With a variety of product types, stimulation preferences, quality levels and prices, choosing your next sex toy requires some considerations – and for good measure. Investing in a sex toy is an investment in your own intimacy which is unique to every individual. Scroll through the frequently asked questions below to find what things matter…
Sexual wellness is an integral part of being human. That people deserve pleasure, connection, and all the other incredible things that come with sexuality. While sex toys are incredible for pleasure, they offer immense value outside of that as well. You can also use sex toys as tools for healing. Your sexual health is not…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram A growing number of people appear to be exploring what sex toys can do for their intimate lives. Data from representative US surveys find that most women and nearly half of men have…
Truthfully, there are a few ways you could answer this question. And that’s because in some cases, there’s a clear distinction between sex therapy and marriage counseling. However, in many situations, these two modalities are like songs that have found their way into a bangin’ mashup. Let’s first take a closer look at each specialty:…
What Is F2S? LELO’s F2S is an upgrade from their orignal F1S male masturbator – now featuring an open-ended design and upgraded silicone sleeve for limitless stroking. It can be used with 8 preset vibration patterns or connected to the LELO app for a customizable control dashboard. App connection also unlocks 6 additional vibration patterns.…
Some say that the best things in life are free: a sunny day, a child’s laughter, a friend’s love. But we’d like to add that the best things in life are free and for everyone. Pleasure is one of them. It doesn’t matter if you are young or old, healthy or sick, beautiful or ugly,…
Do you know you want a sex toy but have no idea about features or prices? We recommend the best way to reach orgasms within your financial means. Factors That Influence Sex Toy Pricing You can likely find your ideal erotic toy in any price range by first understanding the reasons that affect pricing. Material…
When it comes to sex toys, one of the most important yet often underestimated choices is the power source. Should you go for a sleek rechargeable toy or opt for the simplicity of battery-operated ones? Each has its perks, but understanding the differences can help you pick the best fit for your pleasure routine: a…
Finding the perfect sex toy is all about understanding your body’s unique preferences. Some people are craving for the gentlest caresses, while others are looking for deeper, more powerful vibrations. Whether you’re looking for a soft touch or an intense thrill, choosing the right sex toy, tailored-made to your specific sensitivity level can make a…
When shopping for a sex toy, there’s more to consider than just aesthetics. The right combination of vibration, size, and shape can make all the difference in your pleasure experience. Whether you’re a beginner exploring your options or an experienced user looking for something new, understanding these three key factors will help you make the…
What if we told you there was a workout routine that could vastly improve not only your health, but your sexual performance? And what if we told you that it would take just a few minutes and could be done anywhere? Male Kegels are the best-kept secret of a men’s sexual health. What Is a…
Using a sex toy is probably one of the most intimate acts there is. And it’s perfectly legitimate to ask yourself many questions before buying one. Before inserting, placing or playing with a sex toy on your anatomy, you need to be sure of your choice: are the materials used safe? Won’t the intensity of…
When selecting a sex toy, material matters. The texture, durability, and safety of your toy all depend on the materials used. Choosing the right one ensures not only a pleasurable experience but also a safe and hygienic one. With this guide, you’ll discover the benefits, drawbacks and safety considerations of all materials. It will walk…
Sexual endurance is not just a given trait; it’s a skill that can be honed like any other. That is why the LELO F2S™ stamina trainer is designed for men who want to take control of their intimate experiences, building endurance for longer-lasting and more satisfying moments. With an open-ended liquid silicone design and seamless…
When it comes to sexual performance and overall well-being, strong pelvic floor muscles play a crucial role. LELO™ app also offers guided Kegel exercise routines (alongside the F2S™ endurance trainer) to help men enhance control, improve erectile function, and experience more intense orgasms. Kegel exercises involve contracting and relaxing the pelvic floor muscles, which support…
LELO recently launched a new feature in their app – the ability to connect devices into a private chatroom and have partners control them. Whether you’re away from your lover or want to play safely with a stranger, Love Bridge supports better connections that spice up your sex life. The Love Bridge feature is available…
