Isaac and I had been seeing each other casually for a couple of weeks at this point. I really liked him. He had dark brown hair, deep brown eyes, and was studying social work with a focus on helping survivors of sexual assault. Oh, and he was in the military. He certainly ticked all the…
Let’s get going by naming some of the myths I hear around womanhood and sex: that you should have pain when you have sex, that you should be able to orgasm through penetration alone, that squirting is pee, that all women have vulvas, that if you’re not wet you’re not enjoying sex or if you…
Ten years ago, the cruise line Royal Caribbean conducted an intimate survey! It revealed that 90% of cruise-goers found having sex to be their top cruise activity! They also found that 62% of participants had better sex at sea, and 50% said that they’d be ‘hopping to the deed’ within the first six hours of…
So, you’re just about ready to give your first blowjob. Before we start, we feel that congratulations are in order so — congrats! You’re about to embark on a whole new dimension of sexuality that can be very fulfilling, assuming that your partner returns the favor (and they most definitely should) and pretty soon, you’ll…
Breasts… a versatile, life-giving part of the body! And while we often think only of women when it comes to nipples, men have nipples because they’re formed early on during the gestation period. This makes them an erogenous zone for the lads too! Not as much so as for women, however, but still a pleasure…
When some men deal with the effects of erectile dysfunction or desire penis enlargement without medication or invasive procedures, they will turn to penis sleeves. What’s a penis sleeve? Most commonly, a penis sleeve is a rigid-but-pliable sheathe that goes around and over a semi-hard penis during sex. It serves three purposes: 1. It adds…
Have you ever experienced an emotional or physical high so great that it made coming back to the real world seem difficult? Some people with experience using drugs can attest to it, as it causes a rush of serotonin or dopamine that then needs to be replenished over the following days, leaving the person feeling…
Physical disabilities can have an important impact on many different aspects of daily life, including sex. Unfortunately, however, sex and disability is a taboo topic of discussion that is rarely addressed, even by healthcare providers. It is important to break down the barriers to discussing sex and disability because everyone—regardless of their ability status—is deserving…
Usually, when it’s time to get frisky, we tend to get so excited that we just rush through the whole experience and be done in less than ten minutes. Sometimes, the quick and dirty “Bham wham, thank you, ma’am” type of sex is hot and works wonders when you just want to release some tension. …
Attending a tantric retreat is a great way to reconnect with your partner. With a focus on emotional connection, spirituality and self-expression, a tantric retreat can be just what you need to bring you closer together than ever before. If you are experiencing blocks in intimacy or you want to take your relationship to transcendental…
Last Chapter “Uuhhh…” Kayne shuddered as the dull, listless voice scraped up the back of his arms. “I’m lookin’ fer a Kayne Wright?” He blinked, swiveling in his desk chair to find a short, pudgy man in a wrinkled blue polo standing a few cubicles down from him. In his hands was a small, rectangular…
Whether you’re getting down with one person or several, there’s a ton of fun to be had! And even though the notion of a gang bang can be kind of daunting or even foul to some, others find it extremely erotic. Whatever your pleasure, treasure! This is why we’re adopting the attitude, the more the…
Go ahead, touch yourself. MAYsterbation is a month dedicated entirely to self-love and self-sex, so we’re celebrating by offering 20-80% OFF a variety of sex toys! Talk about good vibrations. Check out some of our favorite deals below, along with our full list of major savings! SILA SILA is one of the newest clit suckers…
Because of their versatility, rabbit vibrators deliver climax after climax. They are the perfect combination for mutual stimulation, whether that be g-spot and clitoris, anal and clitoris, g-spot and anal, or whatever other ways you can get creative with pleasure. To sum it up, you want one in your life and you’ll be mad at…
Mother’s Day is an opportunity to thank all of the leading ladies out there for giving us life. And for many, a mother represents so much more than 50 percent of our DNA. Mother’s have magical powers that can heal broken hearts, body aches and pains, and physical wounds. And during your life, people will…
Unconditional love is hard to explain. Applying it to ourselves is sometimes even more difficult. That’s why this Global Love Day is inspired by the phrase “Love begins with me.” Our self-love is often buried beneath layers of trauma, guilt and pain, which makes it easy to overlook the fact that love is always present.…
