You pick up your phone in the morning, only to be surprised by an unsolicited, sexually explicit photo in your inbox. Unprepared for the visual, it takes you a minute to recognize the return address as someone you recently met on an online dating site, who has shamelessly sent you the photo using their own…
This article was scientifically fact-checked and written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. People have a tendency to look at orgasm as the ultimate goal of sex, an idea that sex therapists refer to as the orgasmic imperative. From this perspective, sex isn’t really sex unless an orgasm happens, which leads people to approach sex…
Rewilding is a sexy idea that gets sexier every day. If we apply the concept to our love life, it can help us have more natural, spontaneous and satisfying sex. What is Rewilding? In conservation biology, it represents a restoration of habitat to its natural state, which might actually be the only thing that can…
Opening the box will leave you speechless. The feeling of 24-karat gold against your skin will leave you speechless. And the most luxurious orgasm you’ll ever receive… you can’t exactly put into words. The YVA is both a vibrator and a jewel that’s crafted for perfect solo or partnered play. It’s ergonomic design allows it…
Interestingly, just this week one of my girlfriends admitted that she was able to orgasm without touching herself whilst reading erotica . Green with envy, I was made even more aware of just how powerful the mind really is. “What great timing,” I thought, just in time to write this article. You see, I was…
When is National Hugging Day? National Hugging Day falls on January 21 and is dedicated to encourage people to hug (with consent as not to breach their personal space). Why Do People Hug? Hugs can be a powerful tool to express support and comfort. Not only do they have mental benefits, but can improve physical…
This isn’t a vibrator to keep up with the Joneses, it’s a vibrator for the Joneses. If you’re looking to step up your sex toy game to the highest of luxuries, the INEZ 24K Gold G-Spot Vibrator is as decadent as pleasure gets. It’s design features a curved shaft with a thicker handles and userface…
Sunlight peaks in around the window ledge, streaming through the shear curtains and warming my hand. I slowly waken, struggling to open my eyes. Something feels different. These are not my sheets, these are not my pillow. As the room comes into focus, details from the previous night come rushing back. I yawn as I…
These beautifully-crafted pleasure makers may look almost identical, but there are a few differences to note when choosing the best one for you. GIGI 2 and LIV 2 are mid-sized massagers that have really been shown to strike a chord with our customers, whether they be used internally, externally, or a combination of both. How…
Maybe you’ve seen deep throating it in videos and want to try it for yourself, or perhaps you’re looking to blow a partner’s mind (among other things) with a new trick in your sexual arsenal. No matter what your motivation is for deep-throating, it’s not something you can just jump into—it takes a bit of…
It was a sweltering day in late May. The humidity in the air was thick and heavy. Sarah had just finished at the gym and was riding her bike home. She passed down Main Street which was congested and busy. All of the coffee shops and bistros were brimming with activity, with many kids now…
Pros: An enjoyably long pleasure session that reaches places I didn’t know possible. Cons: It’s not silent, but definitely quieter than other clit suckers. Broken down below! If you’re anything like most people with vulvas, once you found what worked for you in terms of reaching orgasm, you stuck with the routine and practiced it…
A lot of what we have learned about how our brain controls our sex lives comes from research done on animals, typically rodents and small mammals. Although the use of animal models is obviously limited given the significant differences between animal and human sexuality, there is a relationship between the particular brain regions implicated in…
If you’ve already owned a regular vibrator and are looking to up your game to something more versatile, the SORAYA Wave and INA Wave are LELO’s most popular rabbit vibrators with a special twist! Their unique selling proposition lies in something called wave technology that will have you rolling out orgasm after orgasm. How Wave…
There’s just something about restraint that’s so damn sexy. It’s a tantalizing proposition; being presented with pleasures right in front of your face, and then being told no. Having to hold back until you’re about to burst with desire, then being set loose. The best way to toy with restraint is by including handcuffs into…
Oh hey there mama’s-to-be or friends and family of a soon-to-be mom! Today we’re going to be talking about using a vibrator during pregnancy… in the ins and outs, is it safe, is it encouraged, or is it a big no-no? Of course, we’re looking at giving you sound advice that includes satisfying any carnal…
