It never fails to amaze me just how little we know about sex . I’ve written frequently about my frustration at the lack of empirical knowledge about the clitoris compared to the understanding of pretty much all of our other anatomy. Another thing we know little about is the difference, or similarity, between men and…
Tony and Tracy I wore something a little more conservative to work on day 5 of my first week as Company slut. I was still showing plenty of cleavage, and I had on a sexy pair of fuck-me heels, but the dress I chose was not one of the very short ones. It was sexy…
A recent survey showed that around two-thirds of women have faked an orgasm. I suspect the remaining third have faked an answer in a recent survey. That’s not fair, I’m kidding. But it’s safe to say the majority of women have faked an orgasm at some point in their life – or at least given…
Somehow in the tossing of my sleep I manage to face away from him now, only to be woken up slightly by his subconscious movement to spoon my body. In this moment my senses are heightened. The heat being exchanged between our bodies reminds me of our physical dispositions, tall and strong and intertwined within…
Rick Shares Me After my night as Brian’s whore, the third Partner from my law firm who had used me so far in the week, I woke up feeling very satisfied. I had really got off on the hooker thing. I loved the roleplaying and I loved the dress-up. I particularly loved my new blond…
Sleep, glorious sleep! The opportunity to replenish our energy, increase motivation, and to de-stress. And if you thought that having a pleasant dream was the cherry on the cake, you’re sorely mistaken. Sleep orgasms are very real and very very pleasurable. Talk about dreams coming true, am I right? What is a Sleep Orgasm? A…
Our bodies are weird and wonderful things, aren’t they? As wondrous as they are though, we’ve still got some questions and they’re especially about the male body. For instance, what makes you guys scratch your balls so often? Also, what the hell is a foreskin even for in the first place? This leads us to…
Inspired by Ben Wa balls, LUNA Beads Noir are one of our most sleek and sexy product for public play. It’s also one of the most delightfully low tech! Each bead (which sits in a silicone sling) has an inner weighted ball that swirls around as you move. It causes a light sensation that almost…
We’re complex creatures. But we tend to become entirely enigmatic in issues of our sexualities. It seems to me that, even in a healthy relationship, our relationship is confused by a poor understanding and a lack of honesty about our sexualities. We lack awareness of our own sexualities, and that of our partners. We just…
You ever show up to work in a particularly good mood and one of your colleagues says, ‘someone got laid last night…’ Well, new evidence suggests that your sex life has a direct, positive influence on your work life. We all tend to bring our work home with us, so doesn’t it make sense that…
Just as the sex industry, and sex in general, has changed so dramatically over the last decade or two, so have people evolved. The way in which we are meeting, interacting, having sex, and forming relationships is so different today, that we now have the opportunity to have a (sexual) partner without even having met…
Whether you’ve planned your NYE a month in advance or just exhausted from the anticipation of the holidays, you’re going to ring in the New Year, whether it be with a quick “woo” from your bed or a drunken makeout on the dancefloor of a club. Anyone who’s been around the block knows what a…
Why would a new year mean a new you if the current you is already awesome?! Instead of focusing on all the things we want to change about ourselves (we know, change is great!), let’s take a minute to reflect on all the things we’ve loved and learned from this past year. Part of moving…
My lovely lady licks her lips; Ten gifts lie at her fingertips. Come unwrap your presents, here’s your chair. She smooths her skirt; I touch her hair. Gift 1 is hard and shaped like me. Toy 2 vibrates. So does 3 . The fourth ’s a blindfold wrapped in twine. I place it…
I was having a hard time fulfilling my role as the company Santa. I managed to pass out all of the presents, but the whole time I was thinking about her. Those legs had me drooling to run my hands up them and that shade of red lipstick that matched her dress had me imagining…
If you’re a woman, the chances that you’ve either made out, hooked up, or watched lesbian porn are very high. If you’re a man, well, the chances that you’ve ogled over two women making out or have watched lesbian porn are too, very high. And why is it that two (straight) ladies being sexual is…
“I found a great way to use our leftover wrapping paper.” Lucy’s voice filters in from the living room as Theresa finishes removing her boots, hat, scarf, gloves, and coat. “Oh, yeah?” Theresa says, stepping into the living room. “And what’s th—” Words leave her when she sees Lucy on her knees on the living…
