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Vagina Tales: Myths About the Hymen
If you’re a fan of historical fiction you’ve probably seen many scenes in books, movies, or shows of aristocratic families making a big deal of someone’s first time having sex after getting married. They check the sheets for blood the next day, they may even have a “doctor” examine the woman to ensure her “purity”.…
Who Invented Sex? The Breakdown
Propagation, fission, mitosis – since the dawn of time, things have been reproducing in one way or another. It’s what makes the world go round. Keeps DNA moving from one generation to the next. Keeping the cycle of life alive and well. Then we look at sex as we know it. Incredibly fun and pleasurable,…
10 Sexual Orientations You Probably Haven’t Heard Of
Variety is the spice of life, and what’s more human than the primal urges and desires that drive you to connect with other humans? We’re talking about the complex and colorful world of sexuality. You’ve probably got the basics down – straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and queer, but there is so much more to sexuality…
Sleep Divorce: Why You Might Want To Sleep in Separate Bedrooms From Your Partner
What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the term “sleep divorce”? Probably nothing good, right? The old-school way of living with your partner includes sleeping in the same room, same bed, and under the same duvet cover. Often, people still believe that not sharing a bed with your partner is…
The Best Couples’ Sex Toys for Beginners & Experts Alike
This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. So you and your partner have both decided to introduce a sex toy to your relationship, realizing how much added enjoyment it can bring to your sensual sessions. The question now is; ‘which one do I choose?’ Because of course different types of…
Sex Toys for Men: The What, Why and How
Although there may be less of an abundance of sex toys for men as there are for women, that’s not to say that guys shouldn’t give them a go! Not only can the right toy unlock pleasures sublime that no amount of, ahem, manual masturbation can reach, as an added bonus, they can bring about…
Can Wearing Socks During Sex Help You Orgasm?
Let’s be honest, we spend quite a lot of time and money finding ways to look sexier during sex. Think lace lingerie, latex clothing, crotchless panties, balaclavas, leather cuffs, strap-ons, chockers, and everything in between… All these clothing pieces and accessories are supposed to make us sexier and increase our chances of having a mindblowing…
7 Tips For Using Dating Apps While Traveling
Picture it. You’ve been frolicking in the sea all day. Salty, sweaty, sun-kissed bodies come together in harmony while the sun goes down just beyond your hotel room’s balcony. Or maybe you’re on a solo ski vacation and you find a hunk to cozy up by the fire and warm up with after a long…
The Neuroscience Behind Female Orgasms
The tingling build-up of sensations, the rush of blood to your most sensitive areas, an overflow of hormones pulsing through your system, the greatest headrush known to humans. No, we’re not talking about eating ice cream, we’re talking about orgasms (although they sometimes elicit similar responses). You (hopefully) have a good understanding of what happens…
The Best Rabbit Vibes and Love Eggs
Spring is in the air, and we’d like to add some spring to your step with LELO’s best rabbit-style vibrators and vibrating eggs. Don’t see the connection? You might be surprised to see how the historic roots of Easter tie into female fertility and health! The Easter Bunny The first written story of the Easter…
Can’t Orgasm With Your New Partner? Try These Tips
I figured out how to orgasm with a partner quite late in life, despite always being very sexually open-minded and adventurous. For years, I would talk with my friends who had orgasms with their partners and feel like there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t able to orgasm with another person involved. The…
Unleash Your Sexual Tiger with Cold Water
Cold showers are traditionally considered a method for curbing your lust, but their actual impact on your performance and libido might be just the opposite. Of course, if you’re male and have an erection, a cold shower will definitely kill it, but your lust might not necessarily be impacted. The reason is simple – when…
How Intentional Celibacy Can Improve Your Sex Life
What would you say if I told you that there are celibacy benefits that can improve your sex life? Yes, you’ve heard that right – not having sex can indeed make your sex life better! Celibacy doesn’t have the best reputation. And there is a good reason why people are hesitant about it. With it…
The Role of Laughter in Sex and Attraction
Seeing an attractive woman with a below-average guy inevitably draws all sorts of conclusions (often unfair ones), such as: he’s probably rich, she might be insecure, he must be good in bed or especially well endowed below the waist… However, the truth might be much simpler than that – maybe he’s funny. Science increasingly shows…
The Do’s and Don’ts of Having Sex in Water
So, you love (or love the idea of) having sex in water. Why not? Splashes of lust, partners engaging in all kinds of sexy tomfoolery. It’s a recipe for a variety of sultry indulgence. And while we’re big advocates of exploring new things and thinking outside of the box when it comes to sex, there…
Damian’s Lover – An Erotic Story
At midnight the house party’s zest had waned. The music playlist calmed from the chest-bumping hip-hop beats to easy romatic 80s pop rock hits. Those who had danced wildly for hours now were settled into soft couches and chairs. Their bumping and grinding turned to light toying and flirting, talking and teasing. One guy who…
Different Ways To Have Sex that Don’t Involve Penetration
Times have changed. And having sex has taken on a whole new meaning. You see, many people believe that the only definition of sex is p-in-v penetration. Nope! And even if we look at different kinds of penetration, such as anal or pegging, this too is not the only way to have sex. Sex is…
Having a Veiny Penis: Normal or Nah?
