Every period of life brings its own challenges but it also opens up the opportunity for joyful and healthy sexlife. Understanding your body, sexual identity, and your ever changing needs in each stage of life paves the way towards a sexual fulfillment and harmonious relationship with your partner(s). The sexual spring of late childhood and…
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7 WORST SEX POSITIONS FOR WOMEN AND WHY THEY DON’T LIKE IT
There are hundreds of sex positions; so many options that you can experiment with a new one every day for an entire year. In addition to the classic positions, a lot of lovers are practicing positions that women do not particularly enjoy. But what are these positions? And why do women hate them? Why Women…
Circumcised vs. Uncircumcised: Is There a Difference?
If you’re reading this article right now, especially if you sought it out specifically, then you already know some of the commonly held beliefs around circumcised and uncircumcised penises. Cut (circumcised) guys claim theirs are cleaner, uncut (uncircumcised) fellas swear that they feel more fully the pleasures of sex. In fact, this same question is…
Review Roundup: Flickering Touch Massage Candle
A sensual massage – whether it leads to more one on one action or not – is an amazing way to connect with your partner, as you are showing that you are completely devoted to their needs in that moment. We have a tip or two on how to give the perfect sensual massage ,…
A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM
A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Many couples tend to get bored after doing the same thing in the bedroom every single time they want to have sexual intercourse and that is why some of these couples try BDSM. Some people say the letters simply stand for Bondage and Discipline (B&D) and Sadism and Masochism (S&M)…
Tips For Buying Your First Adult Toy
Tips For Buying Your First Adult Toy Most people, even those who are happily in a relationship, will have some sort of adult toy hidden away somewhere. This is nothing to be ashamed of and can actually be a great investment. There are plenty of toys to choose from so if you are new to…
Tips For Using Fantasy In The Bedroom
Tips For Using Fantasy In The Bedroom Even if you are in a committed relationship, sometimes you will want a bit more out of your sex life and this is when fantasy comes into play. Some people are ashamed of wanting to act out a fantasy but everyone has them. Here are some tips to…
Tips On Her Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them
Tips On Her Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them If you are in a relationship with someone sexual interactions should not be limited to just sex itself. Instead, you should have other romantic and sensual moments whether casual or as part of foreplay leading up to sex. While everyone is aware of certain erogenous…
Tips On His Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them
Tips On His Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them Erogenous zones are a crucial part of any sexual interaction whether or not you plan on having intercourse. All women know that the man’s genital area, specifically his penis and testicles are incredibly sensitive but not everyone realizes some of the other erogenous zones. Some…
Tips To Increasing Her Sex Drive
Tips To Increasing Her Sex Drive It is a fact of life that in most relationships, the man will have a higher sex drive than the woman. This is simply human nature and due to the levels of specific hormones such as testosterone. If you are in a relationship where the male always has a…
Secrets to Becoming More Confident and Having Better Sex
Secrets to Becoming More Confident and Having Better Sex There is a distinct lack of confidence in a lot of young men and women these days. We can blame it on the sheltered modern lifestyle, a lack of social skills or the fact that some prefer the escapism afforded to them by video games and…
How to Safely Explore Kinky Fantasies in the Bedroom
How to Safely Explore Kinky Fantasies in the Bedroom Whether you have been with your significant other for a number of years and you start to feel that the flame of romance has begun to vain or you just want to take things to the next level in the bedroom, some kinky sex can be…
The Definitive Guide To Fingering
It seems that fingering is underestimated and is considered at best an optional element of foreplay. But in fact, it is a full-fledged sexual practice, which can give a completely new idea about sex. Fingering techniques often spread like wildfire. They are exchanged between partners, they are invented from scratch by couples, and they are…
The Definitive Guide To Cunnilingus
Studies say that most women find it easier to reach orgasm if sex involves cunnilingus. Cunnilingus helps to relax, focus on yourself and your feelings – perhaps more subtle and diverse than with vaginal sex. It can last from five minutes to an hour. It may lead to orgasm it can be just a part…
The Bare Necessities: Why Everyone Should Try Skinny Dipping at Least Once
For many, being naked is something strictly for the bedroom, or when they’re alone in the shower. And sure, it’s definitely not kosher to roam the streets sans clothing. But when it comes to skinny dipping, different rules apply. And that’s a good thing! Why? Well, not only is it a bit of fun, but…
Sex Toy Care: When to Charge Your Vibrator
If you’re reading this then you no doubt know how amazing a sex toy can be for solo use, and also how it can spice up couple’s play . However without the proper care being taken, a sex toy can get pretty un-amazing quite quickly. How un-amazing? Well on the low end, having a sex…
Review Roundup: Personal Moisturizer
Everyone knows that lube is necessary for anal sex, but have you realized how much it can add to other areas of your sex life, both solo and partnered? Whether medication like birth control is causing a lack of natural lubrication or you just like how things feel when they’re extra slippery, the LELO Personal…
Happy LGBTQ Pride Month Everyone!
