Take a moment and imagine a woman using a vibrator. What type of toy do you imagine her using? If you pictured a toy that stimulates the external genitals, you are in line with reality. In an informal survey I did with my Instagram followers, among those who used sex toys, 83% used one that…
They’re the generation that fully integrated gender inclusivity, the concept of active consent during sex, and everyday sex toy use into their lives, and yet Gen Z is done with hook-up culture. More accurately, they never bought into it in the first place, but not for the reasons you might assume. We poured over opinions…
If you’ve invested in a sex toy, deep cleaning after shared use, sanitizing after anal play, or disinfecting toys affter an illness can ensure the longevity of your toy as well as the health of your body. Some cleaning situations require extra care beyond routine washing. This will help address common concerns about bacteria, viruses,…
When it comes to cleaning our sex toys, more isn’t always better. Just because you might use bleach, alcohol, or hydrogen peroxide while cleaning your bathtub or pesky stains, doesn’t mean you should use chemicals on sex toys. These aren’t just objects in your home, they are being inserted into areas of your body, meaning…
“So you think you got skills?” Vinny crossed his arms over his chest and tilted his head. Lurita felt his eyes study her, questioning such a bold statement from a small woman. Though petite in frame with a sharp chin, Lurita bolstered herself. She determined to prove her confidence. “No question about it.” She raised…
Surviving cancer is a major feat. However, cancer treatments like surgery and chemotherapy often lead to physical and psychological changes that can have far-reaching and long-lasting effects on people’s lives, including their intimate lives. For example, it is common for survivors to experience body image issues, problems with sexual function, loss of libido, and other…
You might think that because condoms are a barrier material that their latex material is completely waterproof. That’s understandable, as it would make sense that they can withstand wet and wild scenarios. However, having sex in a water-based environment—for example, a pool, hot tub, or shower—could be pushing your condom to the limit. So, while…
Cleaning might not be something we initially associate with sex or play time, but it is a task that should be priortized after using vibrators, dildos, and anal toys. The reasons for cleaning your toys are because sex toys come into contact with our bodily fluids, and cleaning them is imperative for the safety of…
Cleaning sex toys is an important part of our hygiene but it can also increase the longevity of the toy itself. Toys come in various different materials and cleaning them requires different instructions and cleaning solutions. And when you’ve doused your toy in a silicone-based lubricant, you may need to do some extra scrubbing to…
Marriage rates aren’t what they used to be, and being in a relationship isn’t the priority anymore for many women across the globe. The growing trend of single women is expanding, and the shift is becoming more visible across all ages, cultures, and socioeconomic classes. The many reasons for this include the reevaluation of traditional…
Virtual reality is no longer just the future of gaming—even in its early versions, it’s reshaping various parts of our lives. That includes our sexuality and how we experience pleasure. With the rise of VR sex toys, sex toy users can feel every touch, stroke, and vibration in sync with what they see or hear,…
Bullet vibrators are small, discreet vibes designed primarily for external stimulation of your most intimate areas. While bullets are mostly used on the clit, these little vibes can bring delicious tingles to nipples, inner thighs and other sensitive spots. Bullet vibes are wildly popular and for a good reason. Shaped like–you guessed it–a bullet, this…
Power play, which centers around consensual power exchange between a dominant and submissive partner, is at the heart of BDSM dynamics. Ultimately, a person surrenders control while the other takes it. But what are the best BDSM toys for power play, and how can toys, restraints, and sensory tools enhance D/s dynamics? These devices can…
Understanding What Science Actually Tells Us About The G-Spot The G-spot, a topic often surrounded by both curiosity and confusion, is an area worth exploring. Let’s separate fact from fiction and base our understanding on scientific findings rather than common misconceptions. We’ll examine what medical research reveals about this sometimes elusive area and its connection…
Understanding Your Body’s Pleasure Blueprint The journey to intense orgasms starts with self-discovery. Think of it as mapping your personal pleasure landscape. With this knowledge, you can navigate your arousal and amplify your body’s natural responses. The Physiology of Pleasure Orgasm is a complex interplay of physical and psychological factors. It’s a remarkable cascade of…
Sex toys are for everyone, no matter what “equipment” you’re working with. While toys for people with vulvas tend to get the most attention, there are many brands out there that make toys specifically for people with penises –– and many people who want to buy and use them. If you’ve made it here, you’re…
Designed for people with vulvas, a G-spot vibrator is designed to internally stimulate the G-spot, which is an areas made up of sensitive tissue in the vagina. Some people wonder if the existence of the G-spot is a myth, but it’s very real. Many people with vulvas report powerful pleasure from focused G-spot stimulation and…