In recent years, the discussion of female pleasure has made its way to the forefront (rightfully so), but we can’t exactly say the same for male pleasure. While we’ve done the work to ensure female pleasure is a liberating celebration, why do we still view male pleasure as a dirty secret? While talking about sex…
Dating always has its quirks, but there’s even more of them if you’re a demisexual – or dating one. We’re here to tell you everything you need to know about dating a demisexual, but first, let’s cover the basics. What is demisexuality? Demisexuality is the idea that the connection between two (or more) people is…
The “bump into” always leads to the backslide. Seinfeld Exiting the supermarket that late afternoon, the double doors automatically whooshed wide for Vernon, and exactly then he knew he wasn’t alone. He held a brown bag with two bottles of wine, clinking, nestled in his arm like precious babies. Two fingers on his hand held…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram Depression is one of the most common mental health issues facing adults today. At any given point in time, nearly 1 in 5 adults suffer from some form of depression, with 11.5% experiencing…
Previous Story: Lover Under Her Moon, Part 1 Marissa appeared from under the bed sheet, directly aligned with Sadie’s sweet navel. She looked like an overworked nun. Her cheeks and forehead were reddened, overheated, as if having just run a marathon. Her lips were puffy, and her face was slathered with wet pleasure of Sadie’s…
Loading the Elevenlabs Text to Speech AudioNative Player… This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram OCD is a term that people often use casually. For instance, those who consider themselves to be “germaphobes” or “neat freaks” may describe themselves as…
Whether it’s the prequel to sex or your main event, making out feels incredible. But besides it feeling great, “French kissing” is also good for your health (side note: did you know that there wasn’t a French word for “French kissing” until recently? More on that). Back to kissing being good for you – here…
Generational differences always pique interest and that has been even more true since millennials and Gen Z took the stage. These two generations that hardly (or not at all) know the analogue world, show how much, or little for that matter, has changed since the internet made its appearance. So, how much have the preferences…
This article describes a sexual position known as “Titty Fucking” (also referred to as “La Spagnola” in other languages), which involves stimulating a man by placing his penis between a partner’s breasts. Discover the name’s origins, different ways to perform the position, and tips to enhance the experience. What Is “Titty Fucking”? This position involves…
The Suzhou Women’s Leadership Conference is an annual event that gathers outstanding female entrepreneurs and business leaders to discuss women in the workplace. The 2024 conference focused on how women can thrive in the digital age, specifically with the ever-growing presence of AI. LELO sponsored the event to show support for women in the industry…
So, everything’s moving along with the woman in your life. You’ve been together for a long time, and you know each other better than anyone else. You get how she deals with emotional issues, stress, illness, injury. And you know how to provide comfort to her during hard times. And then, out of the blue…something…
While the colder seasons ahead might be squandering your opportunity to explore sex outdoors when you have a craving to try something new with your partner, it doesn’t mean you can’t get creative with your sex locations. A simple yet creative change in perception can provide a much-needed change in sexual scenery. No travel neccessery.…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram Depression is one of the most common mood disorders. It’s estimated that 16% of the population will experience it during their lifetime, and it can have wide-ranging effects on people’s lives, including their…
Previous Chapter: Her Only Fan, Pt. 2 Danni and Anna relaxed one evening on Danni’s couch, sipping, of all things, champagne. Danni was grinning. She watched Anna watch the tiny bubbles rise in the narrow flute. “What’s all this for?” Anna asked, still mesmerized. “You’re not one for popping open the ‘bubbly.’” Danni’s chest fluttered…
Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy are often used interchangeably, but they are not the same thing. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is an umbrella term for any type of relationship structure that leaves room for being romantically or sexually intimate with more than one person at a time. That can mean a lot of different things: Solo poly…
Even the best of relationships take work, but having the right tools makes it that much easier – and more rewarding. Couples therapy is one of the most valuable tools for working on relationships. There can be a lot of stigma around couples therapy and therapy in general that can keep people from seeking it out…
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This review was submitted anonymously by one of our readers, Mrs. Holly Wood. As the years pass, I try my best to invest in gifts that are useful – which is why I decided to order myself the naughty little gift of the LELO LILY 3 Vibrator this Christmas. I’ve been eyeballing some bullet vibrators…
