Sex addiction comes with a plethora of negative connotations and preconceived notions. While essences of truth exist in stereotypes, the sex addict archetype of an international playboy with an ostentatious sports car and an icy aortic valve under his tailored suit is in the minority. We heard about sex addiction from a female perspective, now…
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Your Heart’s Desire: 6 Different Ideas for the Ideal Kinky Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity for adventurous players and couples to enjoy a mixture of romance and kink. And because there’s no such thing as one-size-fits-all when it comes to love and lust, it would be truly impossible to recommend one date idea or gift that will surely get one’s motor running. Fear not!…
National Condom Day Just So Happens to be February 14th
We’re midway through February, and you know what that means, right? National Condom Day, of course! What – did you think overpriced five-course meals and ugly heart-shaped jewelry were the only ways to celebrate February 14th? Not so, my amorous amigos and amigas. National Condom Day is a holiday that’s been alive and kicking since…
Are Men Really From Mars and Women From Venus? Androgyny, Explained
You’ll often find men and women cursing the opposite sex for one or other reason. “Men!” she may exclaim, after just having had her heart broken (and vice versa). And so, we continue to tell ourselves that men are from Mars and women are from Venus… two totally separate entities that are so indecipherable that…
Review Roundup: LOKI Wave Prostate Massager
Prostate massage can be brand new territory for a lot of folks, but once you’ve fallen in love with it, it’s hard to get enough. Enter LOKI Wave . Able to rise and fall within you like the manual massage of a partner’s fingers, LOKI Wave gives you a lot to get excited about. Just…
The Secrets To Hands-Free Orgasming
Orgasming without any manual stimulation of your genitalia might seem like a mission impossible, but in reality, it is an attainable skill for all genders, and even if you don’t succeed, it can help you gain more control over your sexual energy. Let’s start by clearing one thing up – hands-free orgasm is not strictly…
No French Word for ‘French Kiss’ – Until Now
Did you know that France’s hottest-ever export has never had a French name? And no, we’re not talking about baguettes. The French kiss finally has a French name – something it has never had before. ‘Galocher’ is the new term for tonsil hockey, and has been added to the 2014 edition of the Petit Robert…
How, And Why, A Woman Should Use a Vibrator with Her Male Partner During Sexy Time
Long are the days where dildos and vibrators were used in doctor’s offices to treat hysteria in women (yes, that’s actually a thing ). Today, owning a sex toy is pretty standard for both men and women. In fact, in a 2017 survey conducted at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute , it was found that 53…
My New Life As A Used Wife: Conclusion Part I
There I was in the carpark with Richard one lunch time, sucking his magnificent cock as I so often did during his lunch break, when I heard a knock at the window of his car. OMG, we had been caught. Little did I know how caught until I heard the car door open and a…
My New Life As A Used Wife: Conclusion Part II
Steve and Richard did keep coming up with ways to keep their harlot satisfied. Richard took me to a clothing optional resort in Cancun for a swinger’s convention. I was shared around to so many different men and women that I lost count. While those resorts are normally a lifestyle choice where everybody participates, my…
How “Normal” Is My Sexless Marriage?
Physical intimacy is one of the most fundamental pillars of a successful marriage. Not only is it essential for a healthy sex life, it also allow couples to remain sensual and connected with each other. However, despite the obvious benefits that are associated with regular physical intimacy and sex, the hectic demands of the 21st…
Get Clued In: Sexual & Reproductive Health Day
If you hear ‘Sexual & Reproductive Health Day’ this February 12th and think ‘putting condoms on bananas’, then you might be exactly the people this holiday is for. While safer sex practices are absolutely something that needs to be covered before you start an active sex life, there are unique aspects of your sexual and…
Valentine’s Deals from Our Toy Chest to Yours
Whether you choose to call it Galentine’s Day, Palentine’s Day or Singles Awareness Day (Gore Vidalentine’s Day, anyone?), Valentine’s Day is a holiday that’s tailor-made for making someone special smile. And what better way to do so than with a present guaranteed to make them grin. And singledom bashing? Let’s be real, nothing says screw…
Get Clued In: Sexual & Reproductive Health Day
If you hear ‘Sexual & Reproductive Health Day’ this February 12th and think ‘putting condoms on bananas,’ then you might be exactly the people this holiday is for. While safer sex practices are absolutely something that needs to be covered before you start an active sex life, there are unique aspects of your sexual and…
How “Normal” Is My Sexless Marriage?
