Unlocking the Art of Oral Sex: A Pleasure-Focused Guide Want to give amazing oral sex that leaves your partner breathless? This guide delivers seven essential tips for giving good head and creating unforgettable pleasure. Learn how mindful eye contact, varied rhythms, enthusiastic communication, and full-body engagement can elevate oral sex from good to extraordinary. Mastering…
The days when long-distance sex was condemned to the most basic sexting and video calls eternalized by screen freezes have, definitively, come to an end. Welcome to the world of teledildonics, where technology and pleasure join to overcome physical distance and ignite intimacy. In the sextech era, connected sex toys are no longer a futuristic fantasy…
World AIDS Day, observed annually on December 1st, serves as a critical day for global reflection, remembrance, and a renewed commitment to ending the HIV epidemic. It is a vital platform to unite in the fight against HIV, underscored by recent findings from a LELO survey that reveal a concerning shift in attitudes and practices…
The image of a romantic Paris is a global cultural touchstone. Yet, the actual practice of Parisian pleasure, dating, and sex often differs wildly from the idealized version. The true art of French love is not about grand, cinematic declarations. Instead, it’s rooted in subtlety, intellectual chemistry, and a profound, historically protected philosophy that places…
Artificial intelligence (AI) has quietly entered nearly every aspect of our daily lives, from the phones in our pockets to the cars we drive and the platforms we stream. But one of the most surprising frontiers for AI is also one of the most intimate: sex. This growing intersection of technology and sexuality (often called…
As a sex therapist, educator and researcher, I believe EVERY woman should own a clitoral vibrator (or several). And, while I advise this for all women, it’s an especially strong recommendation for any women who is perimenopausal and beyond (so about mid-to-late forties and older). Here’s why! In around the late forties, as women enter…
Ahh doggy style. It’s a classic for a reason. For people with vaginas, it can help stimulate the elusive G-spot, while people with penises can get a whole lot of prostate stimulation. Not to mention it can be pleasurable for the person doing the penetrating whether they’re experiencing pleasure through their penis or merely getting…
Previous: Behind the Door, Part 4 – An Erotic Story — Jenna Kennedy’s stomach dropped when she saw the middle-grade science teacher, Mrs. Natalia Hampton. The hefty, round woman in brown, polyester slacks stood at the exit door to the teachers parking lot. To Jenna, the teacher obviously intended to impede her from leaving. Jenna…
Sex has wide-ranging health benefits for men. For example, it can help to bolster men’s mental health by promoting stress relief, emotional connection, and better sleep. Likewise, sex is a form of exercise that can help men in optimizing cardiovascular function. In addition, sex can help men to maintain and improve their intimate health, which…
Solo sex is one of the best self-care tools around. It helps you connect with your body, release tension, sleep better and hopefully gives you some blissed-out orgasms. But it’s easy to fall into habits and routines. You finally get in bed after a long day at work. You open your nightstand drawer and reach…
Previous: Behind the Door, Part 4 – An Erotic Story — Miss Kennedy’s classroom had a new ambiance. Not of learning or happy school days but of dirty, hard fucks and unbridled lust. The remembrance of deeds done hanged in the corners of the ceiling, like cobwebs, and the others were covered over by the…
What are the common reasons for nausea after sex? They can be categorised into four different sections. Physical causes, reproductive and gynecological factors, emotional or psychological causes, or medical issues. After discussing some possible reasons for nausea after sex, we’ll provide you with some tips on how you could perhaps relieve nausea symptoms. But please…
Shawn tapped a Bic pen in a blasé rhythm on the boardroom table. He already was bored, and the long meeting had not even started. Slouched in his chair, his mind again dreamed of an on-time escape from work to a local bar this evening. His following series of thoughts was reliving the moment when…
Seducing a man is about more than showing tits and ass. Seduction in many ways is a form of self-expression. What is it about you that makes you feel the most attractive? When you find a man attractive, this is what you put out into the universe. If he finds that part of you attractive…
Last year’s survey by WHO issued a distress signal showing that condom use among sexually active adolescents declined significantly, leading to worryingly high rates of unprotected sex and increased risk of sexually transmitted infections. Following these disturbing findings, Swedish powerhouse in sexual wellness LELO conducted a survey of its own about the condom use among…
Miss Kennedy gasped as she stepped out of her happy Kindergarten classroom. She had almost bumped into a tall man. Just before colliding with him, though, he grabbed her arms at the elbows. In that momentary cincture, she melted in his grip. His hands pinned her arms to her sides. His large fingers encompassed her…
