The Truth About Mismatched Sex Drives in Relationships Let’s talk about something many couples struggle to discuss: differing sex drives. It’s surprisingly common, and acknowledging this is the first step toward a healthier relationship. This isn’t about assigning blame, it’s about understanding each other and strengthening your bond. Desire Fluctuations: A Normal Part of Relationships…
There’s a common Spanish saying: Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos. Essentially, it means that long distance relationships are for fools. There’s some truth to that – long-distance relationships come with their unique set of challenges that can strain even the strongest relationships. For one, you can’t touch each other. Intimate contact is a crucial…
Understanding Your Performance Anxiety: Why Your Mind Rebels That familiar flutter in your stomach, the racing heart, the sudden blank mind – we all recognize the signs of performance anxiety. But why does our mind seem to betray us when we need it most? It comes down to a complex interaction between our psychology and…
The LELO ENIGMA range is redefining the world of dual-stimulation vibrators (and even triple-stimulation for the most recent models), offering an advanced and luxurious approach to pleasure and orgasms. Designed to simultaneously stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris, these high-end devices use Sonic Wave Technology combined with deep vibrations for an intense, blended orgasm experience.…
The Science Behind Your Desire: What Drives Libido Your libido, or sex drive, isn’t static. It naturally changes throughout life, influenced by a combination of biological, psychological, and social elements. Understanding this complex interaction is the first step toward understanding how to boost your sex drive. The Hormonal Orchestra Hormones are at the core of…
Sex toys aren’t just for masturbation, they can also be an incredible way to bring you closer to your partner. And it’s not just a matter of bringing any old sex toy into the mix, there are a bunch of couples’ sex toys on the market that can be incredible for shared intimacy. Vibrators that…
So, you bought your first vibrator? Congratulations on making a big step into the world of self-pleasure. Whether masturbation is new to you or you just haven’t used a vibrator before, integrating one into self-pleasure practice can feel a little daunting at first. But as with anything, you have to start somewhere! Making mistakes with…
Anal play can be a bit intimidating when you’re first starting out, but it’s also the gateway to a whole bunch of untapped pleasure. It can also require a bit more strategy and preparation than what you may be used to – especially when using toys. That’s because there’s a bit more of an inherent…
Understanding the Science of Sexual Endurance Before exploring techniques to improve sexual stamina, it’s helpful to understand the science behind it. Sexual endurance isn’t just about physical strength; it’s a complex interplay of physical and psychological factors. Everything from your current arousal level to underlying anxieties and your body’s physical responses play a role. Understanding…
We might be familiar with whips, chains, and handcuffs, but bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism — also known as BDSM — is an erotic practice that goes well beyond what we might have read in Fifty Shades of Grey. First and foremost, safe BDSM involves a much more dynamic conversation around consent since power dynamics,…
Are you the proud owner of a new sex toy? Is it your first, or perhaps your umpteenth? While this object will provide you with hours of pleasure, it requires some care to not only extend the longevity of your pleasure, but ensure your sexual health as well. Cleaning is essential for products that are…
Why Modern Relationships Need Sexual Education Many assume sexual education is just for teenagers. However, many couples receive little guidance on how to build a fulfilling intimate life together. This lack of shared knowledge can significantly affect long-term relationship happiness. Differing expectations about intimacy, unspoken desires, and changing needs can create friction and misunderstandings. Couples…
In the United States, studies have found that 30 to 40% of men and women participate in anal intercourse. And anal play for couples is increasing in popularity, according to a Statista report. Anal play for partners can enhance pleasure, connection, and exploration. It has a laundry list of physical and emotional benefits, but learning…
Innovations in sex tech allow people to experience more pleasure and overcome hurdles that come up in their sex lives. Two such hurdles that can come up for people with penises are dealing with erectile dysfunction and wanting to enlarge their penis. One possible solution to both of these predicaments is using a vacuum pump,…
Some people have the desire to tie up or be tied up, in some sort of restraint, to have a sensory experience and to marvel at the artistic expression. If you’re one of those people or someone who has your interest peaked, you may enjoy the art of rope play. This type of play falls…
Are you completely new to the world of sex toys and are looking for a comprehensive beginner’s guide to vibrator play? Then you’ve come to the right place. Self-pleasure is a deeply personal journey that offers many benefits for your sexual wellness and overall wellbeing. Exploring your body in a safe, intentional way allows you…
