Sex writers often try to make the subject of anal sex more approachable by describing people who enjoy it with euphemisms like ‘backdoor aficionados’ and ‘booty hunters.’ But this does it a huge injustice – not to mention, it’s so yukkily saccharine it could give you a sugar-high. Even ‘buttstuff,’ which I sometimes say myself…
Goodbye high school, hello adulthood! Embarking on the college experience is both exhilarating and frightening at the same time. And if you’re brand new to the game, you’re in for one heck of a rollercoaster adventure (for the old-timers, you know what we’re talking about!). Whichever phase of college you’re in though, the following tips…
Among all the fetishes (and there are many!) in the world, a foot fetish is one of the most prevalent. In fact, it has been found to be the most fetishised part of the body, excluding the genitals. But having a foot fetish is far more intriguing and complex than you may have thought. And…
Let’s face it – we all kiss, and prefer to be kissed, in different ways. It’s an artform of personal preference. There are people who use a lot of tongue, there are people who prefer lip teasing, and there are people who seek admiration through a peck. International Kissing Day has been an iconic British…
Pride month is upon us and the rainbow flag adorning everything from cakes to London buses is proud and prominent for all to see. But we need pride every day, not on just a dedicated month. For all of the steps forward that have been made, there are still so many more that need to…
Surely this has happened to you: you’re coming to the end of a glorious masturbation session, you’ve got the video cued up to the exact moment and you can feel your orgasm coming on. Right as you feel your pelvic muscles contracting in climax, you drop your phone, tablet or laptop, perhaps even on your…
There’s something about drunk sex that makes me feel like a total porn star. I’m talking feelin’ myself, “yes, daddy!” and willing to try almost anything type of confidence . And from talking with my girlfriends, this is a pretty universal feeling. Drinking helps us meet new people, communicate our desires more openly, and be…
That’s right ladies, this position is for us. Since most women require clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, riding is an ideal sex position to do so. This position requires the man to lay on his back while the woman straddles him. The cowgirl has become a staple of almost every sex position guide and…
Two days had passed since Cece arrived on the boat. Bruce had been able to read her body and feel her needs without even knowing her. For the two days that Captain Bruce explored her from head to toe, she had let herself go into a trance like state. Anything outside of the pleasure that…
Think back to the days of your youth… did your teenage years involve parties and games that were all about kissing? Was your first kiss with the cute guy or gal that you had your eye on in a game of Seven Minutes in Heaven? Well, whether you experienced the blissful activity of kissing-on-demand or…
Unbeknownst to many, games are not solely for kids. In fact, there are several games that adults find equally as thrilling. They could be as innocent as the girl next door, you know, like Twister or Monopoly. Or, they could have an element of naughtiness to them. But did you know that if you throw…
Rise and shine! Although some mornings it’s more ‘rise’ than ‘shine’, am I right or what? For the fellas clicking into this article, you’re no doubt familiar with the situation: your eyelids creak open to a slanted ray of sunlight coming through your window blinds. Birds outside are chirping as you yawn and pull away…
The Kama Sutra, written in Sansrift by Indian philosopher, Mallanga Vatsyayana, is not only one of the oldest texts surrounding erotica, but also one that encourages the celebration of sex and spirituality , and educates its readers on how to live a well-balanced, successful, and harmonized life in a meaningful way. And it’s come a…
Curious about anal play? Great! Because there are plenty of resources on trying anal sex for the first time , the very best anal sex positions , and how to enjoy anal sex day (which is on April, 18th FYI). Today however, we’re going to cover other ways to stimulate the anus for both men…
What are they? No, it’s not the female equivalent of a circle-jerk. Otherwise known as pillow talk or pleasure parties, and maybe even the secret thing they used to call “tupperware parties,” sex toy parties are fun and informative gatherings to learn about the latest and greatest personal companions that can do just about everything…
She always dallied provocatively to tease him while she was half-dressed, a flirty game to encourage him to ogle her scantily clad figure and feed her need for his unflagging adoration. Often it devolved into removing just enough of the lacy lingerie to indulge themselves one last time before leaving the house for a social…
‘Home James, and don’t spare the arses.’ James – Dave, her husband – knew the routine. It was their game. One they both loved to play. Get into the car, drive round the block, back into the house, that’s how it started. Every time they got into the car ‘It’s Yesterday Once More’ began to…
