Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy are often used interchangeably, but they are not the same thing. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is an umbrella term for any type of relationship structure that leaves room for being romantically or sexually intimate with more than one person at a time. That can mean a lot of different things: Solo poly…
When we recently researched the most popular sex positions in the United States and found that the infamous Eiffel Tower sex position came in fourth place. What’s interesting about the data is that this sex position is the only one on the list that requires three (or more) partners. A desire for a threesome or group…
This article was written by a husband and wife who have been swinging for over 10 years. They noticed an emergence of interest in the lifestyle after the pandemic, but a lack of resources in getting started or learning more from an insider perspective. These are their experiences as swingers. This is the first in…
Do you share sex toys with a partner? Owning and using sex toys is definitely popular – 52.5% of women and 44.8% of men have used sex toys at least once before. While sex toys used to be a thing to use only solo, more and more people are not shying away from using them…
“I looked down at his penis, decided that he was big enough and then nodded to give my approval, before he started having sex with my partner for the night,” says veteran swinger, Mike. The 52-year-old ex-banker is well-versed in the UK’s sex scene; from Le Boudoir, the member’s club in London, to Vanilla Alternative,…
Polyamory has as many perks as a garden’s got roses, and smells just as sweet. All that community, camaraderie, and abundant communication, plus a whole spate of sweet humans in your life who love you – and not to mention that ever-evolving sex life. Is there anything better? Looking at it from the outside, opening…
Perhaps the sassiest queen there is, being a cuckqueen can be entirely erotic… for those who get a thrill out of seeing their partner with someone else. You see, in a world where societal norms dictate how we’re ‘supposed’ to live our lives (you know, get married, have babies, work a boring office job, etc.…
When it comes to social situations, the expression, “two’s company, three’s a crowd” often comes with negative connotations. But when you add some kind of sexual aspect to it, well… a crowd is actually quite enticing! In fact, a study confirmed that 82% of men and 31% of women were interested in having a threesome…
Whether you’re getting down with one person or several, there’s a ton of fun to be had! And even though the notion of a gang bang can be kind of daunting or even foul to some, others find it extremely erotic. Whatever your pleasure, treasure! This is why we’re adopting the attitude, the more the…
The chances that you’ve either been in, or have wanted to be in, a threesome, are pretty high. In fact, a threesome is one of the most popular fantasies for both men and women (and the number one fantasy for Americans, according to a survey). But are people actually engaging in threesomes? Well, one study…
This article was written by Social Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Having a threesome is the single most popular sexual fantasy. I surveyed more than 4,000 American adults about their most intimate thoughts for my book Tell Me What You Want and one of the key things I discovered when I looked at people’s biggest sexual…
Threesomes not only mix up the bedroom dynamic, they also open a whole new world of fun when it comes to finding positions that stimulate all partners simultaneously. Check out these sex positions specifically for female-female-male threesomes that can triple your pleasure ! The Watch & Learn How: The guy enters one of the women…
Ok, so you’ve decided to have a threesome. Cool. The first thing I’m going to say is this: your sex life does not define you. It says absolutely nothing about what kind of woman you are or about your values and beliefs. It took me a long time to really understand this, and when my…