Something happened in March of this year that should have happened a long time ago. The very first over-the-counter birth control pill approved by the FDA was made available without a prescription in pharmacies all across America. “Opill ”, a progestin-only tablet, has been around for decades, but it’s manufacturer, Perrigo, says it took 9…
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How Does Toxic Masculinity Harm Men?
What is toxic masculinity? Before we even define the term, we need to know more about the second word than the first, more incendiary one. Masculinity can have lots of different meanings across individuals, families, cultures and societies. Merriam Webster says that masculinity is “the quality or nature of the male sex : the quality, state, or…
The Truth About Orgasms During Pregnancy
Just because you are pregnant, doesn’t mean that you can enjoy having sex and getting the flood of feel-good hormones that come with an orgasm. There are still many misconceptions about pregnancy sex and orgasms, and we’re here to set the record straight and bust pregnancy orgasm myths. You don’t have to have sex while…
Do Thin Condoms Break Easier?
We love sex. Especially when done responsibly. Condoms are an essential sexual health tool for many people. Finding the right condom, however, can be a bit of a hassle. The right condom can make a huge difference in your pleasure and your sexual health. A good condom needs to have a lot going for it…
The Wife Who Desires Them – An Erotic Story
Rosie led Marcus into the small, dim room. She sat close to her husband and wrapped her arms around his. Still, she knew he remained uneasy about her decision for tonight. To ease him, she turned his face to hers. “This is a gift. I’ve wanted this but have always been too shy. I’m brave…
LELO’s Future of Sex and Love Report 2024
Since sexual wellness is an ever-changing landscape and individual journey, understanding the future of sex has more to do about understanding the future itself. The best way we can do this is by asking questions and playing out various scenarios. Seeing as we’re in the midst of unprecedened historical transformation, the future seems anything but…
Can Sex During Pregnancy Harm My Baby?
One of the most common concerns couples have while pregnant is whether or not having sex during pregnancy is safe or if they should avoid any sexual activity completely. So, let’s answer some of the most common questions you might have about sex during pregnancy and whether or not it is safe. Pregnancy sex safety…
Arousal Non-Concordance, Explained
The human sexual response cycle is a complex phenomenon and is often more complicated than people make it out to be. It’s normal to think that certain signals mean someone is turned on, like men getting erections or women getting wet. That’s not always the case. You may have even experienced this yourself – have…
Mr. Electric: Part 2 – An Erotic Story
The holiday season went well. The turkey and pumpkin pies were gobbled up. The Christmas parties were full of salacious highlights that would make for intriguing conversations well into summer. My girlfriends and I popped off a couple bottles of champagne for New Year’s and made a night of it. Despite it all, several remarks…
Novelty is Key for Long-Term Relationship Satisfaction
It’s always a good time to spice up your sex life, but it’s especially important if you are in a long-term relationship. You might have noticed that after being together with your partner for a long time, your sex drive is not as it used to be at the beginning of the relationship. The reason…
Do Condoms Cause UTIs?
Urinary tract infections (UTI) are a pain in the… well, urethra. Not only are they incredibly uncomfortable, but they can also potentially lead to bladder and kidney infections, not fun! Since the beginning of time, women have been told to pee after sex. While there’s little scientific evidence on whether this actually helps prevent UTIs,…
Mindfulness Really Can Improve Your Sex Life
Many people are under the impression that mindfulness exercises should be practiced in total silence. And while, sure, that’s ideal in some instances, the beauty of mindfulness is that you can depend on it no matter your environmental circumstances. Any mindfulness instructor will tell you that sometimes it’s more important to be present and grounded…
Educational Tool for Sexual Anxiety
Low body image and sexual performance anxiety are common, yet unlikely topics of discussion. And not talking about them only adds to these issues. If you experience sexual anxiety and have body image issues know that you’re not alone. Around 16% of women and 25% of men experience sexual performance anxiety. According to experts, around…
Does Squirting Stop After Menopause?
For women, menopause is just a part of life, but the end of your reproductive years certainly doesn’t mean the end of your sex life. Lots of things are changing during this new season of your life, but many things will stay the same. Luckily, the conversation on sex after menopause is gaining some momentum,…
Florence On Florence – An Erotic Story
Late that Saturday evening, Harold hauled the last box through the door of his new apartment. He swiped sweat off his forehead and stretched his back after carrying the boxes to the twelfth floor, albeit with the aid of an elevator. He had jammed all his belongings into the one-bedroom apartment on Florence Avenue, all…
The Best Sex Toys for Queer Sex
Sex toys are one of the best ways to create more opportunities for pleasure, increase accessibility, and have more fun in and out of the bedroom! While they’re often thought of as a tool for masturbation, sex toys are a great option whether you’re having sex with yourself or someone else. For queer people, especially…
Research Reveals Couples’ Sexual Desires
Wouldn’t you like to be a fly on the wall and find out what other people are doing in their bedrooms? Your answer to this question will depend on whether or not you’re a voyeur, of course, but knowing what other people find sexy can be interesting. If you’re curious to learn about other people’s…
The Link Between Emotional Safety and Sexual Satisfaction
Be honest, how emotionally safe do you feel in your relationship? Many people tend to focus on whether their partner fits their standards if they are compatible, share the same values, and other things along those lines. While shared values and being compatible do matter in the relationship, the latest research in neurobiology shows that…
Most Popular Masturbation Fantasies
Ever wondered how others masturbate? The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior conducted by the Kinsey Institute of Indiana University analyzed the results of people ahes 14 to 19 to discover if they masturbated and how often. They found that people of all ages masturbate. About 20% of men aged 18 to 59 reported…
Joan Jett and the Black Cock – An Erotic Story
Joan had accumulated so many hours of paid time off for her job as a saleswoman in the pharmaceutical company that her young manager asked her to stay home for a day. “You know the company policy, Joan,” said Shawn Markson, a handsome African American. “Use it or lose it. And I don’t want you…
Is HRT the End-All-Be-All?
