The days when long-distance sex was condemned to the most basic sexting and video calls eternalized by screen freezes have, definitively, come to an end. Welcome to the world of teledildonics, where technology and pleasure join to overcome physical distance and ignite intimacy. In the sextech era, connected sex toys are no longer a futuristic fantasy…
Artificial intelligence (AI) has quietly entered nearly every aspect of our daily lives, from the phones in our pockets to the cars we drive and the platforms we stream. But one of the most surprising frontiers for AI is also one of the most intimate: sex. This growing intersection of technology and sexuality (often called…
As a sex therapist, educator and researcher, I believe EVERY woman should own a clitoral vibrator (or several). And, while I advise this for all women, it’s an especially strong recommendation for any women who is perimenopausal and beyond (so about mid-to-late forties and older). Here’s why! In around the late forties, as women enter…
Over the years, podcast host and cultural provocateur Alex Cooper (of Call Her Daddy) has amassed a devoted following for her unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and self-pleasure. So when one of her Instagram followers recently asked, “What vibrators do you recommend for a beginner?” her answer quickly made the rounds. In her Instagram Story…
LELO Dot Vibrator Review Vibrators sure have come a long way since they first hit the market and no one does sex toy innovation quite like LELO. Take the classic clitoral vibrator. What do you imagine when you think of it? A bullet shape? A big old massage wand? Something else? Whatever comes to…
There’s so much more to intimacy than meets the eye. Intimacy opens the door to not only experiencing immense amounts of physical pleasure but also emotional closeness, trust, and connection. This can help strengthen your relationship with your partner and with yourself. A great way to help enhance intimacy is by bringing sex toys into…
Modern consumers are faced with a sea of options when it comes to every aspect of the purchasing decision, and sex toy shopping is no exception. Nobody wants a sex toy that breaks the bank but feels uncomfortable when you use it, or a cheap piece of plastic that breaks down the first time you…
Whether your toy is silicone, glass, metal, or another material (or you have one of each!), cleaning your toys, depending on their material, matters. We’re here to guide you through selecting the most effective cleaning methods for specific sex toy materials. Safe cleaning for adult toys prevents bacteria buildup plus material damage. And all materials…
Sharing sex toys can be fun, hot, and help you connect in the bedroom, but it comes with responsibilities as well. Whether you’re not yet exclusive with your current partner, you‘re polyamorous, or you’re just using a sex toy with someone new for the first time, learning how to clean sex toys between uses with…
Welcome to the world of LELO, a luxury sex toy brand leading the market in design, innovation, technology, and reputation. And today, we’re celebrating our brand and giving you the full run down on our toys with a comprehensive LELO sex toys review. New to sex toys? New to LELO? You’ll learn a lot today…
If you’re the owner of silicone sex toys, you may get a little lazy with cleaning. Since silicone is the safest sex toy material because it’s not porous and very durable, you may believe that cleaning it every once in a while can keep you and your toy safe. But your silicone still needs regular…
Vibrators are continuously on the rise in popularity in the sex toy market. It turns out electronics are hot in the bedroom, and advanced technology is getting people to come back for more. Whether it’s a rabbit or a Hitachi, vibrators range from $10 to $300, depending on your desires and bank account. If you’re…
Meet the new era of self-pleasure: LELO SWITCH, the first-ever dual-ended wand vibrator from LELO designed for those who want more — more power, more control, and more sensation. Unlike traditional wand massagers that limit you to one kind of pleasure, the LELO SWITCH is a full-body multitasker. One end is a classic wand head…
Welcome to the future of clitoral stimulation—LELO SONA 3 is here, and it’s not just another vibrator. It’s a precision-engineered, app-connected sonic massager that blends cutting-edge SenSonic™ technology with an ultra-soft silicone body and intuitive design. Whether you’re new to pleasure toys or upgrading from a basic bullet, SONA 3 redefines what satisfaction feels like.…
Sex toys aren’t just for women. Those with penises can also benefit from self pleasure toys. That’s where strokers come in. What is a stroker? A stoker is a handheld male masturbator designed to enhance solo pleasure. An automatic stroker is one that moves on its own, versus you having to do it manually. Strokers…
BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, is a lifestyle that includes a variety of sexual practices such as physical bondage, giving and receiving of pain, dominant and submissive roleplay, and/or other related activities. And in this lifestyle, there are an array of BDSM toys that are used to…
One of the best ways to spice up your sex life is by adding a toy into the mix. That’s certainly true when it comes to cock rings. A cock ring is a ring-shaped device you can wear around the base of the penis to enhance erections and stamina. People use cock rings because they…
