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Your Top 5 Questions about the Benefits of Prostate Massage Answered
This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram We live in a world where one must often sacrifice health for pleasure and vice-versa; for instance, if we want one kind of six-pack, we must forgo the other – that…
The 5 Best Positions for Exploring Anal Sex
This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. It’s extremely important to learn to safely prepare for anal sex before engaging in it, so please check out our Anal Sex Q&A with Dr. Zhana that covers the basics. For…
Is the A-Spot Real? The What, Where, How & More
You may have heard the word “G-spot” being thrown around a few times. And you might know where the G-spot is and how to stimulate it. Heck, we even have a range of sex toys that specifically target the G-spot! But that’s not why we’re here today! We’re here to talk about another sweet spot…
So You Want to Try Anal? Here’s How It’s Done!
Whether you’re in a committed relationship, have a friends with benefits, or using Tinder on a regular basis, the chances you’ve asked or been asked to have anal sex, are very high. And let’s not beat around the bush, it’s usually men who are the ones asking. But that doesn’t mean that there aren’t women…
A Guide on What To Eat Before Anal Sex
What goes in must come out. It’s an adage that carries particular meaning regarding anal sex. No judgement, of course. One should know that if you’re playing with fire, you might get burned. Except in this case, we’re replacing “fire” with “ass” and “burned” with… you get the idea. While many of us are most…
How to Heal (And Have Sex With) Anal Scarring
There are many reasons somebody may experience a mishap when engaging in receptive anal intercourse, all of which stem from a lack of education. Was anyone even told anal sex was a possibility in school? This then leads us to seek education in other places, like porn, where we rarely witness proper protocol because porn…
The Best Anal Sex Positions for Beginners
If you’re inexperienced or have never done it before, anal sex can seem daunting. It’s likely because you’ve heard: one, that you’ll poop, and two, that it’s painful. While both outcomes are possible, rest assured there are a number of things you can do to greatly limit or eliminate these exaggerated outcomes altogether. Preparing for…
Why it’s Okay Not to Like Anal Sex
Feeling bombarded by the current anal sex craze? It’s totally valid to NOT dig butt sex, and here’s why. As a sex toy company that champions exploring anal play, we love that so many people of all genders feel liberated to give butt play a chance. We’ll be the first to encourage anyone, anywhere and…
Anal Edging: Pleasure Games to Blow Your Mind
Edging is the practice of stopping yourself just before you reach orgasm, when you are on the metaphorical “edge” of sexual climax. While originally invented as a treatment for premature ejaculation, edging can help people climax more easily, and enable us to develop control over when those orgasms happen (1). Not only that, it’s also…
What is Anal Training?
Anal training is a process that helps make anal sex more pleasurable. Just like your genitalia, the anus has many sensitive nerve endings that can feel nice when stimulated. Also, the prostate is inside men’s anus, which is an extremely sensitive spot that can give mindblowing prostate orgasms. However, anal sex can be pleasurable even…
All About His Pleasure! Seductively Orgasmic Anal Vibrators for Him
There’s something incredibly powerful that comes about when you engage in anal stimulation. That is, big, massive, firework-inducing orgasms! It’s a genderless activity that can be enjoyed by all, and treats individuals to a slew of new and exciting sensations. So why wouldn’t someone want to jump onto the anal stimulation train? Well, for one,…
Greek Sex: Just an Exotic Euphamism!
Perhaps everything sounds a bit more exotic when you think of Greece. Envision a picturesque island, spending time with friends, lovers, or even yourself, sipping cocktails and having some incredible Greek cuisine. And, well, the same goes for greek sex… it’s kind of just an exotic term for something you already know… What is Greek…
How To: Anal Masturbation for Total Beginners
It’s no secret that we are living in pretty butt-centric times. As far back as 2014, people were scratching their heads over the resurgence of round, juicy bottoms in pop culture, and even then they were talking about a cultural movement that was years in the making. This is by no means a scholarly thesis,…
Why is Lube So Important for Anal Play & What Lube Should You Be Using?
So you love a bit of anal pleasure? Fabulous! Those who embrace this kind of play are welcoming a whole new world of delicious sensations to their sexual experience. If anal isn’t for you though, that’s fine! Whatever floats your boat! But if you are either active or intrigued when it comes to this kind…
Dr. Zhana Answers All Your Pegging Questions
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana, and, oh my god, pegging is a popular topic! I got so many questions, I love how curious you all are about it. All right, here we go. What is pegging? First things first – what is pegging? Pegging is penetrating someone using a strap-on, which is typically a…
Are Anal Sex Toys Only for Gay Men?
There’s a long-standing stigma regarding the use of sex toys by men. Largely because the majority of them are anal sex toys, and well… toxic masculinity! But actually, did you know that a man’s most pleasurable spot can be found inside the anus? Yep! The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that, when stimulated, has been…
Everything You Need to Know About the Male G-Spot—And How to Stimulate It
This article was scientifically fact-checked by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. In women, the G-spot is an area that, when stimulated, often leads to very intense orgasms. Much has been said and written about the G-spot, and there’s still some debate about what exactly it is, but research suggests that, rather than being a distinct…
Anal Beads for Better Sex & Pleasure—LELO Beads Noir
While there are a ton of anal pleasure myths to be debunked, one thing’s for certain, our lack of knowledge and the mystery surrounding it is part of its appeal. Why Anal Stimulation? The anus is a natural erogenous zone due to its high concentration of nerve endings, similar to that of the clitoris or…
Getting Behind All Your Anal Sex Questions (Dr. Zhana Q&A)
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana and I am so excited about our Q&A today on the topic of anal play. And apparently so are you, because I received more questions on this topic than any other topic I’ve ever done! So let’s go! Q: Can it be pleasurable for women? Let’s start with a…
Grab the Lube and Let’s Celebrate Anal Sex Day!
Some could make the argument that we’re anal-obsessed – we certainly have written enough about anal sex over the years. But we still receive tons of fan feedback asking how to best go about anal sex in its various forms for various bodies, and so helping people get to the bottom (heh) of anal enjoyment…