When it comes to solo play, your hands don’t have to do all of the heavy lifting. In fact, some of the best-kept secrets of solo exploration and self-pleasure involve no hands at all. Enter syntribation—a hands-free technique that is all about pressure and friction. While the name may sound complex, it’s pretty simple. Syntribation…
Having a low libido is more common than you may think. And yet, there are so many people out there who are too ashamed to talk about it, leaving them to suffer in silence or feel confused. To that, it’s important to note that sexual desire is not a fixed trait. And actually, there are…
Far more than just a fleeting physical sensation, the female orgasm is an intricate biological event where the nervous, endocrine, and muscular systems work together in a synchronized “pleasure symphony.” Despite its universality, a cultural “orgasm gap” and a historical lack of scientific focus have left many people with questions about how it works. This…
A sissygasm is a unique blend of intense physical pleasure and psychological surrender within sissy play and feminisation kink. It is to enjoy a hands-free prostate orgasm through dedicated training rather than conventional stimulation. To really master the sissygasm, one must have patience, consistency, and the right approach… but the rewards can be transformative! With…
It’s often said that you can have too much of a good thing, but when it comes to orgasms, we’re firm believers that the sky is the limit. While the “200 orgasms a year” health metric is a popular talking point in wellness circles, the truth is simpler: if it feels good and your body…
It’s no secret that when you mix two brilliant things, the result is often more than the sum of its parts. This is absolutely true of orgasms: a clitoral orgasm is brilliant; a G-spot orgasm is incredible. But combine the two and you have a recipe for a mind-blowing mixture of complex sensations. What Is…
Achieving a climax is a deeply personal journey that involves a complex interplay of physical sensation, emotional connection, and mental focus. While the “Big O” can sometimes feel elusive, it is a skill that can be practiced and perfected. Whether you are exploring solo orgasm techniques or looking to bridge the “orgasm gap” with a…
The topics of female ejaculation and squirting have long been sources of mystery, debate, and sometimes, unrealistic expectations. Often confused and used interchangeably, these terms refer to distinct physiological responses that many women experience during intense sexual arousal and orgasm. By exploring the latest scientific understanding, anatomical facts, and practical advice, we aim to demystify…
Over the years, podcast host and cultural provocateur Alex Cooper (of Call Her Daddy) has amassed a devoted following for her unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and self-pleasure. So when one of her Instagram followers recently asked, “What vibrators do you recommend for a beginner?” her answer quickly made the rounds. In her Instagram Story…
If you have ever had an orgasm without ejaculating, you’ve experienced what people call a dry orgasm. While the term might sound scary and less than pleasant, a dry orgasm is normal and just as pleasant as an ejaculatory orgasm. In fact, it’s so pleasant and exciting that many are seeking out best practices on…
A lot of things can come out of the human body when you’re aroused – discharge, ejaculation, and sometimes, even pee. If you pee when you orgasm, you’re not alone. An estimated 60% of women experience incontinence or leakage during sex, either occasionally or consistently. Peeing when you orgasm just comes down to biology. Why…
Sex afterglow can refer to that initial blush and rosiness that people get after they have an orgasm. Sex afterglow can also mean the general idea that having more sex, whether it’s by yourself or with a partner, can give you better skin. Is It Real? Yes, having sex and masturbating may help improve your…
If you’ve never used an arousal gel before, you’re probably wondering – how does arousal gel work, and what does it do? You can find arousal serums at every sexual wellness shop, and yet not many people consider arousal serums to be an essential part of their sexual routines. There is a lot of mystery…
Although sex and masturbation don’t always lead to orgasms, they often do. Besides feeling amazing, having an orgasm can also burn calories. That brings us to our question of the day – can having an orgasm burn calories? Orgasmic Fitness Much like other forms of exercise, the number of calories you burn during sex depends…
We believe that there is the right sex toy for every situation. And there is also the perfect toy (or even toys…) for every type of orgasm. Whether you’re a clitoral orgasm lover, a blended orgasm fan, or prefer vaginal orgasms, we have just the toy for you to help those orgasms be better and…
What’s so great about an orgasm? If you said that “reaching the pinnacle of ecstasy” is pretty damned great (or some variation on the theme), you’d be correct. Honestly, what more can one ask for? That said, researchers have determined that orgasms are actually great for a bunch of other assorted reasons. According to the…
