March 20th marks International Day of Happiness, and we’re dedicating the latest research to sex and happiness, that is, why sex makes us feel good and what we can do to have sex that makes us happy. What Does Sex Mean? We may ask ourselves, what does sex mean to a woman? What does sex…
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Just like any other type of sex, oral sex, or “69-ing”, can be done in different ways. It involves pleasuring your partner (or receiving pleasure) by using the mouth and tongue on their genitalia. The 69 position in particular means that both partners give and recieve oral sex simultanesouly! Flip the numbers 69 sideways and…
It’s been a tough year for everyone, and as lockdown measures look set to continue for the next few weeks at least, people are feeling the strain. The stress of living through a global pandemic has also been having a knock-on effect on people’s sex lives. In the early days of the pandemic, it seemed…
So you’re looking for a few fun, flirty, and cheeky activities in a new location! Or maybe you’re just stumped finding something sexy to do in your city? Well, the world is actually your sensual aphrodisiac oyster! There are tons of thrilling things to do worldwide! And with our international sex guide, you’ll surely be…
The answer to “What is Feminist Porn ” is a bit complicated. First, it depends on who you ask: men; women; lesbians; hetero; the viewer; the producer; the anti-porn crusader? Feminist porn is a very diverse topic, and so are the numerous views on what it is. Then, there is a whole convoluted history that…
Looking to add a new member to the pleasure chest? LOKI and LOKI Wave are two players who add a new dimension to deep and intense prostate pleasure. Comparison Between LOKI vs. LOKI Wave What LOKI and LOKI Wave have in common: They can be enjoyed by anyone with a bum. Although they’re called “prostate…
There’s a long-standing stigma regarding the use of sex toys by men. Largely because the majority of them are anal sex toys, and well… toxic masculinity! But actually, did you know that a man’s most pleasurable spot can be found inside the anus? Yep! The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that, when stimulated, has been…
If you don’t know what International Women’s Day is all about this year, consider it an opportunity to challenge the world to create change. And since change starts within, we’re dedicating this IWD to something we can definitely help control – closing the orgasm gap ! Those with vulvas have an extraordinary superpower, the ability…
Whether you’re just dabbling in anal stimulation or going straight for the a-spot orgasms, this list of trusty anal sex toys will help you achieve your sex goals and stir your curiousity, regardless of your gender. The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings and can act as a gateway to prostate pleasure. It’s also…
We know what you’re here for, so let’s get into the knitty gritty details that differentiate LILY 2 and SIRI 2 . See below for a comparison that’ll help you choose the right one for you. Similarities Between LILY 2 vs. SIRI 2 LILY 2 and SIRI 2 are incredibly discreet. They fit in the…
What is Femtech? Femtech is a term used to describe products, services, and technologies that support women’s health. It was originally coined by the founder of the popular period-tracking app Clue, Ida Tin. Femtech is an industry full of opportunities that were previously overlooked. Femtech is commonly associated with the following things: Menstruation and period…
The sense of smell shapes our world in a way we will never fully grasp – so do not overlook its ability to design a new and exciting setting for sex. Think about one thing – most other senses can be replicated to a degree in a virtual setting, but smells are so primal that…
Most of us think we’re pretty good at masturbation. We’ve done it for years, we don’t need tuition. But, what if, even with our extensive hands-on experience, we could be getting more out of it? What if masturbation has become routine? Here, we’ll discuss seven very simple ways that you might be overlooking your personal…
Is your partner’s love language verbal affirmation? If so, you should definitely take advantage of World Compliment Day to show them some love. Words are one of the most powerful tools of communication and making your crush, girlfriend, wife, or life partner feel butterflies can start with a simple text. What is World Compliment Day…
While penetration with a partner can be pleasurable, most people with vulvas don’t need it to orgasm. In fact, an overwhelming majority pleasure themselves externally when masturbating alone and engaging in solo play. This comparison is dedicated to two popular external toys, SONA 2 and ORA 3 , so let’s get into it. Comparison Between…
The chances that you’ve either been in, or have wanted to be in, a threesome, are pretty high. In fact, a threesome is one of the most popular fantasies for both men and women (and the number one fantasy for Americans, according to a survey). But are people actually engaging in threesomes? Well, one study…
