There is no one gender that has a monopoly on not being in the moment during lovemaking. When it comes to a wandering mid-coitus mind, women are just as likely as anyone to be thinking of any number of things, other than what’s happening right there in front of them. IT should be no surprise…
In literal terms, a cat fish is a diverse ray-finned fish that has distinguishable barbels that look like a cat’s whiskers. But in the figurative world, a catfish is something completely different… and chances are, you’ve heard of this term before. Regardless of your views on the matter, being a catfish is devastatingly immoral, cruel,…
I was young once. Too afraid to give into my desires. Looking back now, I wonder how I resisted, but more interestingly, how I am so free to being face down, ass bare in the air, ready to take submissive orders today. We went to a place far enough from home to have all the…
Tiktok is one of the largest social media platforms with over 1 billion monthly users. The app’s popularity can be widely attributed to its unique algorithm that quickly picks up on what the users like and want to see on their For You pages. Due to TikTok’s algorithm being so accurate, it’s very easy for…
What’s your first reaction when someone says they “waited for marriage” or when someone mentions the concept of virginity? Do you cringe? Are you ambivalent? Does it resonate with you? Does it bring up some family and cultural baggage? Is it outside of your normal life but you’re curious? All or none of the above?…
Once upon a time, we revealed that the sexiest kind of exercise was of the kegel variety. You know, when you tighten your pelvic floor muscles (either manually or using Ben Wa Balls) in order to make them stronger, resulting in intense and more powerful orgasms? And while we still stand by this, coregasms are…
The saying “Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world” is not just an aphorism. Although there’s some truth to that, it is a bit of a misconception. This phrase was coined in 1898 by Victorian writer Rudyard Kipling. In truth, there is no evidence of sex work amongst primitive societies, and it didn’t exist…
How can you fracture something that has no bone? It may sound like a riddle, but we are here to explain just that. Penis is entirely made of soft tissue, yet it gets fractured more often than we’d like to admit. I won’t deny that broken dick has somewhat of a comedic quality to it,…
Before we dive in, let’s all agree that the term ‘crazy’ is relative? When someone talks about having a “crazy weekend” it’s often met with positive praise. But when one calls another “crazy” it’s a negative thing. So when we say we’re going to be talking about 4 crazy sex positions, don’t be too intimidated!…
Erectile dysfunction is something that, at some point of their lives, will have to contend with. Even outside of erectile dysfunction, a man should also consider the overall health of his penis and the quality of the erections that it can achieve. The issue can be considered erectile dysfunction if you are either not able…
Whether you’ve got a fabulous bestie, are partnered up, happily married, enjoying a bit of fun with someone, or crushing on another person, what exactly is it that attracts you to them? Maybe you can name one or more reasons straight off the bat, or maybe you simply believe that they’re special and deserve some…
What’s that I hear? Are those wedding bells ringing in my ear? So you’ve decided to take the plunge and tie the knot. A big congratulations to you! This is one of the most important and exciting points in your life. So exciting, that you may be at a loss for words. Language is one…
With the popularity of online dating, the chances of you speaking to someone on the phone or hearing a voice note from them before actually meeting, is high. And how about the growingly popular TV show, Love is Blind, in which contestants base their levels of attraction towards another using only their voice? It’s true!…
Mrs. Mower heard Principal Simmon’s baritone voice. “Mrs. Mower,” he said demurely, “a message for you.” She stopped in the middle of a text to her husband. He set down a chic square envelope on top of her stack of math textbooks. “No pressure. We just wanted to offer a nice evening out.” “We?” “Yes,…
So you’re getting ready for a first date. How exhilarating! Is your tummy filled with butterflies, creating a slew of anxiety, intrigue, and excitement? Are you preparing to look and feel your best, to make a great impression, and hopefully get whatever it is you want out of this date? Maybe you’re looking for a…
How does a vibrator work? Well, that’s a loaded question, indeed! And that’s because there are so many different types of vibrators. Needless to say, what all of them have in common, is the fact that they vibrate in order to induce sexual bliss. Vibrators come in different shapes, sizes, colours, and vary immensely, depending…
“I only date Asian girls because they’re so hot.” “Once you go black, you’ll never go back.” “Oh, no, man. I only date white girls. Black girls are just not my type.” Unfortunately, statements like these are a fairly frequent occurrence in conversations amongst people, even the younger generations, who are more aware of racism…