Hello everyone, this is Dr. Zhana! It’s time for a monthly Q&A! Since May is masturbation month, that’s what we are going to talk about. And there are so many good questions that you’ve asked. I can’t wait to answer them all. Here we go! It’s not shameful to masturbate, right? This is actually a…
If I had to pinpoint the most enjoyable thing that’s happened to the world of sex since the internet came on thr scene, it’s that folks these days are always cooking up fresh ways to talk about the things we get up to when we’re getting down. If you browse Reddit or Twitter, it seems…
So you love a bit of anal pleasure? Fabulous! Those who embrace this kind of play are welcoming a whole new world of delicious sensations to their sexual experience. If anal isn’t for you though, that’s fine! Whatever floats your boat! But if you are either active or intrigued when it comes to this kind…
As an advocate for a sex-positive lifestyle, LELO is all for sexting as it liberates even the shiest of us and allows us to express things we might not say face-to-face to another person. There is nothing like the right emoji or combo of emojis to elevate “wyd” to “U up?”, and yet, there is no…
For years, I believed that my orgasms were fantastic, earth-shattering, amazing… the best they’d ever get! Boy was I wrong! I actually didn’t know that my body was capable of producing such a ludicrous amount of euphoria until I tried using dual stimulation sex toys. You see, for the longest time, I wasn’t interested in…
Hatred is a virus, too. That’s why, despite being home this year, it’s still important to commemorate the strides taken for equality while acknowledging the serious work that still needs to be done. Here’s everything you need to know about International Day Against Homophobia and how we’re putting our LELO twist on it (with some…
In honor of Earth Day and the importance of taking care of the planet, we’re sharing how we take green measures for your eco-friendly pleasure. The extra time and care that go in to our designs not only allows us to leave the smallest environmental impact possible, but also ensures that you get to enjoy…
Couples’ massagers are great sex toys for a number of reasons: helping with erectile dysfunction, wider vaginas/smaller partners, and just spicing up solo or partnered play with some added sensations. I found two popular couples’ massagers, the Lelo Tiani 3 and We-Vibe Sync, and tested them during masturbation and partnered sex. Lelo Tiani 3 Couples’…
Once you get a pet, you will inevitably deal with an issue is that might have never crossed your mind before – should I let my pet watch me have sex? With pets like cats, that is rarely an issue because they are a live-and-let-live kind of animal that will let you do your weird…
As usual, in the lab the lights emanate from everywhere yet nowhere. However, this time he’s strapped face-down to the cold metal table, his legs spread; it doesn’t matter what he can or cannot see. He’s naked. His heart is pounding. The pain is coming. There is no stopping the pain from coming. “You’ll forget…
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana. I’m a professor of human sexuality at New York University and resident LELO sexpert. This month was International Women’s Day, so we’re going to talk about female desire. I want women to feel comfortable talking about sensuality. I want that too, so badly! Unfortunately, we live in a world…
If you’ve been looking for ways to spice up your sex life and bring in some fresh air into your bedroom, you might want to think about taking it outside your bedroom. To be more specific–you should think about trying hotel sex. Many people consider hotel sex to be so much hotter and better than…
Sex is truly a fascinating thing. Before you have sex for the first time, it seems like this wonderful, mysterious thing that will change your life. Being sexually aroused feels good, and the orgasms you give yourself during masturbation sessions are great. But then you start wondering: what does sex feel like with another person…
This article was written by Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Penises don’t always work the way we want them to. Over the course of a man’s life, he will occasionally experience erections at inconvenient or undesirable times, and he will occasionally be unable to get an erection when he wants one. This is all perfectly normal. However,…
LGBT. LGBTQ. LGBTQI. LGBTQIA+. As an out and proud member of the queer community, I relish each letter our little web of support brings to the table. Under such a big, welcoming archway of possibility, there are few things more beautiful than queers and our ability to meet one another exactly where we’re at. Most…
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Enigma is a massager for those looking for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. It titillates both the visible and not visible parts of the clitoris through sonic saves, while using vibrations on the “bulb” that’s inserted vaginally. Check out if it’s fluttered all the right places for the professional sex toy reviewers below! LELO ENIGMA…