No sex toy, no matter how advanced, can ever replace the communion of spirit and flesh that is created between two human beings who share a sensual moment. However, couples who incorporate sex toys often report greater intimacy and satisfaction. When introducing a sex toy into partnered sex, it’s important to keep communication open, consider…
The Psychology Behind Powerful Dirty Talk Verbal stimulation, often called dirty talk, plays a crucial role in intimacy. It goes beyond physical touch, activating multiple pleasure centers in the brain. This connection between language, emotion, and neurobiology explains the power of words in intimate moments. When we hear arousing words, our brains release dopamine, the…
Gestating and giving birth to life is one of the most incredible things that human bodies can do. Both during and after pregnancy, your body is going through an immense amount of change. Hormones spike and dip, organs are literally rearranged, and body parts stretch and shrink. All of these changes may influence how you…
Using a sex toy for the first time can be both exciting and nerve-racking. This is one of the first steps in literally taking your pleasure into your own hands so you can explore your body and your sexuality. You may feel some hesitation around starting your solo sax practice, but it’s important to approach…
It’s astounding the amount of individuals who are living with a negative body image. And often, when we think of this kind of issue, we may believe that the solution comes in the form of affirmations, exercise, eating better, or even therapy. And while those are good options, there’s one thing that may be overlooked……
There are many things, such as exercise or eating a well-balanced diet, that can contribute to an overall better mental health. But did you know that sexual satisfaction too plays a big role when it comes to our mental well being? In fact, there are many positive attributes associated with sexual wellness, be it solo…
The Truth About the G-Spot: Science Meets Sensation The G-spot remains a topic of fascination and sometimes confusion. This intriguing area, located on the anterior vaginal wall, is a source of immense pleasure for many. Understanding the science behind the sensation can help you explore your body with more confidence and understanding. Understanding the Anatomy…
If you’ve been thinking about introducing BDSM toys into your relationship, you may be feeling equal parts, intrigue, and nervousness. BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism, and masochism) allows you to not only experience more pleasure in your sex life but can also enhance intimacy and trust. There are a lot of stigma…
The Science of Female Pleasure: What Actually Works Understanding female pleasure is a journey of discovery, exploring the intricate connections between mind, body, and emotions. It’s about moving beyond the purely physical to create truly fulfilling intimate experiences. This involves personalized attention and recognizing the unique needs of each individual. The Mind-Body Connection A woman’s…
Communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship; think of it as the secret ingredient to being a happy and successful couple. This skill improves trust and emotional intimacy while helping you figure out how to solve conflicts proactively. A relationship can’t succeed without strong communication, and learning how sex toys improve communication in relationships…
How many solo sex toys do you have in your goodie drawer? Chances are you have at least one. And if you’re a seasoned sex toy user, then you probably have at least a couple. Many people indulge in solo pleasure – one of the largest studies on the subject that surveyed over 10,000 people from…
There are countless ways to explore pleasure solo or with a partner. Amongst the countless different safe sex toys available, dildos often stand out for their versatility for solo or partnered play and their range of sizes and shapes. However, if you’ve never used one before, you might have questions about how to safely use…
Vibrators are traditionally associated with genital stimulation, but their potential extends far beyond that. When used creatively, they can enhance relaxation, relieve tension, and awaken new erogenous zones for a full-body pleasure experience. Whether exploring solo or with a partner, learning to incorporate vibration into your sensory play can elevate pleasure to new levels and…
Despite the rapidly growing sex toy market, how to use sex toys for couples can still be a mystery for some. It’s not a surprise when you think about it – sex toys have been widely marketed as a solo adventure for decades. There’s also the whole thing about men considering sex toys competition, which…
Like society itself, the world of pleasure products is evolving, and with it comes a demand for gender-neutral sex toys that cater to diverse bodies and identities, and diverse pleasure needs. Today, more and more people are looking for versatile, inclusive, and adaptable pleasure options that don’t rely on gendered assumptions. Whether you’re looking for…
Sex sells, and modern media is constantly selling us the dream that we’re all supposed to be having passionate, amazing sex, all the time. But then there’s reality. By the time you and your partner take care of business and settle in for bed, you’re either too tired or sex has become a chore for…
