BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, is a lifestyle that includes a variety of sexual practices such as physical bondage, giving and receiving of pain, dominant and submissive roleplay, and/or other related activities. And in this lifestyle, there are an array of BDSM toys that are used to…
For those who are fans of sex tech or just like experiencing a deeper experience of pleasure, you may be intrigued by the idea of an app-controlled vibrator. This revolution in sex-tech has been growing in popularity thanks to their ability to enhance both solo play and partnered intimacy. Smartphones have made so many different…
We all appreciate the finer things in life. Sleek, beautiful designs. The highest quality materials. Thoughtful engineering utilizing custom technology developed to maximize user enjoyment. Unlike some other items marketed as part of a lifestyle, luxury sex toys are not just a label, but a guaranteed return on investment. Your orgasms – and your physical…
Take a moment and imagine a woman using a vibrator. What type of toy do you imagine her using? If you pictured a toy that stimulates the external genitals, you are in line with reality. In an informal survey I did with my Instagram followers, among those who used sex toys, 83% used one that…
Power play, which centers around consensual power exchange between a dominant and submissive partner, is at the heart of BDSM dynamics. Ultimately, a person surrenders control while the other takes it. But what are the best BDSM toys for power play, and how can toys, restraints, and sensory tools enhance D/s dynamics? These devices can…
If you’ve made it here, it’s because you’re new to anal play and are curious about it, or you want to enhance your experience with toys. Either way, welcome! You may be hesitant or are wondering if anal play is right for you. Some people are hesitant to try and play because they think that…
So you’re looking to try something new in the bedroom? Oftentimes, when people think of BDSM, they may believe that it’s intense and sometimes scary. But this really doesn’t have to be the case. There are so many different styles and themes of BDSM, as well as intensity levels, that it can be enjoyed by…
Keeping your sex toys clean is key for two reasons: protecting your health and ensuring the longevity of your toys. That’s why it’s so essential to know exactly how to clean your sex toys. The best way to clean sex toys mostly depends on the material the toys are made from and what kind of…
AI has become the buzz in all things business, and that includes the sex toy market. Artificial intelligence sex toys are designed to learn your individual desires and physical abilities and adapt accordingly. They can radically personalize masturbation and sex in ways that even the highest tech smart sex toys (that don’t have AI) can’t…
Everyone has varying levels of accessibility and ease when it comes to pleasure – which has also founds it way into topics surrounding sex and sex toys. Many people with physical disabilities or mobility issues aren’t able to use the average sex toys. That’s why more brands are creating inclusive sex toys that allow people…
Sex toys are a fun way to elevate partnered play and your solo self-care routines. But just like anything that comes in close and intimate contact with your body, sex toys require regular upkeep. Sex toy hygiene isn’t just about cleanliness—it’s about health, safety, and longevity. You see, improper cleaning can lead to bacterial buildup,…
Sexual pleasure is a human right – it shouldn’t be a privilege reserved for able-bodied folk only. Yet, for far too long, the world of adult toys has often overlooked those with different bodies and abilities. The good news is that it’s rapidly changing. More and more companies are recognizing the importance of inclusive and…
Just because it’s your time of the month doesn’t mean using your sex toys is taboo. In fact, masturbation can ease period cramps and improve sleep and stress, so by all means, use your toys for relief. Many people, on their periods, see an increase in libido and desire due to hormonal fluctuations. While we…
Technology is rapidly changing and holding. That’s certainly true in the world of sexual wellness and sex tech. Interactive sex toys are high-tech pleasure devices designed to connect with external controls. This is typically done via apps, Bluetooth, or WiFi, allowing them to be customized, synced, or even controlled remotely by another person. When people…
Knowing how to clean sex toys is an essential part of owning pleasure products. While it might not be the sexiest part of owning a vibrator, stroker, or butt plug, proper sex toy hygiene is necessary since these items come into direct contact with bodily fluids. And while you’ve probably been told that any soap…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram A growing number of people appear to be exploring what sex toys can do for their intimate lives. Data from representative US surveys find that most women and nearly half of men have…
With so many options on the market, finding the best dildos to add to your sex toy collection can feel overwhelming. Realistic dildos, suction cup dildos, fantasy dildos, dildo vibrators… there are many types to choose from. Whether you’re flying solo or want something to enhance partnered play, a dildo can be a great way…
