This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram A growing number of people appear to be exploring what sex toys can do for their intimate lives. Data from representative US surveys find that most women and nearly half of men have…
We’ve all heard the stories: You give a new sex toy a spin, love it so much you never want to get off, and – oops! – find yourself a little too sore. Vibrator overstimulation, while rare, is certainly possible. While even the highest-intensity settings cannot permanently numb your clitoris, when used incorrectly, some people…
With so many options on the market, finding the best dildos to add to your sex toy collection can feel overwhelming. Realistic dildos, suction cup dildos, fantasy dildos, dildo vibrators… there are many types to choose from. Whether you’re flying solo or want something to enhance partnered play, a dildo can be a great way…
Vaginal dryness is more common than you’d think, and there are many reasons people of all ages might experience it. Dealing with this issue can make sex uncomfortable and can lead to sexual health issues like irritation and microtears. It also doesn’t help that there’s a stigma surrounding this topic. Fortunately, sex toys can help…
Are you interested in exploring anal play but don’t quite know where to start? Anal play can be incredibly exciting and fun, yet can also be a bit nervewracking – especially if you’re brand new to it. Yet it can be incredibly pleasurable as long as you take into account some basic tips and also…
Proper sex toy hygiene matters when it comes to cleaning sex toys. This means being knowledgeable about materials, irritants, and basic sanitation. Regular cleaning can prevent infections, maintain integrity, and extend the product’s lifespan. The consequences of sex toy cleaning mistakes—AKA incorrect cleaning—can lead to bacterial buildup, skin irritation, and toy degradation. Damage to your…
Kegel balls are sexual health devices that strengthen the pelvic floor muscles and boost sexual pleasure by improving vaginal tone. Although pelvic floor exercises can be performed without these Kegel exercise tools, the benefits of Kegel balls can assist with pelvic floor exercises and provide better results in a shorter time frame. Maintaining pelvic floor…
The SONA range includes five different iterations of a seemingly similar clitoral stimulator but each model differs for very small and super important details. The SONAs are considered air pulse toys (even though they apply a more complex technology) that can stimulate the clitoris even without direct contact. LELO’s offer for clitoral stimulators includes a…
You might know that exercise enhances blood flow to keep your heart healthy and your muscles strong, but did you know that sex toys improve circulation as well? By increasing heart rate and blood flow, sexual activity has the same benefits as working out. When we get sexually aroused, blood flows not just to the…
The LELO ENIGMA range is redefining the world of dual-stimulation vibrators (and even triple-stimulation for the most recent models), offering an advanced and luxurious approach to pleasure and orgasms. Designed to simultaneously stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris, these high-end devices use Sonic Wave Technology combined with deep vibrations for an intense, blended orgasm experience.…
So, you bought your first vibrator? Congratulations on making a big step into the world of self-pleasure. Whether masturbation is new to you or you just haven’t used a vibrator before, integrating one into self-pleasure practice can feel a little daunting at first. But as with anything, you have to start somewhere! Making mistakes with…
Anal play can be a bit intimidating when you’re first starting out, but it’s also the gateway to a whole bunch of untapped pleasure. It can also require a bit more strategy and preparation than what you may be used to – especially when using toys. That’s because there’s a bit more of an inherent…
We might be familiar with whips, chains, and handcuffs, but bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism — also known as BDSM — is an erotic practice that goes well beyond what we might have read in Fifty Shades of Grey. First and foremost, safe BDSM involves a much more dynamic conversation around consent since power dynamics,…
Are you the proud owner of a new sex toy? Is it your first, or perhaps your umpteenth? While this object will provide you with hours of pleasure, it requires some care to not only extend the longevity of your pleasure, but ensure your sexual health as well. Cleaning is essential for products that are…
In the United States, studies have found that 30 to 40% of men and women participate in anal intercourse. And anal play for couples is increasing in popularity, according to a Statista report. Anal play for partners can enhance pleasure, connection, and exploration. It has a laundry list of physical and emotional benefits, but learning…
Are you completely new to the world of sex toys and are looking for a comprehensive beginner’s guide to vibrator play? Then you’ve come to the right place. Self-pleasure is a deeply personal journey that offers many benefits for your sexual wellness and overall wellbeing. Exploring your body in a safe, intentional way allows you…
