Gerald hop-skipped across Berry Street to the city library. The howling wind whipped his jacket and ruffled his hair. Once on the curb, he checked his wristwatch: 7:52. He had a little time before the library closed for the night. The exterior lights on both sides of the library’s double doors glowed yellow-white in the…
By 2025, the American sex toy market is predicted to be worth over a whopping $11 billion. People are buying toys more than ever, with an estimated 50% of adults owning or having used one, according to the TENGA Self Pleasure Report. The majority of sex toy owners are women, and range in age from…
In an era where technology intertwines with every facet of our lives, understanding its impact on intimacy and sexual wellness is crucial. A recent survey conducted by LELO, a pioneer in intimate lifestyle products, provides invaluable insights into this complex dynamic. This data illuminates how different generations perceive and utilize technology in their personal relationships,…
LELO’s Future of Sex and Love Report 2025 In the follow up to the the Future of Sex and Love Report 2024, LELO paints a picture of a world where technology plays an increasingly significant role in sexual expression, where sexuality is viewed with greater fluidity and acceptance, and where sexual health and well-being are…
Take a moment and imagine a woman using a vibrator. What type of toy do you imagine her using? If you pictured a toy that stimulates the external genitals, you are in line with reality. In an informal survey I did with my Instagram followers, among those who used sex toys, 83% used one that…
They’re the generation that fully integrated gender inclusivity, the concept of active consent during sex, and everyday sex toy use into their lives, and yet Gen Z is done with hook-up culture. More accurately, they never bought into it in the first place, but not for the reasons you might assume. We poured over opinions…
If you’ve invested in a sex toy, deep cleaning after shared use, sanitizing after anal play, or disinfecting toys affter an illness can ensure the longevity of your toy as well as the health of your body. Some cleaning situations require extra care beyond routine washing. This will help address common concerns about bacteria, viruses,…
When it comes to cleaning our sex toys, more isn’t always better. Just because you might use bleach, alcohol, or hydrogen peroxide while cleaning your bathtub or pesky stains, doesn’t mean you should use chemicals on sex toys. These aren’t just objects in your home, they are being inserted into areas of your body, meaning…
“So you think you got skills?” Vinny crossed his arms over his chest and tilted his head. Lurita felt his eyes study her, questioning such a bold statement from a small woman. Though petite in frame with a sharp chin, Lurita bolstered herself. She determined to prove her confidence. “No question about it.” She raised…
Surviving cancer is a major feat. However, cancer treatments like surgery and chemotherapy often lead to physical and psychological changes that can have far-reaching and long-lasting effects on people’s lives, including their intimate lives. For example, it is common for survivors to experience body image issues, problems with sexual function, loss of libido, and other…
You might think that because condoms are a barrier material that their latex material is completely waterproof. That’s understandable, as it would make sense that they can withstand wet and wild scenarios. However, having sex in a water-based environment—for example, a pool, hot tub, or shower—could be pushing your condom to the limit. So, while…
Cleaning might not be something we initially associate with sex or play time, but it is a task that should be priortized after using vibrators, dildos, and anal toys. The reasons for cleaning your toys are because sex toys come into contact with our bodily fluids, and cleaning them is imperative for the safety of…
Cleaning sex toys is an important part of our hygiene but it can also increase the longevity of the toy itself. Toys come in various different materials and cleaning them requires different instructions and cleaning solutions. And when you’ve doused your toy in a silicone-based lubricant, you may need to do some extra scrubbing to…
Marriage rates aren’t what they used to be, and being in a relationship isn’t the priority anymore for many women across the globe. The growing trend of single women is expanding, and the shift is becoming more visible across all ages, cultures, and socioeconomic classes. The many reasons for this include the reevaluation of traditional…
Virtual reality is no longer just the future of gaming—even in its early versions, it’s reshaping various parts of our lives. That includes our sexuality and how we experience pleasure. With the rise of VR sex toys, sex toy users can feel every touch, stroke, and vibration in sync with what they see or hear,…
Bullet vibrators are small, discreet vibes designed primarily for external stimulation of your most intimate areas. While bullets are mostly used on the clit, these little vibes can bring delicious tingles to nipples, inner thighs and other sensitive spots. Bullet vibes are wildly popular and for a good reason. Shaped like–you guessed it–a bullet, this…
