Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana. I’m a professor of human sexuality at New York University and resident LELO sexpert. This month was International Women’s Day, so we’re going to talk about female desire. I want women to feel comfortable talking about sensuality. I want that too, so badly! Unfortunately, we live in a world…
If you’ve been looking for ways to spice up your sex life and bring in some fresh air into your bedroom, you might want to think about taking it outside your bedroom. To be more specific–you should think about trying hotel sex. Many people consider hotel sex to be so much hotter and better than…
Sex is truly a fascinating thing. Before you have sex for the first time, it seems like this wonderful, mysterious thing that will change your life. Being sexually aroused feels good, and the orgasms you give yourself during masturbation sessions are great. But then you start wondering: what does sex feel like with another person…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Penises don’t always work the way we want them to. Over the course of a man’s life, he will occasionally experience erections at inconvenient or undesirable times, and he will occasionally be unable to get an erection when he wants one. This is all perfectly normal. However,…
LGBT. LGBTQ. LGBTQI. LGBTQIA+. As an out and proud member of the queer community, I relish each letter our little web of support brings to the table. Under such a big, welcoming archway of possibility, there are few things more beautiful than queers and our ability to meet one another exactly where we’re at. Most…
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Enigma is a massager for those looking for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. It titillates both the visible and not visible parts of the clitoris through sonic saves, while using vibrations on the “bulb” that’s inserted vaginally. Check out if it’s fluttered all the right places for the professional sex toy reviewers below! LELO ENIGMA…
We followed up with Megan Barton-Hanson to see what she’s been up to since we last spoke. Here’s the update on her recent orbit around the sun, future adventures, and sex advice for anyone. First of all, happy belated 27th birthday! We’re happy to see Post Malone (even the cardboard version) made it to your…
To think of ‘sex furniture’ may bring to mind straps and swings hanging from the rafters of Christian Gray’s red room, however there’s so much more to them than that. Rather than just being kinky accoutrements (which they certainly can be), they are great erotic aides that open up more possibilities for people of all…
The sex toy of your dreams has arrived, if you’re brave enough to delve into uncharted pleasure. ENIGMA is a sonic massager that looks different than most pleasure makers, and feels different too. Blended orgasms are the ultimate treasure, but you don’t have to look hard to find them. ENIGMA is pleasure at your fingertips,…
“A clean bill of sexual health” is a phrase used to mean that you are STD free. But (we have to address the problems) let’s talk about the trouble with this phrase. An STD is more accurately referred to as an STI (sexually transmitted infection), because not all infections lead to symptoms and diseases, especially…
We recently reviewed Lelo’s Sona 2 Cruise against Womanizer Premium, so we thought it was only fitting to bring in another commonly mentioned clit sucker, Satisfyer Pro 2! These toys use air pulsation technology to stimulate much more of the clitoris without directly touching it. Discover the defining features, pros, and cons of each below.…
So you want to give straddling a go? Yay you! This kind of sex position is relatively easy and most of the time, super comfortable for both partners. What’s even better is that it can be done in a number of different ways. To be more precise, here are two definitions for the word ‘straddle’:…
There are simply no limitations as to how many props, toys, and kinky extras you bring into your bedroom antics. And while (we hope that) getting intimate with your partner is always a good time, there are a few things that could make your trysts even better. While the more obvious choices would include sex…
Whether it’s your first time having sex, or a time to get back to the basics, these good sex positions gained their popularity for being easy accessible no matter what your experience level is. Simple, effective orgasms are never a bad idea. All of these positions can be adapted for non-penetrative sex and regardless of…
Did you know that clit suckers don’t actually involve any “sucking”? They use air pulsation to send waves of vibration into the clitoris without directly touching it like a conventional vibrator. Not only will they push you over the edge, they’ll keep pushing your peak for bigger orgasms. Check out the review of Womanizer Premium…
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana, and, oh my god, pegging is a popular topic! I got so many questions, I love how curious you all are about it. All right, here we go. What is pegging? First things first – what is pegging? Pegging is penetrating someone using a strap-on, which is typically a…
