Sex is one of the best ways to build intimacy and connect with your partner. When you’re both naked, bodies touching, sensually moving together while keeping each other’s gaze, the atmosphere is very romantic and pleasant. But sometimes, you just don’t want to do it sweet and soft. Sometimes, you just want to be thrown…
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Everything You Need to Know About Gender, Sexuality and PRIDE—Dr. Zhana Q&A
Hi everyone, it’s Dr. Zhana! It’s time to answer your questions about sexual orientation and LGBTQ-related topics for Pride Month. I got some really good questions and I’m really excited to answer them. Q: I know gender is not binary, but is sex binary? All right, let’s start with the basics. Gender is more about…
Thinking of Getting a Hood Piercings? Here’s Everything You Need to Know
The female genitalia is a wondrous thing, and it becomes even more marvelous when you realize that you can bedazzle your bits with jewelry. There are actually a few different places on the vagina that can be pierced, but the most popular of them all is the vertical clitoral hood (VCH from here on) piercing…
Precum 101: The Ultimate Guide to Pre-Ejaculate and Everything You Need To Know About It
Precum or pre-ejaculate is a fluid that comes out of a penis when the penis owner becomes aroused. It can show up at any time during foreplay or during masturbation, and some people notice it, while others don’t. It’s a very natural part of penis-owner anatomy, but there is still a lot of misconception about…
Control Your Orgasms… From Your Phone!
Oh the wonderful world of sex toys! How we cherish our self-care sessions, filled with passionate lust and gorgeous orgasms! And don’t forget partnered play… equally as delicious and satisfying! Which is why we’re continuously bringing you new and more sextech-savvy toys that’ll rock your world (like the new LELO ENIGMA! Have you seen it…
Getting Wet: Let’s Talk About Vaginal Discharge and What It Is
Vaginal discharge, arousal fluid, squirting fluid, and cervical fluid. So many different vagina fluids that it can be hard to keep track of and understand the differences between each, right? But it doesn’t have to be — once you understand the purpose of vagina fluids and why our bodies produce them, the difference becomes clear…
Three’s a Crowd! The Ins and Outs of a MMF Threesome
When it comes to social situations, the expression, “two’s company, three’s a crowd” often comes with negative connotations. But when you add some kind of sexual aspect to it, well… a crowd is actually quite enticing! In fact, a study confirmed that 82% of men and 31% of women were interested in having a threesome…
Ask a Doctor: Everything You Want To Know About Masturbation by Dr. Zhana
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana. I’m a professor of human sexuality at New York University and Happy National Masturbation Day! May is both Masturbation Month and mental health awareness month and I don’t think that’s a coincidence! Because self-pleasure is one of my, at least, favourite forms of self-care. So, I’m really excited to…
Lesbian Vibrators for Lustful Lovers
You’re probably wondering what a lesbian vibrator actually is. And rightly so! How does it differ from any other pleasure product for vulva-owners? Well, there are several different toys available that are perfect for lesbian partners and lovers. And we’re not just talking about strap-ons and double-ended dildos! Sure, those are quite a treat for…
LELO F1s V2 Sextech Pleasure Console Review and Product Overview
The F1S V2 is not a male masturbator, stroker, or a masturbation sleeve, it’s a pleasure console. LELO has taken all the optimal pleasure built into the first generation F1s and added new features for curious men who like to be in total control. If you’re interested in the best male sex toys, don’t overlook…
What’s ‘Second Base’ These Days, Sexually Speaking?
Whether you’re a pinch hitter in middle school or a relief pitcher who’s been to the mound a few times, you’re probably like us and very, very confused by all the baseball terminology that pop culture has made so famous. We’re of course talking about the different bases correlating to different levels of intimacy with…
What’s the Best Sex Toy to Buy For Your Wife?
