There’s no doubt that some people suffer because of their sexual behaviour, and that they have sex in ways that are unhealthy and harmful to them or their friends and family (like spending all their income on sex workers, getting fired from their jobs for masturbating, or continually cheating on partners they promised monogamy to).…
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Divine Female – Have Men Always Been Religious Deities?
“God is a Woman” sang Arianna Grande with her remarkable single in 2018. Her attempt to tap into the history of a female God brought about some borderline blasphemy by religious communities, along with some interesting questions. From the boardroom to the sports field, women are laying claim to their inborn privilege. And yet, there’s…
Review Roundup: SORAYA 2 Rabbit Vibrator
Are my dual stimulation queens ready for the newest LELO rabbit vibe? The SORAYA 2 is here with some awesome updates, including 4 additional stimulation settings, a thicker sculpted tip for more G-spot accuracy, and softer silicone for increased comfort. This toy was designed to explore the different types of orgasms the female body was…
Sex And Astrology, What’s Your Zodiac Pleasure Maker?
Working for a sexual wellness company sometimes has its perks. For example, you get to spend a couple of hours consulting astrology websites and researching personality traits of the signs of the zodiac . Whether you believe in this, or not, it’s a fun way to present the products and judge if a certain toy…
Sex And Astrology, What’s Your Zodiac Sex Toy?
Working for a sexual wellness company sometimes has its perks. For example, you get to spend a couple of hours consulting astrology websites and researching personality traits of the signs of the zodiac. Whether you believe in this, or not, it’s a fun way to present the products and judge if a certain toy is…
Divine Female – Have Men Always Been Religious Deities?
“God is a Woman” sang Arianna Grande with her remarkable single in 2018. Her attempt to tap into the history of a female God brought about some borderline blasphemy by religious communities, along with some interesting questions. From the boardroom to the sports field, women are laying claim to their inborn privilege. And yet, there’s…
What’s The Difference Between Male & Female Orgasms?
It never fails to amaze me just how little we know about sex . I’ve written frequently about my frustration at the lack of empirical knowledge about the clitoris compared to the understanding of pretty much all of our other anatomy. Another thing we know little about is the difference, or similarity, between men and…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 12 – An Erotic Story
Tony and Tracy I wore something a little more conservative to work on day 5 of my first week as Company slut. I was still showing plenty of cleavage, and I had on a sexy pair of fuck-me heels, but the dress I chose was not one of the very short ones. It was sexy…
The Science Of Faking Orgasms
A recent survey showed that around two-thirds of women have faked an orgasm. I suspect the remaining third have faked an answer in a recent survey. That’s not fair, I’m kidding. But it’s safe to say the majority of women have faked an orgasm at some point in their life – or at least given…
No Words – An Erotic Story
Somehow in the tossing of my sleep I manage to face away from him now, only to be woken up slightly by his subconscious movement to spoon my body. In this moment my senses are heightened. The heat being exchanged between our bodies reminds me of our physical dispositions, tall and strong and intertwined within…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 11 – An Erotic Story
Rick Shares Me After my night as Brian’s whore, the third Partner from my law firm who had used me so far in the week, I woke up feeling very satisfied. I had really got off on the hooker thing. I loved the roleplaying and I loved the dress-up. I particularly loved my new blond…
Sweet Dreams are Made of This! Sleep Orgasms, Explained
Sleep, glorious sleep! The opportunity to replenish our energy, increase motivation, and to de-stress. And if you thought that having a pleasant dream was the cherry on the cake, you’re sorely mistaken. Sleep orgasms are very real and very very pleasurable. Talk about dreams coming true, am I right? What is a Sleep Orgasm? A…
Sperm Facts You Probably Didn’t Know
Our bodies are weird and wonderful things, aren’t they? As wondrous as they are though, we’ve still got some questions and they’re especially about the male body. For instance, what makes you guys scratch your balls so often? Also, what the hell is a foreskin even for in the first place? This leads us to…
Review Roundup: LUNA Beads Noir
Inspired by Ben Wa balls, LUNA Beads Noir are one of our most sleek and sexy product for public play. It’s also one of the most delightfully low tech! Each bead (which sits in a silicone sling) has an inner weighted ball that swirls around as you move. It causes a light sensation that almost…
Eight Things That Ruin Our Sex Lives
We’re complex creatures. But we tend to become entirely enigmatic in issues of our sexualities. It seems to me that, even in a healthy relationship, our relationship is confused by a poor understanding and a lack of honesty about our sexualities. We lack awareness of our own sexualities, and that of our partners. We just…
Afterglow: The Spillover Effects of Sex On Your Job
You ever show up to work in a particularly good mood and one of your colleagues says, ‘someone got laid last night…’ Well, new evidence suggests that your sex life has a direct, positive influence on your work life. We all tend to bring our work home with us, so doesn’t it make sense that…
Where and How to Find a Partner for Cyber Sex
Just as the sex industry, and sex in general, has changed so dramatically over the last decade or two, so have people evolved. The way in which we are meeting, interacting, having sex, and forming relationships is so different today, that we now have the opportunity to have a (sexual) partner without even having met…
How to Have a Sexy New Year’s Eve that Doesn’t Suck
Whether you’ve planned your NYE a month in advance or just exhausted from the anticipation of the holidays, you’re going to ring in the New Year, whether it be with a quick “woo” from your bed or a drunken makeout on the dancefloor of a club. Anyone who’s been around the block knows what a…
Fappy New Year from the LELO Team!
