Charlotte toweled off in her steam-fogged bathroom. To her dislike, rubbing the thick cloth against herself made her lower body jiggle. She flung the white towel over a hanger and wiped off the moisture from the mirror with her hand. When she saw her reflection, the comments of a former lover came to mind. She…
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Creating Your Own Personalised Sex Bucket List: 110 Ideas for Passionate Adventures
Familiar with a bucket list? You know, a list of things you simply must do before you die? Maybe you want to visit Thailand. Perhaps you’d like to go swimming with dolphins or get a tattoo? The beauty of a bucket list is that it can be as personal and meaningful as you want it…
How to Use F1s Red for Best Results in Solo or Partnered Sex
As far as penis masturbation tools go, the idea is pretty simple, you stick your dick in it, turn it on, and it does its thing… what more could there be, right? Wrong. Science and technology have gone a long way in turning those gadgets, especially the ones on the high-end of the spectrum, into…
Here are 21 Weirdest Kinks People Have
Everyone has at least one kink, however mild it might be. Whether you’re into praising, spanking, or some BDSM role-playing, everything is healthy when practiced safely. But there are some weird kinks out there that you might not be familiar with. So, let’s explore some of the weirdest kinks people have. Sex as a Woman…
What is Vibrator Punishment?
While browsing your front page of your most-trusted porn site like XVideos or Pornhub, you’re opening yourself up to a lot of questions. As you become exposed to more and more different sexual proclivities by way of titled thumbnails, you might ask yourself things like “does everyone suddenly want to have sex with their stepmom?”…
Your Beginner’s Guide To Dual Vibrators
Dual vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys on the market. And there is no surprise why. With the wide array of shapes and sizes that they come in, it’s a sex toy worth the attention for enhancing both, solo and partnered play. What Is a Double Vibrator? Double vibrators are sex toys…
What is Anal Training?
Anal training is a process that helps make anal sex more pleasurable. Just like your genitalia, the anus has many sensitive nerve endings that can feel nice when stimulated. Also, the prostate is inside men’s anus, which is an extremely sensitive spot that can give mindblowing prostate orgasms. However, anal sex can be pleasurable even…
Discreet Sex Toys for the More Modest Pleasure-Seekers
While we’re in the era of removing the stigma attached to using sex toys, it’s true that not everyone is comfortable with having their favourite pleasure products on display for the world to see… and that’s completely fine! Despite this shift in mindset, sexuality is a very personal and intimate journey, and having the ability…
What is the Meaning of Your Sexy Dream?
So you’ve woken up all flustered, perhaps a little sweaty and well, aroused! Or it could have been the complete opposite—freaked out, overwhelmed, and possibly even disgusted. Sexy dreams happen to the best of us, and we don’t always get to choose who we have these lustful dreams about (cue lucid dreaming). But whether you’re…
Water-Resistant or 100% Waterproof Sex Toys: What’s the Difference?
To use our favourite sex toy is to give ourselves the ability to escape into a magical dream world. A world filled with pleasure, happy hormones, and insatiable orgasms. No longer are we looking at battery-operated vibes, nor ones with annoying cables. Today, we’re in the era of sex toys that bring pleasure to whomever…
Ask a Therapist: Desire Discrepancy Q&A with Casey Tanner
What are things you can do to increase sexual desire with a partner To begin, it’s helpful to understand what kind of desire you and your partner have. There are at least two kinds of desire that we know of: spontaneous desire and responsive desire. Those with spontaneous desire might have the experience of feeling…
Your Beginners Guide to Tantric Yoni Massage
If you’re always looking for ways to improve your relationship with your body and your sex life, then you may have heard of yoni massage before. It’s a practice that’s been around for a while but only started becoming mainstream a few years ago. And not without reason. Vaginal massages have many health benefits and…
Play Safe: Here’s Why High Quality Sex Toys are Way Better for Your Health!
