Sex is a natural, involuntary drive in most humans, so we usually don’t think we have to do anything about it. There’s a stimulus – a thought, a visual, or even a scent (the ones we can’t detect, like pheromones, and the ones we can, like perfume) – and then poof, here comes the horny.…
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I Never Looked Back – An Erotic Story
Read previous: Employee Investigation – An Erotic Story Being a Real Estate agent, my clients willingly grant me access to their personal space while they are away. Nevertheless, homeowners often clean up and stow away private items far under beds and deep into closets. Oftentimes—for the sake of good stewardship only!—I happen to peruse under…
Which Sex Toy Should I Get? Take Our Quiz
Selecting the right sex toy can be overwhelming when it comes to navigating the many different kinds that exist. That’s why we created a sex toy quiz to help you narrow down your preferences and give recommendations. To access the free quiz, click here: SEX TOY QUIZ The full list of questions is listed below,…
The Best Sex Toys for Edging: Men and Women
Edging is a super versatile and sexy sexual practice, whether you’re in a relationship or flying solo. And one way to make it even better is with the help of sex toys. Edging is the sexual practice of intentionally delaying your orgasm, according to The International Society for Sexual Medicine (ISSM). When you edge, you…
Who Invented Oral Sex?
People have likely been having oral sex for about as long as humans have existed, but its modern popularity is arose in the 1970s. The first traces of historical evidence we have about oral sex come from ancient Egypt. Egyptians were such fans of fellatio that they documented it in their art. Some records on…
ENIGMA Review: All-In Pleasure
When someone asks me to recommend an erotic toy, I always ask this question: minimalist or maximalist? And I’m not referring to the design, but rather the type of stimulation. There are options I call “minimalist,” designed to stimulate one pleasure zone at a time (like external massagers for the clitoris or dildos for the…
Her Only Fan, Pt. 2 – An Erotic Story
The first ring of her phone didn’t jar Anna’s attention from the drama unfolding a few feet from her on the wide-screen TV. At the second ring, she mindlessly picked up the small phone and drooled out a hello. “Hi, Anna, it’s me,” Danni said. “Something’s up.” “Okay.” Anna winced as two men exchanged punches…
7 Sex Toys for Mutual Masturbation
Have you tried masturbating together with your partner? While many only consider self-pleasure as a solo adventure, mutual masturbation is a fairly common sexual practice amongst couples. Even 50% of couples engage in mutual masturbation, and for a good reason – those couples who engage in mutual masturbation report better sexual satisfaction than those who…
Why Do I Pee When I Orgasm?
A lot of things can come out of the human body when you’re aroused – discharge, ejaculation, and sometimes, even pee. If you pee when you orgasm, you’re not alone. An estimated 60% of women experience incontinence or leakage during sex, either occasionally or consistently. Peeing when you orgasm just comes down to biology. Why…
3 Things You Can Do Today to Improve Your Sex Life
You know what’s universal? As in, common to literally everyone? Well, when it comes to our sexuality, the answer is: absolutely nothing. That said, there are 3 things all of us can do – at any time – that will improve our sex lives. #1: Address Your Stress If you thought I was going to…
Here’s What People Find Attractive in Potential Partners
There are over 37 million single households in the United States, the highest number in history, and of those, Pew Research Center found that single Americans are split 50/50 between “looking” and “not looking” for a committed relationship. Some choose not to seek out romantic relationships whatsoever, while others are willing to stay single until they…
Filthy Mind – An Erotic Story
“Why would a woman do this?” Paul growled as he flung himself onto the center sofa cushion, making its springs eek. “She said the filthiest things! And then she leaves no way to get a hold of her? That’s torture! It’s insane.” “Then maybe you don’t want to find her—if she’s insane, that is,” Ricky…
Sex Afterglow – Is It Real?