Are you interested in exploring anal play but don’t quite know where to start? Anal play can be incredibly exciting and fun, yet can also be a bit nervewracking – especially if you’re brand new to it. Yet it can be incredibly pleasurable as long as you take into account some basic tips and also…
Proper sex toy hygiene matters when it comes to cleaning sex toys. This means being knowledgeable about materials, irritants, and basic sanitation. Regular cleaning can prevent infections, maintain integrity, and extend the product’s lifespan. The consequences of sex toy cleaning mistakes—AKA incorrect cleaning—can lead to bacterial buildup, skin irritation, and toy degradation. Damage to your…
There’s a common Spanish saying: Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos. Essentially, it means that long distance relationships are for fools. There’s some truth to that – long-distance relationships come with their unique set of challenges that can strain even the strongest relationships. For one, you can’t touch each other. Intimate contact is a crucial…
Sex toys aren’t just for masturbation, they can also be an incredible way to bring you closer to your partner. And it’s not just a matter of bringing any old sex toy into the mix, there are a bunch of couples’ sex toys on the market that can be incredible for shared intimacy. Vibrators that…
So, you bought your first vibrator? Congratulations on making a big step into the world of self-pleasure. Whether masturbation is new to you or you just haven’t used a vibrator before, integrating one into self-pleasure practice can feel a little daunting at first. But as with anything, you have to start somewhere! Making mistakes with…
Anal play can be a bit intimidating when you’re first starting out, but it’s also the gateway to a whole bunch of untapped pleasure. It can also require a bit more strategy and preparation than what you may be used to – especially when using toys. That’s because there’s a bit more of an inherent…
We might be familiar with whips, chains, and handcuffs, but bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism — also known as BDSM — is an erotic practice that goes well beyond what we might have read in Fifty Shades of Grey. First and foremost, safe BDSM involves a much more dynamic conversation around consent since power dynamics,…
Are you the proud owner of a new sex toy? Is it your first, or perhaps your umpteenth? While this object will provide you with hours of pleasure, it requires some care to not only extend the longevity of your pleasure, but ensure your sexual health as well. Cleaning is essential for products that are…
In the United States, studies have found that 30 to 40% of men and women participate in anal intercourse. And anal play for couples is increasing in popularity, according to a Statista report. Anal play for partners can enhance pleasure, connection, and exploration. It has a laundry list of physical and emotional benefits, but learning…
No sex toy, no matter how advanced, can ever replace the communion of spirit and flesh that is created between two human beings who share a sensual moment. However, couples who incorporate sex toys often report greater intimacy and satisfaction. When introducing a sex toy into partnered sex, it’s important to keep communication open, consider…
If you’ve been thinking about introducing BDSM toys into your relationship, you may be feeling equal parts, intrigue, and nervousness. BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism, and masochism) allows you to not only experience more pleasure in your sex life but can also enhance intimacy and trust. There are a lot of stigma…
Communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship; think of it as the secret ingredient to being a happy and successful couple. This skill improves trust and emotional intimacy while helping you figure out how to solve conflicts proactively. A relationship can’t succeed without strong communication, and learning how sex toys improve communication in relationships…
There are countless ways to explore pleasure solo or with a partner. Amongst the countless different safe sex toys available, dildos often stand out for their versatility for solo or partnered play and their range of sizes and shapes. However, if you’ve never used one before, you might have questions about how to safely use…
Vibrators are traditionally associated with genital stimulation, but their potential extends far beyond that. When used creatively, they can enhance relaxation, relieve tension, and awaken new erogenous zones for a full-body pleasure experience. Whether exploring solo or with a partner, learning to incorporate vibration into your sensory play can elevate pleasure to new levels and…
Despite the rapidly growing sex toy market, how to use sex toys for couples can still be a mystery for some. It’s not a surprise when you think about it – sex toys have been widely marketed as a solo adventure for decades. There’s also the whole thing about men considering sex toys competition, which…
Like society itself, the world of pleasure products is evolving, and with it comes a demand for gender-neutral sex toys that cater to diverse bodies and identities, and diverse pleasure needs. Today, more and more people are looking for versatile, inclusive, and adaptable pleasure options that don’t rely on gendered assumptions. Whether you’re looking for…
