Dating used to be really hard. REALLY hard. It involved, like, talking to people and networking. You either had to be so magnetically attractive that potential partners would just gravitate towards you, so charming that you could talk the beak off a duck, marry someone you went to school with, or someone you met through…
“O feet unfettered! O unhampered beauty! Thrice happy me and blessed, if on me ye tread!” With over twelve years of experience as a dominatrix, the above could have easily appeared numerous times in my inbox, albeit in usually less poetic guises. Written however by the third-century sophist Philostratus in a love letter some time…
“Who’s there?” Jill replied. “Room service,” came the reply, almost automatic, muted slightly by the weight of the closed door. Jill rose from the bed and stood, curling her toes for a moment in the thick weave of the carpet and casually walked over to the door. She opened it with a smile, and enjoyed…
Winter weather brings us steamier sex? New research suggests that men have a higher sex drive during winter months. Now we can stop complaining about the cold and start reaping its benefits. In a recent study published in The Psychology of Human Sexuality, 114 men rated their perceived attractiveness of two sets of photos –…
They say it’s lonely at the top. When it comes to sex I’d disagree; it’s not lonely, but it can be dark. It can be complex, challenging and conflicted. There’s a lot of literature out there about the phenomenon known in BDSM circles as ‘subspace’, which is a kind of euphoric mental and physical state…
Let’s face it – just because it’s the holidays doesn’t mean that the super sweet carnal desire for some intimate one-on-one time with your partner (or, you know, the person from high school you only see once a year) suddenly goes by the wayside. In fact, with all the stress that the holidays bring, and…
If you’re having trouble connecting your F1s device to the LELO F1s app, we’re here to help. Follow these simple steps for connectivity: Download the “LELO F1s” app and make sure your phone’s bluetooth is enabled. Make sure it is charged until a steady glow (we recommend a 2 hour charge before use). Make sure…
Welcome to the wonderful world of threesomes… a sexual experience that is so incredibly diverse, and enjoyed by people of all walks of life. Whether you’re heterosexual, homosexual, trans, male, female, poly, black, white, or blue, a threesome can be a thrilling bout of pleasure comprised of a number of different positions, erotic acts, and…
Did you know that the word ‘honeymoon’ actually holds a negative connotation? In short, the word represents the moon which is ever-changing. It basically suggests that newly weds will experience bliss after their wedding, but just like the moon, their relationship will inevitably change. And this is true of new relationships too. When you start…
Have you ever felt just a little bit different when it comes to how you feel desire for other people? While gender, sexuality and desire will never feel exactly the same for any two people, some of the common cultural narratives we have exist because, well, they’re common. But, those ‘common’ experiences of love and…
Brian’s Whore I had on the perfect outfit to be Brian’s whore tonight, my third scheduled Partner of the week. The previous night I had been gangbanged by Ted and his clan. Earlier today I had enjoyed the most wonderful lesbian experience of my life with Diana. When I returned to the office Rick had…
Are you and your partner a pair of erotic auteurs? In this day and age, when we all have the equivalent of a hi-def camera in our pockets, there seems to be no better and easier time than now, no? With the right person — and ALWAYS with their knowledge and consent — making a…
It’s inevitable… the honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. So, whether you’ve been dating for six months, or married for sixty years, those endorphin-fuelled romping sessions you enjoyed with your partner when you first started dating will never quite feel the same again. But that isn’t a bad thing! When you start feeling comfortable with your…
Whether you’re getting it regularly, not at all – or hey, maybe too often – sex is still an often bewildering subject for many people. Sure, you may know the mechanics of it, not to mention the etiquette involved in sex, but chances are there is a thing or two that you’ve heard that might…
Whether you’re single AF , looking for a play partner, getting serious in a relationship, about to tie the knot, or happily married, you’ll find something interesting in this little research project we underwent here at LELO. This survey was done on a global scale in such a way that it shows how love evolves…
We’re celebrating 24 Days of X-Rated Holidays with LELO’S NAUGHTY HOLIDAYS. Tune in to our Instagram (@lelo_official) each day to see what steamy surprises await the sexiest challenge of the year. The 24 Days of LELO’S NAUGHTY HOLIDAYS are all about remembering to take care of ourselves and be in the best mood for this…
While more than one straight male has lamented that they’re competing with ‘batteries’ when it comes to women they’re interested in. But, in a game of orgasms, are there really any losing sides? Still, it can get in our heads, and coupled with a lack of information about masturbation in general, plenty of sex toy…
