Perhaps you’ve been diagnosed with endometriosis and you’re living with some the dreaded effects, aka painful sex. Or maybe you’ve yet to visit your healthcare provider, but are having some difficulty during intimacy, creating some anxiety and discomfort. Unfortunately, there are many women who have endometriosis, and may not even know it. If you identify…
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Light Up Your Sex Life… Literally
Bringing some actual fire into your bedroom can really turn up the heat between the sheets. And yup, after reading what I just wrote, I know this text is going to require a serious safety disclaimer. But brace yourself – we are seriously going to discuss including open flames into your sex life. Fire is…
Sex During End of Year Stress | Q&A with Casey Tanner
Like in most cases, stress can have a direct impact on your emotional well-being and intimacy. We opened the floor for users to ask sex therapist Casey Tanner all their dwelling questions about holiday stress and sex. How can I tell my partner I’m not into sex when I’m feeling stressed? You are, of course,…
Back to School – A Gay Erotic Story
They looked over curiously at the men shuffling in together each holding the hand of the man in front and behind him. Wearing only boxer shorts, they wore black hoods with small openings for their eyes – hoods to protect their identity. What about our identities? he thought as he leaned forward looking lazily over…
Sexual Guilty Pleasures: So Bad, Yet Oh So Good!
Guilty pleasures… we all have them! Maybe you enjoy singing Westlife in the shower, or perhaps your favourite TV show is 90 Day Fiancé. We don’t judge! But! We do see why these things could be considered a guilty pleasure. And when it comes to sexual guilty pleasures, the notion is essentially the same…. What…
The Treasure of the Kingdom – An Erotic Story
Once upon a time, a mighty King and a lovely Queen hosted a grand ball to find a suitable wife for their son, Prince Leo. The event was lavish and regaled the nobility of the land. The ladies of high esteem wore long gowns and heavy diamond necklaces. Men of renown donned their suits and…
What is Zombie Porn and How are People Turned On by It?
Sure as there are billions of people on the planet, there are billions of kinks and preferences that turn them on. Admit it: Even you likely have a kink that is a little outside of the norms of what is generally considered ‘normal’ society. Perhaps you’ve got a bit of a penchant for Paraphilic Infantilism,…
Vibrator Massage 101
Sure, sex toys are designed to make you feel good, but they can do more than get you off. With some know-how, and preferably a helping hand, a vibrator can be used to smooth out knots and kinks in your neck, back, thighs, or anywhere else your muscles may need a bit of kneading. I’ve…
What Does Vagina Taste Like?
Loaded question, but today we’re going to dive into the taste of vagina. For many vulva owners, their taste, smell, and appearance ‘down there’ can be a cause of anxiety. It could even lead to feeling less confident during intimacy, actively avoiding the beautiful act of receiving oral sex, or down-right shame or embarassement, wondering…
A Fantasy without Guilt? What is Forced Feminization?
We love learning about and seeing people engage in acts that make them feel good, great, and absolutely fantastic! So when we hear of male-indentifying submissives living their best lives with their dominants during a scene of forced feminization, it’s like music to our ears. Now some of you may not have heard of the…
All About His Pleasure! Seductively Orgasmic Anal Vibrators for Him
There’s something incredibly powerful that comes about when you engage in anal stimulation. That is, big, massive, firework-inducing orgasms! It’s a genderless activity that can be enjoyed by all, and treats individuals to a slew of new and exciting sensations. So why wouldn’t someone want to jump onto the anal stimulation train? Well, for one,…
Fired for Missy Lanta – An Erotic Story
“Here’s your pay!” Dennis shoved a fist full of dollars into my chest. “And now our business partnership is officially terminated. Don’t ever contact us again.” The fire in his eyes revealed the anger of Hell. Or it may have been his embarrassment after one hell of a night. Honestly it mattered to me. Dennis…
Mum’s the Word! What’s the Appeal of Mummification Bondage?