Sex sells, and modern media is constantly selling us the dream that we’re all supposed to be having passionate, amazing sex, all the time. But then there’s reality. By the time you and your partner take care of business and settle in for bed, you’re either too tired or sex has become a chore for…
The perception of lonely women with sex toys has changed. Not only have sex toys become innovative in design and performance, our perceptions of them have also evolved. Sexual satisfaction is considered a human right, and sex toys have conquered many new ‘audiences’, including the queer community. As diverse as our sexualities are bodies are,…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram Sexual dysfunction refers to any persistent sex problem that results in significant distress. Research finds that nearly half of women and one-third of men have experienced a sexual dysfunction in the past year…
Selecting a sex toy can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience, especially with the vast array of options available in terms of types of sex toys that exist as well as the use you’re going to have of your future orgasmic best friend. From vibrators and dildos to anal toys and couples’ devices, choosing the…
When we think about tools for our mental health, resources like therapy, exercise, and meditation often come to mind. But sex and mental health go hand in hand – sexual wellness can be one of the best mindfulness practices that improves our mental health just as much as these measures. Using sex toys to reduce…
Sex toys come in a variety of types and stimulations, along with distinguishing features like material, technical quality, and innovative design. Get more comfortable navigating the best sex toys by category to find a suitable option for you. Learn what makes them unique and who can enjoy them. The Best Sex Toys by Category The…
Have you ever dreamed of controlling your partner’s pleasure with just a tap on your phone? Well, stop dreaming, because app-controlled sex toys are here to revolutionize your intimate life. Whether you’re looking for a unique solo experience, want to surprise your partner from the other side of the world, or simply wish to feel…
Technology and innovation in sex toys have come a long way since the very first sex toy was invented over 28,000 years ago. From phallic-shaped carved and polished to perfection stone dildo to AI-powered sex dolls with customizable genitals and even temperaments, the sex toy industry shows no signs of stopping. That’s great news for…
People often think of their sexuality as a nice addition to the rest of their lives, but for most, it’s an integral part of being human. You’re wired for pleasure, pleasure helps you connect with yourself and others, improve your emotional health, and enhance your mental well-being. That’s why there are so many emotional benefits…
People often think of sex toys as a tool used during masturbation and solo exploration. While great when used on your own, sex toys can be just as fun and beneficial when used with a partner. They can even help you enhance, heal, and deepen your relationship. What are the relationship benefits of sex toys…
Sex toys are special in how they’re designed to grant us thousands of hours of pleasure, but they’re even more special because of how they interact with intimate parts of our bodies. But, as they say, with great power comes great responsibility, and one of the responsibilities with maximized pleasure is properly cleaning and caring…
There’s nothing more empowering than pleasure. Sexual confidence can lead to higher self-esteem both in and out of the bedroom. Having low confidence or self-esteem means you might be more likely to submit to a partner’s desires without advocating for your pleasure, which is why sex toys and masturbation are such essential tools for empowerment…
We live in an era where technology has been rapidly evolving, and as a result, the rise of smart toys has revolutionized personal pleasure. Unlike traditional toys, these devices make it possible for couples to experience long-distance intimacy or explore new kinks. This is possible due to integrated technology like app control, remote connectivity, and…
As ancient as man and woman, sex toys are objects dedicated to enhancing the erotic experience. They can be used solo, to make masturbation easier, more effective and exciting, or as a couple, to make the shared experience even better, strengthen intimacy, bring the timing of pleasure closer. Just as there are infinite types of…
Sex toys can enhance pleasure, whether used alone or with a partner. But for beginners, knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. With the right guidance, exploring sex toys can be an exciting and enjoyable experience. Trust the process. This sex toy guide will walk you through everything you need to know about how to…
If you’re looking to rekindle the spark with your partner, new experiences can help, and role play is just the thing to add a sense of adventure and spontaneity into the mix. Role-playing involves trust between people. It’s a safe space to get creative and share your deepest fantasies and desires. Many people are curious…
We live in a world where travel is increasingly part of our reality. Whether it’s for study or for work experience, being away from home, often very far away, is no longer an exception. But luckily, modern technologies that allow us to talk and see each other at practically zero cost have shortened distances and…