Let’s not beat around the bush… using condoms is not exactly the most favourable thing in the world. Millions of people worldwide find that using a condom can reduce sensation , and is just, well, a drag. So, instead of bashing this magical invention, let’s celebrate it by taking a look at LELO’s HEX condoms…
She stuck her thumbs up. Both of them. For such small hands they suddenly seemed to be huge. Ah, the bum’s rush. Nothing like it. What he’d noticed first was her hair. Thick. Full-back length. Brown as her eyes. Except her eyes were blue. Shocking, bright aquamarine blue. That’s what you noticed first, if you…
A Lesbian Encounter I woke up Wednesday morning feeling a bit sore from the previous night’s gangbang. I had accommodated 11 men. What had transpired in only my second night of use by one of the Partners had been totally unexpected – a forced gangbang. When I first realised what was happening, I was shocked.…
A whirlwind romance definitely comes with its perks. A no-strings-attached confidence boost that sends you springing down the street with a big, fat smile on your face? Yeah, that does sound like a treat, doesn’t it? But life doesn’t always go the way you planned… What happens when the whole ‘casual dating’ thing appears to…
They say you can never have too much of a good thing, and G-spot massagers like GIGI 2 tend to make us agree! Here’s a deeper look at exactly what makes GIGI 2 so good at giving G-spot orgasms! Its history doesn’t hurt! Since it was first released, the original GIGI has enjoyed unprecedented success,…
Rather than counting how many sleeps until Christmas, we prefer to count all the ways to bring some seasonally-appropriate sexiness to those longer winter nights, so here’s a naughty list of ways to get freaky and festive at the very same time (santa hats are optional but strongly encouraged). Make sure that stocking gets stuffed!…
December 1st marks World AIDS Day, and while many people don’t think they relate to this holiday, it’s a day we should all be celebrating– whether that be celebrating our friends living with AIDS or celebrating the long way science has come in educating us about this disease. A lot has changed, but that doesn’t…
Very soon after its publication in 2011, ’50 Shades’ became a dirty word in the adult and kink communities and industries. We quickly learned to hate it. Not necessarily the book, but the fact that we had all become Christian Grey’s submissives over night. We just couldn’t escape it. I was at an erotic poetry…
What is Cyber Monday? The stuffing has been stuffed in our bellies, we’ve gone around the table saying what we’re thankful for, and unless you’ve been cryogenically frozen for the past decade and a half, you’ve probably at least heard of Cyber Monday. Basically, it’s the online equivalent of Black Friday – a day for…
As the weather outside gets colder, the inside of your bedroom should, naturally, start getting hotter. Winter might be the best season for snuggling under a warm blanket but that’s not exactly what LELO has in mind with their 2nd Annual Naughty Holidays competition. We received so many amazing submissions last year and we’re excited…
As we’ve covered so extensively here before, sex and pleasure are very beneficial to your mental as well as your physical wellbeing . Sex, with its rush of endorphins and other happy brain chemicals – not to mention the exercise you get – is a great way to relieve stress. And it’s true, sex can…
LELO is embracing the holiday spirit by offering a very kinky advent calendar which unlocks new deals each day. So now’s the question – will you join us on the naughty list this year? While that limited-edition paperweight or flashy broach may catch your eye, what will make your partner really quiver is a gift…
For thousands of years, people have searched for edible items to guarantee peak sexual performance and pleasure. Ancient Romans swore by hippo snouts, while even now, tiger penis is thought to be a libido booster in China. Luckily for you (and these animals), there are healthier and more palatable foods that give you longer-lasting results…
My First Gangbang As I was travelling into the office on Tuesday morning, dressed in a very sexy outfit, my mind wandered back to the day before, my first official day as Company slut. Could it have been more perfect! I blew my boss Rick in his office, I got my new slutplug, I gave…
Enjoying a passionate tryst can be one of the most rewarding activities. Not only for the fun itself, but for the emotional, physical, and mental benefits during and thereafter. Achieving an orgasm has the ability to relieve stress , increase happiness, lower one’s blood pressure, as well as bring a sense of closeness between partners…
Has someone caught your eye? Or maybe your loins are burning with desire when it comes to that cute barrister that serves you your morning coffee? Sure, maybe it wasn’t love at first sight, but there is another way that you can capture the heart and private parts of the person you’re pining after… or…