The SORAYA line lies among the bestsellers because it does more than spark the eye. Not only are these rabbit vibrators beautifully designed, they encompass versatile features that can add extra pleasure to any masturbation or sex session. Comparison Between SORAYA 2 vs. SORAYA Wave At a glance, the SORAYA 2 and SORAYA Wave look…
This article was written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Having a threesome is the single most popular sexual fantasy. I surveyed more than 4,000 American adults about their most intimate thoughts for my book Tell Me What You Want and one of the key things I discovered when I looked at people’s biggest sexual…
This article was written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Sex and disability is a topic that is not often discussed. It is rarely—if ever—addressed in sex education courses, and few doctors are comfortable talking about sexual issues with disabled patients. Part of the reason for this is because disabled persons are often stereotyped as…
Below is your guide for incorporating sex toys, and clit suckers in particular, into partnered sex. Check out our product recommendations, sex positions, and some interesting stats! Having sex with toys Introducing sex toys into a relationship can be intimidating, especially towards male partners who can feel threatened by the idea. The truth is that…
Enhance your foreplay routine with a deeply spiritual and highly erotic form of massage. That is, a tantric massage. This sensual act is a meaningful way to connect with your partner, and to share and vibe off of each other’s sexual energies. And by engaging in this practice, you’ll not only heighten your state of…
Looking to add some more gay sex positions to your bedroom routine? Perhaps need a few foreplay ideas and tips to try something new? There’s always room to spice things up while getting intimate! So, whether you’re seeking a different kind of thrill, feel like experiencing different sensations, or just intrigued, this article will reveal…
In a world that’s saturated with items, ideas, and activities that increase our pleasure, it’s only logical that two mouths on a dick are more pleasurable than one, right? Honestly, what are the chances of one saying, “Oh, no thank you! I’d prefer just one person giving me a blowie right now!” (Side note: I…
Indeed, there are different ways to have sex. In fact, sex doesn’t even need to involve penetration at all. Sex can be anything you want it to be! And knowing this is a good thing. It takes one away from the notion that penetrative sex with climax is the end goal , which it really…
This article was scientifically fact-checked and written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. What’s the first image that comes to mind when you hear the term “attention deficit hyperactivity disorder” (ADHD)? Odds are, you’re probably imagining a kid who is hyperactive or has trouble focusing in school. However, ADHD isn’t just for kids—it affects adults,…
How is mindfulness really connected to our sex lives? When it comes to our sexualities, most of us were taught NOT to pay attention. Perhaps our parents avoided conversations about sex altogether, or maybe we had a really awkward experience in sex education class. Most of us were taught to refer to our genitals as…
If you think having sex once a week (or month, or year) is enough, think again. Forget treating the Big O like a rare occasion that calls for taking out your grandma’s china. Sex is something that should be on your menu as often as you dang well please – and if you’re holding back…
Rumor has it that Kegel balls are not only good for your pelvic health, but also good for foreplay and arousal. The best part is that’s in not a rumor at all. Building up your pelvic floor strength leads to better orgasms. Now imagine 24-karat gold balls sending kinetic energy into your pleasure system. LELO…
Being fit takes you a long way in terms of sexual performance, but not every exercise is the same. Some types will do a much better job preparing you for sexual mastery. Fit for Sex One of the most obvious signs that you need to improve your fitness is feeling shortness of breath. Also, you…
THE STORY SO FAR London, the mid-1970s. From the moment I set eyes on Justine, I just knew I had to have her (and I was far from alone in my pursuit of her). For months she resisted my advances, insisting she was saving herself for the right man. But in the end, she yielded…
You might think that people who are truly in love automatically know the answer to this question, with no doubt in their minds—and a lucky few do, but for many, this generally isn’t the case. People vary in the extent to which they know and can distinguish between their own emotions. This puts us in…
Bath time is such a sensual affair, whether it’s merely to get yourself all cleaned up, to induce feelings of relaxation and rejuvenation, or to experience a bit of cheeky sexy time with yourself or a partner. So, if you’re all about making waves, we’re sure you’re going to love the sound of bathtub sex…
Jules was finding it increasingly hard to concentrate. It was already 6:00p.m. The meeting had gone on non-stop since 9:00 that morning and the client showed no signs of bringing it to an end. Normally, she wouldn’t mind. It wasn’t unusual. When a client is being sued for a figure with lots of zeros on…