Sex afterglow can refer to that initial blush and rosiness that people get after they have an orgasm. Sex afterglow can also mean the general idea that having more sex, whether it’s by yourself or with a partner, can give you better skin. Is It Real? Yes, having sex and masturbating may help improve your…
What Is Inflatable Penile Prosthesis (IPP) Placement?
An estimated 50% of people with penises between the ages of 40-70 have erectile dysfunction (ED). The prevalence may be even higher as many people don’t seek help out of shame, embarrassment, or lack of access to medical care. Erectile dysfunction can not only impact someone’s sex life, but also their self-confidence, relationships, and overall…
The Science Behind Arousal Serums
If you’ve never used an arousal gel before, you’re probably wondering – how does arousal gel work, and what does it do? You can find arousal serums at every sexual wellness shop, and yet not many people consider arousal serums to be an essential part of their sexual routines. There is a lot of mystery…
How Many Calories Does an Orgasm Burn?
Although sex and masturbation don’t always lead to orgasms, they often do. Besides feeling amazing, having an orgasm can also burn calories. That brings us to our question of the day – can having an orgasm burn calories? Orgasmic Fitness Much like other forms of exercise, the number of calories you burn during sex depends…
LELO Receives ISO 3533 International Safety Standard
What Is ISO 3533? ISO 3533 certification represents a groundbreaking standard for the safety, quality, and design of sexual health products. The standard, developed by the International Organization for Standardization (ISO), is essential for establishing guidelines that protect consumers and provide manufacturers with clear, reliable frameworks for product development. Why did LELO Pursue the ISO…
Sex With Bipolar Disorder: What You Should Know
For people with mental health disorders, sex and sexuality can come with a unique set of challenges. It’s possible to have good sex and healthy relationships if you have bipolar disorder, but there are tips to keep in mind when it comes to managing your sexuality. What Is Bipolar Disorder? Bipolar disorder, previously known as…
15 Sex Toys for Different Types of Orgasms
We believe that there is the right sex toy for every situation. And there is also the perfect toy (or even toys…) for every type of orgasm. Whether you’re a clitoral orgasm lover, a blended orgasm fan, or prefer vaginal orgasms, we have just the toy for you to help those orgasms be better and…
Porn and Your Sex Life: Helpful or Harmful?
Since time immemorial, the association between porn and men has been undeniable. Not all porn, and not all men, of course. But even individuals who frown upon it aren’t surprised by the connection. And since it’s more accessible and plentiful than ever before, it’s worth asking about both potential benefits and negative consequences. The right…
Penile Mondor’s Disease, Causes and Symptoms
Sexual health is the foundation for sexual pleasure, and there are a wide range of conditions that can impact someone’s sexual experience. That’s the case for people with Penile Mondor’s Disease (PMD), a rare genetic disorder that affects cis men and people who were assigned male at birth (AMAB). This disorder can impact not only…
Chiropractic Care – An Erotic Story
Beth felt better when she began to smell the lavender in the entryway of the small Wellness Center. Lavender had a calming scent that, she had seen, eased the faces of people who arrived in pain and needed relief. As much as the lavender triggered easiness, the subtle ambient music made listeners smile despite no…
What’s So Great About an Orgasm?
What’s so great about an orgasm? If you said that “reaching the pinnacle of ecstasy” is pretty damned great (or some variation on the theme), you’d be correct. Honestly, what more can one ask for? That said, researchers have determined that orgasms are actually great for a bunch of other assorted reasons. According to the…
Triple Stimulation Masturbation
Attention people with vulvas: there’s a new orgasm in town. Just when you thought you had orgasms all figured out, along comes a toy genre designed to find all your secret, sexual nerve endings – and take them on a gorgeous ride. First, let’s talk about where all those nerve endings are located: the clitoris.…
5 ways to do it doggy style
In survey after survey, doggy style is rated as one of the favorite sex positions among hetero and queer couples. Often the favorite. It’s a wildly popular position that has the receiving partner propped up on their hands and knees (or elbows and knees) while the giving partner enters from behind. Why people love doggy…
Why you should try anal and how to do it the right way
When I talk about anal play to people with penises, they are (for the most part) enthusiastic. But for people with a vulva, it’s a different story. If you were born with a penis, you’ve also got a prostate, and when pleasured with a toy…amazing orgasms occur. No matter your sexuality, prostate stimulation feels incredible…
What is a penis ring and why should I use it?