While there are too many different sex toys out there to count, you’ll really notice the difference when you decide to prioritise high quality sex toys. Sure, you could buy a super affordable pleasure product you’ve spotted. And sure, it’ll probably bring you all kinds of sexy sensations. But once you decide to invest in…
LELO x Dr. Zhana: Self-Love Q&A
For our December Q&A with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, we’re talking about Self-Love. What are the benefits of self-love? Self-love, more broadly, is about taking care of ourselves and appreciating ourselves. Very often, we use that term to talk about masturbation and self-pleasure, which are such important parts of our lives and come with a lot…
January 8th is National Bubble Bath Day! Here are 5 Ways to Celebrate it!
Did you know that January 8th is Bubble Bath Day? Yep! An entire day dedicated to warm, soapy, decadent baths that are sensual and entirely pleasurable. What’s not to love about a bath though? They’re great for a bit of self-care, can reduce levels of anxiety and calm the nervous system, they benefit your muscles,…
How To Use ORA 3 Oral Stimulator
What do you do when you’re fantasizing about oral sex, but your partner is nowhere to be found? The solution is to find the perfect oral stimulator for those occasions. And when it comes to sex toys that simulate oral sex, ORA 3 oral stimulator is one of the best options for your sex toy…
BDSM Guide: How to Practice Vibrator Bondage
With unwavering trust, those who are in a BDSM relationship are able to have a physical and emotional connection that is arguably stronger than any other kind of partnership. That’s because this kind of dynamic requires an immense amount of faith, respect, and vulnerability. Having said that, partners in a BDSM relationship also have a…
Beginners & Experienced Players: 6 Fun Sex Toys for Couples
We’re lucky enough to live in a time where sex toys are rife! Every day, sex toy companies are working hard with designers, sexual wellness experts, and other professionals to outbeat themselves and their competition, only to bring you even more pleasure! Well, not just you… you and your partner! You see, while there are…
How Your Penis Changes with Age
Time waits for no man. The same goes for his penis. As we all march forward into old age (yes, that’s ALL of us. Even you), you’re going to notice changes all over the place, including below your waistline. While you’re maybe worried about wrinkles appearing on your face and grey hairs on your head,…
A Different Kind of Vibe: Anal Vibrators for Her
While we all have the ability to enjoy anal stimulation, there are tons of anal vibrators that are more geared towards men. This is most likely because when a man uses this kind of pleasure product, it stimulates the prostate (a walnut-sized gland that can produce firework-inducing full-body orgasms). It could also be a means…
The Link Between Endometriosis & Painful Sex, and How to Ease Discomfort
Perhaps you’ve been diagnosed with endometriosis and you’re living with some the dreaded effects, aka painful sex. Or maybe you’ve yet to visit your healthcare provider, but are having some difficulty during intimacy, creating some anxiety and discomfort. Unfortunately, there are many women who have endometriosis, and may not even know it. If you identify…
Light Up Your Sex Life… Literally
Bringing some actual fire into your bedroom can really turn up the heat between the sheets. And yup, after reading what I just wrote, I know this text is going to require a serious safety disclaimer. But brace yourself – we are seriously going to discuss including open flames into your sex life. Fire is…
Sex During End of Year Stress | Q&A with Casey Tanner
Like in most cases, stress can have a direct impact on your emotional well-being and intimacy. We opened the floor for users to ask sex therapist Casey Tanner all their dwelling questions about holiday stress and sex. How can I tell my partner I’m not into sex when I’m feeling stressed? You are, of course,…
Back to School – A Gay Erotic Story
They looked over curiously at the men shuffling in together each holding the hand of the man in front and behind him. Wearing only boxer shorts, they wore black hoods with small openings for their eyes – hoods to protect their identity. What about our identities? he thought as he leaned forward looking lazily over…
Sexual Guilty Pleasures: So Bad, Yet Oh So Good!
