As a new year begins, we often here people speak about their “New Year’s Resolutions.” More often than not these resolutions are about changing something about yourself. Popular ones include: losing weight, getting to the gym more often, eating healthy, etc. But what if we stopped and thought for a moment about what we like…
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The Many Benefits of Kegels
It’s almost Springtime, and that means later sunsets, al fresco dining, and hammocks gentlyrocking in the breeze. And that got me thinking – as a women’s health specialist – about thehammocks that aren’t suspended by trees but the ones that naturally hang from our pelvicbones! Yes, indeed, Friends, our pelvic bones have muscles within the…
Suddenly, the World of Open Relationships is Much More… Open!
In the last few years, conversations around non-monogamy have become much more mainstream. From the Netflix series You, Me, Her to TikTok accounts like @OpenlyCommited – society is slowly becoming more open to the idea of being open. If you haven’t seen it, @Openlycommited is a TikTok account with upwards of 120K followers and nearly…
Sex in the Media: Explore or Ignore – Throwback Version
“Bridesmaids” still delivers. What makes this movie “Bridesmaids” so irresistible, even 12 years after its initial release? Thecomedy, written by Kristen Wiig and Annie Mumolo, was considered groundbreaking back in2011. It not only brought us iconic lines of comedic genius, but it broke down gender barriers byallowing female characters to be raunchy and authentic…
3 Audio Erotica Apps for Fuller, Stronger Orgasms
3 Audio Erotica Apps for Fuller, Stronger Orgasms Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: December 21, 2022 There are orgasms you squeak through just to get the job done. And then there are full, powerful orgasms that arrive because you’re fully turned on and engaged with your body. For the latter, especially if you’re…
The 6 Best Sex Toys to Introduce to a Partner for the First Time
The 6 Best Sex Toys to Introduce to a Partner for the First Time Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: December 21, 2022 When you kick back for self-pleasure, you have a trusty vibrator that gets the job done. And maybe you’ve been thinking about introducing that toy to your partner or whomever you’re…
How to Prepare for Anal Sex
How to Prepare for Anal Sex Written by: Denise John, PhD | Published on: December 23, 2022 The anus has thin walls, doesn’t self-lubricate, and is surrounded by sphincter muscles that naturally tighten closed when touched. So for anal sex, experts suggest that you apply lots (and lots) of lube, get relaxed before penetration, start…
The goop Pursuit: A New Audible Original Series
The goop Pursuit: A New Audible Original Series Written by: Kiki Koroshetz | Published on: January 12, 2023 Live today: our four-part Audible Original series, The goop Pursuit . In each 90-minute installment, we go on an intimate journey that involves some learning—and a lot of unlearning. “Leaning into Pleasure ” is led by Penda…
How Touching Yourself—Together—Can Reignite Your Sexual Connection
How Touching Yourself—Together—Can Reignite Your Sexual Connection Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: February 14, 2023 Photo courtesy of Paula Codoñer When couples seek out clinical sexologist Michaela d’Artois at her online practice Inner Eros , it’s usually because they could use some help reconnecting to intimacy and desire. Mutual masturbation is one of…
Can Temperature Play Heat Up Your Sex Life?