The perception of lonely women with sex toys has changed. Not only have sex toys become innovative in design and performance, our perceptions of them have also evolved. Sexual satisfaction is considered a human right, and sex toys have conquered many new ‘audiences’, including the queer community. As diverse as our sexualities are bodies are,…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram Sexual dysfunction refers to any persistent sex problem that results in significant distress. Research finds that nearly half of women and one-third of men have experienced a sexual dysfunction in the past year…
Selecting a sex toy can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience, especially with the vast array of options available in terms of types of sex toys that exist as well as the use you’re going to have of your future orgasmic best friend. From vibrators and dildos to anal toys and couples’ devices, choosing the…
When we think about tools for our mental health, resources like therapy, exercise, and meditation often come to mind. But sex and mental health go hand in hand – sexual wellness can be one of the best mindfulness practices that improves our mental health just as much as these measures. Using sex toys to reduce…
Vibrators, belonging to sex toys category, are associated with pleasure and intimacy, but their benefits extend far beyond the bedroom. In recent years, vibration therapy has gained attention as a tool for muscle tension relief, relaxation, and even pain management. From reducing muscle stiffness to improving circulation, vibrators can serve as an accessible and effective…
Sex toys come in a variety of types and stimulations, along with distinguishing features like material, technical quality, and innovative design. Get more comfortable navigating the best sex toys by category to find a suitable option for you. Learn what makes them unique and who can enjoy them. The Best Sex Toys by Category The…
Have you ever dreamed of controlling your partner’s pleasure with just a tap on your phone? Well, stop dreaming, because app-controlled sex toys are here to revolutionize your intimate life. Whether you’re looking for a unique solo experience, want to surprise your partner from the other side of the world, or simply wish to feel…
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Our sex lives are a direct reflection of our relationships. Trust and intimacy, which are the foundations of any romantic relationship, play out in the ways we approach our partners in the bedroom. It’s how we’re hardwired as human beings – when you feel close to your partner, you trust them to explore your body…
Technology and innovation in sex toys have come a long way since the very first sex toy was invented over 28,000 years ago. From phallic-shaped carved and polished to perfection stone dildo to AI-powered sex dolls with customizable genitals and even temperaments, the sex toy industry shows no signs of stopping. That’s great news for…
People often think of their sexuality as a nice addition to the rest of their lives, but for most, it’s an integral part of being human. You’re wired for pleasure, pleasure helps you connect with yourself and others, improve your emotional health, and enhance your mental well-being. That’s why there are so many emotional benefits…
People often think of sex toys as a tool used during masturbation and solo exploration. While great when used on your own, sex toys can be just as fun and beneficial when used with a partner. They can even help you enhance, heal, and deepen your relationship. What are the relationship benefits of sex toys…
Sex toys are special in how they’re designed to grant us thousands of hours of pleasure, but they’re even more special because of how they interact with intimate parts of our bodies. But, as they say, with great power comes great responsibility, and one of the responsibilities with maximized pleasure is properly cleaning and caring…
There’s nothing more empowering than pleasure. Sexual confidence can lead to higher self-esteem both in and out of the bedroom. Having low confidence or self-esteem means you might be more likely to submit to a partner’s desires without advocating for your pleasure, which is why sex toys and masturbation are such essential tools for empowerment…
We live in an era where technology has been rapidly evolving, and as a result, the rise of smart toys has revolutionized personal pleasure. Unlike traditional toys, these devices make it possible for couples to experience long-distance intimacy or explore new kinks. This is possible due to integrated technology like app control, remote connectivity, and…
As ancient as man and woman, sex toys are objects dedicated to enhancing the erotic experience. They can be used solo, to make masturbation easier, more effective and exciting, or as a couple, to make the shared experience even better, strengthen intimacy, bring the timing of pleasure closer. Just as there are infinite types of…
Sex toys can enhance pleasure, whether used alone or with a partner. But for beginners, knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. With the right guidance, exploring sex toys can be an exciting and enjoyable experience. Trust the process. This sex toy guide will walk you through everything you need to know about how to…
If you’re looking to rekindle the spark with your partner, new experiences can help, and role play is just the thing to add a sense of adventure and spontaneity into the mix. Role-playing involves trust between people. It’s a safe space to get creative and share your deepest fantasies and desires. Many people are curious…