You might not know what sensation play is, but we bet you have participated in activities (or fantasized about them) at least once or twice in your life. Some of the more common activities, like spanking your partner’s ass as you pass them in the kitchen or giving your partner a sensual massage, are actually…
Let’s be honest – there are bad lovers who might make you regret inviting them over to your place, and then there are the good lovers, ones that are so good you get flashbacks from the time spent with them in the middle of your work… Being a good lover has nothing to do with…
Pilates benefits for body, mind, and soul are known by many. From improved posture to less stress, Pilates seems to be the form of exercise that’s all the rage these days. But how about Pilates benefits for sex? Science says that Pilates might be one of the most effective workouts to improve your sexual health…
Previous: Yoga on the Roof Part 2 Shelly started to perspire from the heat and hot sun as soon as she quick-stepped from the air-conditioned airport terminal to the cab. It wasn’t until her jaunt from the cab to the motel entry that she felt the temperate Pacific winds. The humidity in Puerto Vallarta was…
We’re busy bees these days trying to balance work, friends, family, and for many people – dating. Meeting people the old-fashioned way can be difficult, especially when you have a lot on your plate or tend to be on the shyer side. That’s where dating apps come in handy. Dating apps are simply a tool.…
If you’re ready to turn up the heat this summer, then wax play might be exactly what you need. It’s a kink that’s been gaining popularity in recent years, with more and more people curious to dabble in the world of kinks. For those curious to try new things, and excited about pleasurable pain, wax…
The term “sexual wellness” gets thrown around a lot these days. We even use it often here at Lelo – and for good reason. We’re in the midst of a sexual revolution. People have more access to sexual education, resources, toys, and more than ever before. There are more honest conversations about what it means to…
Previous: Yoga On The Roof, Part 1 Shelly arrived home after two weeks of constant travel for a series of photo shoots and even a conference speaking engagement. By the last leg of the trip, she begged for her own bed, her own shower, her own soft towels, her own closet full of clothes. Most…
Sexual chemistry starts in the brain. Intimacy deepens the better that you know someone, and pleasure is easier to access when you’re having honest conversations about sex and life in general. Talking about sex, no matter how fun it is, can be daunting. So we’re here to offer some inspiration. Whether you’re looking to spice…
Navigating your healthcare with autonomy and empowerment means knowing what your options are and what the purpose is of different procedures. One test that is commonly recommended for people cis-women and people with vaginas is the pap smear. Pap smears are an essential part of reproductive health care, giving providers vital information about your cervical…
If you’ve never heard of the 5 stages of a relationship then relationships and love might become more clear after reading this. You might find that falling in love is easy and romantic, but you notice that after a while, you stop being attracted to what you thought was your perfect partner. And then, the…
We’re big fans of spicing up your sex life with a handy little toy. But why stop at one? It might go without saying, but in some cases – the more the merrier. If you’re looking to double up on the spice, may we suggest doubling up on your sex toys? It can be daunting…
When it comes to sexual performance, no food will magically boost it on its own, but some can go a long way working in synergy with other efforts, helping you be your best, healthiest and sexiest self. Hormone Balancing Foods With the increasing amounts of hormone disrupting toxins in the environment and lifestyle problems like…
Before knocking on Brandon’s front door, Steve picked up a nondescript plastic package that a delivery man had tossed carelessly to the doorstep. Dawn Davis, Brandon’s mom, was the recipient. Steve noticed a slight tear in it. Not thinking as he waited for the door to open, he fingered the rip. His finger touched latex…
A lot of the research on sexual health has historically focused on dysfunction and disorders like erectile dysfunction and anorgasmia. While this type of research is necessary, it doesn’t tell the whole story. Focusing solely on dysfunction misses the idea that humans are complex creatures with endless factors that influence how we engage with our…
We could talk all day long about all the masturbation techniques out there. From shower head masturbation, mutual/partnered masturbation, to switching up the masturbation positions and locations, there is plenty to keep you from being bored with solo sex. But there is one, in particular, we haven’t talked about yet. And that is masturbation through…
Sex is a beautiful part of most people’s lives and relationships. Unfortunately it also comes with its own difficulties and details to navigate. Certain sexual behaviors and habits are inherently risky, that’s a part of life. Understanding these potential risks, why people engage in them, and how to avoid them is an important step in…
