Just because moving in together doesn’t mean marriage, it’s still a pretty big decision to make. And many professionals admit that making that decision should be intentional and deliberate rather than simply deciding one day to take the plunge. But we get it: maybe you’ve been dating for a while and you already spend most…
Our in-the-office affair now needs to be an out-of-office affair, we both agreed. Above all, it MUST survive our pending retirement as both our future happiness depends largely on how Clive’s actual wife and my very occasional guy view the situation, assuming I’d even bother to tell him, that is. Clive and I have shared…
Last night, as I said goodnight to my almost-grown daughters, I noticed that each of their respective laptops rested directly on their respective laps. Hystero-Mamma kicked into high gear. “Girls – why aren’t you using pillows as a barrier between your computers and your ovaries? How many times do we have to review this? Don’t…
Andropause is similar to its female counterpart, menopause , and refers to declining levels of testosterone in aging men. Often referred to as Low T, this condition isn’t as widely understood as menopause, making it difficult for both patients and physicians to recognize. Fortunately, diagnostic tools for measuring testosterone levels are improving, making it easier…
An interview to die for… if you’re a hands-on type? Starting just with her Mum and her best friend Simone some 4 years ago, it was now time to increase her sales staff, which, in reality, was just her. Constantly needing to try fresh ideas, she was hoping that her first [proper] employee would broaden…
Whether you are aware of your relationship attachment style or not, it plays an important role in your everyday life. It influences how you fall in love (and whether you do at all), how close you feel to people in your life, and how easy or hard it is for you to be vulnerable with…
Do you ever find yourself extremely horny while on your period? If the answer is yes, know that you are definitely not the only one. And there are reasons why you might be feeling this way. Our sex drives are ever-changing and fluctuating, and there are a plethora of reasons, external and internal, that can…
If you think you know what “yachting” means, think again. In regular people’s world, yachting might mean recreational boating activities, but in Hollywood, and the entertainment industry, yachting has less to do with the boats, and more to do with exchanging sexual favors for money. So, if you’re curious to find out more about the…
This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. Dear LELO, Help! After an abnormal Pap smear, I was referred for a colposcopy… and have been told I have HPV. I have no idea who I got this from…
This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. With all the lifting, stretching, running and sweating so many of us do at the gym however many times a week, we’re here to tell you about one muscle set…
Search for a numbered list of menopause symptoms on the web and you’ll find that there’s no one definitive inventory. One site says there are 34, another one says 66 – the cataloging varies widely. Since menopause research is relatively new and medical training for treatment is practically non-existent – and because each woman’s experience…
The use of Clomid to increase testosterone levels has been in practice for many years. Clomid is the preferred treatment to increase testosterone levels in men who want to maintain fertility options because testosterone replacement products (Testim, Androgel, etc) can decrease sperm production. Over time, the use of testosterone can shut down sperm production by…
The invention of the birth control pill was a revolutionary event that completely changed the sex lives of cis-gendered women around the world. It finally allowed them to take control over their reproductive system, and be in charge of their sexuality a little bit more. However, while it’s a super popular contraceptive method that many…
If you are bored with your masturbation routine and want to expand your self-pleasure sexual repertoire, why not try pillow humping? Yes, you read that right – pillow humping might be your next favorite thing! Before you write off humping your pillow as something only horny teenagers do, hear us out. There are many good…
Technology and all of the joys that it has brung has made many individuals exceedingly happy and content. From live streaming, uploads, music, and social media channels, it seems as though we quite literally have the world at our fingertips. But is this enough? Apparently not. What is the Metaverse? Introducing: the metaverse. A 3D…
In the mood for a new naughty harvest? Reap the benefits of this fine crop of sex toys that are currently on sale! And if you can’t decide on just one, save big on pleasure bundles. *Prices valid during promotion only, check website for current pricing if promotion is no longer active. ENIGMA…
Interested in exploring or stepping up anal play? We’ve got a new massager designed just for you. SORAYA Beads emit a range of vibrations, from powerful pulsations to soft murmurs. The sensation resonated deep inside the bum, one bead at a time. The beads come in cascading sizes, the smallest on the tip and largest…
