Coming from someone who has been working in the massage business for years, let’s first get one thing straight: any good massage therapist has one thing on top of his or her list of professional ethics, and that is to avoid any exchange of sexual energy with their clients. So, if you go to a…
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Public blowjob locations that will blow his mind!
Humankind won some kind of lottery when we discovered the blowjob. Like seriously, what is better than one? Sure, we can give you so many tips on how to make blowjobs better, but are they really upping the pleasures all that much? After you’ve gone through all of the ways to give a mind-blowing blowjob,…
Strap in! A Strap-on Dildo Beginner’s Guide
In the annals of sex toys, the humble strap-on can be considered a truly populist pleasure item: anyone can use one, and anyone can have one used on them, be they male, female or identifying as otherwise. However, for one reason or another, the strap-on isn’t as prevalent as it could be. Like for instance;…
Things I’d Tell a Younger Me About Sex & Romance
I’m 35 years old and I work in the creative industry. What I mean to say is that on any given day, I am usually the oldest person in the room; I share office space and work very closely with people 15 years my junior and it definitely makes me feel my age to hear…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 15 – An Erotic Story
My Parents In Law I had entered into a torrid sexual affair with my father in law. He fucked me whenever he got the chance. He made sure that was very regularly. Some weeks it was daily. He would often ring me in the office and ask me to meet him at his car parking…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 14 – An Erotic Story
My Father In Law I was sitting at my desk one Wednesday morning, only a few weeks after the incident with Nathan, when my boss Rick called me into his office. ‘I have a visitor coming in shortly and I would like you to use your charms on him, if you know what I mean’,…
Your Sexiest Summer Getaways
While we all love the return of warmer weather to our own city, the real excitement of the summer season is the endless possibility for travel. New sights, new sounds, exotic foods and cultures…and of course, the opportunity for a sexy summer fling. We’ve put together a list of amazing locations around the world for…
Why Do Women Fake Their Orgasms? The Facts & Figures
If you’re a woman, you may very well have clicked on this article because you yourself have faked an orgasm and you’re curious as to why other women do it. Or perhaps you’re a gentleman reader who has had the sneaking suspicion that you’ve been ‘faked on’? It happens… kind of a lot! And there…
Feeling Great, One Orgasm At A Time—Tova Leigh
Out of the way everyone, I have a date with my new favourite toy— the Soraya 2 by Lelo. It’s easily the best rabbit vibrator I’ve ever used and here’s why. First of all, let’s start by saying that I personally think women’s self love and pleasure should be part of a daily routine, just…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 13 – An Erotic Story
My Descent Week 1 had been planned and timetabled by my boss Rick. I had been used every night by a different Partner at the legal firm and gone through some wild experiences, from being gangbanged, whored out, pissing in front of a group of men, to exploring my lesbian side. I had loved every…
Sexting Do’s & Don’ts (With Examples)
Isn’t technology great? Nowadays, not only can we be completely nude with people thousands of miles away (we’re talking about skype sex , of course), we can also send steamy messages to each other any time we want. According to our data, as many as 71% of women have taken part in the joys of…
3 Ways To Spot If A New Partner Will Cheat
The early stages of a new relationship are a fizzy, roiling broth of confusing feelings. One of them that commonly bubbles to the surface is doubt . Amongst the excitement, lust, longing, and all the other positive sensations of a burgeoning relationship, there’s also sometimes an expectation that we will be cheated on, and that…
Divine Female – Have Men Always Been Religious Deities?
“God is a Woman” sang Arianna Grande with her remarkable single in 2018. Her attempt to tap into the history of a female God brought about some borderline blasphemy by religious communities, along with some interesting questions. From the boardroom to the sports field, women are laying claim to their inborn privilege. And yet, there’s…
Does a High Sex Drive Equal a Sex Addiction?
There’s no doubt that some people suffer because of their sexual behaviour, and that they have sex in ways that are unhealthy and harmful to them or their friends and family (like spending all their income on sex workers, getting fired from their jobs for masturbating, or continually cheating on partners they promised monogamy to).…
The Soraya 2 Gave Me My First G-Spot Orgasm, and This is How it Went Down
I’m the type of girl who is all about clitoral stimulation that leads to an orgasm. And while I’ve bought plenty of dildos and vibrators in the past in hopes of reaching climax via penetration, I’ve had no such luck. Needless to say, I’m a bit of a tough cookie, and have only really reached…
Don’t Be Late For… – An Erotic Story
Paul had been spending the day working on their old wooden boat. The big storm was now over and he had to repair the deck, fix the winches and the ropes, aiming to sail with Zoe once winter is over. Holding the ropes on the rolling boat brought him memories of how naughty Zoe was…
The Soraya 2 Gave Me My First G-Spot Orgasm, and This is How it Went Down
I’m the type of girl who is all about clitoral stimulation that leads to an orgasm. And while I’ve bought plenty of dildos and vibrators in the past in hopes of reaching climax via penetration, I’ve had no such luck. Needless to say, I’m a bit of a tough cookie, and have only really reached…
Does a High Sex Drive Equal a Sex Addiction?