Hey Dr. Emily, I’ve heard you mention penis rings before. I’m a guy just getting into toys and wearables for sex with my wife. But what IS a penis ring? I’ve Googled them and know what they look like, but why do people use them? Is it something I can wear during sex with my…
Double the O, double the pleasure
I have a “more is more” mentality around orgasm. You too? There are all kinds of documented health benefits that come with orgasm, like lower stress, better sleep, increased immunity, and get this…glowing skin. Maybe they’re born with it! Maybe they masturbate. There are two ways to have many orgasms in a single session… Multiple…
How to handle performance anxiety
Ever felt the pressure to be amazing in bed? Whatever “amazing” means to you… Whether that means staying hard, or looking hot, or feeling like you have to be the best they’ve ever had – we’ve all been there. But I’m here to tell you: this is performance anxiety. And it will absolutely get in…
How to use a vibe with a partner
Sex toys are having a moment. These days, it’s not uncommon to pluck one right off the shelf at your neighborhood drug store. But let’s face it: they’ve long been marketed to vulva owners…vulva owners who want to masturbate. Which begs the question, how do you incorporate a toy into partnered sex? And why would…
How to use anal beads?
Anal beads are having a moment. So, what’s all the hype about? They’re a fun tool that can bring you oh so much pleasure, if you know how to use them properly. Consider this your user’s manual, where I break down instructions, and explain why you might like to try them. (Hint: orgasms.) What are…
How to have an A-spot orgasm
Attention people with vulvas, and those who love to please them: it’s time to learn about A-spot orgasms. A very deep and pleasurable orgasm, A-spot O’s require a specific form of stimulation. Here’s what you need to know to experience one. What is the A-spot? Another sensitive, sexual area on the inside of the vagina,…
Senior Sex: How To Have Great Sex at Any Age
Due to societal and cultural norms, many people believe that once we get old, we stop having sex. Sexual pleasure, like many things in life, has no age. And while it’s true that with age, our preferences, sexual fantasies, and desires might change and shift, they don’t usually disappear entirely. So, let’s talk about senior…
SONA 2 Travel for Pleasure On the Go
Did you know that a majority of women orgasm from clitoral stimulation? Did you also know that 71% of Americans travel? Gone are the days of leaving orgasms behind with travel-sized sex toys like SONA 2 Travel. What is SONA 2 Travel? SONA 2 Travel is a clitoral vibrator that is a smaller version of…
The Only Anal Massage Guide You’ll Need
Jump to: General Anal Massage Tips Different Anal Massage Techniques The Best Anal Massage Positions Everyone knows anal sex, but have you heard about something even better – anal massage? While the interest in anal sex for all genders is on the rise, anal penetration can be intimidating for beginners. For those curious to explore…
The Best Sex Positions for Breast Stimulation
Breasts look nice, are fun to play with, and are also a hot spot for stimulation. Your breasts (or your partner’s breasts) are full of sensitive nerve endings – and we’re not just talking about the nipples. It can feel amazing to have your breasts touched and fondled before and during sex, but sometimes they…
Common Mistakes While Using Condoms
Despite condoms being one of the most popular and oldest forms of contraception, many people still make mistakes when using them. When used according to instructions, both “external” (or male) condoms and “internal” (or female) condoms are 95% effective in preventing unwanted pregnancy and STIs. But with common usage mistakes, the number is closer to…
DoxyPEP: The “Morning After” Pill for STIs
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), more than 1 million STIs are acquired every day across the globe – the majority being asymptomatic. This includes everything from human papillomavirus (HPV) to gonorrhea, to herpes simplex virus (HSV). Many STIs can be easily treated with antibiotics when caught early, but some can lead to long-term health…
Men vs. Women: Why and How Do We Experience Sexual Arousal?