Introducing anything new into the bedroom (or wherever you’re getting it on) can be nerve-racking as it is, especially when it comes to the stigmas so closely tied to sex toys. We’re here to clear the air and offer some tips for communicating new desires with a partner who may not recognize the potential to…
Do you or your partner have a vulva ? Perfect! Because we’re about to turn your entire world sideways… or, the very least, your body! Confused? It’ll all make sense in just a few seconds… What is the Kivin Method? In the simplest of answers, the kivin method is when a person gives someone with…
Romantic love has often been considered a type of addiction or even sickness. There is no doubt that love involves constant thinking about, and activities with, one’s beloved. But is such persistent preoccupation with one person always detrimental? Should it be regarded as a type of addiction, or might it actually be beneficial to the…
This article was scientifically fact-checked by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. In women, the G-spot is an area that, when stimulated, often leads to very intense orgasms. Much has been said and written about the G-spot, and there’s still some debate about what exactly it is, but research suggests that, rather than being a distinct…
Be it in the bedroom or just out in the world, the start of a new year is a great time to take stock and examine our trajectories to figure out if what we find is affirming – or in need of some adjustment. So what follows is a list of romance-related resolutions for the…
While there are a ton of anal pleasure myths to be debunked, one thing’s for certain, our lack of knowledge and the mystery surrounding it is part of its appeal. Why Anal Stimulation? The anus is a natural erogenous zone due to its high concentration of nerve endings, similar to that of the clitoris or…
Variety is the spice of life… or so they say! And sure, you may have a drawer, box or suitcase full of lustful sex toys, but trust us, there’s always room for something new (and free!). Vulva owners, did you know that your shower head could actually be your little secret sex weapon? And what’s…
When it comes to sex and mating, what do you find attractive? As Daniel Conroy-Beam puts it, “All humans have a psychology of short-term and long-term of mating,” and some researchers in the field of evolutionary psychology study this issue in a variety of creative ways. Attraction is an incredibly personal issue. Even though there…
The holiday season is here and it’s time to talk about self-love during the holidays! I got some really interesting questions. Let’s start at the beginning: What is self-love? What is self love and how to express that? I define self-love as virtually any act that you do for yourself, to show to yourself that…
Ah the cold, cozy winter evenings. You know the ones we’re talking about, when all you want to do is wrap yourself in huge blanket, relax in front of the fire – and have sex. That’s at least according to a number of U.S. studies regarding seasonal effects on sensuality; winter is when we all…
There’s more to reality TV star Megan Barton Hanson than meets the eye! We reached out to her to discuss what she’s learned through sex work, where her journey is taking her next, and how living in the intense public eye offers her a platform to discuss taboo topics that won’t go unsilenced. We also…
While we are the first ones to get tired of the same 40 or so Christmas songs that flood the radio waves in late November, we won’t deny wishing for some seasonally appropriate sexy music to set the mood during the holiday season. Below, we’ve listed 10 of the sexiest Christmas songs for everything from…
Male chastity—the act of men avoiding or inhibiting their sexual desires—is a huge turn-on for guys seeking submission or building up to a much more explosive release later on. If you’re thinking of something like ‘No Fap November ’, in which males don’t masturbate (or at least try not to) for the entire month, you’re…
It was not just beeping, it was radiating. A signal, in red circular waves. Somewhere nearby, a man was in need of a blowjob and Alfie was determined to find him. He used his cellphone like a compass – holding it in the palm of his hand and pointing it in slightly varying directions, finding…
FACT: Clitoral stimulation is the secret to orgasms for a large majority of those with vulvas and vaginas. Also FACT: Most vibrators stimulate only the tip of the clitoris. SenSonic technology was designed by LELO to stimulate 75% more of the clitoris, and these following toys are so-called “clit suckers” with a twist! Instead of…
Martin hated clubs. They played the music too loud and people jostled him. Yet, Martin found himself aglow in reddish-orange light, his fingers tapping on a wooden bar. Glitter dusted the dark floor and black stools. Martin blinked through a strobe as he looked over his shoulder at him. Martin hated to admit that he…
Looking for a holiday gift that turns up the heat? These stocking stuffers offer a touch of romance that you and your partner(s) will enjoy. Check out our picks for gifts that will keep things hot all winter long ! Make sure to order by December 17th to ensure pre-Christmas delivery! 1.) LYLA 2 LYLA…
