Dragons, dark lords, and doomed romances are leaving the pages of books and becoming a powerful catalyst for people’s intimate lives. With steamy “romantasy” sagas climbing bestseller lists, new research* from LELO—coninciding with the World Book Day on April 23rd—reveals how fantasy literature is fundamentally reshaping modern relationships, role-play, and desires. The LELO ‘Fantasy Flames’…
Consensual non-consent, or CNC, is a form of sexual roleplay in which partners stimulate scenarios where consent appears absent. Still, in reality, all elements are negotiated and agreed upon in advance. The foundation of CNC is full trust, a mutual understanding of boundaries, and a clear “stop” system that overrides the roleplay at any moment.…
Many people put in careful time and effort to ensure they don’t get pregnant. But for some people, the risk of having a baby is a huge turn-on, and this fetish is more common than you’d think. Just scroll on the breeding fetish Reddit page if you’re in doubt! What is a Breeding Fetish? A…
For a long time, smoking was glamourized as something sexy. Think grainy boudoir images with pouty red lips puffing away on a cigarette. If that turns you on, you may have what’s called a “smoking fetish”, otherwise known as “capnolagnia”. While smoking has decreased in popularity in recent years thanks to health education, many people…
Most of us have a specific preference when it comes to sexual arousal and being turned on. Whether it’s having a threesome, a spit kink, a foot fetish, or watching porn—we’re so wonderfully unique that the possibilities are endless. But there is a difference between a mere turn on, a kink, or a fetish. So…
Music is a powerful medium. And did you know that it has the ability to reduce anxiety, lower blood pressure, and improve one’s mood, sleep, mental alertness, and memory? It can also take us back to different moments in time, which is a great way to relieve memories. Today however, we’re going to be talking…
When I look down at my feet, I don’t see beauty. I see a wide foot with short, fat, pink toes. Finding the right pair of sandals to wear in summer is always a nightmare. My feet sweat a lot and I can’t do heels. I’ve learned that comfort, beauty and fashion don’t always go…
They say that there are three topics to never talk about in the office – religion, politics, and sex. According to some data, even 71% of people believe that sex is a no-go topic in a professional environment. So, we shouldn’t talk about sex in the office. But how about doing it instead of talking…
Sexual fantasies… the majority of us have one or more. And some of these fantasies are so far removed from reality, making it even more appealing. In fact, some fantasies are ‘a fantasy’ because they’re so unrealistic. For example, in a study by Justin Lehmiller, more than half of those surveyed had fantasised about a…