How Many People Masturbate… REALLY?
We often joke that 90% of people masturbate and 10%…
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Ever Had Sex So Good You Felt Bad? Here’s Why
Afterglow. It’s that warm, contented feeling most of us experience…
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Krisi – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dearest Krisi, Images of Madonna filled your mind as you…
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How to Soothe a Jealous Partner (And Is It Your Job?)
Jealousy is the common cold of relationships. Universally dreaded, it’s…
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Locked Down After Lockdown – An Erotic Story
We matched online during the lockdown, and since then we’ve…
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Painful Penetration – What You Need To Know
Surrendering to the call of our innermost desires is the…
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A Guide: Paradisiacal Nudist Beach Locations Around the World
While society dictates that we need to wear clothing when…
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Shouldn’t Be Here Ch. 3 – An Erotic Series
We stand at the bar for 10 minutes with his…
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Whiskey Dick: When Booze and Boners Collide
According to the immortal bard Billy S., alcohol provokes the…
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Y from London, UK – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, Firstly, let me assure you that…
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Sex, Synesthesia, and a Sexual Trance
Sex is hard to qualify. What makes it good? And…
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Shala Kerrigan – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, Oh my darling, darling stubborn girl!…
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J. R. Sa – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, I am sorry. You were but…
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A Collection of the Most Recent Orgasm Research
Science is important. Sex is important. We gathered the most…
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Lily – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Hey girl. First off, slow the fuck down on the…
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Initiating Spontaneous Surprise Sex
It’s no secret that when couples have been together for…
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Acacia West – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, The world has lied to you…
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Painful Sex And What To Do
Experience pain during sex regularly can be a major obstacle…
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Madison Jordan – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
You do not have to choose a side; this is…
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The Anatomy of the Hooha (And How It Corresponds to Your Pleasure)
If you follow this blog, you likely have already seen…
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Maddie Godfrey – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, Your queerness will not look like…
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True or False: Women Masturbate More When They’re in a Sexually Active Relationship?
You know that feeling when you get fanny flutters and…
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CurvyBambi – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, The ideals of what you considered…
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Shouldn’t Be Here Ch. 2 – An Erotic Series
It had been a warm Summer night when we first…
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Introducing Our “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Winners
There’s no how-to guide, no roadmap, no detailed manual. Everyone’s…
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Terry – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
As difficult as it may seem, you must love yourself…
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Take Pleasure into Your Own Hands for Orgasm Month!
Your mind and body will tell you exactly what they…
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Shouldn’t Be Here Ch.1 – An Erotic Series
I shouldn’t be here. To tell the truth, I don’t…
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Luna Daydream – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, Queer looks different for everyone. Just…
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4 Weird After-Sex Effects That Are Totally Normal
Sex is complicated. I often wonder if we knew that…
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Brecken – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Oh Dear, You have done it again. You have went…
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5 Things The Smithsonian Taught Me about Sex
Ah the Smithsonian, that age-old institution of science and reason.…
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LostBoy – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, Dear little forest fae, dear big…
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5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Contact Your Ex
Someone once told me that, after a breakup, your heart…
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K. Elizabeth – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, One day, you won’t be afraid…
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The Most Common Issues Faced by Gay Couples – Guest Post by Michael Moran
As an openly gay therapist who specializes at the intersection…
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Quinton Jordebrek – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
When your mother asks you to wear a matching dress…
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The Ethics of Masturbating In A Relationship
Is masturbation cheating? It’s one of those little questions that…
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Maz – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear Younger Queer Self, By the time you hit 30,…
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Jessica Fesler – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Dear younger self, If I could offer just one piece…
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Not a Fan of the Knickers? Good. It’s No Panty Day.
While there are many theories about when and where No…
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5 Ways Exercise Benefits Sex
Sex is great for just about everything. It can even…
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Valerie – “Dear Younger Queer Self” Contest Finalist Story
Being queer is not a choice, but it does involve…
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Mental Health and Sexual Minorities
The social pressure to conform to conventional standards, and the…
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Experimenting – An Erotic Story
It had been weeks since she first told him that…
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How to Have a FMF Threesome as a Feminist
Ok, so you’ve decided to have a threesome. Cool. The…
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What Coming Out Should Look Like
There are a lot of questions that arise before thinking…
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Put My In My Place – An Erotic Story
Before I put another notch in my lipstick case You…
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Managing Your Sex Life On Antidepressants
Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) like Prozac, Zoloft, Lexapro, and…
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Harry – A Trans Erotica Story
When Harry and I first met his bicep was the…
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