Consider this guys: the way you masturbate is the same way you’ve been doing it for your entire sexually active life. For instance, this writer is in his mid-30s, which means that it’s been the same rub-and-tug for over 20 years now. Now, I am sure that you’re not sick of masturbating or anything–but what…
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First Time Sex Positions and Tips for Physical & Emotional Wellbeing
Having sex for the first time can be a daunting and nerve wracking experience for many. And while sex education, reading up on the topic, or even engaging in other sexual practices can never fully prepare you for your first time, there are some things that can aid in having a positive and pleasant experience. …
How to Stimulate the Foreskin
It is estimated that 37 to 39 percent of penis-owners are circumcised globally. This means the majority of penises have foreskins and yet, there are too few resources for how to effectively stimulate an uncircumcised penis. Part of the blame, at least in my opinion, is that anywhere between 76 to 92 percent of Americans…
What’s a “Hands-Free Masturbator” for Men?
The hands-free orgasm is certainly something you’ve come across on your favorite porn streaming site by now, and as a concept, you have to admit that it’s pretty intriguing. To climax without using one’s hands? For men, there are many ways that this can be done (mainly through prostate massage), but there are other ways…
Why People with Penises Should Embrace Strap-Ons
For many men and people with penises, it may never even occur to them to try strap-on sex. If one’s parts are functioning as expected they might not see no reason to experiment with such a thing. Society in general has deeply-rooted ideas about masculinity and penises that lead men to regard such playthings as…
Waves of Rippling Pleasure: How to Have a Full Body Orgasm
As Colbie Caillat sang, “It starts in my toes, makes me crinkle my nose,” a full body orgasm is kind of like that, but in the most satisfyingly sexual way possible. To enjoy a full body orgasm, it feels as though rippling waves are coursing through you with muscle contractions in your abdomen and other…
How to Make a Man Cry in the Bedroom
We know what you may be thinking… “Why would I want to make a man cry in the bedroom?”. Well, firstly, we don’t judge! There are many facets to sexuality, and how one experiences arousal and pleasure is not linear nor predictable. Whether you’re wanting to make a man cry in the bedroom in the…
Make Love Better with 4 Valentine’s Day Sex Positions
You chose the perfect gift, cooked a dinner based exclusively on aphrodisiac foods, sprinkled the bed of rose petals… what could you still be missing for a perfect night of passion? Why, the 4 perfect positions for Valentine’s Day, of course! If it’s all About Romance Romance is not for everyone – some people break…
Why We Absolutely Love Comfort Sex!
So often, when we read literature online or self-help books on the topic of sex, we find ourselves talking about experimenting, trying new things in the bedroom, and different way to avoid boredom in between the sheets. But what if the narrative changed? What if, instead of going for a one night stand or partnering…
Sexual Health Q&A with Dr. Zhana
For our January Q&A with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, we’re talking about Sexual Health. How much sex is necessary to keep a balanced, healthy sexual relationship? This is a remarkably common question that I get. There’s no one right answer. How often you and your partner should have sex really depends on how often the two…
The Ultimate Guide to Giving a Mindblowing Lingam Massage
If you’re looking for a way to surprise your partner, lingam massage might be a great option. It’s a practice that’s created with all the penis owners in mind. It guarantees a good time and a great way to connect with your partner. What Is Lingam Massage? Lingam massage is one of the tantric sex…
What Kind of Charger Does LELO Use? All Your Charging Qs—Answered!