You’d think that sex, love, and romance would be the most natural things for humans, but that’s not always the case. Many of us are often left floundering when it comes to these vital parts of life. Sex ed in school often leaves people more confused than before, your parents may not have the best…
Question: how did you meet your current partner? And what about the last person you dated? Chances are, you’ve gone on a number of dates with people you’ve met on one or more online dating sites. And while these apps are mostly a pain, they can actually work. Think about it: at this very moment…
Love at first sight is so often romanticised. In movies, films, and even in real life. And while the thought of it does sound appealing, there is the flip side of it all. In other words, is love at first sight actually quite shallow? Does it mean that one can be filled with feelings of…
It might surprise you that it’s not “Boobs. Boobs. BOOBS.” There are many things that are going through a man’s mind while he’s making love–and yes, there’s a good chance he’s fantasizing about someone or something else. And that’s okay, because you’re probably doing it too! What is he thinking during sex? While making love,…
Edging is the practice of stopping yourself just before you reach orgasm, when you are on the metaphorical “edge” of sexual climax. While originally invented as a treatment for premature ejaculation, edging can help people climax more easily, and enable us to develop control over when those orgasms happen (1). Not only that, it’s also…
Steve knocked on the front door of Brandon’s house on Sherwood Drive. Instead of his friend answering, it was Brandon’s mom. “Steve, how are you?” she said brightly. “Hi, Ms. Davis. I’m here to get Brandon.” “He’s not back yet. He was held up at track practice. It shouldn’t be too long though. You can…
There’s a well-known expression that goes, “birds of a feather, flock together”. So we were curious to find out whether this expression was applicable when it comes to sex and dating. Well, more so about whether vegetarians and vegans were more likely to date other vegetarians and vegans (spoiler alert? They are!), and if being…
First off, if it fits in your pocket, it’s immediately easier to own, use, and enjoy because of its small size. Whether it’s a wallet, keys, cards, or a sex toy! But when it comes to petite sex toys, there are even more benefits to revel in besides its cute size! Herewith, we’re dedicating this…
It’s a common concern for many men, especially as they age – as testosterone levels level off and begin to decrease, what can we do to keep them at their peak levels? The answers are actually easier than you think, so read on for the 8 ways to naturally maintain and even maybe increase your…
An opinion piece… Ah, American football, a classic pastime in the U.S. The season builds up to its peak, the Super Bowl, which is essentially an American holiday. One where drunkenness, layered bean dips, and betting are some of the most time-honored traditions. The highlight of these festivities is the halftime show. The Superbowl halftime…
It’s fair to say that Valentine’s Day has always been geared towards couples. Year after year, restaurants on February 14th are packed with tables of twosomes. But times have changed and the idea that the most romantic day of the year should be limited to duos is dated. So this year sexual wellness brand LELO is…
Being in a relationship is hard–especially when they’re long term. For some, they form their identity around their partner, making it hard to spot things that they perhaps once believed to be a deal breaker. Not just that, but seeing those waving red flags are even harder when you’re so invested in another human. And…
“Mrs. Mower…” Mr. Simmon said sternly through her classroom’s doorway. The woman erasing the whiteboard turned around when hearing her name. “… in my office now.” Before she could respond, he cut her off. “Yes, now.” And he ducked out. “But …” She wanted to object because her husband was off work for an evening,…
As a child, we’re often taught to share our toys. And with much fighting and fussing, some of us managed to learn about the art of sharing and how important it would be later on in life. The TOR 2 is simply a testament thereof! You see, the TOR 2 is a penis ring that’s…
Most vibrator guides on the internet will tell you all about the different shapes, sizes, and materials of sex toys. While these things are important when choosing the right toy, there is also something else you want to keep in mind – different vibration types. There are two distinct types of vibes that avid sex…
Exercise… What a drag, right? Yeah, it’s good for our health, keeps us fit and rewards us with a rush of feel-good hormones, but surely everyone has been in the position where they simply do not feel like getting their work out on. Today however, we’re going to introduce you to a new kind of…