Guilty pleasures… we all have them! Maybe you enjoy singing Westlife in the shower, or perhaps your favourite TV show is 90 Day Fiancé. We don’t judge! But! We do see why these things could be considered a guilty pleasure. And when it comes to sexual guilty pleasures, the notion is essentially the same…. What…
The Treasure of the Kingdom – An Erotic Story
Once upon a time, a mighty King and a lovely Queen hosted a grand ball to find a suitable wife for their son, Prince Leo. The event was lavish and regaled the nobility of the land. The ladies of high esteem wore long gowns and heavy diamond necklaces. Men of renown donned their suits and…
What is Zombie Porn and How are People Turned On by It?
Sure as there are billions of people on the planet, there are billions of kinks and preferences that turn them on. Admit it: Even you likely have a kink that is a little outside of the norms of what is generally considered ‘normal’ society. Perhaps you’ve got a bit of a penchant for Paraphilic Infantilism,…
Vibrator Massage 101
Sure, sex toys are designed to make you feel good, but they can do more than get you off. With some know-how, and preferably a helping hand, a vibrator can be used to smooth out knots and kinks in your neck, back, thighs, or anywhere else your muscles may need a bit of kneading. I’ve…
What Does Vagina Taste Like?
Loaded question, but today we’re going to dive into the taste of vagina. For many vulva owners, their taste, smell, and appearance ‘down there’ can be a cause of anxiety. It could even lead to feeling less confident during intimacy, actively avoiding the beautiful act of receiving oral sex, or down-right shame or embarassement, wondering…
A Fantasy without Guilt? What is Forced Feminization?
We love learning about and seeing people engage in acts that make them feel good, great, and absolutely fantastic! So when we hear of male-indentifying submissives living their best lives with their dominants during a scene of forced feminization, it’s like music to our ears. Now some of you may not have heard of the…
All About His Pleasure! Seductively Orgasmic Anal Vibrators for Him
There’s something incredibly powerful that comes about when you engage in anal stimulation. That is, big, massive, firework-inducing orgasms! It’s a genderless activity that can be enjoyed by all, and treats individuals to a slew of new and exciting sensations. So why wouldn’t someone want to jump onto the anal stimulation train? Well, for one,…
Fired for Missy Lanta – An Erotic Story
“Here’s your pay!” Dennis shoved a fist full of dollars into my chest. “And now our business partnership is officially terminated. Don’t ever contact us again.” The fire in his eyes revealed the anger of Hell. Or it may have been his embarrassment after one hell of a night. Honestly it mattered to me. Dennis…
Mum’s the Word! What’s the Appeal of Mummification Bondage?
So you’re somewhat of a bondage enthusiast, are you? All things that pertain to binding/being bound, tied up, and restrained piques your interest! On the hunt for new and exhilarating ways to practice bondage? Great! We’re here to tell you all about mummification bondage. Heard of it? Even if you’re a newbie to the world…
Go Deep: Intense Sensations Beyond The G-Spot
You’ve heard of the G-Spot, but how about the C-Spot, A-Spot and O-Spot? Let’s dive a little deeper into these erogenous zones, and learn more about how to unlock the intense pleasure they can provide. This guide is brought to you by CLIMAX, a virtual training program dedicated to the exploration of female pleasure, grounded…
The Best Tantric Sex Positions for You and Your Partner
So, you and your partner have heard of tantric sex and decided that it might be the time to experience it yourselves. That’s great news because tantric sex is one of the best ways to build intimacy and connect better with your partner (and yourself). Tantric sex can sound intimidating for people new to the…
The Silhouette – An Erotic Story
The cruel winds had blown through Williston Falls the night before. The storm uprooted sturdy trees in the town’s small park and lifted farm houses only to reset them cockeyed on their foundations. But there was worse. The morning after, three ladies huddled together in the Louise Hollis Community Center, trying to calm a weeping…
Laundromat – An Erotic Story
That Friday, I declined a night out with my girlfriends so I could do my laundry. The decision wasn’t for a lack of clean clothes. Instead, the week had been depressing. Work overload, pressing deadlines, crazy customers, no break from the headache. I wanted time alone to wallow, and a laundromat on a Friday night…