This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. It’s extremely important to learn to safely prepare for anal sex before engaging in it, so please check out our Anal Sex Q&A with Dr. Zhana that covers the basics. For…
PREVIOUS: Yoga On The Roof, Part 3 After hearing the heavy knock, Shelly stood on her tiptoes to peek through the peephole of her apartment’s front door. A Latino man stood in the middle of the hallway, hands on his hips. She knew who he was. The guy had texted her several times over the…
You may have heard the word “G-spot” being thrown around a few times. And you might know where the G-spot is and how to stimulate it. Heck, we even have a range of sex toys that specifically target the G-spot! But that’s not why we’re here today! We’re here to talk about another sweet spot…
How do you feel about porn? Now, how do you feel about someone consuming porn while in a committed relationship? Porn is one of those things that can be quite variable depending on the individuals involved, communication between those individuals, past behavior, and current relationship conditions – even the type of porn can be a…
Whether it’s exercising more, eating more sustainably, or saving money, we all want to improve our lives, but it can be a daunting task. Here is the perfect advice if you’re looking to get your life back into gear. Masturbate more. Yup, you heard me. You should be masturbating more! Masturbation, and orgasms, have a…
“I’ll take a triple decker chocolate ice cream cone,” Greg said to the teenage boy in his cone hat working at the Frostie Freeze. “Three dollars,” the boy replied, bored. Greg set down the bills. “You’re really ripping us off, you know. Three dollars for one cone.” The boy in the odd hat shrugged and…
Getting rejected by a potential romantic partner always hurts, but if you were rejected by the act of “ghosting,” the rejection might hurt even more. With more people turning to dating apps to find their significant other, ghosting is on the rise. A 2019 study found that 29% of participants have ghosted someone, and 25%…
Whether you’re in a committed relationship, have a friends with benefits, or using Tinder on a regular basis, the chances you’ve asked or been asked to have anal sex, are very high. And let’s not beat around the bush, it’s usually men who are the ones asking. But that doesn’t mean that there aren’t women…
In the novel “The Language of Flowers,” by Vanessa Diffenbaugh (2011), the main character’s only connection to herself and the world is through flowers and their meaning. She communicates her thoughts and feelings using flowers, as they give her the distance she needs to feel safe. Each type of flower represents a different emotional state;…
To say that erections are mysterious is a bit of an understatement. When we were younger, erections seemed to happen at the most random and embarrassing moments! As we got older, an erection became a symbol of virility and deeply connected to our personal identity. For most men, erections are summoned and seem to arise…
Sex toys are nobody’s business but your own, and LELO has made shopping for them fast and easy with their new option at checkout – Buy with Prime. What is Buy with Prime (BWP)? BWP allows customers to purchase toys directly from lelo.com using their Amazon Prime accounts. Check out per usual and select the…
Recent statistics show that, of all marriages and long term relationships in the UK, some 5% practice what is known as “ethical non monogamy”. Such open marriages, polyamory and swinging are referred to within practicing circles by the generic term of “lifestyle”. One such married couple in the lifestyle are Karl and Cecelia. Karl is…
If you’re into some BDSM play, ball gags are a great way to start dipping your toes into some sadomasochism and power-dynamic play. They are sex toys that might look intimidating and a bit weird at first sight but are actually super fun and sexy. So, if you’re curious to learn how to use a…
Experts worldwide are constantly thinking of new ideas and policies to help boost the economy but seem to overlook the idea that personal pleasure affects it directly. A LELO 2023 Report suggests that more orgasms would make for a cost-effective way to *stimulate* the economy. This is not a joke. Economic growth is measured by…
Now that the travel season is in full swing, we have to talk about the best discreet vibrators for pleasure on the go. Even 63% of Americans like to try new things in the bedroom while they’re away from home. And even 84% like to pack sex toys with them. While you want to have…
Charles, who sat across from me at the dinner table, cut his lasagna with a knife in his right hand and the fork in his left. He then set down the knife and ate using the fork in his right hand. After each bite, he dabbed the corners of his mouth with the black cloth…
When I was growing up – before the internet got its greedy little hands on us – we had books and tv and movies and music. If we were lucky, we had parents who had healthy views on sex and welcomed the inevitable questions of burgeoning adolescents. While I was one such fortunate kid (and…