Can Temperature Play Heat Up Your Sex Life? Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: February 23, 2023 The merit of trying something new in the bedroom is that it might reveal a kink you didn’t know you had. Temperature play, which puts feelings of hot and cold to work sexually, can be a low-stakes…
How Your Cycle Influences Sexual Desire
How Your Cycle Influences Sexual Desire Written by: Jolene Brighten, ND | Published on: March 16, 2023 | Reviewed by: Denise John, PhD Hypothesis and Emerging Research Toggle description Some early observations support this concept (or parts of the theory), and there is scientific interest in elucidating exactly what’s at work. Jolene Brighten, ND, is…
5 (Helpful) Things to Know about Sex after Childbirth
5 (Helpful) Things to Know about Sex after Childbirth Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: March 30, 2023 We Give All The Kudos For This Article To…..[Click Here]
A Guide to Sex Talk (for Those Who Find It Challenging)
A Guide to Sex Talk (for Those Who Find It Challenging) Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: April 6, 2023 We Give All The Kudos For This Article To…..[Click Here]
The 8 Best Bullet Vibrators—and How to Use Them
The 8 Best Bullet Vibrators—and How to Use Them Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: April 11, 2023 We Give All The Kudos For This Article To…..[Click Here]
Toys For Men & Their Partners
Men love toys. As boys, they love boy toys. As men, they love man toys. Men often have special places where they play with their toys – the garage, the basement, the shed, the man cave. We men usually need to collect more toys to work on our toys. Some people might call them tools.…
Hottest Gift of the Year? It’s Not What You Think
Tis this season, and as the 300 Hallmark holiday films (seriously – they’ve made 300 of them!) inevitably feature – it’s snowflakes and sugar cookies and lights all aglow. And it’s oh so romantic, lest we forget. What happens when daydreams turn from peppermint mocha everything to cuffing and cozying and curling up with your…
2023 GOALS
It’s that time of year again, where everyone sets out with great intentions to do better in their lives. Whether it’s quitting smoking, losing some weight, or being more organized, we all do our best initially but sometimes fall short after a month or two. One of the biggest reasons a lot of us set…
Can Men Experience Low Libido?
When you hear the term “low libido”, who do you think of? In all likelihood, you think ofwomen. And you might also think that only women experience it. We tend to believe thatmen’s higher testosterone levels are protective in that way and that therefore, men are wiredto want to have sex 24/7. While there are…
Can Wearing Socks During Sex Help You Orgasm?
Let’s be honest, we spend quite a lot of time and money finding ways to look sexier during sex. Think lace lingerie, latex clothing, crotchless panties, balaclavas, leather cuffs, strap-ons, chockers, and everything in between… All these clothing pieces and accessories are supposed to make us sexier and increase our chances of having a mindblowing…
7 Tips For Using Dating Apps While Traveling
Picture it. You’ve been frolicking in the sea all day. Salty, sweaty, sun-kissed bodies come together in harmony while the sun goes down just beyond your hotel room’s balcony. Or maybe you’re on a solo ski vacation and you find a hunk to cozy up by the fire and warm up with after a long…
The Neuroscience Behind Female Orgasms
The tingling build-up of sensations, the rush of blood to your most sensitive areas, an overflow of hormones pulsing through your system, the greatest headrush known to humans. No, we’re not talking about eating ice cream, we’re talking about orgasms (although they sometimes elicit similar responses). You (hopefully) have a good understanding of what happens…
The Best Rabbit Vibes and Love Eggs
Spring is in the air, and we’d like to add some spring to your step with LELO’s best rabbit-style vibrators and vibrating eggs. Don’t see the connection? You might be surprised to see how the historic roots of Easter tie into female fertility and health! The Easter Bunny The first written story of the Easter…
Can’t Orgasm With Your New Partner? Try These Tips
I figured out how to orgasm with a partner quite late in life, despite always being very sexually open-minded and adventurous. For years, I would talk with my friends who had orgasms with their partners and feel like there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t able to orgasm with another person involved. The…