When it comes to sex toys, there is quite literally something for everyone. For people with vulvas, their general introduction to the world of sex toys is usually a vibrator. But no matter where someone is in their sex toy journey, vibrators stay strong as one of the top picks to explore and expand their…
LELO’s Soraya range represents the pinnacle of luxury in the world of dual-stimulation vibrators. And it shouldn’t come as a surprise, considering LELO is a brand renowned for premium sex toys and award-winning designs, one of the leaders in the luxury vibrator market. Since it was first released, the Soraya lineup has often been lauded…
Mapping The Physical Foundation of Female Response Female arousal is a complex process. It involves a fascinating interplay of physical structures and physiological changes. Understanding this anatomy offers valuable insights into how female pleasure works. This means looking closely at the key anatomical parts responsible for sensation. The Clitoris: More Than Meets the Eye The…
Anal play is an exciting way to spice up your sex life, and anal toys are a safe and pleasurable ways to explore new sensations in this erogenous zone. Due to the stigma that sitll exists around this form of play, there are many misconceptions around anal toys. Some believe that it will be painful…
Technology is rapidly evolving, and that certainly is true in the world of sex toys. We’re in a new era of modern intimacy, one where technology allows people to connect with themselves and their partners on a deeper level and experience a wide range of pleasure. Much of that is thanks to the rise of…
What’s one of the most or possibly even the most popular types of sex toys on the market? Clitoral vibrators! These toys are designed for external stimulation, targeting the hot spot of nerves and pleasure – the clitoris. They are beloved by beginners and experienced sex toy users alike. With so many different options and…
LELO, a pioneer in luxury intimate wellness, introduces the latest in its acclaimed SONA series: the SONA 3 and SONA 3 Cruise. These innovative sonic clitoral massagers are designed to deliver deeper, more satisfying orgasms through advanced technology and ergonomic design. Key Features SONA 3 SenSonic™ Technology: Utilizes gentle sonic waves for contactless clitoral stimulation,…
Good sex toy cleaning habits are key to protecting your health and keeping your pleasure tools in great shape for years to come. Yet, it’s one of the most commonly overlooked parts of owning sex toys. You may think, “Pfff, how hard can it be to clean sex toys?” Well, the process is fairly simple,…
Ah, the pleasures of running a nice bath after a long day. You put on some relaxing music, light a few aromatherapy candles, and get things nice and foamy with your favorite bath bomb. It’s time for some self-pleasure, so you take your favorite waterproof toy with you in the bathtub. After you’ve indulged in…
The Foundations of Emotional Safety in Relationships What makes us feel truly safe with another person? Emotional safety in relationships isn’t simply the absence of arguments. It’s a profound sense of security and trust, allowing us to be our authentic selves. This feeling forms the core of any meaningful connection, transforming superficial interactions into deep…
If you’ve made it here, it’s because you’re new to anal play and are curious about it, or you want to enhance your experience with toys. Either way, welcome! You may be hesitant or are wondering if anal play is right for you. Some people are hesitant to try and play because they think that…
What’s one of the most classic vibrator shapes around? Your good old rabbit vibrator. While this may be one of the most popular styles on the market today, it can be a bit intimidating to new users. But there’s nothing to worry about! These dual-stimulating devices are designed to be ergonomically friendly and to allow…
Something that beginner and expert sex toy users may not realize is just how essential it is to properly clean your sex toys. Not just for your own health, but also for the longevity of your toys. You can think of sex toy hygiene as an integral part of your sexual wellness. Something you do…
Beyond the Myths: What Science Reveals About Female Pleasure Pleasuring a woman involves understanding the complex interplay of physical, emotional, and psychological factors that contribute to female sexual satisfaction. Misconceptions surrounding female pleasure are common and can get in the way of true intimacy. This section explores the science-backed realities of female pleasure, debunking common…
Vibrators… it’s a broad term because there are so many on the market today. But fear not. That’s exactly why we’ve created this guide. Consider it a way in which to learn all about vibrators—what they are, the different vibrator types, vibrator benefits, how to choose one that’s perfect for you, how to use them,…
So you’re looking to try something new in the bedroom? Oftentimes, when people think of BDSM, they may believe that it’s intense and sometimes scary. But this really doesn’t have to be the case. There are so many different styles and themes of BDSM, as well as intensity levels, that it can be enjoyed by…
The Science Behind Meaningful Intimacy True intimacy blossoms from vulnerability, trust, and deep emotional connection. These interwoven elements create a safe haven for partners to authentically share themselves. Understanding the science behind these dynamics, particularly how our brains and bodies respond to connection, is key to building stronger, more satisfying relationships. Attachment Styles and Intimacy…