We followed up with Megan Barton-Hanson to see what she’s been up to since we last spoke. Here’s the update on her recent orbit around the sun, future adventures, and sex advice for anyone. First of all, happy belated 27th birthday! We’re happy to see Post Malone (even the cardboard version) made it to your…
To think of ‘sex furniture’ may bring to mind straps and swings hanging from the rafters of Christian Gray’s red room, however there’s so much more to them than that. Rather than just being kinky accoutrements (which they certainly can be), they are great erotic aides that open up more possibilities for people of all…
The sex toy of your dreams has arrived, if you’re brave enough to delve into uncharted pleasure. ENIGMA is a sonic massager that looks different than most pleasure makers, and feels different too. Blended orgasms are the ultimate treasure, but you don’t have to look hard to find them. ENIGMA is pleasure at your fingertips,…
“A clean bill of sexual health” is a phrase used to mean that you are STD free. But (we have to address the problems) let’s talk about the trouble with this phrase. An STD is more accurately referred to as an STI (sexually transmitted infection), because not all infections lead to symptoms and diseases, especially…
We recently reviewed Lelo’s Sona 2 Cruise against Womanizer Premium, so we thought it was only fitting to bring in another commonly mentioned clit sucker, Satisfyer Pro 2! These toys use air pulsation technology to stimulate much more of the clitoris without directly touching it. Discover the defining features, pros, and cons of each below.…
So you want to give straddling a go? Yay you! This kind of sex position is relatively easy and most of the time, super comfortable for both partners. What’s even better is that it can be done in a number of different ways. To be more precise, here are two definitions for the word ‘straddle’:…
There are simply no limitations as to how many props, toys, and kinky extras you bring into your bedroom antics. And while (we hope that) getting intimate with your partner is always a good time, there are a few things that could make your trysts even better. While the more obvious choices would include sex…
Whether it’s your first time having sex, or a time to get back to the basics, these good sex positions gained their popularity for being easy accessible no matter what your experience level is. Simple, effective orgasms are never a bad idea. All of these positions can be adapted for non-penetrative sex and regardless of…
Did you know that clit suckers don’t actually involve any “sucking”? They use air pulsation to send waves of vibration into the clitoris without directly touching it like a conventional vibrator. Not only will they push you over the edge, they’ll keep pushing your peak for bigger orgasms. Check out the review of Womanizer Premium…
Hi everyone, this is Dr. Zhana, and, oh my god, pegging is a popular topic! I got so many questions, I love how curious you all are about it. All right, here we go. What is pegging? First things first – what is pegging? Pegging is penetrating someone using a strap-on, which is typically a…
While the clothes you wear serve a functional role, it’s also true that wearing something you love has the power to make you feel powerful, happy, confident and beautiful. Clothing is also a huge form of self-expression that can evoke feelings within and from people around us. Which is why sexy underwear and lingerie can…
March 20th marks International Day of Happiness, and we’re dedicating the latest research to sex and happiness, that is, why sex makes us feel good and what we can do to have sex that makes us happy. What Does Sex Mean? We may ask ourselves, what does sex mean to a woman? What does sex…
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Just like any other type of sex, oral sex, or “69-ing”, can be done in different ways. It involves pleasuring your partner (or receiving pleasure) by using the mouth and tongue on their genitalia. The 69 position in particular means that both partners give and recieve oral sex simultanesouly! Flip the numbers 69 sideways and…
It’s been a tough year for everyone, and as lockdown measures look set to continue for the next few weeks at least, people are feeling the strain. The stress of living through a global pandemic has also been having a knock-on effect on people’s sex lives. In the early days of the pandemic, it seemed…
So you’re looking for a few fun, flirty, and cheeky activities in a new location! Or maybe you’re just stumped finding something sexy to do in your city? Well, the world is actually your sensual aphrodisiac oyster! There are tons of thrilling things to do worldwide! And with our international sex guide, you’ll surely be…
The answer to “What is Feminist Porn ” is a bit complicated. First, it depends on who you ask: men; women; lesbians; hetero; the viewer; the producer; the anti-porn crusader? Feminist porn is a very diverse topic, and so are the numerous views on what it is. Then, there is a whole convoluted history that…