Unleash Your Sexual Tiger with Cold Water
Cold showers are traditionally considered a method for curbing your lust, but their actual impact on your performance and libido might be just the opposite. Of course, if you’re male and have an erection, a cold shower will definitely kill it, but your lust might not necessarily be impacted. The reason is simple – when…
How Intentional Celibacy Can Improve Your Sex Life
What would you say if I told you that there are celibacy benefits that can improve your sex life? Yes, you’ve heard that right – not having sex can indeed make your sex life better! Celibacy doesn’t have the best reputation. And there is a good reason why people are hesitant about it. With it…
The Role of Laughter in Sex and Attraction
Seeing an attractive woman with a below-average guy inevitably draws all sorts of conclusions (often unfair ones), such as: he’s probably rich, she might be insecure, he must be good in bed or especially well endowed below the waist… However, the truth might be much simpler than that – maybe he’s funny. Science increasingly shows…
The Do’s and Don’ts of Having Sex in Water
So, you love (or love the idea of) having sex in water. Why not? Splashes of lust, partners engaging in all kinds of sexy tomfoolery. It’s a recipe for a variety of sultry indulgence. And while we’re big advocates of exploring new things and thinking outside of the box when it comes to sex, there…
Damian’s Lover – An Erotic Story
At midnight the house party’s zest had waned. The music playlist calmed from the chest-bumping hip-hop beats to easy romatic 80s pop rock hits. Those who had danced wildly for hours now were settled into soft couches and chairs. Their bumping and grinding turned to light toying and flirting, talking and teasing. One guy who…
Different Ways To Have Sex that Don’t Involve Penetration
Times have changed. And having sex has taken on a whole new meaning. You see, many people believe that the only definition of sex is p-in-v penetration. Nope! And even if we look at different kinds of penetration, such as anal or pegging, this too is not the only way to have sex. Sex is…
Having a Veiny Penis: Normal or Nah?
Penises: there are so many different kinds. Some are straight, some are curved, some have a larger base with narrow glans, others have a smaller base with wider glans. Just like vulvas, they’re all unique. Having said that, it’s fair to assume that many people, regardless of their genitals, have wondered if theirs are “normal”…
Your Guide to the TOR 3 Penis Ring by LELO
Penis rings are made from stretchy silicone and fit snugly around the penis to increase arousal and lead to better, stronger ejaculation. If you’re interested in experimenting with your first pleasure ring or set on finding the next best one, meet TOR 3 by LELO. LELO is notable for it’s sleek design, quality materials, and…
The Keto Diet and its Effects on Sex
There are so many things that can affect your sex drive and libido. From the way you’re feeling, the things you eat, to your hormones, the list is seemingly endless. Which is why there’s no reason to feel somewhat strange or even ashamed about your sex drive, whether you consider it to be high, low,…
Yoga On the Roof – An Erotic Story
Shelly decided she had to escape. Days in her small apartment had cramped her body and mind. She shed her oversized Mickey Mouse T-shirt, shoved her heavy breasts into a sports bra, and pulled stretchy workout pants up her thighs. Grabbing her rolled-up yoga mat, she left for the roof of her apartment building. Compared…
Plastic Passions: A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Dolls
Think those busty silicone babes are just for wealthy weirdos without a mistress? Not in this day and age. Sex dolls are picking up a mainstream following with regular couples all over the world. As it turns out, life-sized love toys are the latest ambitious sex toy trend to pop up in everyday bedrooms. From…
LELO Dot Clitoral Pinpoint Vibrator Reviews
Have you ever seen a vibrator like this before? LELO DOT is a new type of pinpoint sex toy that’s design is focused for the very spot that makes women orgasm – the clitoris. It moves in an oscillating figure-eight motion to stimulate beneath the exterior part of the clitoris for deeper, stronger orgasms. LELO…
Practicing Gratitude Can, In Fact, Improve Your Sex Life!