For trans and gender nonconforming people, sex toys can be a pivotal piece in reconnecting with your sense of pleasure and what it’s like to feel present in your body. Yet it can feel frustrating to feel like you’re surrounded by products and brands that only cater to cisgender people. We aim to help change…
Keeping your sex toys clean is key for two reasons: protecting your health and ensuring the longevity of your toys. That’s why it’s so essential to know exactly how to clean your sex toys. The best way to clean sex toys mostly depends on the material the toys are made from and what kind of…
Sex toy hygiene is a mandatory part of owning intimate products. While people often invest in toys to enhance their pleasure, they’re not always educated on what it takes to properly maintain and care for their vibrators, strokers, or plugs. Doing so ensures that your body stays protected from infections, bacteria, irritation, and that your…
When one thinks of sex toys, it’s often women’s sex toys that come to mind. But when it comes to male sex toys, it may just be a topic of humour. For example, one may think of a sleazy looking male masturbator that mimics the female anatomy (“realistic masturbators”) or a blow up doll. But…
The Truth About the G Spot: Separating Fact from Fiction The G spot is often a topic of whispered conversations and carries an almost mythical status when discussing female pleasure. But what’s the truth behind the rumors? This section explores the science and the reality of this intriguing area. Open communication and intimacy are essential…
AI has become the buzz in all things business, and that includes the sex toy market. Artificial intelligence sex toys are designed to learn your individual desires and physical abilities and adapt accordingly. They can radically personalize masturbation and sex in ways that even the highest tech smart sex toys (that don’t have AI) can’t…
Sex is supposed to be messy. Bedsheets and bodies are usually doused in liquids, spit, sweat, and lube, but at the end of the day, sex should still be hygienic, especially when it comes to sex toys. After all, we’re exposing our vulnerable parts to some sticky situations. In this article, we’ll explore the differences…
Beyond The Myths: Understanding Real Female Pleasure Let’s be honest: many common beliefs about female pleasure are simply wrong. Focusing only on physical techniques often misses the point. True female pleasure is a complex mix of physical, emotional, and psychological elements. Understanding this is the key to creating truly fulfilling intimacy. The Importance of Emotional…
Knowing how to clean a glass sex toy (along with metal and ceramic ones) is key to hygiene and longevity. Glass, metal, and ceramic toys are some of the most beautiful pleasure products out there, and they’re also some of the most hygienic since they’re non-porous and hence don’t trap bacteria. They also generally don’t…
The Art and Science of Sensual Touch Sensual massage is more than just a physical experience. It’s a profound way to connect with your partner on a deeper, more intimate level. This ancient practice transcends simple relaxation; it creates a bridge between physical pleasure and emotional closeness, a silent language of love and connection. This…
The Psychology Behind Sexual Initiation Initiating sex can feel vulnerable. It’s often accompanied by anxieties and uncertainties. Understanding the psychology behind initiating sex can empower you to navigate these complexities and build deeper intimacy with your partner. This involves recognizing a variety of factors, from personal insecurities to the influence of society, that shape our…
Everyone has varying levels of accessibility and ease when it comes to pleasure – which has also founds it way into topics surrounding sex and sex toys. Many people with physical disabilities or mobility issues aren’t able to use the average sex toys. That’s why more brands are creating inclusive sex toys that allow people…
The Psychology Behind Powerful Dirty Talk Dirty talk, using explicit language during intimate moments, can significantly heighten arousal and deepen connection. Its power isn’t just about the words themselves. It taps into deep psychological mechanisms that amplify desire and create a unique sense of intimacy. Understanding this psychology can unlock dirty talk’s full potential for…
Initially marketed in the 60s and 70s to massage sore muscles, the powerful “Magic Wand” massager soon developed a cult following as an vibrator for clitoral stimulation. Sex toy companies took note – today, many companies produce a variety of wand massagers specifically for pleasure. Offering intense stimulation, versatility, and deep relaxation, wand massagers are…
Sex toys are a fun way to elevate partnered play and your solo self-care routines. But just like anything that comes in close and intimate contact with your body, sex toys require regular upkeep. Sex toy hygiene isn’t just about cleanliness—it’s about health, safety, and longevity. You see, improper cleaning can lead to bacterial buildup,…
Sexual pleasure is a human right – it shouldn’t be a privilege reserved for able-bodied folk only. Yet, for far too long, the world of adult toys has often overlooked those with different bodies and abilities. The good news is that it’s rapidly changing. More and more companies are recognizing the importance of inclusive and…