So, you want to find the best sex toy for your wife? One that’ll not only give her uninhibited pleasure time and time again but one that will be highly erotic for you too… whether you’re watching or playing together. Lucky for you, we’re in the business of making people smile ridiculously from massive orgasms.…
Reading Erotica with Isaac – An Erotica Story
Isaac and I had been seeing each other casually for a couple of weeks at this point. I really liked him. He had dark brown hair, deep brown eyes, and was studying social work with a focus on helping survivors of sexual assault. Oh, and he was in the military. He certainly ticked all the…
Myth Busting About Womanhood, Femininity and Sex
Let’s get going by naming some of the myths I hear around womanhood and sex: that you should have pain when you have sex, that you should be able to orgasm through penetration alone, that squirting is pee, that all women have vulvas, that if you’re not wet you’re not enjoying sex or if you…
Boat Sex Positions & Tips for Some Nautical Naughtiness
Ten years ago, the cruise line Royal Caribbean conducted an intimate survey! It revealed that 90% of cruise-goers found having sex to be their top cruise activity! They also found that 62% of participants had better sex at sea, and 50% said that they’d be ‘hopping to the deed’ within the first six hours of…
Things to Know About Blowjobs (If You’ve Never Given One Before)
So, you’re just about ready to give your first blowjob. Before we start, we feel that congratulations are in order so — congrats! You’re about to embark on a whole new dimension of sexuality that can be very fulfilling, assuming that your partner returns the favor (and they most definitely should) and pretty soon, you’ll…
The Arousing and Life-Saving Benefits of A Breast Massage
Breasts… a versatile, life-giving part of the body! And while we often think only of women when it comes to nipples, men have nipples because they’re formed early on during the gestation period. This makes them an erogenous zone for the lads too! Not as much so as for women, however, but still a pleasure…
What’s a ‘Penis Sleeve’?
When some men deal with the effects of erectile dysfunction or desire penis enlargement without medication or invasive procedures, they will turn to penis sleeves. What’s a penis sleeve? Most commonly, a penis sleeve is a rigid-but-pliable sheathe that goes around and over a semi-hard penis during sex. It serves three purposes: 1. It adds…
What is “Sub Drop”? And How To Deal with It?
Have you ever experienced an emotional or physical high so great that it made coming back to the real world seem difficult? Some people with experience using drugs can attest to it, as it causes a rush of serotonin or dopamine that then needs to be replenished over the following days, leaving the person feeling…
Paralysed Sex: What You Need To Know About Sex and Spinal Cord Injuries
Physical disabilities can have an important impact on many different aspects of daily life, including sex. Unfortunately, however, sex and disability is a taboo topic of discussion that is rarely addressed, even by healthcare providers. It is important to break down the barriers to discussing sex and disability because everyone—regardless of their ability status—is deserving…
Try Slow Sex if You Want the Most Intense Orgasms of Your Life
Usually, when it’s time to get frisky, we tend to get so excited that we just rush through the whole experience and be done in less than ten minutes. Sometimes, the quick and dirty “Bham wham, thank you, ma’am” type of sex is hot and works wonders when you just want to release some tension. …
The Sensation of Sound Ch. 2 – A Gay Erotic Story
Last Chapter “Uuhhh…” Kayne shuddered as the dull, listless voice scraped up the back of his arms. “I’m lookin’ fer a Kayne Wright?” He blinked, swiveling in his desk chair to find a short, pudgy man in a wrinkled blue polo standing a few cubicles down from him. In his hands was a small, rectangular…
The More the Merrier: How to Get Your Gang Bang On!