Gestating and giving birth to life is one of the most incredible things that human bodies can do. Both during and after pregnancy, your body is going through an immense amount of change. Hormones spike and dip, organs are literally rearranged, and body parts stretch and shrink. All of these changes may influence how you…
Using a sex toy for the first time can be both exciting and nerve-racking. This is one of the first steps in literally taking your pleasure into your own hands so you can explore your body and your sexuality. You may feel some hesitation around starting your solo sax practice, but it’s important to approach…
It’s astounding the amount of individuals who are living with a negative body image. And often, when we think of this kind of issue, we may believe that the solution comes in the form of affirmations, exercise, eating better, or even therapy. And while those are good options, there’s one thing that may be overlooked……
How many solo sex toys do you have in your goodie drawer? Chances are you have at least one. And if you’re a seasoned sex toy user, then you probably have at least a couple. Many people indulge in solo pleasure – one of the largest studies on the subject that surveyed over 10,000 people from…
There are countless ways to explore pleasure solo or with a partner. Amongst the countless different safe sex toys available, dildos often stand out for their versatility for solo or partnered play and their range of sizes and shapes. However, if you’ve never used one before, you might have questions about how to safely use…
Vibrators are traditionally associated with genital stimulation, but their potential extends far beyond that. When used creatively, they can enhance relaxation, relieve tension, and awaken new erogenous zones for a full-body pleasure experience. Whether exploring solo or with a partner, learning to incorporate vibration into your sensory play can elevate pleasure to new levels and…
Like society itself, the world of pleasure products is evolving, and with it comes a demand for gender-neutral sex toys that cater to diverse bodies and identities, and diverse pleasure needs. Today, more and more people are looking for versatile, inclusive, and adaptable pleasure options that don’t rely on gendered assumptions. Whether you’re looking for…
The perception of lonely women with sex toys has changed. Not only have sex toys become innovative in design and performance, our perceptions of them have also evolved. Sexual satisfaction is considered a human right, and sex toys have conquered many new ‘audiences’, including the queer community. As diverse as our sexualities are bodies are,…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram Sexual dysfunction refers to any persistent sex problem that results in significant distress. Research finds that nearly half of women and one-third of men have experienced a sexual dysfunction in the past year…
Selecting a sex toy can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience, especially with the vast array of options available in terms of types of sex toys that exist as well as the use you’re going to have of your future orgasmic best friend. From vibrators and dildos to anal toys and couples’ devices, choosing the…
When we think about tools for our mental health, resources like therapy, exercise, and meditation often come to mind. But sex and mental health go hand in hand – sexual wellness can be one of the best mindfulness practices that improves our mental health just as much as these measures. Using sex toys to reduce…
Have you ever dreamed of controlling your partner’s pleasure with just a tap on your phone? Well, stop dreaming, because app-controlled sex toys are here to revolutionize your intimate life. Whether you’re looking for a unique solo experience, want to surprise your partner from the other side of the world, or simply wish to feel…
Technology and innovation in sex toys have come a long way since the very first sex toy was invented over 28,000 years ago. From phallic-shaped carved and polished to perfection stone dildo to AI-powered sex dolls with customizable genitals and even temperaments, the sex toy industry shows no signs of stopping. That’s great news for…
People often think of their sexuality as a nice addition to the rest of their lives, but for most, it’s an integral part of being human. You’re wired for pleasure, pleasure helps you connect with yourself and others, improve your emotional health, and enhance your mental well-being. That’s why there are so many emotional benefits…
People often think of sex toys as a tool used during masturbation and solo exploration. While great when used on your own, sex toys can be just as fun and beneficial when used with a partner. They can even help you enhance, heal, and deepen your relationship. What are the relationship benefits of sex toys…
Sex toys are special in how they’re designed to grant us thousands of hours of pleasure, but they’re even more special because of how they interact with intimate parts of our bodies. But, as they say, with great power comes great responsibility, and one of the responsibilities with maximized pleasure is properly cleaning and caring…
There’s nothing more empowering than pleasure. Sexual confidence can lead to higher self-esteem both in and out of the bedroom. Having low confidence or self-esteem means you might be more likely to submit to a partner’s desires without advocating for your pleasure, which is why sex toys and masturbation are such essential tools for empowerment…
