A pleasure dom (also known as a ‘sensual dom’ or ‘pleasure top’) is a dominant partner who leads through pleasure, sensation, and attentive care rather than intensity and pain. This soft, sensual approach to domination creates a power dynamic centred on deep intimacy, trust, and mutual satisfaction. Unlike traditional ‘hard dom’ styles that often focus…
TL/DR; There’s more than one way to get freaky with a condom if you’re up for skipping social norms We just published an article on why Gen Z is having less sex and fewer hook-ups than previous generations, and now here we are, telling the same folks that condoms are still necessary and relevant. The…
What’s one of the most classic vibrator shapes you see floating around? What type of toy does almost every sex toy company out there have a version of? What toy is designed for dual stimulation that hits *all the right spots*? Take your guess… I’m talking about the classic rabbit. While LELO’s INA Wave…
Achieving a climax is a deeply personal journey that involves a complex interplay of physical sensation, emotional connection, and mental focus. While the “Big O” can sometimes feel elusive, it is a skill that can be practiced and perfected. Whether you are exploring solo orgasm techniques or looking to bridge the “orgasm gap” with a…
Erotica has been around for as long as humans have been horny. From stone-age cave drawings of copulating couples to octopus cunnilingus wood cuts in Edo-era Japan, humans have found ways to capture the potent force that drives us to distraction. Today, erotica is available across many mediums for your titillation. Whether it’s classic erotic…
The decision for young adults to live at home is overwhelmingly driven by financial necessity, primarily to save money (43.96%) or due to the high cost of housing, rising rents, and house prices (31.34%). However, the cost of this arrangement extends far beyond financial savings, translating into a profound psychological, emotional, and relational strain for…
Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just beginning to explore bedroom accessories, the right tools can transform your intimate experiences. While many focus on toys and lubricants, one of the most underrated additions to a sexual repertoire is the sex pillow. Specifically, the LELO Sex Pillow has set a new standard for how these accessories…
Technology has finally caught up to what science fiction writers have been fantasizing about for generations: Artificial intelligence is getting good enough to produce pornography. This brings up a whole host of real-world ethical questions Blade Runner doesn’t answer. What are the rules of consent within AI porn and imagery copyrights? Is AI porn ethical?…
At a time when intimate well-being is being discussed more and more freely, adult sexual education remains a subject that is still largely unexplored. This is precisely where the Beducated platform stands out: by offering online access to courses dedicated to pleasure, communication, and self-discovery. A Modern Approach to Sexual Education Unlike the education received…
The landscape of intimate wellness is shifting. We’re moving past the “his and hers” aisles and into a world where pleasure is a universal human right. As gender and sexuality become more fluid, brands are finally ditching the stereotypes. Instead of targeting a specific gender, the industry is focusing on what actually matters: shared human…
Valentine’s Day has come to be associated with all things gooey – chocolate, roses, expensive vacations proclaiming our love for a partner we’re supposed to have. But the true history of Valentine’s Day is much more complicated. If you’re feeling pressured by the capitalist-industrial-marriage complex to pair up and buy expensive presents, here’s a deep…
The world of digital intimacy is moving fast. Just a few years ago, “phone sex” meant calling a premium hotline or trading spicy texts with a partner. Today, a new player has entered the chat: Artificial Intelligence. From AI sexting apps to voice-enabled AI sex bots, technology is making erotic exploration more accessible, private, and…
Following the inclusion of a LELO branded float in the Emily in Paris show, the real life brand delves into mysteries of bedrooms across Paris. Imagine watching your favourite series and seeing your favourite brand appear in one of the episodes? This is exactly what happened in episode 7 of season 5 of the hit…
Waking up flustered, sweaty, or even slightly embarrassed after a “naughty” dream is a universal human experience. Whether it was a steamy encounter with a celebrity or a bizarre tryst with a boss, erotic dreams are a natural, healthy part of our internal landscape. Research suggests that about 8% of all dreams contain sexual content,…
The topics of female ejaculation and squirting have long been sources of mystery, debate, and sometimes, unrealistic expectations. Often confused and used interchangeably, these terms refer to distinct physiological responses that many women experience during intense sexual arousal and orgasm. By exploring the latest scientific understanding, anatomical facts, and practical advice, we aim to demystify…
World AIDS Day, observed annually on December 1st, serves as a critical day for global reflection, remembrance, and a renewed commitment to ending the HIV epidemic. It is a vital platform to unite in the fight against HIV, underscored by recent findings from a LELO survey that reveal a concerning shift in attitudes and practices…