Why would a new year mean a new you if the current you is already awesome?! Instead of focusing on all the things we want to change about ourselves (we know, change is great!), let’s take a minute to reflect on all the things we’ve loved and learned from this past year. Part of moving…
Making a List – First Place Story
My lovely lady licks her lips; Ten gifts lie at her fingertips. Come unwrap your presents, here’s your chair. She smooths her skirt; I touch her hair. Gift 1 is hard and shaped like me. Toy 2 vibrates. So does 3 . The fourth ’s a blindfold wrapped in twine. I place it…
Santa Comes Early – Second Place Story
I was having a hard time fulfilling my role as the company Santa. I managed to pass out all of the presents, but the whole time I was thinking about her. Those legs had me drooling to run my hands up them and that shade of red lipstick that matched her dress had me imagining…
A How-To Guide to Scissoring, and Other Lesbian Sex Secrets
If you’re a woman, the chances that you’ve either made out, hooked up, or watched lesbian porn are very high. If you’re a man, well, the chances that you’ve ogled over two women making out or have watched lesbian porn are too, very high. And why is it that two (straight) ladies being sexual is…
Christmas Wrapping – Third Place Story
“I found a great way to use our leftover wrapping paper.” Lucy’s voice filters in from the living room as Theresa finishes removing her boots, hat, scarf, gloves, and coat. “Oh, yeah?” Theresa says, stepping into the living room. “And what’s th—” Words leave her when she sees Lucy on her knees on the living…
What You Need to Know About the Morning After Pill
There are plenty of contraception options available for those who are able to become pregnant, but you know what they say about the best laid plans! Things rarely work 100% to plan when it comes to getting laid. Thankfully, whether your barrier contraception has failed or otherwise, there is emergency contraception available in many parts…
Vagina vs Vulva: What’s the Difference?
Fans and owners of vaginas alike (and those who fall into both categories) may argue about which slang terms for this part of this body are sexy vs offensive, but we are here to get technical. We want to take a deep dive (ha!) into the question ‘what is a vagina?’ and more specifically, is…
Tinder: Is It About Love, Or Lust?
Dating used to be really hard. REALLY hard. It involved, like, talking to people and networking. You either had to be so magnetically attractive that potential partners would just gravitate towards you, so charming that you could talk the beak off a duck, marry someone you went to school with, or someone you met through…
Dip Your Toes Into the History of the Foot Fetish
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
New Years Fun – An Erotic Story
“Who’s there?” Jill replied. “Room service,” came the reply, almost automatic, muted slightly by the weight of the closed door. Jill rose from the bed and stood, curling her toes for a moment in the thick weave of the carpet and casually walked over to the door. She opened it with a smile, and enjoyed…
Men Want More Sex in Winter, Says Science
Winter weather brings us steamier sex? New research suggests that men have a higher sex drive during winter months. Now we can stop complaining about the cold and start reaping its benefits. In a recent study published in The Psychology of Human Sexuality, 114 men rated their perceived attractiveness of two sets of photos –…
Dip Your Toes Into the History of the Foot Fetish
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
Dip Your Toes Into the History of the Foot Fetish
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
Tinder: Is It About Love, Or Lust?
Dating used to be really hard. REALLY hard. It involved, like, talking to people and networking. You either had to be so magnetically attractive that potential partners would just gravitate towards you, so charming that you could talk the beak off a duck, marry someone you went to school with, or someone you met through…
Vagina vs Vulva: What’s the Difference?
Fans and owners of vaginas alike (and those who fall into both categories) may argue about which slang terms for this part of this body are sexy vs offensive, but we are here to get technical. We want to take a deep dive (ha!) into the question ‘what is a vagina?’ and more specifically, is…
What You Need to Know About the Morning After Pill
There are plenty of contraception options available for those who are able to become pregnant, but you know what they say about the best laid plans! Things rarely work 100% to plan when it comes to getting laid. Thankfully, whether your barrier contraception has failed or otherwise, there is emergency contraception available in many parts…
Christmas Wrapping – Third Place Story
“I found a great way to use our leftover wrapping paper.” Lucy’s voice filters in from the living room as Theresa finishes removing her boots, hat, scarf, gloves, and coat. “Oh, yeah?” Theresa says, stepping into the living room. “And what’s th—” Words leave her when she sees Lucy on her knees on the living…
Making a List – First Place Story
My lovely lady licks her lips; Ten gifts lie at her fingertips. Come unwrap your presents, here’s your chair. She smooths her skirt; I touch her hair. Gift 1 is hard and shaped like me. Toy 2 vibrates. So does 3. The fourth’s a blindfold wrapped in twine. I place it on and…
Female-Only Threesomes: Have Your Cake and Eat it!