For those who are fans of sex tech or just like experiencing a deeper experience of pleasure, you may be intrigued by the idea of an app-controlled vibrator. This revolution in sex-tech has been growing in popularity thanks to their ability to enhance both solo play and partnered intimacy. Smartphones have made so many different…
Technology is rapidly evolving in what seems like every area of our lives. The world of sex tech is no different. We’re seeing revolutionary updates to the most classic of sex toys. Your good old-fashioned vibrator. Well, it’s not so old-fashioned anymore! These days, we’re seeing smart, high-tech vibrators, many of which are controlled through…
In recent years, we’ve seen revolutionary advances in smart sex tech. From classic vibrators to interactive sex toys, these products have evolved to fit modern lifestyles. But switching over from your classic traditional models to app-controlled sex toys can feel daunting at first. You might be thinking “If it’s not broken, then why fix it?”.…
We all appreciate the finer things in life. Sleek, beautiful designs. The highest quality materials. Thoughtful engineering utilizing custom technology developed to maximize user enjoyment. Unlike some other items marketed as part of a lifestyle, luxury sex toys are not just a label, but a guaranteed return on investment. Your orgasms – and your physical…
Who doesn’t love a hot holiday romance? Or a steamy, sexy, vacation? *All hands fly into the air* That’s what we thought. Well luckily there’s now a trusty sidekick you can take with you on all of your *ahem* adventures – and no, we’re not talking about your partner if you have one (although we…
By 2025, the American sex toy market is predicted to be worth over a whopping $11 billion. People are buying toys more than ever, with an estimated 50% of adults owning or having used one, according to the TENGA Self Pleasure Report. The majority of sex toy owners are women, and range in age from…
Take a moment and imagine a woman using a vibrator. What type of toy do you imagine her using? If you pictured a toy that stimulates the external genitals, you are in line with reality. In an informal survey I did with my Instagram followers, among those who used sex toys, 83% used one that…
If you’ve invested in a sex toy, deep cleaning after shared use, sanitizing after anal play, or disinfecting toys affter an illness can ensure the longevity of your toy as well as the health of your body. Some cleaning situations require extra care beyond routine washing. This will help address common concerns about bacteria, viruses,…
When it comes to cleaning our sex toys, more isn’t always better. Just because you might use bleach, alcohol, or hydrogen peroxide while cleaning your bathtub or pesky stains, doesn’t mean you should use chemicals on sex toys. These aren’t just objects in your home, they are being inserted into areas of your body, meaning…
Surviving cancer is a major feat. However, cancer treatments like surgery and chemotherapy often lead to physical and psychological changes that can have far-reaching and long-lasting effects on people’s lives, including their intimate lives. For example, it is common for survivors to experience body image issues, problems with sexual function, loss of libido, and other…
Cleaning might not be something we initially associate with sex or play time, but it is a task that should be priortized after using vibrators, dildos, and anal toys. The reasons for cleaning your toys are because sex toys come into contact with our bodily fluids, and cleaning them is imperative for the safety of…
Cleaning sex toys is an important part of our hygiene but it can also increase the longevity of the toy itself. Toys come in various different materials and cleaning them requires different instructions and cleaning solutions. And when you’ve doused your toy in a silicone-based lubricant, you may need to do some extra scrubbing to…
Virtual reality is no longer just the future of gaming—even in its early versions, it’s reshaping various parts of our lives. That includes our sexuality and how we experience pleasure. With the rise of VR sex toys, sex toy users can feel every touch, stroke, and vibration in sync with what they see or hear,…
Bullet vibrators are small, discreet vibes designed primarily for external stimulation of your most intimate areas. While bullets are mostly used on the clit, these little vibes can bring delicious tingles to nipples, inner thighs and other sensitive spots. Bullet vibes are wildly popular and for a good reason. Shaped like–you guessed it–a bullet, this…
Power play, which centers around consensual power exchange between a dominant and submissive partner, is at the heart of BDSM dynamics. Ultimately, a person surrenders control while the other takes it. But what are the best BDSM toys for power play, and how can toys, restraints, and sensory tools enhance D/s dynamics? These devices can…
Sex toys are for everyone, no matter what “equipment” you’re working with. While toys for people with vulvas tend to get the most attention, there are many brands out there that make toys specifically for people with penises –– and many people who want to buy and use them. If you’ve made it here, you’re…