Just a few short years ago, anyone with a uterus was hard-pressed to find accurate and evidence-based information on peri/menopause. And then, like pennies from heaven, it was all around us. Social media, talk shows, blogs, newspaper and magazine articles were finally giving us and our lived experiences the respect we deserved. While those of…
Spice It Up: It’s All About the Novelty
It’s inevitable – long-term partners are gonna get bored. Maybe it’s the conversation, your daily routine or the same old weekend plans. At some point, sex might also morph into a yawn-apalooza. Being with a long-term partner can mean a lifetime of love, connectedness, commitment and care. And contrary to popular belief, it can also…
Finally, a Sex Toy Designed for Vacation – DOT Travel
If isolation taught us anything, it was that time is currency – and you should spend it seeing new places. But just because you’re headed abroad doesn’t mean you need to leave the orgasms at home. LELO launched a travel-friendly version of its clitoral stimulator, DOT, in a smaller (but still mighty) size that won’t…
People are Buying Sex Toys More Than Ever, According to Data
The sexual wellness market is booming. In 2023, the market was valued at $32.7 billion. It has been steadily growing since 2019 and is expected to reach $80.7 billion by 2030. Between 2019 and 2020, it has grown by 26%, mostly due to the pandemic and its effects on singles and couples. Single people invested…
The Top Niche Dating Apps for Your Needs
Technology has revolutionized the way we interact with each other – especially when it comes to dating. Dating apps have allowed people to connect with potential sexual or romantic partners from the comfort of their couch. Convenience has been one of the main selling points of dating apps. The ability to meet someone despite your…
Clitoris VS G-Spot – Are they the same?
Ladies, let’s get real about the rockstars of your pleasure zones – the clitoris and the legendary G-spot . These two areas are absolute showstoppers when it comes to experiencing mind-blowing orgasms. Buckle up because this guide is about to blow your mind (and potentially other things!) First up, the clitoris. This pea-sized powerhouse is…
SORAYA Beads Review Compilation
SORAYA Beads is an anal beads massager with with cascading beads in both length and vibration coupled with an ergonomic handle. It’s great for those who are new to anal masturbation and can be used to spice up partner play as well. See what sex toy reviewers are saying about the gender-neutral SORAYA Beads by…
Memory Lane – An Erotic Story
Rays of golden light stream through sheer curtain panels drawn haphazardly together. Each beam provides an unnatural opulence to the small flecks of dust hanging in the air. But everything in this room, everything this early morning sun touches, revolves around her and where she rests. A cocktail that found its way from the hotel…
The Dangers of “Love Bombing”
We all want to connect with others, and for many, that means exploring different romantic and sexual relationships, but meeting someone that you have a connection with can be easier said than done. That’s why it can be so exhilarating when you feel like you’re finally getting a hot dose of romance. Most of us…
Her Only Fan – An Erotic Story
Anna strolled behind her shopping cart from the haircare aisle of the large retail store. In the wider lane between sections, she felt eyes on her, staring. She thought about darting down a different aisle to get away and look for an employee to help in case of attack. Before she could disappear though, a…
F1S V3 Male Masturbator (XL Option Available)
Let’s be honest, Artificial Intelligence both fascinates and terrifies us. It creates scenarios that, until recently, were unimaginable and has the potential to profoundly change our lives, perhaps even the parts that we thought we wanted to stay as they were. But if there is one use of AI that can only make us happy,…
Does Stress Affect Fertility?
It’s generally accepted by the medical community that chronic stress can lead to wide-ranging physical and behavioral health issues. When we experience any kind of upset, our nervous systems trigger the “fight-flight-freeze” response. That’s a protective function. But when it happens too frequently, and if we aren’t able to manage symptoms, we’re at increased risk…
Erectile Dysfunction in Younger Men Is Common. But Why?
Years ago, I was interviewed for an article on Erectile Dysfunction in young men. It was interesting to talk to a young female reporter who knew absolutely nothing about the subject. She sent me a long list of questions and we had several long discussions on the phone. I thought that this was a great…
Do Women Prefer Realistic or Neutral-Looking Sex Toys?