Happy LGBTQ Pride Everyone! June is Pride month, which means not only a month-long celebration of everyone in the LGBTQA community, but also a time to reflect on the strides toward equal human rights that have been made, and what steps there still are to take. Why is June Pride Month? June was declared Pride…
Are Penis Pumps the Solution for Erectile Dysfunction?
In a world where 30-somethings ogle over wrinkles, and lip fillers are used to eradicate a lack of self-confidence , there are actually more pressing medical issues that deserve a bit of attention. And today, we’re going to shine some light on erectile dysfunction, a condition that affects approximately 10 percent of men, per decade…
Here’s What Stress Does to Your Sex Life (& What You Can Do About It)
Okay so no surprise here as we get started: stress isn’t good for you. You know this, yet you also know that especially now, it’s nearly completely unavoidable. From your twitter feed to your morning commute, the stresses of modern life compound and we all deal with them in different ways, just like stress has…
Lucid Dreaming and Sex
Sexy dreams can be quite hot and it seems like a safe bet to say that everybody has had at least one sex-charged dream that left them shaky, hard, wet, and/or just super horny. Dreams offer us a peek through the keyhole of our unconscious self and, whether you regard them as some irrelevant TV-program…
Ayurveda and Sexuality
Finding a balance in your sex life is a delicate matter ; you might want to think about how, when, and how often you have sex , who you share it with, and how the rest of your life affects it. Ayurveda might help you in this process – it is thousands of years old…
National Sex Day Has Come at Last!
We hardly need a holiday to celebrate sex, but we’re also always on the lookout for things to shake up our routine – so here are some ideas about how you can too! Out-of-the-Box Oral Ideas Some say the meaning behind National Sex Day – or at least the reason why it’s on June 9th…
According to Science: Does He Like You? Take Our Quiz and Find Out
Some things in life are more easy than others. Take 1 + 1 for example. The answer is 2. You just can’t argue with that. But when it comes to matters of the heart, things become a whole lot trickier. And this isn’t news. You’re not the only one who has endured sleepless nights-on-end wondering,…
A Hard Topic: The Ins and Outs of Getting (and Keeping) An Erection
OK, surely your immediate thoughts are, “Who doesn’t know what an erection is?” And that’s a fair assessment. But do you, really? In actuality, there’s a whole lot more than what meets the eye when it comes to getting hard. So, sit back and relax, because you’re in for quite the anatomy lesson. Find out…
5 Creative Ways to Put a Spark in Your Sex life
Physical intimacy in your relationship doesn’t have to be boring – even if you’ve been married for decades! But if you find yourself getting tired of the same old routine or you’re just looking to heighten the passion you already feel for one another, read on. Being intimate with our partners is one of the…
Ways Couples Hide from Intimacy
Richard Nicastro, PhD explores the sneaky but effective ways couples can hide from intimacy. Emotional intimacy isn’t for the faint of heart. It takes courage and faith to open your heart to another, to let down your guard and take off the masks commonly worn out in the world (competent employer/employee, supportive friend, in-charge parent,…
Sex After an Affair
Dr Richard Nicastro, PhD A takes an in depth look at the impact of infidelity on post-affair sex. The emotional fallout from an affair is extensive, and the healing process can be a long and bumpy road. Couples committed to this healing journey should be mindful of what’s ahead for them as they try to…
In Lover’s Lane with Different Sex Drives?
Couples therapist, Rachel Moheban-Wachtel examines the common problem of a strong relationship but differing sex drives – and what you can do to combat sexual incompatibility. While in couples therapy, something that I find myself dealing with quite a bit is the sexual incompatibility that oftentimes occurs between a husband and wife. As a matter…
Scheduled Sex? Oh the Horror!