Your sex life is a place where you can explore, get creative, and be playful in the pursuit of new levels of pleasure. For those who like to literally switch things up, role-playing can be an incredibly hot way to spice up your sex life. One survey in the U.S. found that up to 22%…
Sex is a natural, involuntary drive in most humans, so we usually don’t think we have to do anything about it. There’s a stimulus – a thought, a visual, or even a scent (the ones we can’t detect, like pheromones, and the ones we can, like perfume) – and then poof, here comes the horny.…
Read previous: Employee Investigation – An Erotic Story Being a Real Estate agent, my clients willingly grant me access to their personal space while they are away. Nevertheless, homeowners often clean up and stow away private items far under beds and deep into closets. Oftentimes—for the sake of good stewardship only!—I happen to peruse under…
Selecting the right sex toy can be overwhelming when it comes to navigating the many different kinds that exist. That’s why we created a sex toy quiz to help you narrow down your preferences and give recommendations. To access the free quiz, click here: SEX TOY QUIZ The full list of questions is listed below,…
Edging is a super versatile and sexy sexual practice, whether you’re in a relationship or flying solo. And one way to make it even better is with the help of sex toys. Edging is the sexual practice of intentionally delaying your orgasm, according to The International Society for Sexual Medicine (ISSM). When you edge, you…
People have likely been having oral sex for about as long as humans have existed, but its modern popularity is arose in the 1970s. The first traces of historical evidence we have about oral sex come from ancient Egypt. Egyptians were such fans of fellatio that they documented it in their art. Some records on…
When someone asks me to recommend an erotic toy, I always ask this question: minimalist or maximalist? And I’m not referring to the design, but rather the type of stimulation. There are options I call “minimalist,” designed to stimulate one pleasure zone at a time (like external massagers for the clitoris or dildos for the…
The first ring of her phone didn’t jar Anna’s attention from the drama unfolding a few feet from her on the wide-screen TV. At the second ring, she mindlessly picked up the small phone and drooled out a hello. “Hi, Anna, it’s me,” Danni said. “Something’s up.” “Okay.” Anna winced as two men exchanged punches…
Have you tried masturbating together with your partner? While many only consider self-pleasure as a solo adventure, mutual masturbation is a fairly common sexual practice amongst couples. Even 50% of couples engage in mutual masturbation, and for a good reason – those couples who engage in mutual masturbation report better sexual satisfaction than those who…
A lot of things can come out of the human body when you’re aroused – discharge, ejaculation, and sometimes, even pee. If you pee when you orgasm, you’re not alone. An estimated 60% of women experience incontinence or leakage during sex, either occasionally or consistently. Peeing when you orgasm just comes down to biology. Why…
You know what’s universal? As in, common to literally everyone? Well, when it comes to our sexuality, the answer is: absolutely nothing. That said, there are 3 things all of us can do – at any time – that will improve our sex lives. #1: Address Your Stress If you thought I was going to…
There are over 37 million single households in the United States, the highest number in history, and of those, Pew Research Center found that single Americans are split 50/50 between “looking” and “not looking” for a committed relationship. Some choose not to seek out romantic relationships whatsoever, while others are willing to stay single until they…
“Why would a woman do this?” Paul growled as he flung himself onto the center sofa cushion, making its springs eek. “She said the filthiest things! And then she leaves no way to get a hold of her? That’s torture! It’s insane.” “Then maybe you don’t want to find her—if she’s insane, that is,” Ricky…
Sex afterglow can refer to that initial blush and rosiness that people get after they have an orgasm. Sex afterglow can also mean the general idea that having more sex, whether it’s by yourself or with a partner, can give you better skin. Is It Real? Yes, having sex and masturbating may help improve your…
An estimated 50% of people with penises between the ages of 40-70 have erectile dysfunction (ED). The prevalence may be even higher as many people don’t seek help out of shame, embarrassment, or lack of access to medical care. Erectile dysfunction can not only impact someone’s sex life, but also their self-confidence, relationships, and overall…
If you’ve never used an arousal gel before, you’re probably wondering – how does arousal gel work, and what does it do? You can find arousal serums at every sexual wellness shop, and yet not many people consider arousal serums to be an essential part of their sexual routines. There is a lot of mystery…