Have a question about LELO chargers? Skip to the section you need below. What kind of charger does LELO use? Should I charge my LELO toy before first use? How long do I need to charge my LELO toy? Can you use LELO while charging? How do I know my LELO is fully charged? How…
What is a Happy Ending Massage? Your Guide on Giving One to Your Partner at Home
You’ve probably heard the term “happy ending” in the movies, social media, and even in magazines where people share their crazy stories from that time they went on vacation. And you’ve probably been curious what all the fuss is about. Is the happy ending common for every message? Is it only reserved for men alone,…
1000 Seconds to Mars – An Erotic Story
Your mouth puckers and shoulders shiver from the sour flavor. The Gimlet is more lime than liquor. In fact, the shot of Grey Goose is questionable. And that’s how your night has gone. You are mentally absent and not participating in Isabel’s and Carla’s chit-chatting. This smoky rock club is awkward for you. It’s packed…
How to Milk Your Prostate in Five Easy Steps
Ahh, the magical prostate! A walnut-sized gland found in penis owners that, when stimulated, can create a whirlwind of sexual bliss and full-body orgasms. And while massaging the prostate has been ‘a thing’ since the late 19th century, when doctors began performing it to treat inflammation aka prostatitis, it soon became a practice enjoyed by…
The Kama Sutra: More Than Just “Indian Sex Stories”
To hear tell of it, the ancient Hindu text Kama Sutra sounds like a book detailing many acrobatic sexual positions practised by people in India and the Hindu world. And when we say “ancient,” we truly mean it: While scholars can’t say for sure, the Kama Sutra was written sometime between 400 BCE and 300CE. …
Monogamous Relationships & Their Benefits
While polygamy is rife in many societies, monogamy still seems like the most mainstream way in which to have a relationship. We’re often bombarded with images, influences, and expectations to get married, have that white picket fence, three children, and a dog, then live happily ever after. But because we’re more open-minded today in exploring…
Why Am I So Horny? The Science Behind High Libido and How to Manage It
“Why am I so horny recently?” You might be asking yourself that if it’s been five days in a row of having sex with your partner, and yet, on the sixth day, you still wake up ready for another round. Different people have different sex drives, and they can vary depending on various things happening…
How to Use HUGO to Open New Realms of Pleasure
Imagine seeing the world only in black and white 2D perspective all your life and then, all of a sudden, opening your eyes to a colorful 3D vision. Basically that’s what it feels like to incorporate a quality prostate massaging toy in your regular sex act. And if this text manages to convince you to…
Sauna Hot – An Erotic Story
Charlotte toweled off in her steam-fogged bathroom. To her dislike, rubbing the thick cloth against herself made her lower body jiggle. She flung the white towel over a hanger and wiped off the moisture from the mirror with her hand. When she saw her reflection, the comments of a former lover came to mind. She…
Creating Your Own Personalised Sex Bucket List: 110 Ideas for Passionate Adventures
Familiar with a bucket list? You know, a list of things you simply must do before you die? Maybe you want to visit Thailand. Perhaps you’d like to go swimming with dolphins or get a tattoo? The beauty of a bucket list is that it can be as personal and meaningful as you want it…
How to Use F1s Red for Best Results in Solo or Partnered Sex
As far as penis masturbation tools go, the idea is pretty simple, you stick your dick in it, turn it on, and it does its thing… what more could there be, right? Wrong. Science and technology have gone a long way in turning those gadgets, especially the ones on the high-end of the spectrum, into…
Here are 21 Weirdest Kinks People Have
Everyone has at least one kink, however mild it might be. Whether you’re into praising, spanking, or some BDSM role-playing, everything is healthy when practiced safely. But there are some weird kinks out there that you might not be familiar with. So, let’s explore some of the weirdest kinks people have. Sex as a Woman…
What is Vibrator Punishment?
While browsing your front page of your most-trusted porn site like XVideos or Pornhub, you’re opening yourself up to a lot of questions. As you become exposed to more and more different sexual proclivities by way of titled thumbnails, you might ask yourself things like “does everyone suddenly want to have sex with their stepmom?”…
Your Beginner’s Guide To Dual Vibrators
Dual vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys on the market. And there is no surprise why. With the wide array of shapes and sizes that they come in, it’s a sex toy worth the attention for enhancing both, solo and partnered play. What Is a Double Vibrator? Double vibrators are sex toys…
What is Anal Training?