While the clothes you wear serve a functional role, it’s also true that wearing something you love has the power to make you feel powerful, happy, confident and beautiful. Clothing is also a huge form of self-expression that can evoke feelings within and from people around us. Which is why sexy underwear and lingerie can…
March 20th marks International Day of Happiness, and we’re dedicating the latest research to sex and happiness, that is, why sex makes us feel good and what we can do to have sex that makes us happy. What Does Sex Mean? We may ask ourselves, what does sex mean to a woman? What does sex…
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Just like any other type of sex, oral sex, or “69-ing”, can be done in different ways. It involves pleasuring your partner (or receiving pleasure) by using the mouth and tongue on their genitalia. The 69 position in particular means that both partners give and recieve oral sex simultanesouly! Flip the numbers 69 sideways and…
It’s been a tough year for everyone, and as lockdown measures look set to continue for the next few weeks at least, people are feeling the strain. The stress of living through a global pandemic has also been having a knock-on effect on people’s sex lives. In the early days of the pandemic, it seemed…
So you’re looking for a few fun, flirty, and cheeky activities in a new location! Or maybe you’re just stumped finding something sexy to do in your city? Well, the world is actually your sensual aphrodisiac oyster! There are tons of thrilling things to do worldwide! And with our international sex guide, you’ll surely be…
The answer to “What is Feminist Porn ” is a bit complicated. First, it depends on who you ask: men; women; lesbians; hetero; the viewer; the producer; the anti-porn crusader? Feminist porn is a very diverse topic, and so are the numerous views on what it is. Then, there is a whole convoluted history that…
Looking to add a new member to the pleasure chest? LOKI and LOKI Wave are two players who add a new dimension to deep and intense prostate pleasure. Comparison Between LOKI vs. LOKI Wave What LOKI and LOKI Wave have in common: They can be enjoyed by anyone with a bum. Although they’re called “prostate…
There’s a long-standing stigma regarding the use of sex toys by men. Largely because the majority of them are anal sex toys, and well… toxic masculinity! But actually, did you know that a man’s most pleasurable spot can be found inside the anus? Yep! The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that, when stimulated, has been…
If you don’t know what International Women’s Day is all about this year, consider it an opportunity to challenge the world to create change. And since change starts within, we’re dedicating this IWD to something we can definitely help control – closing the orgasm gap ! Those with vulvas have an extraordinary superpower, the ability…
Whether you’re just dabbling in anal stimulation or going straight for the a-spot orgasms, this list of trusty anal sex toys will help you achieve your sex goals and stir your curiousity, regardless of your gender. The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings and can act as a gateway to prostate pleasure. It’s also…
We know what you’re here for, so let’s get into the knitty gritty details that differentiate LILY 2 and SIRI 2 . See below for a comparison that’ll help you choose the right one for you. Similarities Between LILY 2 vs. SIRI 2 LILY 2 and SIRI 2 are incredibly discreet. They fit in the…
What is Femtech? Femtech is a term used to describe products, services, and technologies that support women’s health. It was originally coined by the founder of the popular period-tracking app Clue, Ida Tin. Femtech is an industry full of opportunities that were previously overlooked. Femtech is commonly associated with the following things: Menstruation and period…
The sense of smell shapes our world in a way we will never fully grasp – so do not overlook its ability to design a new and exciting setting for sex. Think about one thing – most other senses can be replicated to a degree in a virtual setting, but smells are so primal that…
Most of us think we’re pretty good at masturbation. We’ve done it for years, we don’t need tuition. But, what if, even with our extensive hands-on experience, we could be getting more out of it? What if masturbation has become routine? Here, we’ll discuss seven very simple ways that you might be overlooking your personal…
Is your partner’s love language verbal affirmation? If so, you should definitely take advantage of World Compliment Day to show them some love. Words are one of the most powerful tools of communication and making your crush, girlfriend, wife, or life partner feel butterflies can start with a simple text. What is World Compliment Day…
While penetration with a partner can be pleasurable, most people with vulvas don’t need it to orgasm. In fact, an overwhelming majority pleasure themselves externally when masturbating alone and engaging in solo play. This comparison is dedicated to two popular external toys, SONA 2 and ORA 3 , so let’s get into it. Comparison Between…