The first reported cases of HIV were diagnosed in 1981. This devastating epidemic disproportionately affected the LBGTQ+ community and places throughout the world that have limited access to sexual education and healthcare. Since then it has continued to be a major public health concern throughout the world. Approximately 84.2 million people have been infected with…
Blame it on Disney fantasies, early 2000s magazines, and every rom-com ever made, but there is some interesting messaging out there when it comes to dating. One of the biggest narratives we’re fed around dating and relationships is that there’s this magical unicorn of a human that was made just for you – “the one”.…
Dawn Davis stopped her red Audi coupe along the curb on Ewing Street. The neighborhood was one of the oldest in the city, and the gentrification reflected early Greek Revival-style homes and a few, rare Gothic Revival residences. The neighborhood was ideal for a stroll on a warm late-summer evening with fireflies while the sun…
LELO isn’t just a self-care brand, it’s a movement that pushes boundaries – bold, unafraid, and a leader in desire. After two years of crafting, they’ve recently launched a line of liquid lipsticks and stylo lipsticks that are created with deeply pigmented colors that look beautiful on all skin colors. They last long while hydrating…
You’re really into a new romantic or sexual partner. They make you feel lit up, seen, supported, and you also happen to think they’re super cute. You start to kiss and it feels right, you feel arousal building, everything feels hot and sexy, but then you just seem to… tap out. You like them, you’re…
Jake banged his head on the metal locker and groaned. “I got Mr. Hein for health class. The guy with the yellow teeth. What a waste. My doodling will so improve this semester. Who did you get for health?” Mark scanned his semester’s schedule. “Mrs. Larson, just after lunch, third period.” “Mrs. Larson! Man, you…
In the words of the great Cardi B “Now get a bucket and a mop, that’s some wet ass pussy”. Vaginas get wet. It’s one of the many wonderful things they do. If you have a vagina, I hope you embrace its wetness. If you don’t, we understand. People with vaginas have been told to…
Sadie collapsed onto the plush love seat, exhausted. Marissa looked amused at her. “Why the hell does the drive here wear me out so much? It’s not even two hours long.” She tried to laugh out her frustration, but tiredness overtook. She attempted to release the remainder of the stress by running her hands through…
Using a vibrator can help you amp up your sex life whether it’s during masturbation or with a partner. But it isn’t all fun and games. Vibrators also have therapeutic applications and can help with various medical conditions. That begs the question – should you be able to get a prescription for a vibrator? The…
Sexuality is a form of sharing – experiences, pleasure, love, and yes, genetic material. Yet, it can’t just be sharing because we don’t stop being sexual without a partner. Being single is by no means an obstacle to developing your sexual skills even if there’s presently a dry spell in your love life. Here are…
Saliva is kind of weird, right? A watery liquid secreted into the mouth by glands? But, of course, just like most things in the body, it serves a purpose. Saliva is important because it provides lubricant for chewing and swallowing, which aids in digestion. So, how in the world did saliva (or rather, spitting out…
Roger Westinghouse studied his grandfather’s binoculars from World War II. He removed the covers of the eye lenses, put the binoculars to his eyes but saw complete darkness. His dad, Lewis Westinghouse, nudged him. “Take off the lens cover. It helps.” Roger looked at the large end of the lenses. “Makes sense.” Roger pulled off…
A tilted uterus, sometimes known as a “tipped” uterus or a “retroverted” uterus, can be a common condition that happens to nearly one in every three women. Even so, many of those who have a tilted uterus can go their entire lives without knowing it. But, for those who experience discomfort due to a tilted…
The LELO IDA Wave comes with many improvements after its predecessor, the best part being it’s rotating internal nub that offers a deep stimulation of the G-spot. The bulb of the toy rests on the clitoris, while still allowing room for penetrative sex with a partner. Pair it with the LELO app for total hands-free…
The world of kink. A sensual playground. A vast land of possibilities to explore new sensations. A place to let your fantasies come to life and explore edges. BDSM and other kinks allow people to explore new frontiers, break down emotional walls, and feel incredible in their bodies. We’re not going to beat around the…
If you’re a fan of historical fiction you’ve probably seen many scenes in books, movies, or shows of aristocratic families making a big deal of someone’s first time having sex after getting married. They check the sheets for blood the next day, they may even have a “doctor” examine the woman to ensure her “purity”.…