Anal training is a process that helps make anal sex more pleasurable. Just like your genitalia, the anus has many sensitive nerve endings that can feel nice when stimulated. Also, the prostate is inside men’s anus, which is an extremely sensitive spot that can give mindblowing prostate orgasms. However, anal sex can be pleasurable even…
Discreet Sex Toys for the More Modest Pleasure-Seekers
While we’re in the era of removing the stigma attached to using sex toys, it’s true that not everyone is comfortable with having their favourite pleasure products on display for the world to see… and that’s completely fine! Despite this shift in mindset, sexuality is a very personal and intimate journey, and having the ability…
What is the Meaning of Your Sexy Dream?
So you’ve woken up all flustered, perhaps a little sweaty and well, aroused! Or it could have been the complete opposite—freaked out, overwhelmed, and possibly even disgusted. Sexy dreams happen to the best of us, and we don’t always get to choose who we have these lustful dreams about (cue lucid dreaming). But whether you’re…
Water-Resistant or 100% Waterproof Sex Toys: What’s the Difference?
To use our favourite sex toy is to give ourselves the ability to escape into a magical dream world. A world filled with pleasure, happy hormones, and insatiable orgasms. No longer are we looking at battery-operated vibes, nor ones with annoying cables. Today, we’re in the era of sex toys that bring pleasure to whomever…
Ask a Therapist: Desire Discrepancy Q&A with Casey Tanner
What are things you can do to increase sexual desire with a partner To begin, it’s helpful to understand what kind of desire you and your partner have. There are at least two kinds of desire that we know of: spontaneous desire and responsive desire. Those with spontaneous desire might have the experience of feeling…
Your Beginners Guide to Tantric Yoni Massage
If you’re always looking for ways to improve your relationship with your body and your sex life, then you may have heard of yoni massage before. It’s a practice that’s been around for a while but only started becoming mainstream a few years ago. And not without reason. Vaginal massages have many health benefits and…
Play Safe: Here’s Why High Quality Sex Toys are Way Better for Your Health!
While there are too many different sex toys out there to count, you’ll really notice the difference when you decide to prioritise high quality sex toys. Sure, you could buy a super affordable pleasure product you’ve spotted. And sure, it’ll probably bring you all kinds of sexy sensations. But once you decide to invest in…
LELO x Dr. Zhana: Self-Love Q&A
For our December Q&A with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, we’re talking about Self-Love. What are the benefits of self-love? Self-love, more broadly, is about taking care of ourselves and appreciating ourselves. Very often, we use that term to talk about masturbation and self-pleasure, which are such important parts of our lives and come with a lot…
January 8th is National Bubble Bath Day! Here are 5 Ways to Celebrate it!
Did you know that January 8th is Bubble Bath Day? Yep! An entire day dedicated to warm, soapy, decadent baths that are sensual and entirely pleasurable. What’s not to love about a bath though? They’re great for a bit of self-care, can reduce levels of anxiety and calm the nervous system, they benefit your muscles,…
How To Use ORA 3 Oral Stimulator
What do you do when you’re fantasizing about oral sex, but your partner is nowhere to be found? The solution is to find the perfect oral stimulator for those occasions. And when it comes to sex toys that simulate oral sex, ORA 3 oral stimulator is one of the best options for your sex toy…
BDSM Guide: How to Practice Vibrator Bondage
With unwavering trust, those who are in a BDSM relationship are able to have a physical and emotional connection that is arguably stronger than any other kind of partnership. That’s because this kind of dynamic requires an immense amount of faith, respect, and vulnerability. Having said that, partners in a BDSM relationship also have a…
Beginners & Experienced Players: 6 Fun Sex Toys for Couples
We’re lucky enough to live in a time where sex toys are rife! Every day, sex toy companies are working hard with designers, sexual wellness experts, and other professionals to outbeat themselves and their competition, only to bring you even more pleasure! Well, not just you… you and your partner! You see, while there are…
How Your Penis Changes with Age