There are plenty of contraception options available for those who are able to become pregnant, but you know what they say about the best laid plans! Things rarely work 100% to plan when it comes to getting laid. Thankfully, whether your barrier contraception has failed or otherwise, there is emergency contraception available in many parts…
Fans and owners of vaginas alike (and those who fall into both categories) may argue about which slang terms for this part of this body are sexy vs offensive, but we are here to get technical. We want to take a deep dive (ha!) into the question ‘what is a vagina?’ and more specifically, is…
Dating used to be really hard. REALLY hard. It involved, like, talking to people and networking. You either had to be so magnetically attractive that potential partners would just gravitate towards you, so charming that you could talk the beak off a duck, marry someone you went to school with, or someone you met through…
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
“Who’s there?” Jill replied. “Room service,” came the reply, almost automatic, muted slightly by the weight of the closed door. Jill rose from the bed and stood, curling her toes for a moment in the thick weave of the carpet and casually walked over to the door. She opened it with a smile, and enjoyed…
Winter weather brings us steamier sex? New research suggests that men have a higher sex drive during winter months. Now we can stop complaining about the cold and start reaping its benefits. In a recent study published in The Psychology of Human Sexuality, 114 men rated their perceived attractiveness of two sets of photos –…
They say it’s lonely at the top. When it comes to sex I’d disagree; it’s not lonely, but it can be dark. It can be complex, challenging and conflicted. There’s a lot of literature out there about the phenomenon known in BDSM circles as ‘subspace’, which is a kind of euphoric mental and physical state…
Let’s face it – just because it’s the holidays doesn’t mean that the super sweet carnal desire for some intimate one-on-one time with your partner (or, you know, the person from high school you only see once a year) suddenly goes by the wayside. In fact, with all the stress that the holidays bring, and…
If you’re having trouble connecting your F1s device to the LELO F1s app, we’re here to help. Follow these simple steps for connectivity: Download the “LELO F1s” app and make sure your phone’s bluetooth is enabled. Make sure it is charged until a steady glow (we recommend a 2 hour charge before use). Make sure…
Welcome to the wonderful world of threesomes… a sexual experience that is so incredibly diverse, and enjoyed by people of all walks of life. Whether you’re heterosexual, homosexual, trans, male, female, poly, black, white, or blue, a threesome can be a thrilling bout of pleasure comprised of a number of different positions, erotic acts, and…
Did you know that the word ‘honeymoon’ actually holds a negative connotation? In short, the word represents the moon which is ever-changing. It basically suggests that newly weds will experience bliss after their wedding, but just like the moon, their relationship will inevitably change. And this is true of new relationships too. When you start…
Have you ever felt just a little bit different when it comes to how you feel desire for other people? While gender, sexuality and desire will never feel exactly the same for any two people, some of the common cultural narratives we have exist because, well, they’re common. But, those ‘common’ experiences of love and…
Brian’s Whore I had on the perfect outfit to be Brian’s whore tonight, my third scheduled Partner of the week. The previous night I had been gangbanged by Ted and his clan. Earlier today I had enjoyed the most wonderful lesbian experience of my life with Diana. When I returned to the office Rick had…
Are you and your partner a pair of erotic auteurs? In this day and age, when we all have the equivalent of a hi-def camera in our pockets, there seems to be no better and easier time than now, no? With the right person — and ALWAYS with their knowledge and consent — making a…
It’s inevitable… the honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. So, whether you’ve been dating for six months, or married for sixty years, those endorphin-fuelled romping sessions you enjoyed with your partner when you first started dating will never quite feel the same again. But that isn’t a bad thing! When you start feeling comfortable with your…
Whether you’re getting it regularly, not at all – or hey, maybe too often – sex is still an often bewildering subject for many people. Sure, you may know the mechanics of it, not to mention the etiquette involved in sex, but chances are there is a thing or two that you’ve heard that might…
Whether you’re single AF , looking for a play partner, getting serious in a relationship, about to tie the knot, or happily married, you’ll find something interesting in this little research project we underwent here at LELO. This survey was done on a global scale in such a way that it shows how love evolves…