This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram To count the number of emotional and physical feelings we experience within a day would be merely impossible. We can go from happy to anxious, horny to angry, and sleepy to…
Ava and the Lab Rat – An Erotic Story
I first met Ava when she arrived on base with some research technology shit-gadget. It was supposed to improve night vision or surveillance or some kind of communication between this and that. By the time I was to use the thing, it had been busted and determined to be a dud of a military device.…
How Sex Feels During Pregnancy
If you’re a expecting, you’re probably thinking a lot about how your life will change when baby arrives, including your sex life. You might be experiencing conflicting feelings about having sex, and even wonder whether sex will feel different during pregnancy. Research shows that, on average, people experience a decrease in sexual activity during pregnancy…
SONA 2 Travel Review Compilation
What reviewers liked about SONA 2 Travel… Small but powerful Perfect for beginners Travel-friendly Easily controllable intensity Professional Reviews LELO’s New Vibrator Is Powerful, Compact, and Discreet Enough For Your Carry-On “I’m a long-time fan of the original LELO SONA Cruise, a clit-sucking vibrator that is meant to feel like a sucking sensation, and the…
Eiffel Tower Sex Position: What Is It and How To Do It
When we recently researched the most popular sex positions in the United States and found that the infamous Eiffel Tower sex position came in fourth place. What’s interesting about the data is that this sex position is the only one on the list that requires three (or more) partners. A desire for a threesome or group…
Is Your Sex Life Merely Chug Chug Chugging Along?
Are you sex-stuck? Yup, I just made that up. But please, feel free – make it a hashtag. You know you wanna. Here’s what I’m really asking: is your sex life yawn-inducing? Same ol’ same ol’? BOR-ING??!! Don’t worry – we’ve got you. If you’ve been in a long-term relationship, sex can be deprioritized for…
Foreplay: Who’s it for? Everyone.
Sometimes, we are so turned on, so turned up, so tuned in that our bodies are not our own. We want be one with another (or, a good vibrator). The need to have sex – but mostly to get off – is primal, and occasionally a quickie is just what the hormones ordered. But please,…
The Mystery of Marjorie – An Erotic Story
Marjorie was the sweetest girl in the office—maybe in the world. She always had a bright, white smile and never had a bad day. In the morning, she would say to everyone, “It’s a awesome day to be alive, isn’t it?” Her coworkers said she was too sweet. They avoided passing by her desk most…
How To Have Sex in a Wheelchair
Despite limited resourced for disabled intimacy, twelve percent of adults in the U.S. have a mobility-related disability that causes serious difficulty walking or climbing stairs. If you or your partner are in a wheelchair, there are likely more logistics to navigate in your sex life. Here are our general tips on how to have sex…
The Eagle Attack – An Erotic Story
Raymond couldn’t sleep one night, so he found himself staring at late-night TV infomercials with rambunctious hosts. One guy’s emphatic salesmanship caught his attention. He lauded the newest device that he said was revolutionizing the world. “I promise that you will not believe this device. I didn’t believe it. Nope, I never would have. Not…
Can I Have Sex if I Have Heart Problems?
Not to start this out on a somber note, but cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of death globally. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), cardiovascular disease takes an estimated 17.9 million lives each year, the majority due to heart attacks and strokes. It’s hard to get an accurate number on how many people…
Is Micro-Cheating a Thing?
Have you heard the term “micro-cheating”? Maybe you think it’s just the latest in a long line of fabricated TikTok hashtags designed for easy click bate. But actually, micro-cheating refers to real life behaviors that can wreak havoc on relationships. While there isn’t one reigning definition of micro-cheating, most experts agree with what Psychology Today…