There’s no doubt that some people suffer because of their sexual behaviour, and that they have sex in ways that are unhealthy and harmful to them or their friends and family (like spending all their income on sex workers, getting fired from their jobs for masturbating, or continually cheating on partners they promised monogamy to).…
Divine Female – Have Men Always Been Religious Deities?
“God is a Woman” sang Arianna Grande with her remarkable single in 2018. Her attempt to tap into the history of a female God brought about some borderline blasphemy by religious communities, along with some interesting questions. From the boardroom to the sports field, women are laying claim to their inborn privilege. And yet, there’s…
Review Roundup: SORAYA 2 Rabbit Vibrator
Are my dual stimulation queens ready for the newest LELO rabbit vibe? The SORAYA 2 is here with some awesome updates, including 4 additional stimulation settings, a thicker sculpted tip for more G-spot accuracy, and softer silicone for increased comfort. This toy was designed to explore the different types of orgasms the female body was…
Sex And Astrology, What’s Your Zodiac Pleasure Maker?
Working for a sexual wellness company sometimes has its perks. For example, you get to spend a couple of hours consulting astrology websites and researching personality traits of the signs of the zodiac . Whether you believe in this, or not, it’s a fun way to present the products and judge if a certain toy…
Sex And Astrology, What’s Your Zodiac Sex Toy?
Working for a sexual wellness company sometimes has its perks. For example, you get to spend a couple of hours consulting astrology websites and researching personality traits of the signs of the zodiac. Whether you believe in this, or not, it’s a fun way to present the products and judge if a certain toy is…
Divine Female – Have Men Always Been Religious Deities?
“God is a Woman” sang Arianna Grande with her remarkable single in 2018. Her attempt to tap into the history of a female God brought about some borderline blasphemy by religious communities, along with some interesting questions. From the boardroom to the sports field, women are laying claim to their inborn privilege. And yet, there’s…
What’s The Difference Between Male & Female Orgasms?
It never fails to amaze me just how little we know about sex . I’ve written frequently about my frustration at the lack of empirical knowledge about the clitoris compared to the understanding of pretty much all of our other anatomy. Another thing we know little about is the difference, or similarity, between men and…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 12 – An Erotic Story
Tony and Tracy I wore something a little more conservative to work on day 5 of my first week as Company slut. I was still showing plenty of cleavage, and I had on a sexy pair of fuck-me heels, but the dress I chose was not one of the very short ones. It was sexy…
The Science Of Faking Orgasms
A recent survey showed that around two-thirds of women have faked an orgasm. I suspect the remaining third have faked an answer in a recent survey. That’s not fair, I’m kidding. But it’s safe to say the majority of women have faked an orgasm at some point in their life – or at least given…
No Words – An Erotic Story
Somehow in the tossing of my sleep I manage to face away from him now, only to be woken up slightly by his subconscious movement to spoon my body. In this moment my senses are heightened. The heat being exchanged between our bodies reminds me of our physical dispositions, tall and strong and intertwined within…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 11 – An Erotic Story
Rick Shares Me After my night as Brian’s whore, the third Partner from my law firm who had used me so far in the week, I woke up feeling very satisfied. I had really got off on the hooker thing. I loved the roleplaying and I loved the dress-up. I particularly loved my new blond…
Sweet Dreams are Made of This! Sleep Orgasms, Explained
Sleep, glorious sleep! The opportunity to replenish our energy, increase motivation, and to de-stress. And if you thought that having a pleasant dream was the cherry on the cake, you’re sorely mistaken. Sleep orgasms are very real and very very pleasurable. Talk about dreams coming true, am I right? What is a Sleep Orgasm? A…
Sperm Facts You Probably Didn’t Know
Our bodies are weird and wonderful things, aren’t they? As wondrous as they are though, we’ve still got some questions and they’re especially about the male body. For instance, what makes you guys scratch your balls so often? Also, what the hell is a foreskin even for in the first place? This leads us to…
Review Roundup: LUNA Beads Noir
Inspired by Ben Wa balls, LUNA Beads Noir are one of our most sleek and sexy product for public play. It’s also one of the most delightfully low tech! Each bead (which sits in a silicone sling) has an inner weighted ball that swirls around as you move. It causes a light sensation that almost…
Eight Things That Ruin Our Sex Lives
We’re complex creatures. But we tend to become entirely enigmatic in issues of our sexualities. It seems to me that, even in a healthy relationship, our relationship is confused by a poor understanding and a lack of honesty about our sexualities. We lack awareness of our own sexualities, and that of our partners. We just…
Afterglow: The Spillover Effects of Sex On Your Job
You ever show up to work in a particularly good mood and one of your colleagues says, ‘someone got laid last night…’ Well, new evidence suggests that your sex life has a direct, positive influence on your work life. We all tend to bring our work home with us, so doesn’t it make sense that…
Where and How to Find a Partner for Cyber Sex
Just as the sex industry, and sex in general, has changed so dramatically over the last decade or two, so have people evolved. The way in which we are meeting, interacting, having sex, and forming relationships is so different today, that we now have the opportunity to have a (sexual) partner without even having met…
How to Have a Sexy New Year’s Eve that Doesn’t Suck
Whether you’ve planned your NYE a month in advance or just exhausted from the anticipation of the holidays, you’re going to ring in the New Year, whether it be with a quick “woo” from your bed or a drunken makeout on the dancefloor of a club. Anyone who’s been around the block knows what a…
Fappy New Year from the LELO Team!