Vibrator is the overall most popular sex toy amongst people of all genders, but people with vulvas are the biggest fans with over 80% owning one. Despite that, dildos are also not far behind – three out of four sex toy owners have a dildo in their collection. If you look at any sex toy…
Echoes from the Bedroom: The Curious Rise of Rabbit Vibrators
In the ever-evolving landscape of sexual wellness, one product has hopped its way into the spotlight, carving out a niche that continues to grow in both popularity and acceptance – the rabbit vibrator. Once a hushed secret, these devices are now celebrated for their role in fostering sexual exploration and well-being. The Historical Hop: From…
How Income, Race and Upbringing Influence Sexuality
Where we come from, and what influenced us growing up has a huge impact on our day-to-day lives and success. People from affluent families often have access to better recourses and education, which sets them up for a more secure life, compared with people from “normal” families, and social mobility is easier in countries that…
The Science Behind Breakup Sex
Most of us are very familiar with the lure of breakup sex. To have such a strong connection with someone that you just want to experience it one more time before you call it quits. Even if you know it’s not in either of your best interests. So, why do we do it (literally)? A…
SIRI 3 Vibrator New Features
What is SIRI 3? SIRI 3 is the newest discreet vibrator by LELO. It’s less than 4 inches in length and fits in the palm of your hand. The vibrator is designed for clitoral stimulation and contains a powerful motor that stimulates more than just the external erogenous zones. What’s Different on SIRI 3? Sound…
Sex Tips After the Honeymoon Relationship Phase Ends
You’re in the first few months (or weeks) of dating someone. When you’re together, you can’t keep your hands off each other. When you’re not, you can’t stop thinking about them, fantasizing about them, talking about them. That’s what we call the honeymoon phase or NRE (new relationship energy) – the sexual and romantic excitement…
LELO Celebrates 21st Birthday With 100 Free Sonas Per Month
Twenty-one years ago, a humble vision for better pleasure was born as LELO blended ergonomic design with quality materials. The outcome was sex toys that changed the way we explored our sexuality, and there’s one in particular that’s rightfully gained its notoriety behind closed doors—SONA. And to honor the beating heart of the company (you),…
How Do You Tell Someone You’re Not Interested in Them?
We all have our preferences in the dating world, right? Whether it’s in the realm of appearance, personality, or other, the majority of us have some kind of boxes we’d like ticked when it comes to finding a partner or merely someone to spend the night with. In some cases, a potential partner may have…
The Love Machine – An Erotic Story
It was a warm Friday night, the second night of the annual Jackson County Fair. The place was packed with people for this annual weekend event. The fairgrounds smelled of fresh popcorn, corndogs, and apples dipped in caramel. The lines at the food trucks were long for cinnamon elephant ears and tacos and fried cheese…
How Open Should I Be with my Doctor?
It’s generally accepted among medical providers that the more information a patient shares, the better the care they can provide. There are very strong arguments for accurately answering everything a doctor asks you about your medical history and your current health and well-being. But what if there are details you don’t want to share because…
Should You Stalk Your Ex and Why is it So Addictive?
(Trigger Warning: while the word “stalk” appears in the blog below, please note that it’s being used in the non-menacing vernacular (as a synonym for “search”). The origin of the word means something entirely different – “stalking” in its original form is of serious nature and potentially dangerous. If you believe you are the victim…
Revolutionary Sex Throughout History
Every generation attempts to reinvent sexuality, some by infusing it with more liberties, others by making it more modest. But the truth is, there’s very little space for innovation, all sorts of sex acts and arrangements have been explored numerous times throughout human history, and that includes even things that you might think have a…
Hydro Massage – An Erotic Story
The massage chair at the fitness center kneaded Mary’s stressed body. The rollers crept up to her shoulders and down to her lower back. She was on the cusp of an ethereal state. Then two women woke her. “This is the Hydro Massage I told you about. You will love, love, love it.” The room…
Sharing Sex Toys With Your Partners: What’s Safe & What’s Not
Do you share sex toys with a partner? Owning and using sex toys is definitely popular – 52.5% of women and 44.8% of men have used sex toys at least once before. While sex toys used to be a thing to use only solo, more and more people are not shying away from using them…
The Dodson Method for Helping Women Orgasm
Gwyneth Paltrow has been on a mission to bring taboo wellness trends to the mainstream via her brand Goop. From vampire facials to vagina-scented candles to jade vaginal eggs, Gwenyth and the Goop team are some of the top wellness trend forecasters. If you tune into the brand’s Netflix special, you’ll see the team meeting…
So, When Do I Get My Pap Now?
It used to be so simple. You went to see your gynecologist once per year. Your breasts would be checked, you’d have the dreaded pelvic exam that included STI testing and the pap, and then you’d be on your merry way. Phew, check that off the list until next year! But in recent years, things…
What Does Cholesterol Have to do with Sexual Health?
You probably think that hamburgers and ice cream are only bad for your waistline, right? But what if they could actually put your sexual health in jeopardy? Read on to discover the important links between cholesterol and sexual health that all men should know. High Cholesterol Can Cause Erectile Dysfunction Many people see erectile dysfunction…