking about baguettes. The French kiss finally has a French name – something it has never had before. ‘Galocher’ is the new term for tonsil hockey, and has been added to the 2014 edition of the Petit Robert…
Long are the days where dildos and vibrators were used in doctor’s offices to treat hysteria in women (yes, that’s actually a thing ). Today, owning a sex toy is pretty standard for both men and women. In fact, in a 2017 survey conducted at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute , it was found that 53…
There I was in the carpark with Richard one lunch time, sucking his magnificent cock as I so often did during his lunch break, when I heard a knock at the window of his car. OMG, we had been caught. Little did I know how caught until I heard the car door open and a…
Steve and Richard did keep coming up with ways to keep their harlot satisfied. Richard took me to a clothing optional resort in Cancun for a swinger’s convention. I was shared around to so many different men and women that I lost count. While those resorts are normally a lifestyle choice where everybody participates, my…
Physical intimacy is one of the most fundamental pillars of a successful marriage. Not only is it essential for a healthy sex life, it also allow couples to remain sensual and connected with each other. However, despite the obvious benefits that are associated with regular physical intimacy and sex, the hectic demands of the 21st…
If you hear ‘Sexual & Reproductive Health Day’ this February 12th and think ‘putting condoms on bananas’, then you might be exactly the people this holiday is for. While safer sex practices are absolutely something that needs to be covered before you start an active sex life, there are unique aspects of your sexual and…
Whether you choose to call it Galentine’s Day, Palentine’s Day or Singles Awareness Day (Gore Vidalentine’s Day, anyone?), Valentine’s Day is a holiday that’s tailor-made for making someone special smile. And what better way to do so than with a present guaranteed to make them grin. And singledom bashing? Let’s be real, nothing says screw…
Humankind won some kind of lottery when we discovered the blowjob. Like seriously, what is better than one? Sure, we can give you so many tips on how to make blowjobs better , but are they really upping the pleasures all that much? After you’ve gone through all of the ways to give a mind-blowing…
Coming from someone who has been working in the massage business for years, let’s first get one thing straight: any good massage therapist has one thing on top of his or her list of professional ethics, and that is to avoid any exchange of sexual energy with their clients. So, if you go to a…
The American novelist Erika Jong said this about porn: “After the first 10 minutes of a porno, I want to go home and screw. After the first 20 minutes, I never want to screw again.” That’s both a great witty little line, but it also describes our complex relationship with pornography. So it’s no wonder…
If you’re addicted to the intense waves of pleasure that accompany a G-spot orgasm, then look no further than MONA Wave ! Armed with WaveMotion technology, it is able to rise and fall within you to offer targeted G-spot massage! If you want to know more about how this unique vibrator feels, just read these…
Are you the type of person who dares to be bold? Who would rather rock bright pink hair, look up at the stars at night as opposed to watching Netflix , or spell out your favourite words on your lover’s arm using the tip of your finger? Yes! We love all things not-so-mainstream and using…
“What a cutie!” I commented when meeting my nephew for the first time. An adorable redhead who seemingly always smiled. “Poor child will probably get ripped to shreds when he starts school, though,” I said under my breath. “By the time this kid reaches school, being a redhead will probably be cool,” a family member…
In the annals of sex toys, the humble strap-on can be considered a truly populist pleasure item: anyone can use one, and anyone can have one used on them, be they male, female or identifying as otherwise. However, for one reason or another, the strap-on isn’t as prevalent as it could be. Like for instance;…