Have you ever considered how gratitude impacts your sexual satisfaction and relationship? Gratitude is a common mindfulness practice that focuses on finding good things in life and feeling grateful for them. What recent research has found is that feeling grateful about things in life not only improves overall happiness levels but can also greatly affect…
7 Things To Look for During Casual Dating and Sex To Find a Life Partner
When I moved to Copenhagen last year, my opinion of casual dating changed drastically. You see, here, casual dating (and sex) is the name of the game. And sometimes, people might ask your name only after you already had sex. Back in December, I was invited to a traditional Christmas lunch (called Julefrokost) and one…
How To Find Out Your Partner’s Lingerie Size
It’s a question nearly as old as sex itself: How can I surprise my partner with something sexy to wear that’ll make her feel beautiful while giving me an automatic night of you-know-what? Lingerie is a classic couples gift, and every guy is just dying to find the perfect, nearly-nude piece for his girlfriend or…
How To Make the Honeymoon Phase of Your New Relationship Last Longer
If you ever wondered when does the honeymoon phase end in a relationship, the answer might surprise you. Researchers at New York University found that the honeymoon phase can last up to 30 months! That’s almost 2.5 years into a relationship, which is a long time to be walking around with butterflies in your stomach. …
The Benefits of Dating Someone Without Social Media
It’s admittedly (almost) impossible to live without at least one source of social media today, especially for folks looking to network, job search, or maintain an online portfolio of their work. Social media keeps us all connected to our career worlds and opens doors to new opportunities. But there are no rules for how to…
Your Guide on How To Create Your Personalized Sex Menu
Have you ever heard of a sex menu? Yes, just as you’d go to a restaurant and have a menu of food to choose from, you can have a similar menu for when it’s time to get frisky with your partner. If you want to learn more about what a sex menu is, why it’s…
How To Use Your Favorite Sex Toy With Your Partner
Using sex toys for solo play is considered normal and more and more people are getting comfortable with being open about it. However, most people still tend to forget that even if a sex toy is not marketed as a “sex toy for couples”, it can still be used with a partner. Remember, any sex…
2023 Sex Trends: What Do People Care About This Year?
The trends in sexual wellness demonstrate a shift in attitude to being more flexible and open-minded regarding our sex lives. We see this reflected in the normalising of sexual acts, desires and attitudes previously unspoken about or hidden, according to LELO. This approach to sexual wellness being included and recognised as a part of our…
Sex Around the World Measured in Numbers
Have you ever wondered how much sex there is in the world? Well, scientists actually did and they gave their best to figure it out, along with other stuff that might have never crossed your mind. Among the craziest concepts I found while researching for this article is that of “sexual distance”, which is a…
9 Romantic Date Ideas That Don’t Require You To Leave Home
Are you looking for last-minute romantic date ideas for a date night with your partner, but you don’t want to leave the comfort of your home? Listen, we get it! Sometimes, life gets in the way, and there is not enough time to plan a perfect date out and about with your partner. On days…
6 Fingering Tips To Level Up Your Fingering Game
Even if you’re great with your fingers already, learning a few more fingering tips is never a bad thing. After all, the best types of lovers are those who are always looking for new and improved ways to pleasure their partners. So, if your partner loves fingering, and you want to learn how to please…
LELO Celebrates 20 Years of Orgasms
The year of pleasure is upon us and the count starts at 171 billion. It’s 2003 and Apple just launched iTunes. Basketball legend Michael Jordan retired. The Concorde made its last commercial flight. Myspace is dominating the Internet. The movie Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King is the highest-grossing film of the…
LILY 2 Discreet Vibrator Review
LILY 2 is a small clitoral vibrator that fits in the palm of your hand while offering a ton of power. Easy to travel with and fits discreetly in your drawer, find out below what reviewers are saying about LILY 2. LELO LILY 2 Review: What a Powerful Bullet! (Updated 2023) “As such as tiny…
Fanning the Flames: 5 Couples’ Exercises to Increase Intimacy & Rekindle Romance
Does it seem like both you and your partner are living such busy, hectic lives, that you can’t remember the last time you talked about something other than picking up milk on your way home, or if they could please remember that the kids have to stay late at school for soccer practice? It happens.…
LILY 3 Clitoral Massager | LELO’s 20th Anniversary Toy
What better way to celebrate 20 years of pleasure than with a new version of the toy that started it all? LILY was the Swedish-designed clitoral massager that put LELO on the map for sleek, beautiful and powerful orgasms. Discover the details of LILY 3 below. What Is LILY 3? LILY 3 is a silent…