Lacy puffed up the pillows on her cream-colored sectional one more time, and then considered where else in her apartment that may need sprucing. The living room carpet was freshly vacuumed with angled lines. The large-faced clock atop the fireplace mantel was dusted. The wine rack was full of the dark reds she loved. The…
If your satisfaction with your sex life has been lackluster, instead of finding a new partner or blaming it on both of you being incompatible in bed, it might be a good idea to learn how to be a better lover instead. Bad sex doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you or your partner.…
Sexual stamina training, erotic bliss, intense power, all in one console… is it possible? Well, yes, actually. LELO’s F1S V2 is all that and then some. It’s a pleasure product for penis-owners that’ll not only allow you to last longer in the sheets, but will also shower you with new and even better bouts of…
As a term, Penis Envy is quite well-known, and as a concept, it’s an easy-to-grasp one, as it’s right there on the tin: being envious of a penis, as in a penis that is not yours. Among men and penis-having individuals, this is simple enough to understand, as who hasn’t at least wondered about the…
Sexual desire (or sex drive, or libido – however you want to call it) is a rather misunderstood concept to this day. And not without reason. Due to the lack of sexual education in the majority of the world and mixed signals regarding sex in media, it’s natural that people are confused. The good news…
Looking for the culmination of sexual wellness and slow sex? You’ve come to the right place. SILA is strong when you need it and gentle until you want it. What is the difference between SILA and SILA Cruise? Cruise. Control. Technology. What is it? LELO toys with Cruise Control Technology save 20% of their overall…
Consider this guys: the way you masturbate is the same way you’ve been doing it for your entire sexually active life. For instance, this writer is in his mid-30s, which means that it’s been the same rub-and-tug for over 20 years now. Now, I am sure that you’re not sick of masturbating or anything–but what…
Having sex for the first time can be a daunting and nerve wracking experience for many. And while sex education, reading up on the topic, or even engaging in other sexual practices can never fully prepare you for your first time, there are some things that can aid in having a positive and pleasant experience. …
It is estimated that 37 to 39 percent of penis-owners are circumcised globally. This means the majority of penises have foreskins and yet, there are too few resources for how to effectively stimulate an uncircumcised penis. Part of the blame, at least in my opinion, is that anywhere between 76 to 92 percent of Americans…
The hands-free orgasm is certainly something you’ve come across on your favorite porn streaming site by now, and as a concept, you have to admit that it’s pretty intriguing. To climax without using one’s hands? For men, there are many ways that this can be done (mainly through prostate massage), but there are other ways…
For many men and people with penises, it may never even occur to them to try strap-on sex. If one’s parts are functioning as expected they might not see no reason to experiment with such a thing. Society in general has deeply-rooted ideas about masculinity and penises that lead men to regard such playthings as…
As Colbie Caillat sang, “It starts in my toes, makes me crinkle my nose,” a full body orgasm is kind of like that, but in the most satisfyingly sexual way possible. To enjoy a full body orgasm, it feels as though rippling waves are coursing through you with muscle contractions in your abdomen and other…
We know what you may be thinking… “Why would I want to make a man cry in the bedroom?”. Well, firstly, we don’t judge! There are many facets to sexuality, and how one experiences arousal and pleasure is not linear nor predictable. Whether you’re wanting to make a man cry in the bedroom in the…
You chose the perfect gift, cooked a dinner based exclusively on aphrodisiac foods, sprinkled the bed of rose petals… what could you still be missing for a perfect night of passion? Why, the 4 perfect positions for Valentine’s Day, of course! If it’s all About Romance Romance is not for everyone – some people break…
So often, when we read literature online or self-help books on the topic of sex, we find ourselves talking about experimenting, trying new things in the bedroom, and different way to avoid boredom in between the sheets. But what if the narrative changed? What if, instead of going for a one night stand or partnering…
For our January Q&A with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, we’re talking about Sexual Health. How much sex is necessary to keep a balanced, healthy sexual relationship? This is a remarkably common question that I get. There’s no one right answer. How often you and your partner should have sex really depends on how often the two…
If you’re looking for a way to surprise your partner, lingam massage might be a great option. It’s a practice that’s created with all the penis owners in mind. It guarantees a good time and a great way to connect with your partner. What Is Lingam Massage? Lingam massage is one of the tantric sex…