The More The Merrier: Sex Toy Bundles
Good things come in threes, and in this case… sometimes two’s. Who doesn’t want more *bang* for their buck? Sex toy bundles are the gift that keeps on giving. Whether they’re for yourself, or someone else. They’re also an awesome way to try out a range of sensations with products that were designed to work…
Heartbreak Central – An Erotic Story
I’d been stood up and it sucked. On a whim I’d swiped right on Tinder for a guy with a winning smile. We’d texted a couple of times and agreed to meet here. Now forty-nine minutes past our meeting time he was a no show. Steam swirled from my latté, the aroma mingling with the…
LELO Releases Music Album Based on the Sound Waves Orgasms From Real People
Many people can name songs that make their skin tingle and send their emotions soaring. In fact, music has the power to create waves of pleasure so great that some liken it to an orgasm. But until today, nobody would have heard songs made from the sound waves of actual orgasms. Introducing Extended Pleasure: the…
Dr. Zhana Q&A: Spicing Things Up
For our November Q&A with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, we’re talking about Spicing Things Up. How would you define sex? What can sex include to be more interesting? I define sex quite broadly. It can include anything – masturbation, partnered sex of different kinds (oral, anal, mutual masturbation, using toys on each other), different kinds of…
Uncovering the Subconscious: Sexy Dreams
Most of us have been there. You wake up, maybe a little dazed and confused, but also maybe a little turned on. What just happened? Did I really just? No wait, that was definitely a dream. Sexy dreams can catch you off guard, even if they were enjoyable. You might be thinking to yourself “I’m…
How To Use a Dual Vibrator for Solo and Partnered Play
Dual vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys on the market. And there is no surprise why. With the wide array of shapes and sizes that they come in, it’s a sex toy worth the attention for enhancing both, solo and partnered play. What Is a Double Vibrator? Double vibrators are sex toys…
Reclaimed – An Erotic Story
I brought a glass closer to my eyes to better observe the thick red color of 7 fuentes wine against the light of the late afternoon sun. Rich peppery fruitiness playfully danced on top of some earthy mineral tones, donated by the mighty volcano on whose slopes the grapes grew. The wine was pretty unique,…
How To Use Smart Wand 2 Massage Wand
Our new Smart Wand 2 massage wand is the ultimate tool for making you orgasm while looking and feeling luxurious. With the two different sizes available, Medium and Large, everyone can find something perfect for them. Find out why you want to choose LELO’s massage wand over other toys on the market and how to…
A Basic Introduction: What Does ‘BDSM’ Mean?
There are more than a handful of articles on Volonté regarding different aspects of BDSM. But before you start reading about whips and chains, perhaps a little crash course is in order? You know, for those who don’t really understand everything that it entails, and who are curious about the meaning of BDSM in all…
How Does Your Vagina Change with Age?
As we worry about the ways that time changes our appearance in terms of crow’s feet and laugh lines, do we ever consider what kind of effect it’s having on our privates? Just like everything else about our bodies, our genitals will also bear some of the signs of aging, for good and for ill.…
LELO Podcast: The World of BDSM
In this episode, we are going deep into a powerful conversation about bedroom habits from the other side of the fence. We’ll discuss topics such as kink, BDSM, and how to find your place in all of it. Joining us in the studio is Viktor Zahtila, a BDSM practitioner, and on video we have Colette…
Hold Tight! The Powerful Erotic Potential of Tension
We often get the message that we need to relax in order to enjoy better sex, but sometimes the opposite can be true. Sexual arousal needs tension. When we become aroused, the tension of our pelvic muscles increases naturally and automatically. Muscle tension and pressure causes nerve endings within the muscles to be stimulated. This…
The New INA 3 Rabbit Vibrator Will Make You Come Again and Again
Attention! There is a new kid on the block. With the new and improved INA 3 launch comes new possibilities for more mind-blowing orgasms. So are you ready to meet your new favorite sex toy? INA 3 Specifications Materials: Body-safe silicone, ABS Size: 200 x 65 x 45 mm / 7.9 x 2.5 x 1.7…