We’re celebrating 24 Days of X-Rated Holidays with LELO’S NAUGHTY HOLIDAYS. Tune in to our Instagram (@lelo_official) each day to see what steamy surprises await the sexiest challenge of the year. The 24 Days of LELO’S NAUGHTY HOLIDAYS are all about remembering to take care of ourselves and be in the best mood for this…
While more than one straight male has lamented that they’re competing with ‘batteries’ when it comes to women they’re interested in. But, in a game of orgasms, are there really any losing sides? Still, it can get in our heads, and coupled with a lack of information about masturbation in general, plenty of sex toy…
Let’s not beat around the bush… using condoms is not exactly the most favourable thing in the world. Millions of people worldwide find that using a condom can reduce sensation , and is just, well, a drag. So, instead of bashing this magical invention, let’s celebrate it by taking a look at LELO’s HEX condoms…
She stuck her thumbs up. Both of them. For such small hands they suddenly seemed to be huge. Ah, the bum’s rush. Nothing like it. What he’d noticed first was her hair. Thick. Full-back length. Brown as her eyes. Except her eyes were blue. Shocking, bright aquamarine blue. That’s what you noticed first, if you…
A Lesbian Encounter I woke up Wednesday morning feeling a bit sore from the previous night’s gangbang. I had accommodated 11 men. What had transpired in only my second night of use by one of the Partners had been totally unexpected – a forced gangbang. When I first realised what was happening, I was shocked.…
A whirlwind romance definitely comes with its perks. A no-strings-attached confidence boost that sends you springing down the street with a big, fat smile on your face? Yeah, that does sound like a treat, doesn’t it? But life doesn’t always go the way you planned… What happens when the whole ‘casual dating’ thing appears to…
They say you can never have too much of a good thing, and G-spot massagers like GIGI 2 tend to make us agree! Here’s a deeper look at exactly what makes GIGI 2 so good at giving G-spot orgasms! Its history doesn’t hurt! Since it was first released, the original GIGI has enjoyed unprecedented success,…
Rather than counting how many sleeps until Christmas, we prefer to count all the ways to bring some seasonally-appropriate sexiness to those longer winter nights, so here’s a naughty list of ways to get freaky and festive at the very same time (santa hats are optional but strongly encouraged). Make sure that stocking gets stuffed!…
December 1st marks World AIDS Day, and while many people don’t think they relate to this holiday, it’s a day we should all be celebrating– whether that be celebrating our friends living with AIDS or celebrating the long way science has come in educating us about this disease. A lot has changed, but that doesn’t…
Very soon after its publication in 2011, ’50 Shades’ became a dirty word in the adult and kink communities and industries. We quickly learned to hate it. Not necessarily the book, but the fact that we had all become Christian Grey’s submissives over night. We just couldn’t escape it. I was at an erotic poetry…
What is Cyber Monday? The stuffing has been stuffed in our bellies, we’ve gone around the table saying what we’re thankful for, and unless you’ve been cryogenically frozen for the past decade and a half, you’ve probably at least heard of Cyber Monday. Basically, it’s the online equivalent of Black Friday – a day for…
As the weather outside gets colder, the inside of your bedroom should, naturally, start getting hotter. Winter might be the best season for snuggling under a warm blanket but that’s not exactly what LELO has in mind with their 2nd Annual Naughty Holidays competition. We received so many amazing submissions last year and we’re excited…
As we’ve covered so extensively here before, sex and pleasure are very beneficial to your mental as well as your physical wellbeing . Sex, with its rush of endorphins and other happy brain chemicals – not to mention the exercise you get – is a great way to relieve stress. And it’s true, sex can…
LELO is embracing the holiday spirit by offering a very kinky advent calendar which unlocks new deals each day. So now’s the question – will you join us on the naughty list this year? While that limited-edition paperweight or flashy broach may catch your eye, what will make your partner really quiver is a gift…
For thousands of years, people have searched for edible items to guarantee peak sexual performance and pleasure. Ancient Romans swore by hippo snouts, while even now, tiger penis is thought to be a libido booster in China. Luckily for you (and these animals), there are healthier and more palatable foods that give you longer-lasting results…
My First Gangbang As I was travelling into the office on Tuesday morning, dressed in a very sexy outfit, my mind wandered back to the day before, my first official day as Company slut. Could it have been more perfect! I blew my boss Rick in his office, I got my new slutplug, I gave…