Intercourse should not hurt. I’m always surprised at how many of my patients have been suffering with painful intercourse of some kind for years. But I’m also so glad they have finally decided to seek treatment. There are many reasons why a woman might be suffering from painful intercourse. For example, lack of lubrication, vaginal…
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Infertility Is More Common Than You Think
Once considered a taboo topic, infertility is now a mainstream discussion. This is a good thing, because promoting infertility awareness can help those who are struggling with it in several ways. First, people don’t have to suffer in isolation, and there is great hope in regard to the latest treatment options. And when personal stories…
Exploring Pleasure: A Guide to Using a G-Spot Vibrator
Discovering and embracing your own pleasure is a beautiful and personal journey. A G-spot vibrator can be a valuable tool for individuals seeking heightened sensations and exploring their bodies. In this article, we will delve into the art of using a G-spot vibrator, from locating and stimulating the G-spot to discussing various types of G-spot…
What Is High-Risk Sexual Behavior?
Sex is a beautiful part of most people’s lives and relationships. Unfortunately it also comes with its own difficulties and details to navigate. Certain sexual behaviors and habits are inherently risky, that’s a part of life. Understanding these potential risks, why people engage in them, and how to avoid them is an important step in…
All About PrEP: Are You a Good Candidate?
The first reported cases of HIV were diagnosed in 1981. This devastating epidemic disproportionately affected the LBGTQ+ community and places throughout the world that have limited access to sexual education and healthcare. Since then it has continued to be a major public health concern throughout the world. Approximately 84.2 million people have been infected with…
Where is the G-Spot: Unraveling the Pleasure Point for Women
Where is a woman’s G-Spot? The G-spot , a highly debated and sought-after erogenous zone, has fascinated researchers, sexual health experts, and couples for decades. Named after Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg, who first described it in the 1950s, the G-spot is believed to be an area of heightened sensitivity inside the vagina that can lead to…
Why You Should Stop Looking for “The One”
Blame it on Disney fantasies, early 2000s magazines, and every rom-com ever made, but there is some interesting messaging out there when it comes to dating. One of the biggest narratives we’re fed around dating and relationships is that there’s this magical unicorn of a human that was made just for you – “the one”.…
Dawn and Sir – An Erotic Story
Dawn Davis stopped her red Audi coupe along the curb on Ewing Street. The neighborhood was one of the oldest in the city, and the gentrification reflected early Greek Revival-style homes and a few, rare Gothic Revival residences. The neighborhood was ideal for a stroll on a warm late-summer evening with fireflies while the sun…
LELO Launches a Luxury Makeup Line
LELO isn’t just a self-care brand, it’s a movement that pushes boundaries – bold, unafraid, and a leader in desire. After two years of crafting, they’ve recently launched a line of liquid lipsticks and stylo lipsticks that are created with deeply pigmented colors that look beautiful on all skin colors. They last long while hydrating…
Emotional Blocks in Sexual Pleasure
You’re really into a new romantic or sexual partner. They make you feel lit up, seen, supported, and you also happen to think they’re super cute. You start to kiss and it feels right, you feel arousal building, everything feels hot and sexy, but then you just seem to… tap out. You like them, you’re…
The Odyssey – An Erotic Story
Jake banged his head on the metal locker and groaned. “I got Mr. Hein for health class. The guy with the yellow teeth. What a waste. My doodling will so improve this semester. Who did you get for health?” Mark scanned his semester’s schedule. “Mrs. Larson, just after lunch, third period.” “Mrs. Larson! Man, you…
WAP: The Problematic History of Vaginal Wetness
In the words of the great Cardi B “Now get a bucket and a mop, that’s some wet ass pussy”. Vaginas get wet. It’s one of the many wonderful things they do. If you have a vagina, I hope you embrace its wetness. If you don’t, we understand. People with vaginas have been told to…
Love Under Her Moon – An Erotic Story
Sadie collapsed onto the plush love seat, exhausted. Marissa looked amused at her. “Why the hell does the drive here wear me out so much? It’s not even two hours long.” She tried to laugh out her frustration, but tiredness overtook. She attempted to release the remainder of the stress by running her hands through…
Should You Be Able to Get a Prescription for Vibrators?
Using a vibrator can help you amp up your sex life whether it’s during masturbation or with a partner. But it isn’t all fun and games. Vibrators also have therapeutic applications and can help with various medical conditions. That begs the question – should you be able to get a prescription for a vibrator? The…
How To Work on Your Sex Skills if You’re Single and Lonely
Sexuality is a form of sharing – experiences, pleasure, love, and yes, genetic material. Yet, it can’t just be sharing because we don’t stop being sexual without a partner. Being single is by no means an obstacle to developing your sexual skills even if there’s presently a dry spell in your love life. Here are…
Benefits of Hormone Therapy for Women
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: I would marry HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) if I could. I was in my late 40s and experiencing hot flashes – nay – nuclear flashes, several times an hour, round the clock. As a result, I was absolutely miserable and irritable and I was losing hope…
Let’s Talk About the Spit Kink!
