On the gray morning after they had chatted at work, Paul passed by Marjorie’s desk oddly cheerful. “Good morning, Marjorie!” he said with a wave. “It’s a great day to have a great day, isn’t it?” His greeting pulled her attention from the spreadsheet of financial disclosures on her computer screen. She was surprised by…
Vibrators are continuously on the rise in popularity in the sex toy market. It turns out electronics are hot in the bedroom, and advanced technology is getting people to come back for more. Whether it’s a rabbit or a Hitachi, vibrators range from $10 to $300, depending on your desires and bank account. If you’re…
For newbies and regular anal players, it’s never a bad idea to be educated and re-educated about safety when it comes to using anal sex toys. In fact, there are safety precautions when it comes to using any kind of sex toy. So while there’s immense sexual bliss to be had with all kinds of…
”Desire doesn’t rush. It simmers slowly over time.” Valérie Tasso, sexologist, writer and LELO Ambassador In a time when sex is widely discussed but often misunderstood, acclaimed author, sexologist, and LELO ambassador in Spain, Valérie Tasso, invites us to rethink everything we know about desire. In partnership with LELO, her new book “Sexual Desire: Everything…
Bachelorette parties began as a way of wresting agency away from the sexism of “stag nights.” If boys get to have a no-holds-barred night of debauchery before the big day, why shouldn’t we? Getting a bunch of your best girlfriends together and celebrating your happiness can make for a truly bonding – and riotous –…
Henry gazes at me from the other side of the small, round table and the other diners at the restaurant seem to fade away. It is as if we are the only two people who exist in our own private, little world. I smile at him playfully as he reaches for my delicate hand and…
The definition of priapism might not be familiar to you right off the bat, but if you’ve ever experienced a four-hour erection, then you’re definitely intimately familiar with what priapism is. While a four-hour erection might sound like a dream and a positive thing, unfortunately, it’s not as pleasant as it sounds. In fact, priapism…
The orange, summer afternoon was too hot to do anything. The air-conditioner in Carey’s apartment couldn’t blast out the heat. It was blowing only warm air. She had her hair in a bun to keep the back of her neck cool. She had taken a cold shower, but its effects didn’t last long. She was…
Meet the new era of self-pleasure: LELO SWITCH, the first-ever dual-ended wand vibrator from LELO designed for those who want more — more power, more control, and more sensation. Unlike traditional wand massagers that limit you to one kind of pleasure, the LELO SWITCH is a full-body multitasker. One end is a classic wand head…
Bobby grabbed the last bottle of bourbon and meandered back to the couch. But he stopped at an odd China cabinet. The old-fashioned piece of furniture was suited for a grandmother’s house, not a young guy’s place. Even stranger, though, were the contents. There were no fragile plates, gravy bowls or prissy tea cups on…
Many people put in careful time and effort to ensure they don’t get pregnant. But for some people, the risk of having a baby is a huge turn-on, and this fetish is more common than you’d think. Just scroll on the breeding fetish Reddit page if you’re in doubt! What is a Breeding Fetish? A…
Just like everyone should have a goodie drawer (or a goodie closet like Samantha Jones from The Sex and The City), everyone should have a list of sexy movies on hand for when they want to have a movie night that gets them going. Whether it’s to make a solo cozy movie at home toasty…
Dawn felt nervous as she sat on the train approaching Wilmslow station. She was beginning to wonder if what she was doing was a good idea after all. She was about to meet, and possibly spend a couple of days with a man she had never met before, though she had been exchanging messages with…
If you’re looking to improve your sex life and enhance your orgasms, you might want to consider a new workout routine. Yeah, you’ve read that right – there are exercises for better sex that can help you take your lovemaking to the next level. We all know that working out is good for our overall…
Welcome to the future of clitoral stimulation—LELO SONA 3 is here, and it’s not just another vibrator. It’s a precision-engineered, app-connected sonic massager that blends cutting-edge SenSonic™ technology with an ultra-soft silicone body and intuitive design. Whether you’re new to pleasure toys or upgrading from a basic bullet, SONA 3 redefines what satisfaction feels like.…
Bipolar disorder is a mental health issue that is estimated to affect nearly 5% of people (approximately 1 in 20) at some point in their lifetime. This disorder is characterized by frequent and extreme shifts in mood and activity in which the individual may swing from periods of severe depression to periods of manic energy. …
Kevin got a lump in his throat when, from across the hills of piled produce at the farmers market, he saw a tall, lovely woman in a flappy-brimmed Havana hat and a flowery sundress. Standing there, she held a cucumber in each hand. She compared the two. The thickness, length, color. She put back the…