Sex is a fulfilling activity, but also an energy drain. Depending on your age, physical fitness, and the preferred frequency and intensity of your sex sessions, you might want to consider finding ways to replenish your juices and strength afterwards. Here are some tips that will help you stay fresh and ready for new action.…
For many, the word ‘ejaculation’ is often associated with men. We know that when a man achieves orgasm, he releases semen (ejaculates). But when it comes to female ejaculation , things become a bit more controversial. You see, many people doubt that it’s a real thing. And even those who do believe in the ability…
Every period of life brings its own challenges but it also opens up the opportunity for joyful and healthy sexlife. Understanding your body, sexual identity, and your ever changing needs in each stage of life paves the way towards a sexual fulfillment and harmonious relationship with your partner(s). The sexual spring of late childhood and…
There are hundreds of sex positions; so many options that you can experiment with a new one every day for an entire year. In addition to the classic positions, a lot of lovers are practicing positions that women do not particularly enjoy. But what are these positions? And why do women hate them? Why Women…
If you’re reading this article right now, especially if you sought it out specifically, then you already know some of the commonly held beliefs around circumcised and uncircumcised penises. Cut (circumcised) guys claim theirs are cleaner, uncut (uncircumcised) fellas swear that they feel more fully the pleasures of sex. In fact, this same question is…
A sensual massage – whether it leads to more one on one action or not – is an amazing way to connect with your partner, as you are showing that you are completely devoted to their needs in that moment. We have a tip or two on how to give the perfect sensual massage ,…
A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Many couples tend to get bored after doing the same thing in the bedroom every single time they want to have sexual intercourse and that is why some of these couples try BDSM. Some people say the letters simply stand for Bondage and Discipline (B&D) and Sadism and Masochism (S&M)…
Tips For Buying Your First Adult Toy Most people, even those who are happily in a relationship, will have some sort of adult toy hidden away somewhere. This is nothing to be ashamed of and can actually be a great investment. There are plenty of toys to choose from so if you are new to…
Tips For Using Fantasy In The Bedroom Even if you are in a committed relationship, sometimes you will want a bit more out of your sex life and this is when fantasy comes into play. Some people are ashamed of wanting to act out a fantasy but everyone has them. Here are some tips to…
Tips On Her Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them If you are in a relationship with someone sexual interactions should not be limited to just sex itself. Instead, you should have other romantic and sensual moments whether casual or as part of foreplay leading up to sex. While everyone is aware of certain erogenous…
Tips On His Erogenous Zones And How To Use Them Erogenous zones are a crucial part of any sexual interaction whether or not you plan on having intercourse. All women know that the man’s genital area, specifically his penis and testicles are incredibly sensitive but not everyone realizes some of the other erogenous zones. Some…
Tips To Increasing Her Sex Drive It is a fact of life that in most relationships, the man will have a higher sex drive than the woman. This is simply human nature and due to the levels of specific hormones such as testosterone. If you are in a relationship where the male always has a…
Secrets to Becoming More Confident and Having Better Sex There is a distinct lack of confidence in a lot of young men and women these days. We can blame it on the sheltered modern lifestyle, a lack of social skills or the fact that some prefer the escapism afforded to them by video games and…
How to Safely Explore Kinky Fantasies in the Bedroom Whether you have been with your significant other for a number of years and you start to feel that the flame of romance has begun to vain or you just want to take things to the next level in the bedroom, some kinky sex can be…
It seems that fingering is underestimated and is considered at best an optional element of foreplay. But in fact, it is a full-fledged sexual practice, which can give a completely new idea about sex. Fingering techniques often spread like wildfire. They are exchanged between partners, they are invented from scratch by couples, and they are…
Studies say that most women find it easier to reach orgasm if sex involves cunnilingus. Cunnilingus helps to relax, focus on yourself and your feelings – perhaps more subtle and diverse than with vaginal sex. It can last from five minutes to an hour. It may lead to orgasm it can be just a part…