Christmas: it’s the most wonderful time of the year, and some people will put a lot of stock into what they get in their stockings at Christmas. Never fear, LELO is here to help you impress (and undress) your special someone this year. For Yourself – INA Wave The holiday season is the perfect…
Dreaming of a white Christmas? Oh, how lucky for you! So unbothered and untouched by the world! I think most of us would be able to accept a couple of green patches peeking out through the snow in exchange for a smooth, stress-free holidays. It’s a real shame that the ‘most wonderful time of the…
How do we know for sure if someone sees us as especially attractive and a potential partner? And how do we let others know if we find them equally attractive , or simply see them as friends? One way is by recognizing flirtatious facial expressions, according to a study published in a September 2020 issue…
While problems with our sex life can certainly have a negative influence on our romantic relationships, there are many of us who report having low sexual desire yet are still deeply in love with our partners. How do we navigate loving relationships when we don’t really love having sex? In a new study published in…
This holiday season is dedicated to spreading love—and what better way to spread love than with gifts that have you making love to yourself and your loved ones! LELO has chalked up some of the best sexy toy holiday deals that are waiting to be unwrapped. Look at the full list of discounts below and…
Taking control of the holidays is no easy feat. A popular misconception that has been debunked in recent years is the false connection between increased suicide and winter months (there’s actually a spike in the Spring), but things like seasonal affective disorder , failed expectations, and loneliness still weigh heavy amongst a lot of people…
There are many that might argue against the sexiness of this season, what with the heavy meals, shopping stress and extensive family obligations…yet there are an equal number of those who can’t help but get turned on by all the possibilities of tying fancy knots and sweet yet spicy canes… Here are our most creative…
What’s the secret to staying madly in love? Is it even possible to feel madly in love with someone after 5, 10, 20 years together? Due to recent neurological research, we are a bit closer to answering these perplexing questions and demystifying the secrets behind achieving intense, lasting, romantic love. A recent study published online…
We no longer require a partner to live comfortably in Western culture. Women are no longer dependent on a man for income, and men are no longer dependent on a woman to run a household or raise a family. In fact, women are no longer dependant on men at all, and vice versa. All the…
Could he stick out any more like a sore thumb? With the amount of people staring at him, he’d expected to look down and see a frilly pink dress stretched obscenely over his torso and hips with a pair of stiletto heels on his feet, but he was only wearing his usual pressed black slacks…
As if sex toys weren’t already taboo, the thought of using more than one at the same time may have never crossed your mind. Truth is, using a combination of toys can elevate your pleasure and help you discover arousal you haven’t explored before. Combination orgasms account for 27% of women’s orgasms and are a…
For some people, sex and intimacy is a way in which to get rid of any dating jitters or awkwardness. And while it may seem kind of like putting the cart before the horse, the act of sex and engaging in pillow talk could actually create a meaningful emotional bond between two people. This is…
SILA LELO SILA Review: Read This Before You Buy! “When in use, your clit will be fully wrapped in the suction head; Instead of sucking your skin in, SILA emits sonic waves onto your skin. During this process, every little part of the clit is taken care of. It feels so pleasant and so addicting.…
Their eyes met from across the room. He blushed as he looked away, and Nick realized that he had been staring at him. His shirt tightened and showed his muscles rippling beneath it as he tugged at it, clearly uncomfortable with the knowledge of Nick’s gaze. Nick shook himself. What was he doing? Spending a…
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana and I am so excited about our Q&A today on the topic of anal play. And apparently so are you, because I received more questions on this topic than any other topic I’ve ever done! So let’s go! Q: Can it be pleasurable for women? Let’s start with a…
As an athlete, I learned early the importance of keeping your body tuned and maintained. The sports chiropractor and I were on a regular schedule to keep my body inline. Over the years, I continued looking for a regular massage therapist that would support my flexibility and my needs to be fit. I lamented losing…
Men tend to overestimate the size of their penis, according to British psychiatrist David Veale. Even so, they worry that they’re below-average. Veale and his team decided to get accurate measurements. Their study pulls together data on 15,521 men from around the world. The magic numbers? The researchers concluded that the average flaccid penis is…