Propagation, fission, mitosis – since the dawn of time, things have been reproducing in one way or another. It’s what makes the world go round. Keeps DNA moving from one generation to the next. Keeping the cycle of life alive and well. Then we look at sex as we know it. Incredibly fun and pleasurable,…
Variety is the spice of life, and what’s more human than the primal urges and desires that drive you to connect with other humans? We’re talking about the complex and colorful world of sexuality. You’ve probably got the basics down – straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and queer, but there is so much more to sexuality…
What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the term “sleep divorce”? Probably nothing good, right? The old-school way of living with your partner includes sleeping in the same room, same bed, and under the same duvet cover. Often, people still believe that not sharing a bed with your partner is…
This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. So you and your partner have both decided to introduce a sex toy to your relationship, realizing how much added enjoyment it can bring to your sensual sessions. The question now is; ‘which one do I choose?’ Because of course different types of…
Although there may be less of an abundance of sex toys for men as there are for women, that’s not to say that guys shouldn’t give them a go! Not only can the right toy unlock pleasures sublime that no amount of, ahem, manual masturbation can reach, as an added bonus, they can bring about…
Let’s be honest, we spend quite a lot of time and money finding ways to look sexier during sex. Think lace lingerie, latex clothing, crotchless panties, balaclavas, leather cuffs, strap-ons, chockers, and everything in between… All these clothing pieces and accessories are supposed to make us sexier and increase our chances of having a mindblowing…
Picture it. You’ve been frolicking in the sea all day. Salty, sweaty, sun-kissed bodies come together in harmony while the sun goes down just beyond your hotel room’s balcony. Or maybe you’re on a solo ski vacation and you find a hunk to cozy up by the fire and warm up with after a long…
The tingling build-up of sensations, the rush of blood to your most sensitive areas, an overflow of hormones pulsing through your system, the greatest headrush known to humans. No, we’re not talking about eating ice cream, we’re talking about orgasms (although they sometimes elicit similar responses). You (hopefully) have a good understanding of what happens…
Spring is in the air, and we’d like to add some spring to your step with LELO’s best rabbit-style vibrators and vibrating eggs. Don’t see the connection? You might be surprised to see how the historic roots of Easter tie into female fertility and health! The Easter Bunny The first written story of the Easter…
I figured out how to orgasm with a partner quite late in life, despite always being very sexually open-minded and adventurous. For years, I would talk with my friends who had orgasms with their partners and feel like there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t able to orgasm with another person involved. The…
Cold showers are traditionally considered a method for curbing your lust, but their actual impact on your performance and libido might be just the opposite. Of course, if you’re male and have an erection, a cold shower will definitely kill it, but your lust might not necessarily be impacted. The reason is simple – when…
What would you say if I told you that there are celibacy benefits that can improve your sex life? Yes, you’ve heard that right – not having sex can indeed make your sex life better! Celibacy doesn’t have the best reputation. And there is a good reason why people are hesitant about it. With it…
Seeing an attractive woman with a below-average guy inevitably draws all sorts of conclusions (often unfair ones), such as: he’s probably rich, she might be insecure, he must be good in bed or especially well endowed below the waist… However, the truth might be much simpler than that – maybe he’s funny. Science increasingly shows…
So, you love (or love the idea of) having sex in water. Why not? Splashes of lust, partners engaging in all kinds of sexy tomfoolery. It’s a recipe for a variety of sultry indulgence. And while we’re big advocates of exploring new things and thinking outside of the box when it comes to sex, there…
At midnight the house party’s zest had waned. The music playlist calmed from the chest-bumping hip-hop beats to easy romatic 80s pop rock hits. Those who had danced wildly for hours now were settled into soft couches and chairs. Their bumping and grinding turned to light toying and flirting, talking and teasing. One guy who…
Times have changed. And having sex has taken on a whole new meaning. You see, many people believe that the only definition of sex is p-in-v penetration. Nope! And even if we look at different kinds of penetration, such as anal or pegging, this too is not the only way to have sex. Sex is…
Penises: there are so many different kinds. Some are straight, some are curved, some have a larger base with narrow glans, others have a smaller base with wider glans. Just like vulvas, they’re all unique. Having said that, it’s fair to assume that many people, regardless of their genitals, have wondered if theirs are “normal”…