So you’re somewhat of a bondage enthusiast, are you? All things that pertain to binding/being bound, tied up, and restrained piques your interest! On the hunt for new and exhilarating ways to practice bondage? Great! We’re here to tell you all about mummification bondage. Heard of it? Even if you’re a newbie to the world…
Go Deep: Intense Sensations Beyond The G-Spot
You’ve heard of the G-Spot, but how about the C-Spot, A-Spot and O-Spot? Let’s dive a little deeper into these erogenous zones, and learn more about how to unlock the intense pleasure they can provide. This guide is brought to you by CLIMAX, a virtual training program dedicated to the exploration of female pleasure, grounded…
The Best Tantric Sex Positions for You and Your Partner
So, you and your partner have heard of tantric sex and decided that it might be the time to experience it yourselves. That’s great news because tantric sex is one of the best ways to build intimacy and connect better with your partner (and yourself). Tantric sex can sound intimidating for people new to the…
The Silhouette – An Erotic Story
The cruel winds had blown through Williston Falls the night before. The storm uprooted sturdy trees in the town’s small park and lifted farm houses only to reset them cockeyed on their foundations. But there was worse. The morning after, three ladies huddled together in the Louise Hollis Community Center, trying to calm a weeping…
Laundromat – An Erotic Story
That Friday, I declined a night out with my girlfriends so I could do my laundry. The decision wasn’t for a lack of clean clothes. Instead, the week had been depressing. Work overload, pressing deadlines, crazy customers, no break from the headache. I wanted time alone to wallow, and a laundromat on a Friday night…
The More The Merrier: Sex Toy Bundles
Good things come in threes, and in this case… sometimes two’s. Who doesn’t want more *bang* for their buck? Sex toy bundles are the gift that keeps on giving. Whether they’re for yourself, or someone else. They’re also an awesome way to try out a range of sensations with products that were designed to work…
Heartbreak Central – An Erotic Story
I’d been stood up and it sucked. On a whim I’d swiped right on Tinder for a guy with a winning smile. We’d texted a couple of times and agreed to meet here. Now forty-nine minutes past our meeting time he was a no show. Steam swirled from my latté, the aroma mingling with the…
LELO Releases Music Album Based on the Sound Waves Orgasms From Real People
Many people can name songs that make their skin tingle and send their emotions soaring. In fact, music has the power to create waves of pleasure so great that some liken it to an orgasm. But until today, nobody would have heard songs made from the sound waves of actual orgasms. Introducing Extended Pleasure: the…
Dr. Zhana Q&A: Spicing Things Up
For our November Q&A with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, we’re talking about Spicing Things Up. How would you define sex? What can sex include to be more interesting? I define sex quite broadly. It can include anything – masturbation, partnered sex of different kinds (oral, anal, mutual masturbation, using toys on each other), different kinds of…
Uncovering the Subconscious: Sexy Dreams
Most of us have been there. You wake up, maybe a little dazed and confused, but also maybe a little turned on. What just happened? Did I really just? No wait, that was definitely a dream. Sexy dreams can catch you off guard, even if they were enjoyable. You might be thinking to yourself “I’m…
How To Use a Dual Vibrator for Solo and Partnered Play
Dual vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys on the market. And there is no surprise why. With the wide array of shapes and sizes that they come in, it’s a sex toy worth the attention for enhancing both, solo and partnered play. What Is a Double Vibrator? Double vibrators are sex toys…
Reclaimed – An Erotic Story
I brought a glass closer to my eyes to better observe the thick red color of 7 fuentes wine against the light of the late afternoon sun. Rich peppery fruitiness playfully danced on top of some earthy mineral tones, donated by the mighty volcano on whose slopes the grapes grew. The wine was pretty unique,…
How To Use Smart Wand 2 Massage Wand
Our new Smart Wand 2 massage wand is the ultimate tool for making you orgasm while looking and feeling luxurious. With the two different sizes available, Medium and Large, everyone can find something perfect for them. Find out why you want to choose LELO’s massage wand over other toys on the market and how to…
A Basic Introduction: What Does ‘BDSM’ Mean?