Penises: there are so many different kinds. Some are straight, some are curved, some have a larger base with narrow glans, others have a smaller base with wider glans. Just like vulvas, they’re all unique. Having said that, it’s fair to assume that many people, regardless of their genitals, have wondered if theirs are “normal”…
Your Guide to the TOR 3 Penis Ring by LELO
Penis rings are made from stretchy silicone and fit snugly around the penis to increase arousal and lead to better, stronger ejaculation. If you’re interested in experimenting with your first pleasure ring or set on finding the next best one, meet TOR 3 by LELO. LELO is notable for it’s sleek design, quality materials, and…
The Keto Diet and its Effects on Sex
There are so many things that can affect your sex drive and libido. From the way you’re feeling, the things you eat, to your hormones, the list is seemingly endless. Which is why there’s no reason to feel somewhat strange or even ashamed about your sex drive, whether you consider it to be high, low,…
Yoga On the Roof – An Erotic Story
Shelly decided she had to escape. Days in her small apartment had cramped her body and mind. She shed her oversized Mickey Mouse T-shirt, shoved her heavy breasts into a sports bra, and pulled stretchy workout pants up her thighs. Grabbing her rolled-up yoga mat, she left for the roof of her apartment building. Compared…
Plastic Passions: A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Dolls
Think those busty silicone babes are just for wealthy weirdos without a mistress? Not in this day and age. Sex dolls are picking up a mainstream following with regular couples all over the world. As it turns out, life-sized love toys are the latest ambitious sex toy trend to pop up in everyday bedrooms. From…
LELO Dot Clitoral Pinpoint Vibrator Reviews
Have you ever seen a vibrator like this before? LELO DOT is a new type of pinpoint sex toy that’s design is focused for the very spot that makes women orgasm – the clitoris. It moves in an oscillating figure-eight motion to stimulate beneath the exterior part of the clitoris for deeper, stronger orgasms. LELO…
Practicing Gratitude Can, In Fact, Improve Your Sex Life!
Have you ever considered how gratitude impacts your sexual satisfaction and relationship? Gratitude is a common mindfulness practice that focuses on finding good things in life and feeling grateful for them. What recent research has found is that feeling grateful about things in life not only improves overall happiness levels but can also greatly affect…
7 Things To Look for During Casual Dating and Sex To Find a Life Partner
When I moved to Copenhagen last year, my opinion of casual dating changed drastically. You see, here, casual dating (and sex) is the name of the game. And sometimes, people might ask your name only after you already had sex. Back in December, I was invited to a traditional Christmas lunch (called Julefrokost) and one…
How To Find Out Your Partner’s Lingerie Size
It’s a question nearly as old as sex itself: How can I surprise my partner with something sexy to wear that’ll make her feel beautiful while giving me an automatic night of you-know-what? Lingerie is a classic couples gift, and every guy is just dying to find the perfect, nearly-nude piece for his girlfriend or…
How To Make the Honeymoon Phase of Your New Relationship Last Longer
If you ever wondered when does the honeymoon phase end in a relationship, the answer might surprise you. Researchers at New York University found that the honeymoon phase can last up to 30 months! That’s almost 2.5 years into a relationship, which is a long time to be walking around with butterflies in your stomach. …
The Benefits of Dating Someone Without Social Media
It’s admittedly (almost) impossible to live without at least one source of social media today, especially for folks looking to network, job search, or maintain an online portfolio of their work. Social media keeps us all connected to our career worlds and opens doors to new opportunities. But there are no rules for how to…
Your Guide on How To Create Your Personalized Sex Menu
Have you ever heard of a sex menu? Yes, just as you’d go to a restaurant and have a menu of food to choose from, you can have a similar menu for when it’s time to get frisky with your partner. If you want to learn more about what a sex menu is, why it’s…
How To Use Your Favorite Sex Toy With Your Partner
Using sex toys for solo play is considered normal and more and more people are getting comfortable with being open about it. However, most people still tend to forget that even if a sex toy is not marketed as a “sex toy for couples”, it can still be used with a partner. Remember, any sex…