Attention people with vulvas, and those who love to please them: it’s time to learn about A-spot orgasms. A very deep and pleasurable orgasm, A-spot O’s require a specific form of stimulation. Here’s what you need to know to experience one. What is the A-spot? Another sensitive, sexual area on the inside of the vagina,…
For women, the vagina is full of pleasure hot spots and erogenous zones. But the G-spot, clitoris, and sometimes cervix tend to get all the attention. While we’re big fans of all of those, there’s one erogenous zone that doesn’t always get the credit it deserves. We’re talking about the A-spot. Hidden deep in the…
This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram In the ongoing race between the sexes, we often assume that women get the short end of the stick, given how much more difficult – or at least, less well-served by…
Vibrators aren’t new. According to legend, Queen Cleopatra invented the first one around 54 BC by hollowing out a gourd and filling it with bees. Aren’t you glad you can just buy one online? Queen Cleopatra’s alleged makeshift vibrator and my favorite toys have something important in common. That is, they both provide external stimulation.…
If you look around at different sex toys on the market you’ll see a lot targeting the clitoris, the G-spot, and some that stimulate the cervix. But the female body is full of pleasure zones and it’s time we talk about sex toys that stimulate the more elusive hot spots in your body. What hot…
Just because you are pregnant, doesn’t mean that you can enjoy having sex and getting the flood of feel-good hormones that come with an orgasm. There are still many misconceptions about pregnancy sex and orgasms, and we’re here to set the record straight and bust pregnancy orgasm myths. You don’t have to have sex while…
Many people are under the impression that mindfulness exercises should be practiced in total silence. And while, sure, that’s ideal in some instances, the beauty of mindfulness is that you can depend on it no matter your environmental circumstances. Any mindfulness instructor will tell you that sometimes it’s more important to be present and grounded…
In the ever-evolving landscape of sexual wellness, one product has hopped its way into the spotlight, carving out a niche that continues to grow in both popularity and acceptance – the rabbit vibrator. Once a hushed secret, these devices are now celebrated for their role in fostering sexual exploration and well-being. The Historical Hop: From…
Gwyneth Paltrow has been on a mission to bring taboo wellness trends to the mainstream via her brand Goop. From vampire facials to vagina-scented candles to jade vaginal eggs, Gwenyth and the Goop team are some of the top wellness trend forecasters. If you tune into the brand’s Netflix special, you’ll see the team meeting…
We’ve all been in this situation… You’re on a road trip. You realize you have to pee, but think “I can hold it a little longer, at least until there’s a real bathroom.” Then, nothing. Nowhere to pull over or turn out. Just you in your car with a growing sense of urgency and panic…
Ancient Buddhist teachings say that trying to use words to describe life’s most wondrous feelings, peace and enlightenment for example, strips them of their true essence. And while most of us might be a few karma points short of enlightenment, we could all agree that experiencing an orgasm – indeed, one of life’s great pleasures –…
Let’s get right down to what you already know: the holiday season is upon us and that usually means a lot of added stress. The big headline? Stress and sex rarely mix. So, with all the travel and traffic and meal prep and gift lists and décor pressure and family pressure, etc., who can possibly…
Whether it’s exercising more, eating more sustainably, or saving money, we all want to improve our lives, but it can be a daunting task. Here is the perfect advice if you’re looking to get your life back into gear. Masturbate more. Yup, you heard me. You should be masturbating more! Masturbation, and orgasms, have a…
Experts worldwide are constantly thinking of new ideas and policies to help boost the economy but seem to overlook the idea that personal pleasure affects it directly. A LELO 2023 Report suggests that more orgasms would make for a cost-effective way to *stimulate* the economy. This is not a joke. Economic growth is measured by…
We realize that it’s one thing to know all about the orgasm, and quite another to experience one. Whether you’ve never had one, or want to improve the ones you already enjoy, we’ve got you covered. Here are some simple steps to start exploration: 1. Above all else, fly solo and explore. Whether you’re looking…
“Bridesmaids” still delivers. What makes this movie “Bridesmaids” so irresistible, even 12 years after its initial release? Thecomedy, written by Kristen Wiig and Annie Mumolo, was considered groundbreaking back in2011. It not only brought us iconic lines of comedic genius, but it broke down gender barriers byallowing female characters to be raunchy and authentic…
Let’s be honest, we spend quite a lot of time and money finding ways to look sexier during sex. Think lace lingerie, latex clothing, crotchless panties, balaclavas, leather cuffs, strap-ons, chockers, and everything in between… All these clothing pieces and accessories are supposed to make us sexier and increase our chances of having a mindblowing…