Richard Nicastro, PhD believes scheduled sex can be a good thing for many couples. He challenges some of the beliefs and “shoulds” around this topic as it relates to sexual intimacy in marriage and relationships. We can all see the logic of scheduling life maintenance tasks like medical appointments or our car’s oil change, or…
Sex in Marriage and Fear of Intimacy
Richard Nicastro, PhD looks at why “intimacy is not for the faint of heart” and how a fear of intimacy can get in the way of the quality of the sexual relationship in your marriage. He poses questions for reflection for you and your partner to improve the connection. Emotional intimacy involves a connection that…
Trust: A Critical Component of Sexual Intimacy in Committed Relationships
Richard Nicastro, PhD, examines how the sexual intimacy stakes rise when you fall in love. He highlights the conditions that either encourage or discourage trust in a committed relationship. When love becomes part of the relationship landscape, when the other starts to matter to you, then how they respond takes on a heightened importance. And once love…
Married Sex Can be Great Sex
Richard Nicastro, PhD takes a deeper look at married (or long-term relationship) sex and some of the unique reasons it can be so satisfying. He encourages couples to understand their ruts and look for opportunities for change. You might have read about—or personally experienced—the challenges some married couples (or couples in long-term relationships) face when it comes…
Scheduled Sex? Perhaps So
We can all see the logic of scheduling life maintenance tasks like medical appointments or our car’s oil change, or even social events, like lunch with a friend. But when we hear of the idea of penciling sex into our busy calendars, we tend to balk…after all, “Sex should be spontaneous (shouldn’t it?)”; “Scheduling intimate…
Sexual Interest in Relationships: Navigating the Range Between “Low-to-No” and “High”
Richard Nicastro, PhD digs deeper into the important relationship dynamic of sexual interest. While acknowledging the normalcy of an imbalance, he suggests the shortest route to a solution that works for both couples is understanding and empathy for these differences. There are certain relationship dynamics that impact a couple’s sex life and certain relational dynamics…
The Truth about Men, Love and Intimacy
“I’ve been married for over twenty years. I know I’m not perfect, but I can honestly say that I do my best to be a good husband…I care about what my wife thinks of me asa husband and father.” ~Sal “It scares me to admit this, but I’d be totally lost without my wife. She’s…
A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM
A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Many couples tend to get bored after doing the same thing in the bedroom every single time they want to have sexual intercourse and that is why some of these couples try BDSM. Some people say the letters simply stand for Bondage and Discipline (B&D) and Sadism and Masochism (S&M)…
Tips For Buying Your First Adult Toy
Tips For Buying Your First Adult Toy Most people, even those who are happily in a relationship, will have some sort of adult toy hidden away somewhere. This is nothing to be ashamed of and can actually be a great investment. There are plenty of toys to choose from so if you are new to…
Tips For Using Fantasy In The Bedroom
Tips For Using Fantasy In The Bedroom Even if you are in a committed relationship, sometimes you will want a bit more out of your sex life and this is when fantasy comes into play. Some people are ashamed of wanting to act out a fantasy but everyone has them. Here are some tips to…
Tips On Her Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them
Tips On Her Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them If you are in a relationship with someone sexual interactions should not be limited to just sex itself. Instead, you should have other romantic and sensual moments whether casual or as part of foreplay leading up to sex. While everyone is aware of certain erogenous…
Tips On His Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them
Tips On His Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them Erogenous zones are a crucial part of any sexual interaction whether or not you plan on having intercourse. All women know that the man’s genital area, specifically his penis and testicles are incredibly sensitive but not everyone realizes some of the other erogenous zones. Some…
Tips To Increasing Her Sex Drive
Tips To Increasing Her Sex Drive It is a fact of life that in most relationships, the man will have a higher sex drive than the woman. This is simply human nature and due to the levels of specific hormones such as testosterone. If you are in a relationship where the male always has a…
Secrets to Becoming More Confident and Having Better Sex
Secrets to Becoming More Confident and Having Better Sex There is a distinct lack of confidence in a lot of young men and women these days. We can blame it on the sheltered modern lifestyle, a lack of social skills or the fact that some prefer the escapism afforded to them by video games and…
How to Safely Explore Kinky Fantasies in the Bedroom
How to Safely Explore Kinky Fantasies in the Bedroom Whether you have been with your significant other for a number of years and you start to feel that the flame of romance has begun to vain or you just want to take things to the next level in the bedroom, some kinky sex can be…
The Definitive Guide To Fingering
It seems that fingering is underestimated and is considered at best an optional element of foreplay. But in fact, it is a full-fledged sexual practice, which can give a completely new idea about sex. Fingering techniques often spread like wildfire. They are exchanged between partners, they are invented from scratch by couples, and they are…
The Definitive Guide To Cunnilingus
Studies say that most women find it easier to reach orgasm if sex involves cunnilingus. Cunnilingus helps to relax, focus on yourself and your feelings – perhaps more subtle and diverse than with vaginal sex. It can last from five minutes to an hour. It may lead to orgasm it can be just a part…
International Internet Day
Intimate Tickles Thought You Might Be Interested Published: Mon, 29 Oct 2018 05:00:00 +0000 View Original Article [unable to retrieve full-text content] Today is International Internet Day!
Haunting vs Ghosting: Why Haunting is So Much Worse in Every Way
Intimate Tickles Thought You Might Be Interested Published: Mon, 29 Oct 2018 18:54:48 +0000 View Original Article We have all heard of ghosting. But have you heard of haunting? Is it worse? Here is all you need to know about haunting vs ghosting. I am sure by now, in this day and age of technology,…
Mother-In-Law Day
Intimate Tickles Thought You Might Be Interested Published: Sun, 28 Oct 2018 05:00:00 +0000 View Original Article [unable to retrieve full-text content] Today is Mother-In-Law Day!
International Animation Day
Intimate Tickles Thought You Might Be Interested Published: Sun, 28 Oct 2018 05:00:00 +0000 View Original Article [unable to retrieve full-text content] Today is International Animation Day!