Over the years, podcast host and cultural provocateur Alex Cooper (of Call Her Daddy) has amassed a devoted following for her unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and self-pleasure. So when one of her Instagram followers recently asked, “What vibrators do you recommend for a beginner?” her answer quickly made the rounds. In her Instagram Story…
Two chatty teachers headed to the parking lot at the end of the school day. Seeing the custodian mopping the tiled hallway, they slowed their steps. “Be careful, Jenna,” Natalia Hampton said, ending their chit-chat. “It’s wet. Don’t slip.” She took Jenna’s thin hand. “I’m okay,” the lean Kindergarten teacher said as she pulled away…
If you have ever had an orgasm without ejaculating, you’ve experienced what people call a dry orgasm. While the term might sound scary and less than pleasant, a dry orgasm is normal and just as pleasant as an ejaculatory orgasm. In fact, it’s so pleasant and exciting that many are seeking out best practices on…
Seduction is to sex what romance is to love. Seducing a woman is much, much more than getting her to sleep with you. Done right, seduction is about understanding the other person’s needs, feeling out her personal nuances, responding to what she’s putting out there. There’s a reason why they call seduction a dance –…
I arrive at the pub five minutes early and take a quick scan of the room. One of my friends suggested that I try out a new dating app and it seemed like a good idea at the time. I can see my date sitting at the bar and he’s every bit as attractive as…
Does alcohol affect sperm? That’s a simple yet controversial question with a complicated answer Drinking alcohol as a way to relax at the end of the week, during a night out with friends on a weekend, or enjoying it as part of a meal at dinner with your partner is the norm for many people.…
At 11:07 in the morning, the mechanical monkey on Miss Kennedy’s desk clapped its cymbals and wildly tottered side to side. The monkey alarm went insane every weekday at that exact time. And, at hearing it, all throughout the classroom, Kindergarteners stopped their activities and began to sing. Miss Kennedy led her waist-high choir with…
It is well known that sex is good for men’s physical health. Among other things, research has found that men who have sex more frequently tend to have lower blood pressure, a reduced risk of heart attacks, and a longer lifespan. But sex isn’t just good for the body—it’s also good for men’s mental, emotional,…
Have you ever been lying next to your male partner or lover post-sex, watching them snooze away as if it’s the best sleep they’ve ever had? Not much time for pillow talk or cuddles, not interested in eating, watching TV, or anything else? Yeah, it seems quite rude, doesn’t it? Well, the good news is,…
LELO Dot Vibrator Review Vibrators sure have come a long way since they first hit the market and no one does sex toy innovation quite like LELO. Take the classic clitoral vibrator. What do you imagine when you think of it? A bullet shape? A big old massage wand? Something else? Whatever comes to…
After you had an orgasm, have you ever stopped to think about how long it takes for sperm to build back up after ejaculation? Your testes are small, but they work just as hard as any other organ in your body. You produce sperm every day. Lots of it. An average set of testes produces…
Spanking for pleasure is a common kink most often used both during foreplay and sex. There are many perspectives and scientific reasons why erotic spanking are arousing. Sexuality is a complex labyrinth with sometimes complex answers. Just because you were spanked in childhood, for example, it doesn’t mean you enjoy it as an adult. And…
I look out the window and sigh. He’s working on the car again and a wave of jealousy washes over me. I’ve never understood why some people become so attached to their rides, giving them pet names and stroking them when they think no-one is watching. Restoring that monstrosity is taking up most of his…
Did you know there are many sexual benefits of zinc for men and women? And when we say “many,” we truly mean it. Zinc is often praised for its various health benefits, but not many people know that not only is it essential for bone growth and keeping our immune system healthy, but it also…
Many supplement brands sell a dream to many people who want to know how to increase semen volume fast – if you buy this “magic pill,” it will turn you into a jizz machine overnight. It’s an effective sales tactic because one thing all of us have in common is the desire for immediate results. …
Parker harshly massaged his temples. “We should not be doing this, man. It’s just… just not right. We’re going to get in trouble—big trouble. Police. FBI. Prison.” Lance, however, sat at the spread of his four computer monitors. His face was whitewashed with the bright screens contrasting the room’s dim lighting. Lance’s fingers clacked nonstop…
There’s so much more to intimacy than meets the eye. Intimacy opens the door to not only experiencing immense amounts of physical pleasure but also emotional closeness, trust, and connection. This can help strengthen your relationship with your partner and with yourself. A great way to help enhance intimacy is by bringing sex toys into…