Whether you’re getting down with one person or several, there’s a ton of fun to be had! And even though the notion of a gang bang can be kind of daunting or even foul to some, others find it extremely erotic. Whatever your pleasure, treasure! This is why we’re adopting the attitude, the more the…
Gear Up and Love Yourself with a Major Masturbation Month Sale
Go ahead, touch yourself. MAYsterbation is a month dedicated entirely to self-love and self-sex, so we’re celebrating by offering 20-80% OFF a variety of sex toys! Talk about good vibrations. Check out some of our favorite deals below, along with our full list of major savings! SILA SILA is one of the newest clit suckers…
How To Use SORAYA Wave Rabbit Vibrator
Because of their versatility, rabbit vibrators deliver climax after climax. They are the perfect combination for mutual stimulation, whether that be g-spot and clitoris, anal and clitoris, g-spot and anal, or whatever other ways you can get creative with pleasure. To sum it up, you want one in your life and you’ll be mad at…
A Special Something for a Special Someone: LELO Gift Ideas for Mother’s Day
Mother’s Day is an opportunity to thank all of the leading ladies out there for giving us life. And for many, a mother represents so much more than 50 percent of our DNA. Mother’s have magical powers that can heal broken hearts, body aches and pains, and physical wounds. And during your life, people will…
How To Love Unconditionally: A Global Love Day Lesson
Unconditional love is hard to explain. Applying it to ourselves is sometimes even more difficult. That’s why this Global Love Day is inspired by the phrase “Love begins with me.” Our self-love is often buried beneath layers of trauma, guilt and pain, which makes it easy to overlook the fact that love is always present.…
Ask a Doctor: Masturbation Questions with Dr. Zhana
Hello everyone, this is Dr. Zhana! It’s time for a monthly Q&A! Since May is masturbation month, that’s what we are going to talk about. And there are so many good questions that you’ve asked. I can’t wait to answer them all. Here we go! It’s not shameful to masturbate, right? This is actually a…
What is a Rainbow Kiss?
If I had to pinpoint the most enjoyable thing that’s happened to the world of sex since the internet came on thr scene, it’s that folks these days are always cooking up fresh ways to talk about the things we get up to when we’re getting down. If you browse Reddit or Twitter, it seems…
Why is Lube So Important for Anal Play & What Lube Should You Be Using?
So you love a bit of anal pleasure? Fabulous! Those who embrace this kind of play are welcoming a whole new world of delicious sensations to their sexual experience. If anal isn’t for you though, that’s fine! Whatever floats your boat! But if you are either active or intrigued when it comes to this kind…
What if there was a Single Emoji for Sex?
As an advocate for a sex-positive lifestyle, LELO is all for sexting as it liberates even the shiest of us and allows us to express things we might not say face-to-face to another person. There is nothing like the right emoji or combo of emojis to elevate “wyd” to “U up?”, and yet, there is no…
Review: The LELO ENIGMA is, Well… a Mind-Blowing Enigma!
For years, I believed that my orgasms were fantastic, earth-shattering, amazing… the best they’d ever get! Boy was I wrong! I actually didn’t know that my body was capable of producing such a ludicrous amount of euphoria until I tried using dual stimulation sex toys. You see, for the longest time, I wasn’t interested in…
Let’s Celebrate Sexual and Gender Diversities
Hatred is a virus, too. That’s why, despite being home this year, it’s still important to commemorate the strides taken for equality while acknowledging the serious work that still needs to be done. Here’s everything you need to know about International Day Against Homophobia and how we’re putting our LELO twist on it (with some…
Happy Earth Day! 5 Ways LELO Stays Green
In honor of Earth Day and the importance of taking care of the planet, we’re sharing how we take green measures for your eco-friendly pleasure. The extra time and care that go in to our designs not only allows us to leave the smallest environmental impact possible, but also ensures that you get to enjoy…
Solo & Coupled Personal Review of Lelo Tiani 3 vs. We-Vibe Sync
Couples’ massagers are great sex toys for a number of reasons: helping with erectile dysfunction, wider vaginas/smaller partners, and just spicing up solo or partnered play with some added sensations. I found two popular couples’ massagers, the Lelo Tiani 3 and We-Vibe Sync, and tested them during masturbation and partnered sex. Lelo Tiani 3 Couples’…
Avoiding Awkwardness: Is It Ok For Your Dog To Watch You Have Sex?