We live in an era where technology has been rapidly evolving, and as a result, the rise of smart toys has revolutionized personal pleasure. Unlike traditional toys, these devices make it possible for couples to experience long-distance intimacy or explore new kinks. This is possible due to integrated technology like app control, remote connectivity, and…
As ancient as man and woman, sex toys are objects dedicated to enhancing the erotic experience. They can be used solo, to make masturbation easier, more effective and exciting, or as a couple, to make the shared experience even better, strengthen intimacy, bring the timing of pleasure closer. Just as there are infinite types of…
Sex toys can enhance pleasure, whether used alone or with a partner. But for beginners, knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. With the right guidance, exploring sex toys can be an exciting and enjoyable experience. Trust the process. This sex toy guide will walk you through everything you need to know about how to…
If you’re looking to rekindle the spark with your partner, new experiences can help, and role play is just the thing to add a sense of adventure and spontaneity into the mix. Role-playing involves trust between people. It’s a safe space to get creative and share your deepest fantasies and desires. Many people are curious…
We live in a world where travel is increasingly part of our reality. Whether it’s for study or for work experience, being away from home, often very far away, is no longer an exception. But luckily, modern technologies that allow us to talk and see each other at practically zero cost have shortened distances and…
Sex toys are an investment in your pleasure and sexual well-being. Spending over $100 may seem like a big investment if you ignore how intimate these products are and the technology behind them. Toys below this price point might be disappointing in what they offer, or worse, made of materials that you don’t want near…
Embarking on a journey toward more sophisticated pleasure is not just a whim; it’s an investment in your sexual well-being, comfort, and, of course, your satisfaction. Sex toys over $200 are not mere tools for masturbation—they are sensory experiences designed to bring you to the peak of sensuality. These luxury products combine the highest quality…
The sex toy market today is more varied than a gourmet restaurant buffet: you have options ranging from dollar-store finds to “this is going to cost more than my rent.” If you’ve ever asked yourself the existential question of whether a luxury vibrator is really worth its price, this article will help clarify things… or…
Foreplay matters. Think of it as an appetizer to sexual activity, getting you aroused and setting the tone for a more satisfying sexual experience. Many see sex as a goal-oriented activity that leads towards the finish line known as climax. But pleasure is a journey, not a destination, and foreplay is a fabulous way to…
For couples in long-distance relationships, keeping the connection alive can be tricky. With miles between each other, in-person intimacy might not always be an option. Luckily, the technology behind teledildonics and long-distance sex toys has given us plenty of ways to get creative and bridge the gap with interactive, mutual pleasure that ensures you stay…
Whether it’s your first time trying sex toys or you’re simply looking to make the most of your existing collection, knowing how to properly use a vibrator – and what mistakes to avoid – can maximize your pleasure. We’re human, and mistakes happen (especially for beginners), so we’ve compiled the ultimate guide to help you…
If you’ve landed on this article, you’ve most likely received a sex toy that isn’t your perfect fit. It happens, especially since our physical needs and mental desires are so individual. Read on for possible solutions for what to do if you don’t like your sex toy or it didn’t meet your expectations. Check the…
Sex toys are the best companions on a journey of pleasure discovering. But they are also pleasant companions on a real journey. Whether you travel solo to exotic destinations or a relaxing weekend at the spa or you set off to discover the world with your better half, the presence of a sex toy can…
When done correctly, combining sex toys can unlock new levels of intimacy and address various sexual needs. Discover our expert tips for using multiple sex toys safely and effectively. Why Use More Than One Toy? Pairing sex toys can be beneficial for a multitude of reasons – enhancing pleasure through combined stimulation, customizing experiences based…
We live in a time where it’s normal to share parts of our daily lives, including purchases, with the whole world. And yet, when it comes to sex, confidentiality and privacy remain a fundamental value – one of the main reasons why we love quiet sex toys. Moments of intimacy and pleasure should be distractless,…
As you can imagine, the return process for sex toys is different from other products due to hygienic reasons. We’re here to address the most common concerns when returning a sex toy. General Return Policies for Sex Toys FAQ: Can you return a sex toy? Most retailers do not accept returns for opened items because…
If you find yourself in a long-term relationship, you’ve probably experienced it: the routine of being together can be as threatening as it is great. The habits which comfort us also undermine our sense of adventure. This is especially true when it comes to intimacy and sometimes you want to discover something new. Couple sex…