The chances that you’ve either been in, or have wanted to be in, a threesome, are pretty high. In fact, a threesome is one of the most popular fantasies for both men and women (and the number one fantasy for Americans, according to a survey). But are people actually engaging in threesomes? Well, one study…
The SORAYA line lies among the bestsellers because it does more than spark the eye. Not only are these rabbit vibrators beautifully designed, they encompass versatile features that can add extra pleasure to any masturbation or sex session. Comparison Between SORAYA 2 vs. SORAYA Wave At a glance, the SORAYA 2 and SORAYA Wave look…
This article was written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Having a threesome is the single most popular sexual fantasy. I surveyed more than 4,000 American adults about their most intimate thoughts for my book Tell Me What You Want and one of the key things I discovered when I looked at people’s biggest sexual…
This article was written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Sex and disability is a topic that is not often discussed. It is rarely—if ever—addressed in sex education courses, and few doctors are comfortable talking about sexual issues with disabled patients. Part of the reason for this is because disabled persons are often stereotyped as…
Below is your guide for incorporating sex toys, and clit suckers in particular, into partnered sex. Check out our product recommendations, sex positions, and some interesting stats! Having sex with toys Introducing sex toys into a relationship can be intimidating, especially towards male partners who can feel threatened by the idea. The truth is that…
Enhance your foreplay routine with a deeply spiritual and highly erotic form of massage. That is, a tantric massage. This sensual act is a meaningful way to connect with your partner, and to share and vibe off of each other’s sexual energies. And by engaging in this practice, you’ll not only heighten your state of…
Looking to add some more gay sex positions to your bedroom routine? Perhaps need a few foreplay ideas and tips to try something new? There’s always room to spice things up while getting intimate! So, whether you’re seeking a different kind of thrill, feel like experiencing different sensations, or just intrigued, this article will reveal…
In a world that’s saturated with items, ideas, and activities that increase our pleasure, it’s only logical that two mouths on a dick are more pleasurable than one, right? Honestly, what are the chances of one saying, “Oh, no thank you! I’d prefer just one person giving me a blowie right now!” (Side note: I…
Indeed, there are different ways to have sex. In fact, sex doesn’t even need to involve penetration at all. Sex can be anything you want it to be! And knowing this is a good thing. It takes one away from the notion that penetrative sex with climax is the end goal , which it really…
This article was scientifically fact-checked and written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. What’s the first image that comes to mind when you hear the term “attention deficit hyperactivity disorder” (ADHD)? Odds are, you’re probably imagining a kid who is hyperactive or has trouble focusing in school. However, ADHD isn’t just for kids—it affects adults,…
How is mindfulness really connected to our sex lives? When it comes to our sexualities, most of us were taught NOT to pay attention. Perhaps our parents avoided conversations about sex altogether, or maybe we had a really awkward experience in sex education class. Most of us were taught to refer to our genitals as…
If you think having sex once a week (or month, or year) is enough, think again. Forget treating the Big O like a rare occasion that calls for taking out your grandma’s china. Sex is something that should be on your menu as often as you dang well please – and if you’re holding back…
Rumor has it that Kegel balls are not only good for your pelvic health, but also good for foreplay and arousal. The best part is that’s in not a rumor at all. Building up your pelvic floor strength leads to better orgasms. Now imagine 24-karat gold balls sending kinetic energy into your pleasure system. LELO…
Being fit takes you a long way in terms of sexual performance, but not every exercise is the same. Some types will do a much better job preparing you for sexual mastery. Fit for Sex One of the most obvious signs that you need to improve your fitness is feeling shortness of breath. Also, you…
THE STORY SO FAR London, the mid-1970s. From the moment I set eyes on Justine, I just knew I had to have her (and I was far from alone in my pursuit of her). For months she resisted my advances, insisting she was saving herself for the right man. But in the end, she yielded…
You might think that people who are truly in love automatically know the answer to this question, with no doubt in their minds—and a lucky few do, but for many, this generally isn’t the case. People vary in the extent to which they know and can distinguish between their own emotions. This puts us in…