For many, being naked is something strictly for the bedroom, or when they’re alone in the shower. And sure, it’s definitely not kosher to roam the streets sans clothing. But when it comes to skinny dipping, different rules apply. And that’s a good thing! Why? Well, not only is it a bit of fun, but…
If you’re reading this then you no doubt know how amazing a sex toy can be for solo use, and also how it can spice up couple’s play . However without the proper care being taken, a sex toy can get pretty un-amazing quite quickly. How un-amazing? Well on the low end, having a sex…
Everyone knows that lube is necessary for anal sex, but have you realized how much it can add to other areas of your sex life, both solo and partnered? Whether medication like birth control is causing a lack of natural lubrication or you just like how things feel when they’re extra slippery, the LELO Personal…
Happy LGBTQ Pride Everyone! June is Pride month, which means not only a month-long celebration of everyone in the LGBTQA community, but also a time to reflect on the strides toward equal human rights that have been made, and what steps there still are to take. Why is June Pride Month? June was declared Pride…
In a world where 30-somethings ogle over wrinkles, and lip fillers are used to eradicate a lack of self-confidence , there are actually more pressing medical issues that deserve a bit of attention. And today, we’re going to shine some light on erectile dysfunction, a condition that affects approximately 10 percent of men, per decade…
Okay so no surprise here as we get started: stress isn’t good for you. You know this, yet you also know that especially now, it’s nearly completely unavoidable. From your twitter feed to your morning commute, the stresses of modern life compound and we all deal with them in different ways, just like stress has…
Sexy dreams can be quite hot and it seems like a safe bet to say that everybody has had at least one sex-charged dream that left them shaky, hard, wet, and/or just super horny. Dreams offer us a peek through the keyhole of our unconscious self and, whether you regard them as some irrelevant TV-program…
Finding a balance in your sex life is a delicate matter ; you might want to think about how, when, and how often you have sex , who you share it with, and how the rest of your life affects it. Ayurveda might help you in this process – it is thousands of years old…
We hardly need a holiday to celebrate sex, but we’re also always on the lookout for things to shake up our routine – so here are some ideas about how you can too! Out-of-the-Box Oral Ideas Some say the meaning behind National Sex Day – or at least the reason why it’s on June 9th…
Some things in life are more easy than others. Take 1 + 1 for example. The answer is 2. You just can’t argue with that. But when it comes to matters of the heart, things become a whole lot trickier. And this isn’t news. You’re not the only one who has endured sleepless nights-on-end wondering,…
OK, surely your immediate thoughts are, “Who doesn’t know what an erection is?” And that’s a fair assessment. But do you, really? In actuality, there’s a whole lot more than what meets the eye when it comes to getting hard. So, sit back and relax, because you’re in for quite the anatomy lesson. Find out…
Physical intimacy in your relationship doesn’t have to be boring – even if you’ve been married for decades! But if you find yourself getting tired of the same old routine or you’re just looking to heighten the passion you already feel for one another, read on. Being intimate with our partners is one of the…
Richard Nicastro, PhD explores the sneaky but effective ways couples can hide from intimacy. Emotional intimacy isn’t for the faint of heart. It takes courage and faith to open your heart to another, to let down your guard and take off the masks commonly worn out in the world (competent employer/employee, supportive friend, in-charge parent,…
Dr Richard Nicastro, PhD A takes an in depth look at the impact of infidelity on post-affair sex. The emotional fallout from an affair is extensive, and the healing process can be a long and bumpy road. Couples committed to this healing journey should be mindful of what’s ahead for them as they try to…
Couples therapist, Rachel Moheban-Wachtel examines the common problem of a strong relationship but differing sex drives – and what you can do to combat sexual incompatibility. While in couples therapy, something that I find myself dealing with quite a bit is the sexual incompatibility that oftentimes occurs between a husband and wife. As a matter…
Richard Nicastro, PhD believes scheduled sex can be a good thing for many couples. He challenges some of the beliefs and “shoulds” around this topic as it relates to sexual intimacy in marriage and relationships. We can all see the logic of scheduling life maintenance tasks like medical appointments or our car’s oil change, or…
Richard Nicastro, PhD looks at why “intimacy is not for the faint of heart” and how a fear of intimacy can get in the way of the quality of the sexual relationship in your marriage. He poses questions for reflection for you and your partner to improve the connection. Emotional intimacy involves a connection that…