Power play, which centers around consensual power exchange between a dominant and submissive partner, is at the heart of BDSM dynamics. Ultimately, a person surrenders control while the other takes it. But what are the best BDSM toys for power play, and how can toys, restraints, and sensory tools enhance D/s dynamics? These devices can…
Sex toys are for everyone, no matter what “equipment” you’re working with. While toys for people with vulvas tend to get the most attention, there are many brands out there that make toys specifically for people with penises –– and many people who want to buy and use them. If you’ve made it here, you’re…
Designed for people with vulvas, a G-spot vibrator is designed to internally stimulate the G-spot, which is an areas made up of sensitive tissue in the vagina. Some people wonder if the existence of the G-spot is a myth, but it’s very real. Many people with vulvas report powerful pleasure from focused G-spot stimulation and…
When it comes to sex toys, there is quite literally something for everyone. For people with vulvas, their general introduction to the world of sex toys is usually a vibrator. But no matter where someone is in their sex toy journey, vibrators stay strong as one of the top picks to explore and expand their…
LELO’s Soraya range represents the pinnacle of luxury in the world of dual-stimulation vibrators. And it shouldn’t come as a surprise, considering LELO is a brand renowned for premium sex toys and award-winning designs, one of the leaders in the luxury vibrator market. Since it was first released, the Soraya lineup has often been lauded…
Anal play is an exciting way to spice up your sex life, and anal toys are a safe and pleasurable ways to explore new sensations in this erogenous zone. Due to the stigma that sitll exists around this form of play, there are many misconceptions around anal toys. Some believe that it will be painful…
Technology is rapidly evolving, and that certainly is true in the world of sex toys. We’re in a new era of modern intimacy, one where technology allows people to connect with themselves and their partners on a deeper level and experience a wide range of pleasure. Much of that is thanks to the rise of…
What’s one of the most or possibly even the most popular types of sex toys on the market? Clitoral vibrators! These toys are designed for external stimulation, targeting the hot spot of nerves and pleasure – the clitoris. They are beloved by beginners and experienced sex toy users alike. With so many different options and…
LELO, a pioneer in luxury intimate wellness, introduces the latest in its acclaimed SONA series: the SONA 3 and SONA 3 Cruise. These innovative sonic clitoral massagers are designed to deliver deeper, more satisfying orgasms through advanced technology and ergonomic design. Key Features SONA 3 SenSonic™ Technology: Utilizes gentle sonic waves for contactless clitoral stimulation,…
Good sex toy cleaning habits are key to protecting your health and keeping your pleasure tools in great shape for years to come. Yet, it’s one of the most commonly overlooked parts of owning sex toys. You may think, “Pfff, how hard can it be to clean sex toys?” Well, the process is fairly simple,…
Ah, the pleasures of running a nice bath after a long day. You put on some relaxing music, light a few aromatherapy candles, and get things nice and foamy with your favorite bath bomb. It’s time for some self-pleasure, so you take your favorite waterproof toy with you in the bathtub. After you’ve indulged in…
If you’ve made it here, it’s because you’re new to anal play and are curious about it, or you want to enhance your experience with toys. Either way, welcome! You may be hesitant or are wondering if anal play is right for you. Some people are hesitant to try and play because they think that…
What’s one of the most classic vibrator shapes around? Your good old rabbit vibrator. While this may be one of the most popular styles on the market today, it can be a bit intimidating to new users. But there’s nothing to worry about! These dual-stimulating devices are designed to be ergonomically friendly and to allow…
Something that beginner and expert sex toy users may not realize is just how essential it is to properly clean your sex toys. Not just for your own health, but also for the longevity of your toys. You can think of sex toy hygiene as an integral part of your sexual wellness. Something you do…
Vibrators… it’s a broad term because there are so many on the market today. But fear not. That’s exactly why we’ve created this guide. Consider it a way in which to learn all about vibrators—what they are, the different vibrator types, vibrator benefits, how to choose one that’s perfect for you, how to use them,…
So you’re looking to try something new in the bedroom? Oftentimes, when people think of BDSM, they may believe that it’s intense and sometimes scary. But this really doesn’t have to be the case. There are so many different styles and themes of BDSM, as well as intensity levels, that it can be enjoyed by…
For trans and gender nonconforming people, sex toys can be a pivotal piece in reconnecting with your sense of pleasure and what it’s like to feel present in your body. Yet it can feel frustrating to feel like you’re surrounded by products and brands that only cater to cisgender people. We aim to help change…