The tingling build-up of sensations, the rush of blood to your most sensitive areas, an overflow of hormones pulsing through your system, the greatest headrush known to humans. No, we’re not talking about eating ice cream, we’re talking about orgasms (although they sometimes elicit similar responses). You (hopefully) have a good understanding of what happens…
I figured out how to orgasm with a partner quite late in life, despite always being very sexually open-minded and adventurous. For years, I would talk with my friends who had orgasms with their partners and feel like there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t able to orgasm with another person involved. The…
Music is a powerful medium. And did you know that it has the ability to reduce anxiety, lower blood pressure, and improve one’s mood, sleep, mental alertness, and memory? It can also take us back to different moments in time, which is a great way to relieve memories. Today however, we’re going to be talking…
Many of us know what a genital orgasm is, some may know more about other kinds of orgasms like tantric or energy orgasms, or even reaching climax without any stimulation at all. But have you ever heard of a skin orgasm? Interestingly, the chances of you experiencing a skin orgasm is high. There’s even a…
For vulva owners, it’s true that orgasms are harder to attain during partnered play than it is for penis owners. Hello orgasm gap! Now the thing about the orgasm gap is that people, companies, institutions, and professionals are continuously working hard to close it. Hence why there’s a huge popularity in sex toys. But wouldn’t…
A loaded question, and one to which the answer can vary greatly from person to person. But, by looking at the various causes as to why one can’t orgasm, it may give them insight. In this way, we hope to shed light on the different reasons why some find it difficult to orgasm, the reasons…
Once upon a time, we revealed that the sexiest kind of exercise was of the kegel variety. You know, when you tighten your pelvic floor muscles (either manually or using Ben Wa Balls) in order to make them stronger, resulting in intense and more powerful orgasms? And while we still stand by this, coregasms are…
Exercise… What a drag, right? Yeah, it’s good for our health, keeps us fit and rewards us with a rush of feel-good hormones, but surely everyone has been in the position where they simply do not feel like getting their work out on. Today however, we’re going to introduce you to a new kind of…
As Colbie Caillat sang, “It starts in my toes, makes me crinkle my nose,” a full body orgasm is kind of like that, but in the most satisfyingly sexual way possible. To enjoy a full body orgasm, it feels as though rippling waves are coursing through you with muscle contractions in your abdomen and other…
If you’re looking for a way to surprise your partner, lingam massage might be a great option. It’s a practice that’s created with all the penis owners in mind. It guarantees a good time and a great way to connect with your partner. What Is Lingam Massage? Lingam massage is one of the tantric sex…
You’ve probably heard the term “happy ending” in the movies, social media, and even in magazines where people share their crazy stories from that time they went on vacation. And you’ve probably been curious what all the fuss is about. Is the happy ending common for every message? Is it only reserved for men alone,…
Ahh, the magical prostate! A walnut-sized gland found in penis owners that, when stimulated, can create a whirlwind of sexual bliss and full-body orgasms. And while massaging the prostate has been ‘a thing’ since the late 19th century, when doctors began performing it to treat inflammation aka prostatitis, it soon became a practice enjoyed by…
You’ve heard of the G-Spot, but how about the C-Spot, A-Spot and O-Spot? Let’s dive a little deeper into these erogenous zones, and learn more about how to unlock the intense pleasure they can provide. This guide is brought to you by CLIMAX, a virtual training program dedicated to the exploration of female pleasure, grounded…
We often get the message that we need to relax in order to enjoy better sex, but sometimes the opposite can be true. Sexual arousal needs tension. When we become aroused, the tension of our pelvic muscles increases naturally and automatically. Muscle tension and pressure causes nerve endings within the muscles to be stimulated. This…
The clinical trial was conducted by the University of Almería Center for Neuropsychological Evaluation and Rehabilitation (CERNEP) in correspondence with the bioethics committee. The device used was the SONA 2 clitoral massager by LELO, which uses patented SenSonic technology to stimulate more of the clitoris in comparison with traditional vibrators. Background Information Female pleasure has…
People don’t often associate birth with sensuality or sex, but the majority of the time – that’s how the person became pregnant in the first place. Many of the sensations and hormones that help aid with arousal, also support people during birth. Believe it or not, sex toys can actually be used during labor! So…
We’re back with sex therapist Casey Tanner answering reader questions about the orgasm and pleasure gap. Are some people with vulvas not capable of having an orgasm from penetrative sex? One of the more pervasive narratives that we’re taught about sexuality and sex is that penetrative sex is the coup de grâce or peak experience…