Knock, knock, knock. I open the door to find Guy standing there with a dishevelled appearance and a bewildered expression. He’s holding a blown-out umbrella and his hair is dripping wet from the violent downpour. “Come in,” I say, whilst trying not to laugh at his misfortune. “Thanks Lola. I’ve had a really shitty day.” …
Long after the sun had set, Wade locked the door of the field house. Since the course had closed that day, he and his team had sprayed insecticides and applied growth enhancers to the grass. They had seeded trees and laid sod. Following the numerous bad golfers, they had even repaired divots and ball marks.…
Sex toys aren’t just for women. Those with penises can also benefit from self pleasure toys. That’s where strokers come in. What is a stroker? A stoker is a handheld male masturbator designed to enhance solo pleasure. An automatic stroker is one that moves on its own, versus you having to do it manually. Strokers…
For a long time, smoking was glamourized as something sexy. Think grainy boudoir images with pouty red lips puffing away on a cigarette. If that turns you on, you may have what’s called a “smoking fetish”, otherwise known as “capnolagnia”. While smoking has decreased in popularity in recent years thanks to health education, many people…
BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, is a lifestyle that includes a variety of sexual practices such as physical bondage, giving and receiving of pain, dominant and submissive roleplay, and/or other related activities. And in this lifestyle, there are an array of BDSM toys that are used to…
One of the best ways to spice up your sex life is by adding a toy into the mix. That’s certainly true when it comes to cock rings. A cock ring is a ring-shaped device you can wear around the base of the penis to enhance erections and stamina. People use cock rings because they…
For those who are fans of sex tech or just like experiencing a deeper experience of pleasure, you may be intrigued by the idea of an app-controlled vibrator. This revolution in sex-tech has been growing in popularity thanks to their ability to enhance both solo play and partnered intimacy. Smartphones have made so many different…
Technology is rapidly evolving in what seems like every area of our lives. The world of sex tech is no different. We’re seeing revolutionary updates to the most classic of sex toys. Your good old-fashioned vibrator. Well, it’s not so old-fashioned anymore! These days, we’re seeing smart, high-tech vibrators, many of which are controlled through…
In recent years, we’ve seen revolutionary advances in smart sex tech. From classic vibrators to interactive sex toys, these products have evolved to fit modern lifestyles. But switching over from your classic traditional models to app-controlled sex toys can feel daunting at first. You might be thinking “If it’s not broken, then why fix it?”.…
We all appreciate the finer things in life. Sleek, beautiful designs. The highest quality materials. Thoughtful engineering utilizing custom technology developed to maximize user enjoyment. Unlike some other items marketed as part of a lifestyle, luxury sex toys are not just a label, but a guaranteed return on investment. Your orgasms – and your physical…
Who doesn’t love a hot holiday romance? Or a steamy, sexy, vacation? *All hands fly into the air* That’s what we thought. Well luckily there’s now a trusty sidekick you can take with you on all of your *ahem* adventures – and no, we’re not talking about your partner if you have one (although we…
Gerald hop-skipped across Berry Street to the city library. The howling wind whipped his jacket and ruffled his hair. Once on the curb, he checked his wristwatch: 7:52. He had a little time before the library closed for the night. The exterior lights on both sides of the library’s double doors glowed yellow-white in the…
By 2025, the American sex toy market is predicted to be worth over a whopping $11 billion. People are buying toys more than ever, with an estimated 50% of adults owning or having used one, according to the TENGA Self Pleasure Report. The majority of sex toy owners are women, and range in age from…
In an era where technology intertwines with every facet of our lives, understanding its impact on intimacy and sexual wellness is crucial. A recent survey conducted by LELO, a pioneer in intimate lifestyle products, provides invaluable insights into this complex dynamic. This data illuminates how different generations perceive and utilize technology in their personal relationships,…
LELO’s Future of Sex and Love Report 2025 In the follow up to the the Future of Sex and Love Report 2024, LELO paints a picture of a world where technology plays an increasingly significant role in sexual expression, where sexuality is viewed with greater fluidity and acceptance, and where sexual health and well-being are…
Take a moment and imagine a woman using a vibrator. What type of toy do you imagine her using? If you pictured a toy that stimulates the external genitals, you are in line with reality. In an informal survey I did with my Instagram followers, among those who used sex toys, 83% used one that…
They’re the generation that fully integrated gender inclusivity, the concept of active consent during sex, and everyday sex toy use into their lives, and yet Gen Z is done with hook-up culture. More accurately, they never bought into it in the first place, but not for the reasons you might assume. We poured over opinions…