The image of a romantic Paris is a global cultural touchstone. Yet, the actual practice of Parisian pleasure, dating, and sex often differs wildly from the idealized version. The true art of French love is not about grand, cinematic declarations. Instead, it’s rooted in subtlety, intellectual chemistry, and a profound, historically protected philosophy that places…
Artificial intelligence (AI) has quietly entered nearly every aspect of our daily lives, from the phones in our pockets to the cars we drive and the platforms we stream. But one of the most surprising frontiers for AI is also one of the most intimate: sex. This growing intersection of technology and sexuality (often called…
Seducing a man is about more than showing tits and ass. Seduction in many ways is a form of self-expression. What is it about you that makes you feel the most attractive? When you find a man attractive, this is what you put out into the universe. If he finds that part of you attractive…
Last year’s survey by WHO issued a distress signal showing that condom use among sexually active adolescents declined significantly, leading to worryingly high rates of unprotected sex and increased risk of sexually transmitted infections. Following these disturbing findings, Swedish powerhouse in sexual wellness LELO conducted a survey of its own about the condom use among…
Over the years, podcast host and cultural provocateur Alex Cooper (of Call Her Daddy) has amassed a devoted following for her unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and self-pleasure. So when one of her Instagram followers recently asked, “What vibrators do you recommend for a beginner?” her answer quickly made the rounds. In her Instagram Story…
If you have ever had an orgasm without ejaculating, you’ve experienced what people call a dry orgasm. While the term might sound scary and less than pleasant, a dry orgasm is normal and just as pleasant as an ejaculatory orgasm. In fact, it’s so pleasant and exciting that many are seeking out best practices on…
Have you ever been lying next to your male partner or lover post-sex, watching them snooze away as if it’s the best sleep they’ve ever had? Not much time for pillow talk or cuddles, not interested in eating, watching TV, or anything else? Yeah, it seems quite rude, doesn’t it? Well, the good news is,…
LELO Dot Vibrator Review Vibrators sure have come a long way since they first hit the market and no one does sex toy innovation quite like LELO. Take the classic clitoral vibrator. What do you imagine when you think of it? A bullet shape? A big old massage wand? Something else? Whatever comes to…
For newbies and regular anal players, it’s never a bad idea to be educated and re-educated about safety when it comes to using anal sex toys. In fact, there are safety precautions when it comes to using any kind of sex toy. So while there’s immense sexual bliss to be had with all kinds of…
Bachelorette parties began as a way of wresting agency away from the sexism of “stag nights.” If boys get to have a no-holds-barred night of debauchery before the big day, why shouldn’t we? Getting a bunch of your best girlfriends together and celebrating your happiness can make for a truly bonding – and riotous –…
Many people put in careful time and effort to ensure they don’t get pregnant. But for some people, the risk of having a baby is a huge turn-on, and this fetish is more common than you’d think. Just scroll on the breeding fetish Reddit page if you’re in doubt! What is a Breeding Fetish? A…
Just like everyone should have a goodie drawer (or a goodie closet like Samantha Jones from The Sex and The City), everyone should have a list of sexy movies on hand for when they want to have a movie night that gets them going. Whether it’s to make a solo cozy movie at home toasty…
For a long time, smoking was glamourized as something sexy. Think grainy boudoir images with pouty red lips puffing away on a cigarette. If that turns you on, you may have what’s called a “smoking fetish”, otherwise known as “capnolagnia”. While smoking has decreased in popularity in recent years thanks to health education, many people…
They’re the generation that fully integrated gender inclusivity, the concept of active consent during sex, and everyday sex toy use into their lives, and yet Gen Z is done with hook-up culture. More accurately, they never bought into it in the first place, but not for the reasons you might assume. We poured over opinions…
You might think that because condoms are a barrier material that their latex material is completely waterproof. That’s understandable, as it would make sense that they can withstand wet and wild scenarios. However, having sex in a water-based environment—for example, a pool, hot tub, or shower—could be pushing your condom to the limit. So, while…
Are you interested in exploring anal play but don’t quite know where to start? Anal play can be incredibly exciting and fun, yet can also be a bit nervewracking – especially if you’re brand new to it. Yet it can be incredibly pleasurable as long as you take into account some basic tips and also…
Vibrators, belonging to sex toys category, are associated with pleasure and intimacy, but their benefits extend far beyond the bedroom. In recent years, vibration therapy has gained attention as a tool for muscle tension relief, relaxation, and even pain management. From reducing muscle stiffness to improving circulation, vibrators can serve as an accessible and effective…