Once you get a pet, you will inevitably deal with an issue is that might have never crossed your mind before – should I let my pet watch me have sex? With pets like cats, that is rarely an issue because they are a live-and-let-live kind of animal that will let you do your weird…
Alter Soldier – A Gay Erotica Story
As usual, in the lab the lights emanate from everywhere yet nowhere. However, this time he’s strapped face-down to the cold metal table, his legs spread; it doesn’t matter what he can or cannot see. He’s naked. His heart is pounding. The pain is coming. There is no stopping the pain from coming. “You’ll forget…
Ask a Doctor: Female Pleasure FAQs with Dr. Zhana
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana. I’m a professor of human sexuality at New York University and resident LELO sexpert. This month was International Women’s Day, so we’re going to talk about female desire. I want women to feel comfortable talking about sensuality. I want that too, so badly! Unfortunately, we live in a world…
4 Reasons Why Hotel Sex Is So Much Better Than Sex at Home
If you’ve been looking for ways to spice up your sex life and bring in some fresh air into your bedroom, you might want to think about taking it outside your bedroom. To be more specific–you should think about trying hotel sex. Many people consider hotel sex to be so much hotter and better than…
What Does Sex Feel Like? Everything You’ve Ever Wanted To Know
Sex is truly a fascinating thing. Before you have sex for the first time, it seems like this wonderful, mysterious thing that will change your life. Being sexually aroused feels good, and the orgasms you give yourself during masturbation sessions are great. But then you start wondering: what does sex feel like with another person…
How To Get a Hard-On After 65
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Penises don’t always work the way we want them to. Over the course of a man’s life, he will occasionally experience erections at inconvenient or undesirable times, and he will occasionally be unable to get an erection when he wants one. This is all perfectly normal. However,…
What Does it Mean to be Panromantic
LGBT. LGBTQ. LGBTQI. LGBTQIA+. As an out and proud member of the queer community, I relish each letter our little web of support brings to the table. Under such a big, welcoming archway of possibility, there are few things more beautiful than queers and our ability to meet one another exactly where we’re at. Most…
Spring Sex Toy Sale! Hop on the Freshest Deal
Spring won’t be the only thing that’s sprung after you take a look at our Rabbit April deals. Discover deals on every toy category and use code LELOSPRING for 20% OFF luxury pleasure makers. If that doesn’t excite you enough, every order over $199 comes with a free sex toy. SEE ALL SPRING DEALS …
ENIGMA Dual Stimulation Massager Review Roundup
Enigma is a massager for those looking for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. It titillates both the visible and not visible parts of the clitoris through sonic saves, while using vibrations on the “bulb” that’s inserted vaginally. Check out if it’s fluttered all the right places for the professional sex toy reviewers below! LELO ENIGMA…
Sex Talk #2: Megan Barton-Hanson x LELO
We followed up with Megan Barton-Hanson to see what she’s been up to since we last spoke. Here’s the update on her recent orbit around the sun, future adventures, and sex advice for anyone. First of all, happy belated 27th birthday! We’re happy to see Post Malone (even the cardboard version) made it to your…
Getting Started with Sex Chairs
To think of ‘sex furniture’ may bring to mind straps and swings hanging from the rafters of Christian Gray’s red room, however there’s so much more to them than that. Rather than just being kinky accoutrements (which they certainly can be), they are great erotic aides that open up more possibilities for people of all…
Send Yourself into Sexual Ecstasy with ENIGMA Dual Action Sonic Massager
The sex toy of your dreams has arrived, if you’re brave enough to delve into uncharted pleasure. ENIGMA is a sonic massager that looks different than most pleasure makers, and feels different too. Blended orgasms are the ultimate treasure, but you don’t have to look hard to find them. ENIGMA is pleasure at your fingertips,…
A Clean Bill of Sexual Health
“A clean bill of sexual health” is a phrase used to mean that you are STD free. But (we have to address the problems) let’s talk about the trouble with this phrase. An STD is more accurately referred to as an STI (sexually transmitted infection), because not all infections lead to symptoms and diseases, especially…
Satisfied or Sonafied? Putting Satisfyer Pro 2 and Sona 2 Cruise Head to Head
We recently reviewed Lelo’s Sona 2 Cruise against Womanizer Premium, so we thought it was only fitting to bring in another commonly mentioned clit sucker, Satisfyer Pro 2! These toys use air pulsation technology to stimulate much more of the clitoris without directly touching it. Discover the defining features, pros, and cons of each below.…
Saddle Up for These 5 Straddling Positions!
So you want to give straddling a go? Yay you! This kind of sex position is relatively easy and most of the time, super comfortable for both partners. What’s even better is that it can be done in a number of different ways. To be more precise, here are two definitions for the word ‘straddle’:…