It’s a question for the ages, one that scholars and philosophers alike have scratched their heads over. Likely, one day in ancient Greece, even Socrates and Plato himself looked down in the shower and pondered ‘what the hell do I have these things for, anyways?’ Of course, ‘these things’ that he was wondering about are…
Smaller than a tangerine, the LILY 2 and SIRI 2 clitoral vibrators are perfect for those looking for big pleasure packed into discreet packages. Did you know that the clitoris is solely built for your pleasure? It does a pretty successful job of it, too. Clitoral Pleasure If you haven’t heard by now, an overwhelming…
Connor walked into the living room in black briefs and a sheer robe. He threw himself down on the ottoman and sighed dramatically. Lukas, seated snugly on the couch, glanced up from his laptop. His fingers flew over the keyboard as he reached out and nudged Connor’s calf with his foot. “What’s wrong with you?”…
The recent popularity of prostate stimulation is no sex fad, it’s a legitimate source of pleasure. Check out the comparisons and differences between LELO’s best-sellers, LOKI Wave vs. HUGO . The Joys of Prostate Pleasure While the male prostate is an organ about the size of a walnut, it plays a big role in reproduction…
It was silent apart from the gentle patter of raindrops. He could almost forget that he was pushing his way down a crowded sidewalk to get to the rideshare parking lot. Just as he did every weekday. However, instead of the usual sharp, pricking sensation along his skin caused by the bustle of a city…
From vajazzling (applying crystal ornaments on the shaved mons pubis) to tattoos, there’s basically enough freedom to decorate your lady bits however you fancy. What a time to be alive, am I right? You see, vagina tattoos are not a new concept. For as long as tattooing has been around, there have certainly been those…
You pick up your phone in the morning, only to be surprised by an unsolicited, sexually explicit photo in your inbox. Unprepared for the visual, it takes you a minute to recognize the return address as someone you recently met on an online dating site, who has shamelessly sent you the photo using their own…
This article was scientifically fact-checked and written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. People have a tendency to look at orgasm as the ultimate goal of sex, an idea that sex therapists refer to as the orgasmic imperative. From this perspective, sex isn’t really sex unless an orgasm happens, which leads people to approach sex…
Rewilding is a sexy idea that gets sexier every day. If we apply the concept to our love life, it can help us have more natural, spontaneous and satisfying sex. What is Rewilding? In conservation biology, it represents a restoration of habitat to its natural state, which might actually be the only thing that can…
Opening the box will leave you speechless. The feeling of 24-karat gold against your skin will leave you speechless. And the most luxurious orgasm you’ll ever receive… you can’t exactly put into words. The YVA is both a vibrator and a jewel that’s crafted for perfect solo or partnered play. It’s ergonomic design allows it…
Interestingly, just this week one of my girlfriends admitted that she was able to orgasm without touching herself whilst reading erotica . Green with envy, I was made even more aware of just how powerful the mind really is. “What great timing,” I thought, just in time to write this article. You see, I was…
When is National Hugging Day? National Hugging Day falls on January 21 and is dedicated to encourage people to hug (with consent as not to breach their personal space). Why Do People Hug? Hugs can be a powerful tool to express support and comfort. Not only do they have mental benefits, but can improve physical…
This isn’t a vibrator to keep up with the Joneses, it’s a vibrator for the Joneses. If you’re looking to step up your sex toy game to the highest of luxuries, the INEZ 24K Gold G-Spot Vibrator is as decadent as pleasure gets. It’s design features a curved shaft with a thicker handles and userface…
Sunlight peaks in around the window ledge, streaming through the shear curtains and warming my hand. I slowly waken, struggling to open my eyes. Something feels different. These are not my sheets, these are not my pillow. As the room comes into focus, details from the previous night come rushing back. I yawn as I…
These beautifully-crafted pleasure makers may look almost identical, but there are a few differences to note when choosing the best one for you. GIGI 2 and LIV 2 are mid-sized massagers that have really been shown to strike a chord with our customers, whether they be used internally, externally, or a combination of both. How…
Maybe you’ve seen deep throating it in videos and want to try it for yourself, or perhaps you’re looking to blow a partner’s mind (among other things) with a new trick in your sexual arsenal. No matter what your motivation is for deep-throating, it’s not something you can just jump into—it takes a bit of…