There are more than a handful of articles on Volonté regarding different aspects of BDSM. But before you start reading about whips and chains, perhaps a little crash course is in order? You know, for those who don’t really understand everything that it entails, and who are curious about the meaning of BDSM in all…
LELO Podcast: The World of BDSM
In this episode, we are going deep into a powerful conversation about bedroom habits from the other side of the fence. We’ll discuss topics such as kink, BDSM, and how to find your place in all of it. Joining us in the studio is Viktor Zahtila, a BDSM practitioner, and on video we have Colette…
How Does Your Vagina Change with Age?
As we worry about the ways that time changes our appearance in terms of crow’s feet and laugh lines, do we ever consider what kind of effect it’s having on our privates? Just like everything else about our bodies, our genitals will also bear some of the signs of aging, for good and for ill.…
Hold Tight! The Powerful Erotic Potential of Tension
We often get the message that we need to relax in order to enjoy better sex, but sometimes the opposite can be true. Sexual arousal needs tension. When we become aroused, the tension of our pelvic muscles increases naturally and automatically. Muscle tension and pressure causes nerve endings within the muscles to be stimulated. This…
The New INA 3 Rabbit Vibrator Will Make You Come Again and Again
Attention! There is a new kid on the block. With the new and improved INA 3 launch comes new possibilities for more mind-blowing orgasms. So are you ready to meet your new favorite sex toy? INA 3 Specifications Materials: Body-safe silicone, ABS Size: 200 x 65 x 45 mm / 7.9 x 2.5 x 1.7…
Is The Term ‘NSFW’ Actually Quite Toxic?
My initial research led me to a meme that read, “If you work in a sex shop, is it still NSFW?” Well played, meme, well played! But actually, the term ‘NSFW’ has been flung around for a good few years now. And if you haven’t seen it yet (or searched to find out its meaning),…
The Anatomy of the Vagina: It’s Not Even the Half of It!
If a spade is a spade, let’s just call it a spade? By that I mean, the majority of you reading this article right now probably are or have been sexually active. At the very least, it’s safe to assume that you’ve experimented with masturbation (or are ready to). And because we’re sexual beings, we…
A Perfect Day to Feel Manly: Masculinity and International Men’s Day
It takes a special kind of a failed social justice warrior (and bonehead) to go around social networks on the International Women’s Day and complain it is unfair women have their day and men do not. So let’s settle this once and for all – not only that International Men’s Day exists, but it has…
7 Different Ways To Use TIANI 3 Couples’ Massager
TIANI 3 Couples’ Massager is one of the best-selling LELO toys that’s popular with couples around the globe. And there is a good reason for it. With multiple different vibration settings, luxurious design, and a promise of pleasure for both partners, TIANI 3 is the sex toy you want in your collection. Why Choose TIANI…
Where Do You Fall on the Kinsey Scale?
Have you ever questioned your sexual orientation, despite being quite grounded in the fact that you belong to or do not belong to a certain one? As we know, sexuality is fluid and while one may very well feel as though they are 100 percent heterosexual or 100 percent homosexual, the majority of us actually…
Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM), an Erotic Form of Sexy Foreplay
Imagine going to your favourite spa for a full body massage, perhaps a facial, a mani/pedi (if that’s something you’re into), a bit of time in the sauna… the works. For many, this is the ultimate form of self-care and well, luxury. But this kind of spa day is one that’s calming, peaceful, and non-erotic.…
Leave Romance at the Door: Lithromantic, Explained
You know how people often associate romance with a warm, gooey feeling? Like butterflies in one’s stomach that flutter and twirl so uncontrollably that it feels as though they’re going to burst from excitement, love, or lust? Turns out, not everyone feels that way about romance! Indeed, there are individuals who consider their romantic orientation…
Sex and CBD Oil: What You Need to Know
While studies of every claim are still ongoing, CBD is appearing in more and more creams, ointments, and candies with claims of being able to treat an ever-growing list of symptoms related to anxiety, depression, high blood pressure, and many issues and ailments. This cure-all tincture we are talking about, more specifically, is cannabidiol: It…
The Best Sex Positions for Women
Kama Sutra has well over a few dozen different sex positions. And while all of them are equally worth exploring, sometimes you might just want a sex position that will guarantee an effortless orgasm. And for days when you just want to have some quality fun in the bedroom, we have a list of the…
Fall in Love: 6 Reasons Why Autumn is the Sexiest Season
Fall, particularly late fall, tends to get a short shrift when it comes to perceived sexiness. After all, everyone has gone back to school or work; we’re saying goodbye to nice weather and hello to rain, and aside from Halloween there aren’t a lot of festive celebrations that rely on titillation. But, we’ve come up…
What is Cuffing Season and Am I Guilty of Partaking in It?