Modern consumers are faced with a sea of options when it comes to every aspect of the purchasing decision, and sex toy shopping is no exception. Nobody wants a sex toy that breaks the bank but feels uncomfortable when you use it, or a cheap piece of plastic that breaks down the first time you…
Whether your toy is silicone, glass, metal, or another material (or you have one of each!), cleaning your toys, depending on their material, matters. We’re here to guide you through selecting the most effective cleaning methods for specific sex toy materials. Safe cleaning for adult toys prevents bacteria buildup plus material damage. And all materials…
Sharing sex toys can be fun, hot, and help you connect in the bedroom, but it comes with responsibilities as well. Whether you’re not yet exclusive with your current partner, you‘re polyamorous, or you’re just using a sex toy with someone new for the first time, learning how to clean sex toys between uses with…
Welcome to the world of LELO, a luxury sex toy brand leading the market in design, innovation, technology, and reputation. And today, we’re celebrating our brand and giving you the full run down on our toys with a comprehensive LELO sex toys review. New to sex toys? New to LELO? You’ll learn a lot today…
If you’re the owner of silicone sex toys, you may get a little lazy with cleaning. Since silicone is the safest sex toy material because it’s not porous and very durable, you may believe that cleaning it every once in a while can keep you and your toy safe. But your silicone still needs regular…
Can having sex make you healthier? Multiple scientific studies have found a link between regular sexual activity and enhanced physical health among men. However, many are curious about whether this association is simply due to men who are in better health being more capable of sex, or if sex itself has some beneficial effect on…
Some people hop on dating apps trying to find “The One.” But for people with a polyamorous love life, navigating conventional dating apps can be tricky. This community already faces misconceptions and judgments in society about how fulfilling a polyamorous relationship can be, so finding an online community of like-minded poly people is more important…
There are two questions that often plague many men’s minds: “How long does an erection last?” and “How long should I last in bed?” If you find yourself often pondering over these questions and trying to compare the length of your erection to other people, know that you’re definitely not alone. Erections, just like many…
According to the CDC, prostate cancer is the second-most common cancer for people with penises. Avoiding certain foods can greatly reduce the risk of prostate cancer for people with penises. While maintaining a diet rich in fruits, veggies, and fiber can maintain prostate health, steering clear of specific food groups can help you avoid prostate…
Mark slammed the faucet handle, cutting the flow. “No hot water!” he yelled and flung the water off his hand for emphasis. “I can’t believe it.” He yanked a towel off the oven handle and wiped his hands. “No hot water upstairs either. Sink or shower, both bathrooms.” Fred leaned his hip against the granite…
On the gray morning after they had chatted at work, Paul passed by Marjorie’s desk oddly cheerful. “Good morning, Marjorie!” he said with a wave. “It’s a great day to have a great day, isn’t it?” His greeting pulled her attention from the spreadsheet of financial disclosures on her computer screen. She was surprised by…
Vibrators are continuously on the rise in popularity in the sex toy market. It turns out electronics are hot in the bedroom, and advanced technology is getting people to come back for more. Whether it’s a rabbit or a Hitachi, vibrators range from $10 to $300, depending on your desires and bank account. If you’re…
For newbies and regular anal players, it’s never a bad idea to be educated and re-educated about safety when it comes to using anal sex toys. In fact, there are safety precautions when it comes to using any kind of sex toy. So while there’s immense sexual bliss to be had with all kinds of…
”Desire doesn’t rush. It simmers slowly over time.” Valérie Tasso, sexologist, writer and LELO Ambassador In a time when sex is widely discussed but often misunderstood, acclaimed author, sexologist, and LELO ambassador in Spain, Valérie Tasso, invites us to rethink everything we know about desire. In partnership with LELO, her new book “Sexual Desire: Everything…
Bachelorette parties began as a way of wresting agency away from the sexism of “stag nights.” If boys get to have a no-holds-barred night of debauchery before the big day, why shouldn’t we? Getting a bunch of your best girlfriends together and celebrating your happiness can make for a truly bonding – and riotous –…
Henry gazes at me from the other side of the small, round table and the other diners at the restaurant seem to fade away. It is as if we are the only two people who exist in our own private, little world. I smile at him playfully as he reaches for my delicate hand and…
The definition of priapism might not be familiar to you right off the bat, but if you’ve ever experienced a four-hour erection, then you’re definitely intimately familiar with what priapism is. While a four-hour erection might sound like a dream and a positive thing, unfortunately, it’s not as pleasant as it sounds. In fact, priapism…