Physical intimacy is one of the most fundamental pillars of a successful marriage. Not only is it essential for a healthy sex life, it also allow couples to remain sensual and connected with each other. However, despite the obvious benefits that are associated with regular physical intimacy and sex, the hectic demands of the 21st…
My New Life As A Used Wife: Conclusion Part II
Steve and Richard did keep coming up with ways to keep their harlot satisfied. Richard took me to a clothing optional resort in Cancun for a swinger’s convention. I was shared around to so many different men and women that I lost count. While those resorts are normally a lifestyle choice where everybody participates, my…
My New Life As A Used Wife: Conclusion Part I
There I was in the carpark with Richard one lunch time, sucking his magnificent cock as I so often did during his lunch break, when I heard a knock at the window of his car. OMG, we had been caught. Little did I know how caught until I heard the car door open and a…
How. And Why, A Woman Should Use a Vibrator with Her Male Partner During Sexy Time
Long are the days where dildos and vibrators were used in doctor’s offices to treat hysteria in women (yes, that’s actually a thing). Today, owning a sex toy is pretty standard for both men and women. In fact, in a 2017 survey conducted at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute, it was found that 53 percent of…
No French Word for ‘French Kiss’ – Until Now
Did you know that France’s hottest-ever export has never had a French name? And no, we’re not talking about baguettes. The French kiss finally has a French name – something it has never had before. ‘Galocher’ is the new term for tonsil hockey, and has been added to the 2014 edition of the Petit Robert…
The Secrets To Hands-Free Orgasming
Orgasming without any manual stimulation of your genitalia might seem like a mission impossible, but in reality, it is an attainable skill for all genders, and even if you don’t succeed, it can help you gain more control over your sexual energy. Let’s start by clearing one thing up – hands-free orgasm is not strictly…
Review Roundup: LOKI Wave Prostate Massager
Prostate massage can be brand new territory for a lot of folks, but once you’ve fallen in love with it, it’s hard to get enough. Enter LOKI Wave. Able to rise and fall within you like the manual massage of a partner’s fingers, LOKI Wave gives you a lot to get excited about. Just read…
Are Men Really From Mars and Women From Venus? Androgyny, Explained
You’ll often find men and women cursing the opposite sex for one or other reason. “Men!” she may exclaim, after just having had her heart broken (and vice versa). And so, we continue to tell ourselves that men are from Mars and women are from Venus… two totally separate entities that are so indecipherable that…
Public blowjob locations that will blow his mind!
Humankind won some kind of lottery when we discovered the blowjob. Like seriously, what is better than one? Sure, we can give you so many tips on how to make blowjobs better , but are they really upping the pleasures all that much? After you’ve gone through all of the ways to give a mind-blowing…
Pro tips for sex massage
Coming from someone who has been working in the massage business for years, let’s first get one thing straight: any good massage therapist has one thing on top of his or her list of professional ethics, and that is to avoid any exchange of sexual energy with their clients. So, if you go to a…
Is Porn Good for a Relationship?
The American novelist Erika Jong said this about porn: “After the first 10 minutes of a porno, I want to go home and screw. After the first 20 minutes, I never want to screw again.” That’s both a great witty little line, but it also describes our complex relationship with pornography. So it’s no wonder…
Review Roundup: MONA Wave G-Spot Massager
If you’re addicted to the intense waves of pleasure that accompany a G-spot orgasm, then look no further than MONA Wave ! Armed with WaveMotion technology, it is able to rise and fall within you to offer targeted G-spot massage! If you want to know more about how this unique vibrator feels, just read these…
What’s the Difference Between a Kink and a Fetish?
Are you the type of person who dares to be bold? Who would rather rock bright pink hair, look up at the stars at night as opposed to watching Netflix , or spell out your favourite words on your lover’s arm using the tip of your finger? Yes! We love all things not-so-mainstream and using…
Identity & Sexuality: A Closer Look at Cisgender
“What a cutie!” I commented when meeting my nephew for the first time. An adorable redhead who seemingly always smiled. “Poor child will probably get ripped to shreds when he starts school, though,” I said under my breath. “By the time this kid reaches school, being a redhead will probably be cool,” a family member…
What’s the Difference Between a Kink and a Fetish?
Are you the type of person who dares to be bold? Who would rather rock bright pink hair, look up at the stars at night as opposed to watching Netflix, or spell out your favourite words on your lover’s arm using the tip of your finger? Yes! We love all things not-so-mainstream and using one’s…
Review Roundup: MONA Wave G-Spot Massager
If you’re addicted to the intense waves of pleasure that accompany a G-spot orgasm, then look no further than MONA Wave! Armed with WaveMotion technology, it is able to rise and fall within you to offer targeted G-spot massage! If you want to know more about how this unique vibrator feels, just read these rave…
Is Porn Good for a Relationship?
The American novelist Erika Jong said this about porn: “After the first 10 minutes of a porno, I want to go home and screw. After the first 20 minutes, I never want to screw again.” That’s both a great witty little line, but it also describes our complex relationship with pornography. So it’s no wonder…
Pro tips for sex massage
Coming from someone who has been working in the massage business for years, let’s first get one thing straight: any good massage therapist has one thing on top of his or her list of professional ethics, and that is to avoid any exchange of sexual energy with their clients. So, if you go to a…
Public blowjob locations that will blow his mind!