Laying in the darkness, Deandra tossed & turned, plumped her pillows, checked her phone and huffing out a huge sigh, threw herself back down onto her back. Would she ever get to sleep? What was the matter with her lately that sleep was eluding her? She had removed caffeine after 6pm, had warm baths in…
The holidays are right around the corner and Tinder is coming up short, it’s time to swipe right on some crazy LELO Black Friday deals. We’re talking up to 50% off and bundles upon bundles of goodies sure to make your bits skip a beat. What’s even better? You can avoid the crazy chaos and…
While getting revenge on an ex partner or lover way back when constituted sleeping with their best friend or spreading negative rumours, today’s technological world has called for a new kind of revenge… that is, revenge porn. It’s easier than ever to do, and leaves the victim with irreparable effects, including embarrassment, humiliation, anger, depression,…
My boss Rick had removed my G-string and inserted a buttplug inside me, a condition I was to be in at all times in the office. I had then blown him to relax him before attending an important meeting, a duty I was to happily fulfil for him whenever he needed it in the future.…
Being a Psychosexual Therapist, or Sex Therapist is less scandalous than the title would indicate. In the way that I see it, it’s the art of having open conversations and solving challenges around sex. The reasons that people attend psychosexual therapy are as varied as we all are individual; and really it’s about anything to…
Ever heard the expression: ‘There’s a place and time for everything’? As cheesy as it may seem, it’s actually shockingly accurate… even when it comes to having sex! So, while you may appear to be more aroused on a Saturday night, or find yourself feeling frisky on a Monday afternoon, we’re here to shatter that…
Casual sex already has a bad reputation. But could it be directly linked to depression and anxiety? It’s something a lot of young people worry about, and it’s a scary thought that something as good as sex might cause psychological problems. Academics, health professionals, and the media alike have all expressed concerns that hooking up…
The short leather skirt was tight on the blonde’s ass, making it look bigger. Her legs were long and slim and she wore red high-heels that announced her presence on the dimly-lit street. As she walked, she knew the man behind was staring. She could feel it. Suddenly, she stopped and let her silver zippo…
Ever heard of the phrase “clitorally mindblowing”? Because that’s the best way to describe the new and improved SONA 2 clitoral massager . This little pleasure maker makes big sonic waves that stimulate deep into the clitoris. It’s also fully waterproof to make bathtime wetter than ever. Its fast yet gentle sensations are pretty much…
It’s nice to be nice, don’t you think? Doing things for others without an ulterior motive really does boast great empathy and kindness. Not to mention how lovely it is to receive something special from… someone special! Unfortunately, in this particular scenario, there is definitely an ulterior motive. But that’s not to say that it’s…
The cum that comes before the cum – is pre-cum! Otherwise known as pre-ejaculate in more professional or formal parlance, you have no doubt encountered it before. The clear-ish fluid, which you’ll notice seeping out of the tip of his penis when he’s aroused, plays an important role in men’s reproductive responses. However there’s much…
Hi everyone, Dr. Zhana here! Let’s answer some questions! To start off with, “Is it healthy to masturbate?” The answer is: absolutely yes! There are so many benefits to masturbation and virtually no downsides! So go ahead and explore! Dildo or vibrator? That depends on what kind of stimulation you’re going for. If you just…
Back in my twenties, I’d been selected by an older woman, Evelyn, out of the half dozen young guys clustered around her in the pool at the club. The three young women at the other end of the pool, visibly pissed at being abandoned by their admirers, were understandably baffled at how a plump, grandmotherly,…
It wasn’t until recently that I realized what I was doing even had a name. That bringing myself close to orgasm—and then quickly pulling away at the very last moment—was a sexy technique commonly referred to as edging. How this game first made its way into my bedroom repertoire remains a mystery, but I do…
Just a simple disclaimer before we get started here: this is not a list of the best blowjob techniques or nifty new sex positions to try (although if that’s what you want, you will definitely find what you’re looking for on this very blog). What we’re covering in today’s article is all the things that…
‘When I was your age, sex was something that took place between two flesh and blood people!’ is something we will be saying to our grandkids. Even then, that situation might be assuming too much if the current advancements in sex toy tech keep moving forward at a breakneck pace: perhaps we’ll be saying it…
Everyone has their own comfort zone. And when it comes to BDSM, some believe it to be intimidating, rough, and perhaps even unpleasant. On the other hand, there are people who find the whole thing entirely intriguing or even extremely exciting. So, instead of offering hardcore BDSM tips that may make the more vanilla solo…