Designed for people with vulvas, a G-spot vibrator is designed to internally stimulate the G-spot, which is an areas made up of sensitive tissue in the vagina. Some people wonder if the existence of the G-spot is a myth, but it’s very real. Many people with vulvas report powerful pleasure from focused G-spot stimulation and…
When it comes to sex toys, there is quite literally something for everyone. For people with vulvas, their general introduction to the world of sex toys is usually a vibrator. But no matter where someone is in their sex toy journey, vibrators stay strong as one of the top picks to explore and expand their…
LELO’s Soraya range represents the pinnacle of luxury in the world of dual-stimulation vibrators. And it shouldn’t come as a surprise, considering LELO is a brand renowned for premium sex toys and award-winning designs, one of the leaders in the luxury vibrator market. Since it was first released, the Soraya lineup has often been lauded…
Anal play is an exciting way to spice up your sex life, and anal toys are a safe and pleasurable ways to explore new sensations in this erogenous zone. Due to the stigma that sitll exists around this form of play, there are many misconceptions around anal toys. Some believe that it will be painful…
Technology is rapidly evolving, and that certainly is true in the world of sex toys. We’re in a new era of modern intimacy, one where technology allows people to connect with themselves and their partners on a deeper level and experience a wide range of pleasure. Much of that is thanks to the rise of…
What’s one of the most or possibly even the most popular types of sex toys on the market? Clitoral vibrators! These toys are designed for external stimulation, targeting the hot spot of nerves and pleasure – the clitoris. They are beloved by beginners and experienced sex toy users alike. With so many different options and…
LELO, a pioneer in luxury intimate wellness, introduces the latest in its acclaimed SONA series: the SONA 3 and SONA 3 Cruise. These innovative sonic clitoral massagers are designed to deliver deeper, more satisfying orgasms through advanced technology and ergonomic design. Key Features SONA 3 SenSonic™ Technology: Utilizes gentle sonic waves for contactless clitoral stimulation,…
Good sex toy cleaning habits are key to protecting your health and keeping your pleasure tools in great shape for years to come. Yet, it’s one of the most commonly overlooked parts of owning sex toys. You may think, “Pfff, how hard can it be to clean sex toys?” Well, the process is fairly simple,…
Ah, the pleasures of running a nice bath after a long day. You put on some relaxing music, light a few aromatherapy candles, and get things nice and foamy with your favorite bath bomb. It’s time for some self-pleasure, so you take your favorite waterproof toy with you in the bathtub. After you’ve indulged in…
If you’ve made it here, it’s because you’re new to anal play and are curious about it, or you want to enhance your experience with toys. Either way, welcome! You may be hesitant or are wondering if anal play is right for you. Some people are hesitant to try and play because they think that…
What’s one of the most classic vibrator shapes around? Your good old rabbit vibrator. While this may be one of the most popular styles on the market today, it can be a bit intimidating to new users. But there’s nothing to worry about! These dual-stimulating devices are designed to be ergonomically friendly and to allow…
Something that beginner and expert sex toy users may not realize is just how essential it is to properly clean your sex toys. Not just for your own health, but also for the longevity of your toys. You can think of sex toy hygiene as an integral part of your sexual wellness. Something you do…
Vibrators… it’s a broad term because there are so many on the market today. But fear not. That’s exactly why we’ve created this guide. Consider it a way in which to learn all about vibrators—what they are, the different vibrator types, vibrator benefits, how to choose one that’s perfect for you, how to use them,…
So you’re looking to try something new in the bedroom? Oftentimes, when people think of BDSM, they may believe that it’s intense and sometimes scary. But this really doesn’t have to be the case. There are so many different styles and themes of BDSM, as well as intensity levels, that it can be enjoyed by…
For trans and gender nonconforming people, sex toys can be a pivotal piece in reconnecting with your sense of pleasure and what it’s like to feel present in your body. Yet it can feel frustrating to feel like you’re surrounded by products and brands that only cater to cisgender people. We aim to help change…
Keeping your sex toys clean is key for two reasons: protecting your health and ensuring the longevity of your toys. That’s why it’s so essential to know exactly how to clean your sex toys. The best way to clean sex toys mostly depends on the material the toys are made from and what kind of…
Sex toy hygiene is a mandatory part of owning intimate products. While people often invest in toys to enhance their pleasure, they’re not always educated on what it takes to properly maintain and care for their vibrators, strokers, or plugs. Doing so ensures that your body stays protected from infections, bacteria, irritation, and that your…