Humankind won some kind of lottery when we discovered the blowjob. Like seriously, what is better than one? Sure, we can give you so many tips on how to make blowjobs better, but are they really upping the pleasures all that much? After you’ve gone through all of the ways to give a mind-blowing blowjob,…
Strap in! A Strap-on Dildo Beginner’s Guide
In the annals of sex toys, the humble strap-on can be considered a truly populist pleasure item: anyone can use one, and anyone can have one used on them, be they male, female or identifying as otherwise. However, for one reason or another, the strap-on isn’t as prevalent as it could be. Like for instance;…
Things I’d Tell a Younger Me About Sex & Romance
I’m 35 years old and I work in the creative industry. What I mean to say is that on any given day, I am usually the oldest person in the room; I share office space and work very closely with people 15 years my junior and it definitely makes me feel my age to hear…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 15 – An Erotic Story
My Parents In Law I had entered into a torrid sexual affair with my father in law. He fucked me whenever he got the chance. He made sure that was very regularly. Some weeks it was daily. He would often ring me in the office and ask me to meet him at his car parking…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 14 – An Erotic Story
My Father In Law I was sitting at my desk one Wednesday morning, only a few weeks after the incident with Nathan, when my boss Rick called me into his office. ‘I have a visitor coming in shortly and I would like you to use your charms on him, if you know what I mean’,…
Your Sexiest Summer Getaways
While we all love the return of warmer weather to our own city, the real excitement of the summer season is the endless possibility for travel. New sights, new sounds, exotic foods and cultures…and of course, the opportunity for a sexy summer fling. We’ve put together a list of amazing locations around the world for…
Why Do Women Fake Their Orgasms? The Facts & Figures
If you’re a woman, you may very well have clicked on this article because you yourself have faked an orgasm and you’re curious as to why other women do it. Or perhaps you’re a gentleman reader who has had the sneaking suspicion that you’ve been ‘faked on’? It happens… kind of a lot! And there…
Feeling Great, One Orgasm At A Time—Tova Leigh
Out of the way everyone, I have a date with my new favourite toy— the Soraya 2 by Lelo. It’s easily the best rabbit vibrator I’ve ever used and here’s why. First of all, let’s start by saying that I personally think women’s self love and pleasure should be part of a daily routine, just…
My New Life As A Used Wife Ch. 13 – An Erotic Story
My Descent Week 1 had been planned and timetabled by my boss Rick. I had been used every night by a different Partner at the legal firm and gone through some wild experiences, from being gangbanged, whored out, pissing in front of a group of men, to exploring my lesbian side. I had loved every…
Sexting Do’s & Don’ts (With Examples)
Isn’t technology great? Nowadays, not only can we be completely nude with people thousands of miles away (we’re talking about skype sex , of course), we can also send steamy messages to each other any time we want. According to our data, as many as 71% of women have taken part in the joys of…
3 Ways To Spot If A New Partner Will Cheat
The early stages of a new relationship are a fizzy, roiling broth of confusing feelings. One of them that commonly bubbles to the surface is doubt . Amongst the excitement, lust, longing, and all the other positive sensations of a burgeoning relationship, there’s also sometimes an expectation that we will be cheated on, and that…
Divine Female – Have Men Always Been Religious Deities?
“God is a Woman” sang Arianna Grande with her remarkable single in 2018. Her attempt to tap into the history of a female God brought about some borderline blasphemy by religious communities, along with some interesting questions. From the boardroom to the sports field, women are laying claim to their inborn privilege. And yet, there’s…
Does a High Sex Drive Equal a Sex Addiction?
There’s no doubt that some people suffer because of their sexual behaviour, and that they have sex in ways that are unhealthy and harmful to them or their friends and family (like spending all their income on sex workers, getting fired from their jobs for masturbating, or continually cheating on partners they promised monogamy to).…
The Soraya 2 Gave Me My First G-Spot Orgasm, and This is How it Went Down
I’m the type of girl who is all about clitoral stimulation that leads to an orgasm. And while I’ve bought plenty of dildos and vibrators in the past in hopes of reaching climax via penetration, I’ve had no such luck. Needless to say, I’m a bit of a tough cookie, and have only really reached…
Don’t Be Late For… – An Erotic Story
Paul had been spending the day working on their old wooden boat. The big storm was now over and he had to repair the deck, fix the winches and the ropes, aiming to sail with Zoe once winter is over. Holding the ropes on the rolling boat brought him memories of how naughty Zoe was…
The Soraya 2 Gave Me My First G-Spot Orgasm, and This is How it Went Down
I’m the type of girl who is all about clitoral stimulation that leads to an orgasm. And while I’ve bought plenty of dildos and vibrators in the past in hopes of reaching climax via penetration, I’ve had no such luck. Needless to say, I’m a bit of a tough cookie, and have only really reached…
Does a High Sex Drive Equal a Sex Addiction?
There’s no doubt that some people suffer because of their sexual behaviour, and that they have sex in ways that are unhealthy and harmful to them or their friends and family (like spending all their income on sex workers, getting fired from their jobs for masturbating, or continually cheating on partners they promised monogamy to).…
Divine Female – Have Men Always Been Religious Deities?
“God is a Woman” sang Arianna Grande with her remarkable single in 2018. Her attempt to tap into the history of a female God brought about some borderline blasphemy by religious communities, along with some interesting questions. From the boardroom to the sports field, women are laying claim to their inborn privilege. And yet, there’s…