Saliva is kind of weird, right? A watery liquid secreted into the mouth by glands? But, of course, just like most things in the body, it serves a purpose. Saliva is important because it provides lubricant for chewing and swallowing, which aids in digestion. So, how in the world did saliva (or rather, spitting out…
Red Breasted Robin – An Erotic Story
Roger Westinghouse studied his grandfather’s binoculars from World War II. He removed the covers of the eye lenses, put the binoculars to his eyes but saw complete darkness. His dad, Lewis Westinghouse, nudged him. “Take off the lens cover. It helps.” Roger looked at the large end of the lenses. “Makes sense.” Roger pulled off…
What Is a Tilted Uterus? And How Does It Affect Sex?
A tilted uterus, sometimes known as a “tipped” uterus or a “retroverted” uterus, can be a common condition that happens to nearly one in every three women. Even so, many of those who have a tilted uterus can go their entire lives without knowing it. But, for those who experience discomfort due to a tilted…
IDA Wave Review Compilation
The LELO IDA Wave comes with many improvements after its predecessor, the best part being it’s rotating internal nub that offers a deep stimulation of the G-spot. The bulb of the toy rests on the clitoris, while still allowing room for penetrative sex with a partner. Pair it with the LELO app for total hands-free…
So You’re Thinking About Getting a Vasectomy
Considering this procedure? Then you’re in very good company. In fact, it’s becoming more and more commonplace, particularly here in the United States. While it can bring to mind words such as impossibly painful and very permanent, these are old school characterizations. Urologist Justin K. Houman of Cedar-Sinai Hospital in Los Angeles gets it. “Because…
Safety in the Kink Community
The world of kink. A sensual playground. A vast land of possibilities to explore new sensations. A place to let your fantasies come to life and explore edges. BDSM and other kinks allow people to explore new frontiers, break down emotional walls, and feel incredible in their bodies. We’re not going to beat around the…
Vagina Tales: Myths About the Hymen
If you’re a fan of historical fiction you’ve probably seen many scenes in books, movies, or shows of aristocratic families making a big deal of someone’s first time having sex after getting married. They check the sheets for blood the next day, they may even have a “doctor” examine the woman to ensure her “purity”.…
Who Invented Sex? The Breakdown
Propagation, fission, mitosis – since the dawn of time, things have been reproducing in one way or another. It’s what makes the world go round. Keeps DNA moving from one generation to the next. Keeping the cycle of life alive and well. Then we look at sex as we know it. Incredibly fun and pleasurable,…
10 Sexual Orientations You Probably Haven’t Heard Of
Variety is the spice of life, and what’s more human than the primal urges and desires that drive you to connect with other humans? We’re talking about the complex and colorful world of sexuality. You’ve probably got the basics down – straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and queer, but there is so much more to sexuality…
Sleep Divorce: Why You Might Want To Sleep in Separate Bedrooms From Your Partner
What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the term “sleep divorce”? Probably nothing good, right? The old-school way of living with your partner includes sleeping in the same room, same bed, and under the same duvet cover. Often, people still believe that not sharing a bed with your partner is…
The Best Couples’ Sex Toys for Beginners & Experts Alike
This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. So you and your partner have both decided to introduce a sex toy to your relationship, realizing how much added enjoyment it can bring to your sensual sessions. The question now is; ‘which one do I choose?’ Because of course different types of…
Sex Toys for Men: The What, Why and How
Although there may be less of an abundance of sex toys for men as there are for women, that’s not to say that guys shouldn’t give them a go! Not only can the right toy unlock pleasures sublime that no amount of, ahem, manual masturbation can reach, as an added bonus, they can bring about…
You’re Hot and…You’re Not.
Why do we find particular people attractive? Is it merely pheromones? Is it about what’s normalized for us culturally? And what does science say about all of this? A 2019 study published in The Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America revealed that yes, we actually do have types.…
The Power of Social Media and Our Sexual Health
Social Media… Some of us grew up with it, some of us had to learn how to use it, and some of us couldn’t live without it. Whatever your opinion is, you cannot deny the impact social media has had on our daily lives, especially in the world of sexual health at Maze Health. We…
The Vaginismus Diaries
We’ve seen the power of TikTok to influence the fashion, fitness, and beauty industries but recently it’s also proven to be a powerful force for initiating long overdue conversations about women’s sexual health. In the last year or two, slowly but surely sexual health influencers are popping up and making waves. A platform that…
Sex in the Media: Explore or Ignore – “Fleischman is in Trouble”
If you haven’t caught this delightful FX-Hulu series yet, I highly recommend you do so. I’ve only seen the first episode, but I can’t wait to devour the rest of the season. “Fleischman is in Trouble” is based on the much-heralded 2019 book by Taffy Brodesser-Akner, and while I expected terrific performances by the likes…
Resolve Nothing
As a new year begins, we often here people speak about their “New Year’s Resolutions.” More often than not these resolutions are about changing something about yourself. Popular ones include: losing weight, getting to the gym more often, eating healthy, etc. But what if we stopped and thought for a moment about what we like…
Attachment Theory in Love & Relationships
Attachment theory is the best way to understand love and romantic relationships. “Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950′s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways: Anxious — people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partners ability to…
It’s Time to Love Yourself This Valentine’s Day
Learning to love yourself may be harder than learning to love someone else. And having a great sex life when you don’t love yourself – well that can be tricky. So here are some things to think about as we approach Valentine’s Day: Be your own best friend: When you start putting yourself down for…
Sex in the Media: Explore or Ignore – Throwback Version
“Bridesmaids” still delivers. What makes this movie “Bridesmaids” so irresistible, even 12 years after its initial release? Thecomedy, written by Kristen Wiig and Annie Mumolo, was considered groundbreaking back in2011. It not only brought us iconic lines of comedic genius, but it broke down gender barriers byallowing female characters to be raunchy and authentic…
Suddenly, the World of Open Relationships is Much More… Open!