Why would a new year mean a new you if the current you is already awesome?! Instead of focusing on all the things we want to change about ourselves (we know, change is great!), let’s take a minute to reflect on all the things we’ve loved and learned from this past year. Part of moving…
Making a List – First Place Story
My lovely lady licks her lips; Ten gifts lie at her fingertips. Come unwrap your presents, here’s your chair. She smooths her skirt; I touch her hair. Gift 1 is hard and shaped like me. Toy 2 vibrates. So does 3 . The fourth ’s a blindfold wrapped in twine. I place it…
Santa Comes Early – Second Place Story
I was having a hard time fulfilling my role as the company Santa. I managed to pass out all of the presents, but the whole time I was thinking about her. Those legs had me drooling to run my hands up them and that shade of red lipstick that matched her dress had me imagining…
A How-To Guide to Scissoring, and Other Lesbian Sex Secrets
If you’re a woman, the chances that you’ve either made out, hooked up, or watched lesbian porn are very high. If you’re a man, well, the chances that you’ve ogled over two women making out or have watched lesbian porn are too, very high. And why is it that two (straight) ladies being sexual is…
Christmas Wrapping – Third Place Story
“I found a great way to use our leftover wrapping paper.” Lucy’s voice filters in from the living room as Theresa finishes removing her boots, hat, scarf, gloves, and coat. “Oh, yeah?” Theresa says, stepping into the living room. “And what’s th—” Words leave her when she sees Lucy on her knees on the living…
What You Need to Know About the Morning After Pill
There are plenty of contraception options available for those who are able to become pregnant, but you know what they say about the best laid plans! Things rarely work 100% to plan when it comes to getting laid. Thankfully, whether your barrier contraception has failed or otherwise, there is emergency contraception available in many parts…
Vagina vs Vulva: What’s the Difference?
Fans and owners of vaginas alike (and those who fall into both categories) may argue about which slang terms for this part of this body are sexy vs offensive, but we are here to get technical. We want to take a deep dive (ha!) into the question ‘what is a vagina?’ and more specifically, is…
Tinder: Is It About Love, Or Lust?
Dating used to be really hard. REALLY hard. It involved, like, talking to people and networking. You either had to be so magnetically attractive that potential partners would just gravitate towards you, so charming that you could talk the beak off a duck, marry someone you went to school with, or someone you met through…
Dip Your Toes Into the History of the Foot Fetish
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
New Years Fun – An Erotic Story
“Who’s there?” Jill replied. “Room service,” came the reply, almost automatic, muted slightly by the weight of the closed door. Jill rose from the bed and stood, curling her toes for a moment in the thick weave of the carpet and casually walked over to the door. She opened it with a smile, and enjoyed…
Men Want More Sex in Winter, Says Science
Winter weather brings us steamier sex? New research suggests that men have a higher sex drive during winter months. Now we can stop complaining about the cold and start reaping its benefits. In a recent study published in The Psychology of Human Sexuality, 114 men rated their perceived attractiveness of two sets of photos –…
Dip Your Toes Into the History of the Foot Fetish
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
Dip Your Toes Into the History of the Foot Fetish
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
Tinder: Is It About Love, Or Lust?
Dating used to be really hard. REALLY hard. It involved, like, talking to people and networking. You either had to be so magnetically attractive that potential partners would just gravitate towards you, so charming that you could talk the beak off a duck, marry someone you went to school with, or someone you met through…
Vagina vs Vulva: What’s the Difference?
Fans and owners of vaginas alike (and those who fall into both categories) may argue about which slang terms for this part of this body are sexy vs offensive, but we are here to get technical. We want to take a deep dive (ha!) into the question ‘what is a vagina?’ and more specifically, is…