We’re just sliding into that late autumn/early winter colder months – you know the time: the air is crisp, the sleeves are long and the lattes are pumpkin spiced. But now that the sun is setting earlier and there’s enough of a nip in the air to make an excuse to skip after-work drinks, have…
Ask a Therapist: Sex, Masturbation & Mental Health
Enjoy our Q&A with sex therapist, Casey Tanner. How can sex help our mental health? There is so much evidence that sex, masturbation, and orgasm can all have amazing benefits on your health and mental health. This is mainly because the same system that is responsible for sex and arousal is also connected to the…
Wild Sex Fantasies From Everyday People
Do you have a vivid imagination? Or in the words of the great Rihanna “Wild, wild thoughts”? You’re not alone. Sexual fantasies are completely normal. They’re the merging of the subconscious world of desire, your libido, and your imagination. You may have sexual fantasies that you have no intention of ever bringing to fruition, but…
How are Seniors Having Sex? An In-depth Senior Sex Study
There may be a good reason grandma and grandpa haven’t returned your phone call. A survey looked at how the sex habits of 2,000 people aged 50 and older changed and found that more than three-quarters have noticed significant changes to their sex life now compared to when they were younger (77%), with 45% saying…
The Evolution of Sex Toys: From Dried Camel Dung to AI Technology
When it comes to sex toys, human beings have always been inventive. Long before the emergence of climax machines like the famous ‘rabbit’ and smart luxury toys that can tell what you want before you want it, people had to make do with what nature had to offer. The oldest sex toy known to man…
LELO Podcast: Safety First, Beginners Guide To Sex Toys
In this week’s episode of the Volonté pleasure podcast, we are joined by a professor of psychology and licensed sex therapist, Dr. Laurie Mintz. We all know that pleasure can take many different forms. However, we’ll be focusing on self-pleasure in this episode. Many people have an aversion to using sex toys, resulting from a…
No Safety, No Pleasure: A Beginner’s Guide To Sex Toys That Won’t Scar You For Life
We already know that pleasure comes in all kinds of different forms. We also know that there is a sweet little thing called self-pleasure time; it can, and if you ask us, should include a special intensifier. Still, some have a particular aversion to using sex toys, perhaps a previous bad experience, a lack of…
Room No. 23, Paris – An Erotic Story
The wheels of the airliner screeched against the runway, bounced and then screeched again. The sudden pressure of the stop tightened the seatbelts against the waists of the travelers. Mrs. Mower startled awake in the cramped seat, her hips aching where the armrests had pressed into them throughout the flight. As the plane stopped at…
Sex Toy Columnist Uses Nothing but LELO’s Enigma for a Month Straight: Here are Her 5 Tips & Tricks
Dubbed the “the Tesla of sex toy companies” by Vice, our latest device has gained much attention, so here’s how to get freaky with it. Enigma launched, and five-star reviews came flying in, stating that it offered women pleasure that was “out of this world”. Giving you the option for both kinds of stimulation, our…
A Beginner’s Guide to Swinging
“I looked down at his penis, decided that he was big enough and then nodded to give my approval, before he started having sex with my partner for the night,” says veteran swinger, Mike. The 52-year-old ex-banker is well-versed in the UK’s sex scene; from Le Boudoir, the member’s club in London, to Vanilla Alternative,…