Having a threesome is sometimes a hit-or-a-miss. For some, it has the capacity to intensify the pleasure, while for others… well, let’s just say, if they wanted to disappoint two people at the same time they could have just had dinner with their parents. What’s equally as tricky is the fact that the way in…
Dominance: Does Topspace Exist?
They say it’s lonely at the top. When it comes to sex I’d disagree; it’s not lonely, but it can be dark. It can be complex, challenging and conflicted. There’s a lot of literature out there about the phenomenon known in BDSM circles as ‘subspace’, which is a kind of euphoric mental and physical state…
Sneaky Tips For Having Sex During The Holidays
Let’s face it – just because it’s the holidays doesn’t mean that the super sweet carnal desire for some intimate one-on-one time with your partner (or, you know, the person from high school you only see once a year) suddenly goes by the wayside. In fact, with all the stress that the holidays bring, and…
How To Connect the F1s to the App
If you’re having trouble connecting your F1s device to the LELO F1s app, we’re here to help. Follow these simple steps for connectivity: Download the “LELO F1s” app and make sure your phone’s bluetooth is enabled. Make sure it is charged until a steady glow (we recommend a 2 hour charge before use). Make sure…
Male-Only Threesomes: Maximize Your Pleasure
Welcome to the wonderful world of threesomes… a sexual experience that is so incredibly diverse, and enjoyed by people of all walks of life. Whether you’re heterosexual, homosexual, trans, male, female, poly, black, white, or blue, a threesome can be a thrilling bout of pleasure comprised of a number of different positions, erotic acts, and…
How To Connect the F1s to the App
If you’re having trouble connecting your F1s device to the LELO F1s app, we’re here to help. Follow these simple steps for connectivity: Download the “LELO F1s” app and make sure your phone’s bluetooth is enabled. Make sure it is charged until a steady glow (we recommend a 2 hour charge before use). Make sure…
Dominance: Does Topspace Exist?
They say it’s lonely at the top. When it comes to sex I’d disagree; it’s not lonely, but it can be dark. It can be complex, challenging and conflicted. There’s a lot of literature out there about the phenomenon known in BDSM circles as ‘subspace’, which is a kind of euphoric mental and physical state…
How Can You Spot A Partner That is Losing Interest?
Did you know that the word ‘honeymoon’ actually holds a negative connotation? In short, the word represents the moon which is ever-changing. It basically suggests that newly weds will experience bliss after their wedding, but just like the moon, their relationship will inevitably change. And this is true of new relationships too. When you start…
What’s the Deal with Demisexuality?
Have you ever felt just a little bit different when it comes to how you feel desire for other people? While gender, sexuality and desire will never feel exactly the same for any two people, some of the common cultural narratives we have exist because, well, they’re common. But, those ‘common’ experiences of love and…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 10 – An Erotic Story
Brian’s Whore I had on the perfect outfit to be Brian’s whore tonight, my third scheduled Partner of the week. The previous night I had been gangbanged by Ted and his clan. Earlier today I had enjoyed the most wonderful lesbian experience of my life with Diana. When I returned to the office Rick had…
LELO Tips: How to Make a Sex Tape
Are you and your partner a pair of erotic auteurs? In this day and age, when we all have the equivalent of a hi-def camera in our pockets, there seems to be no better and easier time than now, no? With the right person — and ALWAYS with their knowledge and consent — making a…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 10 – An Erotic Story
Brian’s Whore I had on the perfect outfit to be Brian’s whore tonight, my third scheduled Partner of the week. The previous night I had been gangbanged by Ted and his clan. Earlier today I had enjoyed the most wonderful lesbian experience of my life with Diana. When I returned to the office Rick had…
What’s the Deal with Demisexuality?
Have you ever felt just a little bit different when it comes to how you feel desire for other people? While gender, sexuality and desire will never feel exactly the same for any two people, some of the common cultural narratives we have exist because, well, they’re common. But, those ‘common’ experiences of love and…
Get in the Mood! 6 Ways to Reignite the Fire in Your Sex Life
It’s inevitable… the honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. So, whether you’ve been dating for six months, or married for sixty years, those endorphin-fuelled romping sessions you enjoyed with your partner when you first started dating will never quite feel the same again. But that isn’t a bad thing! When you start feeling comfortable with your…