Keeping your sex toys clean is key for two reasons: protecting your health and ensuring the longevity of your toys. That’s why it’s so essential to know exactly how to clean your sex toys. The best way to clean sex toys mostly depends on the material the toys are made from and what kind of…
Sex toy hygiene is a mandatory part of owning intimate products. While people often invest in toys to enhance their pleasure, they’re not always educated on what it takes to properly maintain and care for their vibrators, strokers, or plugs. Doing so ensures that your body stays protected from infections, bacteria, irritation, and that your…
When one thinks of sex toys, it’s often women’s sex toys that come to mind. But when it comes to male sex toys, it may just be a topic of humour. For example, one may think of a sleazy looking male masturbator that mimics the female anatomy (“realistic masturbators”) or a blow up doll. But…
AI has become the buzz in all things business, and that includes the sex toy market. Artificial intelligence sex toys are designed to learn your individual desires and physical abilities and adapt accordingly. They can radically personalize masturbation and sex in ways that even the highest tech smart sex toys (that don’t have AI) can’t…
Sex is supposed to be messy. Bedsheets and bodies are usually doused in liquids, spit, sweat, and lube, but at the end of the day, sex should still be hygienic, especially when it comes to sex toys. After all, we’re exposing our vulnerable parts to some sticky situations. In this article, we’ll explore the differences…
Knowing how to clean a glass sex toy (along with metal and ceramic ones) is key to hygiene and longevity. Glass, metal, and ceramic toys are some of the most beautiful pleasure products out there, and they’re also some of the most hygienic since they’re non-porous and hence don’t trap bacteria. They also generally don’t…
Everyone has varying levels of accessibility and ease when it comes to pleasure – which has also founds it way into topics surrounding sex and sex toys. Many people with physical disabilities or mobility issues aren’t able to use the average sex toys. That’s why more brands are creating inclusive sex toys that allow people…
Initially marketed in the 60s and 70s to massage sore muscles, the powerful “Magic Wand” massager soon developed a cult following as an vibrator for clitoral stimulation. Sex toy companies took note – today, many companies produce a variety of wand massagers specifically for pleasure. Offering intense stimulation, versatility, and deep relaxation, wand massagers are…
Sex toys are a fun way to elevate partnered play and your solo self-care routines. But just like anything that comes in close and intimate contact with your body, sex toys require regular upkeep. Sex toy hygiene isn’t just about cleanliness—it’s about health, safety, and longevity. You see, improper cleaning can lead to bacterial buildup,…
Sexual pleasure is a human right – it shouldn’t be a privilege reserved for able-bodied folk only. Yet, for far too long, the world of adult toys has often overlooked those with different bodies and abilities. The good news is that it’s rapidly changing. More and more companies are recognizing the importance of inclusive and…
Just because it’s your time of the month doesn’t mean using your sex toys is taboo. In fact, masturbation can ease period cramps and improve sleep and stress, so by all means, use your toys for relief. Many people, on their periods, see an increase in libido and desire due to hormonal fluctuations. While we…
Technology is rapidly changing and holding. That’s certainly true in the world of sexual wellness and sex tech. Interactive sex toys are high-tech pleasure devices designed to connect with external controls. This is typically done via apps, Bluetooth, or WiFi, allowing them to be customized, synced, or even controlled remotely by another person. When people…
Knowing how to clean sex toys is an essential part of owning pleasure products. While it might not be the sexiest part of owning a vibrator, stroker, or butt plug, proper sex toy hygiene is necessary since these items come into direct contact with bodily fluids. And while you’ve probably been told that any soap…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram A growing number of people appear to be exploring what sex toys can do for their intimate lives. Data from representative US surveys find that most women and nearly half of men have…
For those who don’t know, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland found in the reproductive system of penis-owners, below the bladder and surrounding the urethra. In other words, the way in which to find the prostate is through the anus. The main function of the prostate is to produce seminal fluid, which nourishes sperm and…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information: Website | Publications | Instagram Following trauma or surgery, it is common for people’s sexual confidence to take a hit. They may also find it difficult to relax during moments of intimacy, making it harder to access pleasure.…
We’ve all heard the stories: You give a new sex toy a spin, love it so much you never want to get off, and – oops! – find yourself a little too sore. Vibrator overstimulation, while rare, is certainly possible. While even the highest-intensity settings cannot permanently numb your clitoris, when used incorrectly, some people…