2023 Sex Trends: What Do People Care About This Year?
The trends in sexual wellness demonstrate a shift in attitude to being more flexible and open-minded regarding our sex lives. We see this reflected in the normalising of sexual acts, desires and attitudes previously unspoken about or hidden, according to LELO. This approach to sexual wellness being included and recognised as a part of our…
Sex Around the World Measured in Numbers
Have you ever wondered how much sex there is in the world? Well, scientists actually did and they gave their best to figure it out, along with other stuff that might have never crossed your mind. Among the craziest concepts I found while researching for this article is that of “sexual distance”, which is a…
9 Romantic Date Ideas That Don’t Require You To Leave Home
Are you looking for last-minute romantic date ideas for a date night with your partner, but you don’t want to leave the comfort of your home? Listen, we get it! Sometimes, life gets in the way, and there is not enough time to plan a perfect date out and about with your partner. On days…
6 Fingering Tips To Level Up Your Fingering Game
Even if you’re great with your fingers already, learning a few more fingering tips is never a bad thing. After all, the best types of lovers are those who are always looking for new and improved ways to pleasure their partners. So, if your partner loves fingering, and you want to learn how to please…
LELO Celebrates 20 Years of Orgasms
The year of pleasure is upon us and the count starts at 171 billion. It’s 2003 and Apple just launched iTunes. Basketball legend Michael Jordan retired. The Concorde made its last commercial flight. Myspace is dominating the Internet. The movie Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King is the highest-grossing film of the…
LILY 2 Discreet Vibrator Review
LILY 2 is a small clitoral vibrator that fits in the palm of your hand while offering a ton of power. Easy to travel with and fits discreetly in your drawer, find out below what reviewers are saying about LILY 2. LELO LILY 2 Review: What a Powerful Bullet! (Updated 2023) “As such as tiny…
Fanning the Flames: 5 Couples’ Exercises to Increase Intimacy & Rekindle Romance
Does it seem like both you and your partner are living such busy, hectic lives, that you can’t remember the last time you talked about something other than picking up milk on your way home, or if they could please remember that the kids have to stay late at school for soccer practice? It happens.…
LILY 3 Clitoral Massager | LELO’s 20th Anniversary Toy
What better way to celebrate 20 years of pleasure than with a new version of the toy that started it all? LILY was the Swedish-designed clitoral massager that put LELO on the map for sleek, beautiful and powerful orgasms. Discover the details of LILY 3 below. What Is LILY 3? LILY 3 is a silent…
28 Ideas To Elevate Your Sex Life During Love Month
Winters are long, dark, and cold. It’s natural to want to bundle up in a blanket, light a few candles, and cuddle with your partner until spring comes back around. However, with love day just around the corner, you might want to dig yourself out of the blanket mountain and experiment with new ways to…
6 Sex Positions for Those with Back Pain
Our bodies, as miraculous as they are, are also complicated. There are so many things that they do for us on a daily basis, but with that comes the possibility of something feeling ‘not right’. In conjunction with treating any ailments, it’s also important to remember that sexuality and sex is a basic need. And…
Autism: Relationships, Sex & Sexuality
It’s true that autistic people face certain challenges when it comes to communicating, learning, behaving, and interacting in social interactions. Not just that, but there are challenges in sex and relationships. Regardless, this is not to say that an autistic person cannot have a fulfilling sex life. Autism, Sex & Sexuality The thing about autism…
Sleeping Bag – An Erotic Story
“Well, the weather is a bit underwhelming, isn’t it?” Boris asked looking at the sky and we both laughed heartily. But our situation didn’t really feel like a laughing matter. We were hiking a mountain range in a tour we planned for fine weather and just for the two of us, a couple of seasoned…
Mr. Electric – An Erotic Story
A small cargo van pulled into my driveway. It had the company name on the side: Mr. Electric in big yellow letters set on top of a bolt of lightning. There was a lingering fear in me whether I had made the right decision. My main intent was to get the outside of the house…
Ms. Davis and Her Date – An Erotic Story
Brandon yanked open the front door of his house on Sherwood Drive before Steve even had a chance to knock. “Yo, dude. Can’t hang out here tonight. Mom’s kicking us out,” Brandon said. “Why? D’you ruin the place?” “No,” he said flatly. He stepped out of the house with his basketball under his arm. Knowing…
Awaken Your Dormant Energy and Boost Your Performance in Bed
The amount of potential in every one of us is mindblowing, and our sexual energy is an integral part of that equation. With some minimal but consistent effort to boost our mojo we can dramatically increase our performance and overall satisfaction in bed. Let’s check some tips that will help you with that. Start With…
Evelin in Administration – An Erotic Story
Shawn’s computer dinged that morning. A new email appeared in his inbox at 8:17. It was a message to All_Employees. Good morning! I wanted to share some great news. Evelin Webber has been named the new Director of the Administration Division. I am thrilled to see her recognized in our organization. Evelin is one of…
How To Get Over Your Ex, This Time for Good
Sometimes, it might be hard to get over your ex. Some people take a few months, while others require years. And if we look at the movie “Love in the Time of Cholera,” sometimes people might spend their whole life hung up on a long-lost lover. You can find a gazillion advice pieces online, from…
Do You Believe in Soulmates? Well, Here’s Why You Shouldn’t
Do you believe in soulmates? You’re not alone if you answered “yes” to that question. According to the Marist poll, even 73% of Americans believe in soulmates. That’s a lot of people who believe in true love, yet the divorce rates are fairly high in developed countries around the world. Doesn’t make much sense now,…
Your Year in Sex! 2023 Sex Horoscope Revealed
So, you want to know what your sex life will look like in 2023? Why guess when the stars can tell you! Of course, you have control to some degree, but it’s undeniable… each zodiac sign has very distinct characteristics. These special characteristics play a big part in who you are, your behaviours, thoughts, relationships,…