While the colder seasons ahead might be squandering your opportunity to explore sex outdoors when you have a craving to try something new with your partner, it doesn’t mean you can’t get creative with your sex locations. A simple yet creative change in perception can provide a much-needed change in sexual scenery. No travel neccessery.…
Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy are often used interchangeably, but they are not the same thing. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is an umbrella term for any type of relationship structure that leaves room for being romantically or sexually intimate with more than one person at a time. That can mean a lot of different things: Solo poly…
Your sex life is a place where you can explore, get creative, and be playful in the pursuit of new levels of pleasure. For those who like to literally switch things up, role-playing can be an incredibly hot way to spice up your sex life. One survey in the U.S. found that up to 22%…
Attention people with vulvas: there’s a new orgasm in town. Just when you thought you had orgasms all figured out, along comes a toy genre designed to find all your secret, sexual nerve endings – and take them on a gorgeous ride. First, let’s talk about where all those nerve endings are located: the clitoris.…
When I talk about anal play to people with penises, they are (for the most part) enthusiastic. But for people with a vulva, it’s a different story. If you were born with a penis, you’ve also got a prostate, and when pleasured with a toy…amazing orgasms occur. No matter your sexuality, prostate stimulation feels incredible…
Hey Dr. Emily, I’ve heard you mention penis rings before. I’m a guy just getting into toys and wearables for sex with my wife. But what IS a penis ring? I’ve Googled them and know what they look like, but why do people use them? Is it something I can wear during sex with my…
I have a “more is more” mentality around orgasm. You too? There are all kinds of documented health benefits that come with orgasm, like lower stress, better sleep, increased immunity, and get this…glowing skin. Maybe they’re born with it! Maybe they masturbate. There are two ways to have many orgasms in a single session… Multiple…
Ever felt the pressure to be amazing in bed? Whatever “amazing” means to you… Whether that means staying hard, or looking hot, or feeling like you have to be the best they’ve ever had – we’ve all been there. But I’m here to tell you: this is performance anxiety. And it will absolutely get in…
Sex toys are having a moment. These days, it’s not uncommon to pluck one right off the shelf at your neighborhood drug store. But let’s face it: they’ve long been marketed to vulva owners…vulva owners who want to masturbate. Which begs the question, how do you incorporate a toy into partnered sex? And why would…
Anal beads are having a moment. So, what’s all the hype about? They’re a fun tool that can bring you oh so much pleasure, if you know how to use them properly. Consider this your user’s manual, where I break down instructions, and explain why you might like to try them. (Hint: orgasms.) What are…
Attention people with vulvas, and those who love to please them: it’s time to learn about A-spot orgasms. A very deep and pleasurable orgasm, A-spot O’s require a specific form of stimulation. Here’s what you need to know to experience one. What is the A-spot? Another sensitive, sexual area on the inside of the vagina,…
Rays of golden light stream through sheer curtain panels drawn haphazardly together. Each beam provides an unnatural opulence to the small flecks of dust hanging in the air. But everything in this room, everything this early morning sun touches, revolves around her and where she rests. A cocktail that found its way from the hotel…
Where we come from, and what influenced us growing up has a huge impact on our day-to-day lives and success. People from affluent families often have access to better recourses and education, which sets them up for a more secure life, compared with people from “normal” families, and social mobility is easier in countries that…
Interesting Finds: Most of the movies on the list belong to the “Erotic Drama” genre. Three out of ten movies feature an intimate scene between a lesbian couple. Intimate lifestyle product experts at LELO conducted research to find out which movie sex scenes people are most eager to watch again. The research includes a list…
Thanksgiving is one of the biggest holidays in the US, if not the biggest. It’s a time for family, for appreciating everything we have in our lives, for giving thanks. And for SEX. Yes, seriously. What most people don’t know is that Thanksgiving is actually a holiday with its roots firmly steeped in sensuality and…
This article has been verfified for up-to-date accuracy in 2023 and is the sequel to a previous article about weird world records of sex. The world is absolutely full with sex acts that, while valid, still go beyond what most of polite society will find themselves engaging in. This extends to cultural aspects, as there…
Our in-the-office affair now needs to be an out-of-office affair, we both agreed. Above all, it MUST survive our pending retirement as both our future happiness depends largely on how Clive’s actual wife and my very occasional guy view the situation, assuming I’d even bother to tell him, that is. Clive and I have shared…