Time waits for no man. The same goes for his penis. As we all march forward into old age (yes, that’s ALL of us. Even you), you’re going to notice changes all over the place, including below your waistline. While you’re maybe worried about wrinkles appearing on your face and grey hairs on your head,…
A Different Kind of Vibe: Anal Vibrators for Her
While we all have the ability to enjoy anal stimulation, there are tons of anal vibrators that are more geared towards men. This is most likely because when a man uses this kind of pleasure product, it stimulates the prostate (a walnut-sized gland that can produce firework-inducing full-body orgasms). It could also be a means…
The Link Between Endometriosis & Painful Sex, and How to Ease Discomfort
Perhaps you’ve been diagnosed with endometriosis and you’re living with some the dreaded effects, aka painful sex. Or maybe you’ve yet to visit your healthcare provider, but are having some difficulty during intimacy, creating some anxiety and discomfort. Unfortunately, there are many women who have endometriosis, and may not even know it. If you identify…
Light Up Your Sex Life… Literally
Bringing some actual fire into your bedroom can really turn up the heat between the sheets. And yup, after reading what I just wrote, I know this text is going to require a serious safety disclaimer. But brace yourself – we are seriously going to discuss including open flames into your sex life. Fire is…
Sex During End of Year Stress | Q&A with Casey Tanner
Like in most cases, stress can have a direct impact on your emotional well-being and intimacy. We opened the floor for users to ask sex therapist Casey Tanner all their dwelling questions about holiday stress and sex. How can I tell my partner I’m not into sex when I’m feeling stressed? You are, of course,…
Back to School – A Gay Erotic Story
They looked over curiously at the men shuffling in together each holding the hand of the man in front and behind him. Wearing only boxer shorts, they wore black hoods with small openings for their eyes – hoods to protect their identity. What about our identities? he thought as he leaned forward looking lazily over…
Sexual Guilty Pleasures: So Bad, Yet Oh So Good!
Guilty pleasures… we all have them! Maybe you enjoy singing Westlife in the shower, or perhaps your favourite TV show is 90 Day Fiancé. We don’t judge! But! We do see why these things could be considered a guilty pleasure. And when it comes to sexual guilty pleasures, the notion is essentially the same…. What…
The Treasure of the Kingdom – An Erotic Story
Once upon a time, a mighty King and a lovely Queen hosted a grand ball to find a suitable wife for their son, Prince Leo. The event was lavish and regaled the nobility of the land. The ladies of high esteem wore long gowns and heavy diamond necklaces. Men of renown donned their suits and…
What is Zombie Porn and How are People Turned On by It?
Sure as there are billions of people on the planet, there are billions of kinks and preferences that turn them on. Admit it: Even you likely have a kink that is a little outside of the norms of what is generally considered ‘normal’ society. Perhaps you’ve got a bit of a penchant for Paraphilic Infantilism,…
Vibrator Massage 101
Sure, sex toys are designed to make you feel good, but they can do more than get you off. With some know-how, and preferably a helping hand, a vibrator can be used to smooth out knots and kinks in your neck, back, thighs, or anywhere else your muscles may need a bit of kneading. I’ve…
What Does Vagina Taste Like?
Loaded question, but today we’re going to dive into the taste of vagina. For many vulva owners, their taste, smell, and appearance ‘down there’ can be a cause of anxiety. It could even lead to feeling less confident during intimacy, actively avoiding the beautiful act of receiving oral sex, or down-right shame or embarassement, wondering…
A Fantasy without Guilt? What is Forced Feminization?
We love learning about and seeing people engage in acts that make them feel good, great, and absolutely fantastic! So when we hear of male-indentifying submissives living their best lives with their dominants during a scene of forced feminization, it’s like music to our ears. Now some of you may not have heard of the…
All About His Pleasure! Seductively Orgasmic Anal Vibrators for Him
There’s something incredibly powerful that comes about when you engage in anal stimulation. That is, big, massive, firework-inducing orgasms! It’s a genderless activity that can be enjoyed by all, and treats individuals to a slew of new and exciting sensations. So why wouldn’t someone want to jump onto the anal stimulation train? Well, for one,…