In the last few years, conversations around non-monogamy have become much more mainstream. From the Netflix series You, Me, Her to TikTok accounts like @OpenlyCommited – society is slowly becoming more open to the idea of being open. If you haven’t seen it, @Openlycommited is a TikTok account with upwards of 120K followers and nearly…
The Many Benefits of Kegels
It’s almost Springtime, and that means later sunsets, al fresco dining, and hammocks gentlyrocking in the breeze. And that got me thinking – as a women’s health specialist – about thehammocks that aren’t suspended by trees but the ones that naturally hang from our pelvicbones! Yes, indeed, Friends, our pelvic bones have muscles within the…
3 Audio Erotica Apps for Fuller, Stronger Orgasms
3 Audio Erotica Apps for Fuller, Stronger Orgasms Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: December 21, 2022 There are orgasms you squeak through just to get the job done. And then there are full, powerful orgasms that arrive because you’re fully turned on and engaged with your body. For the latter, especially if you’re…
The 6 Best Sex Toys to Introduce to a Partner for the First Time
The 6 Best Sex Toys to Introduce to a Partner for the First Time Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: December 21, 2022 When you kick back for self-pleasure, you have a trusty vibrator that gets the job done. And maybe you’ve been thinking about introducing that toy to your partner or whomever you’re…
How to Prepare for Anal Sex
How to Prepare for Anal Sex Written by: Denise John, PhD | Published on: December 23, 2022 The anus has thin walls, doesn’t self-lubricate, and is surrounded by sphincter muscles that naturally tighten closed when touched. So for anal sex, experts suggest that you apply lots (and lots) of lube, get relaxed before penetration, start…
The goop Pursuit: A New Audible Original Series
The goop Pursuit: A New Audible Original Series Written by: Kiki Koroshetz | Published on: January 12, 2023 Live today: our four-part Audible Original series, The goop Pursuit . In each 90-minute installment, we go on an intimate journey that involves some learning—and a lot of unlearning. “Leaning into Pleasure ” is led by Penda…
How Touching Yourself—Together—Can Reignite Your Sexual Connection
How Touching Yourself—Together—Can Reignite Your Sexual Connection Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: February 14, 2023 Photo courtesy of Paula Codoñer When couples seek out clinical sexologist Michaela d’Artois at her online practice Inner Eros , it’s usually because they could use some help reconnecting to intimacy and desire. Mutual masturbation is one of…
Can Temperature Play Heat Up Your Sex Life?
Can Temperature Play Heat Up Your Sex Life? Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: February 23, 2023 The merit of trying something new in the bedroom is that it might reveal a kink you didn’t know you had. Temperature play, which puts feelings of hot and cold to work sexually, can be a low-stakes…
How Your Cycle Influences Sexual Desire
How Your Cycle Influences Sexual Desire Written by: Jolene Brighten, ND | Published on: March 16, 2023 | Reviewed by: Denise John, PhD Hypothesis and Emerging Research Toggle description Some early observations support this concept (or parts of the theory), and there is scientific interest in elucidating exactly what’s at work. Jolene Brighten, ND, is…
5 (Helpful) Things to Know about Sex after Childbirth
5 (Helpful) Things to Know about Sex after Childbirth Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: March 30, 2023 We Give All The Kudos For This Article To…..[Click Here]
A Guide to Sex Talk (for Those Who Find It Challenging)
A Guide to Sex Talk (for Those Who Find It Challenging) Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: April 6, 2023 We Give All The Kudos For This Article To…..[Click Here]
The 8 Best Bullet Vibrators—and How to Use Them
The 8 Best Bullet Vibrators—and How to Use Them Written by: Kelly Martin | Published on: April 11, 2023 We Give All The Kudos For This Article To…..[Click Here]
Toys For Men & Their Partners
Men love toys. As boys, they love boy toys. As men, they love man toys. Men often have special places where they play with their toys – the garage, the basement, the shed, the man cave. We men usually need to collect more toys to work on our toys. Some people might call them tools.…
Hottest Gift of the Year? It’s Not What You Think
Tis this season, and as the 300 Hallmark holiday films (seriously – they’ve made 300 of them!) inevitably feature – it’s snowflakes and sugar cookies and lights all aglow. And it’s oh so romantic, lest we forget. What happens when daydreams turn from peppermint mocha everything to cuffing and cozying and curling up with your…