If you’ve invested in a sex toy, deep cleaning after shared use, sanitizing after anal play, or disinfecting toys affter an illness can ensure the longevity of your toy as well as the health of your body. Some cleaning situations require extra care beyond routine washing. This will help address common concerns about bacteria, viruses,…
When it comes to cleaning our sex toys, more isn’t always better. Just because you might use bleach, alcohol, or hydrogen peroxide while cleaning your bathtub or pesky stains, doesn’t mean you should use chemicals on sex toys. These aren’t just objects in your home, they are being inserted into areas of your body, meaning…
“So you think you got skills?” Vinny crossed his arms over his chest and tilted his head. Lurita felt his eyes study her, questioning such a bold statement from a small woman. Though petite in frame with a sharp chin, Lurita bolstered herself. She determined to prove her confidence. “No question about it.” She raised…
Surviving cancer is a major feat. However, cancer treatments like surgery and chemotherapy often lead to physical and psychological changes that can have far-reaching and long-lasting effects on people’s lives, including their intimate lives. For example, it is common for survivors to experience body image issues, problems with sexual function, loss of libido, and other…
You might think that because condoms are a barrier material that their latex material is completely waterproof. That’s understandable, as it would make sense that they can withstand wet and wild scenarios. However, having sex in a water-based environment—for example, a pool, hot tub, or shower—could be pushing your condom to the limit. So, while…
Cleaning might not be something we initially associate with sex or play time, but it is a task that should be priortized after using vibrators, dildos, and anal toys. The reasons for cleaning your toys are because sex toys come into contact with our bodily fluids, and cleaning them is imperative for the safety of…
Cleaning sex toys is an important part of our hygiene but it can also increase the longevity of the toy itself. Toys come in various different materials and cleaning them requires different instructions and cleaning solutions. And when you’ve doused your toy in a silicone-based lubricant, you may need to do some extra scrubbing to…
Marriage rates aren’t what they used to be, and being in a relationship isn’t the priority anymore for many women across the globe. The growing trend of single women is expanding, and the shift is becoming more visible across all ages, cultures, and socioeconomic classes. The many reasons for this include the reevaluation of traditional…
Virtual reality is no longer just the future of gaming—even in its early versions, it’s reshaping various parts of our lives. That includes our sexuality and how we experience pleasure. With the rise of VR sex toys, sex toy users can feel every touch, stroke, and vibration in sync with what they see or hear,…
Bullet vibrators are small, discreet vibes designed primarily for external stimulation of your most intimate areas. While bullets are mostly used on the clit, these little vibes can bring delicious tingles to nipples, inner thighs and other sensitive spots. Bullet vibes are wildly popular and for a good reason. Shaped like–you guessed it–a bullet, this…
Power play, which centers around consensual power exchange between a dominant and submissive partner, is at the heart of BDSM dynamics. Ultimately, a person surrenders control while the other takes it. But what are the best BDSM toys for power play, and how can toys, restraints, and sensory tools enhance D/s dynamics? These devices can…
Sex toys are for everyone, no matter what “equipment” you’re working with. While toys for people with vulvas tend to get the most attention, there are many brands out there that make toys specifically for people with penises –– and many people who want to buy and use them. If you’ve made it here, you’re…
Designed for people with vulvas, a G-spot vibrator is designed to internally stimulate the G-spot, which is an areas made up of sensitive tissue in the vagina. Some people wonder if the existence of the G-spot is a myth, but it’s very real. Many people with vulvas report powerful pleasure from focused G-spot stimulation and…
When it comes to sex toys, there is quite literally something for everyone. For people with vulvas, their general introduction to the world of sex toys is usually a vibrator. But no matter where someone is in their sex toy journey, vibrators stay strong as one of the top picks to explore and expand their…
LELO’s Soraya range represents the pinnacle of luxury in the world of dual-stimulation vibrators. And it shouldn’t come as a surprise, considering LELO is a brand renowned for premium sex toys and award-winning designs, one of the leaders in the luxury vibrator market. Since it was first released, the Soraya lineup has often been lauded…
Anal play is an exciting way to spice up your sex life, and anal toys are a safe and pleasurable ways to explore new sensations in this erogenous zone. Due to the stigma that sitll exists around this form of play, there are many misconceptions around anal toys. Some believe that it will be painful…