I went to a very progressive medical school, and one of the principles I learned was that it is not good enough to make the diagnosis and prescribe the right medications. You have to remove as many obstacles as possible that may be interfering with your patients taking the drug. The most prevalent obstacles tend…
LELO launched a new version of one of its best-sellers, ENIGMA, this week. It’s newest feature is something that’s had success in many of their other toys too – WaveMotion technology. We’ll get into what it all means, but first, introducing… ENIGMA Wave Triple Stimulation Massager The most popular cause of orgasm for women is…
Does this sound familiar? You’re in a relationship with someone who you feel connected to. They’re seemingly the perfect partner for you, and you love spending time with them. At the back of your mind though, you know that you have to walk on eggshells when you’re around them. If you utter one word or…
Everyone needs a sex playlist (or two). There aren’t many things that feel as good as making love to your favorite songs, so if you haven’t curated a sex music playlist, get on it! A 2011 study published in Nature Neuroscience found that music can awaken the same pleasure-seeking parts of the brain that are…
Marissa double-knotted the laces on the rented roller skates. The tan high-tops had four bright orange wheels with one wheel studded at the toe to be a makeshift brake. Sitting on the bench, she rolled her feet forward and back over the worn, star-covered fluorescent carpet. “I haven’t been on skates in about twenty years,”…
This review was submitted by Georgina Forsyth-Read and is a non-sponsored post. The author does not receive commission off product purchases and these thoughts are entirely her own. G tries… Soraya 2. I have fallen in love with this toy, a rabbit which isn’t intimidating or covered in bells and whistles but designed with the…
Moms and their pleasure is often overlooked and forgotten, so we have to talk about it and the best sex toys for moms. Whether you’re a new mom, a soon-to-be mom, or a mom of three, you are still a sexual human being. You deserve to indulge in self-pleasure, and what better way to do…
When we hear the word ‘anarchy’, we often think of disorder, chaos, and sometimes—even violence. But this is in no way similar to what relationship anarchy is. Why is the word ‘anarchy’ used, then? Well, relationship anarchy does have an element of anarchy to it. And that is the fact that it rejects the element…
Are you an introvert who’s looking for new romantic and fun introvert date ideas? Or, maybe your partner is an introvert and you want to surprise them with a date night they will absolutely love? Introverts make up between 20%–40% of the world’s population and they’re known as the quiet ones. It’s common knowledge that…
Reader: “I’d love to see a list in the future of lelo toys that are specifically good with tdicks (enlarged clits), or heck maybe even toys designed with them in mind, a lot of toys made for clits seem like a good idea then turn out to be too small or too intense in the…
Honeymoons are for relaxing in the sun, celebrating your new, official partnership, and of course – having passionate honeymoon sex. When Brides magazine conducted a survey and asked 138 newlyweds how often they have sex while on the honeymoon, 32% (the majority) said every day, while 28% said multiple times a day. If you’re one…
Is there a connection between summer weather and more sex? While the topic is still a subject of ongoing research, there’s no denying that warmer temperature influences human behavior, and therefore, probably intimacy. Think about the physiological changes, shared outdoor experience and improved moods that foster situations for us to get it on. Whether or…
Most of us have a specific preference when it comes to sexual arousal and being turned on. Whether it’s having a threesome, a spit kink, a foot fetish, or watching porn—we’re so wonderfully unique that the possibilities are endless. But there is a difference between a mere turn on, a kink, or a fetish. So…
If you’re setting off for sexy summer travels, you’re perhaps thinking of taking some of your trusty pleasure items with you. And as proud as we are of our beautiful range of stylish products, we appreciate that having to show them off to security personnel is less than ideal. After years of traveling with our…
I was in France for a week-long training at our satellite office. I stacked it after two weeks of vacation in Europe and was happy this last stretch of the trip was going to be solo. I had had enough of constant traveling, socializing and obligatory family visits (first world problems, I know). My boyfriend…
Make no mistake: menopause can impact your sex life. Arousal and orgasm are like a delicate dance between your mind and body. And anything that messes with your libido can also mess with your ability to get in the mood and experience that mind-blowing climax. Understanding the ChangesWhen menopause hits, it can bring along some…