Love at first sight is so often romanticised. In movies, films, and even in real life. And while the thought of it does sound appealing, there is the flip side of it all. In other words, is love at first sight actually quite shallow? Does it mean that one can be filled with feelings of…
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What Do Men Really Think About During Sex?
It might surprise you that it’s not “Boobs. Boobs. BOOBS.” There are many things that are going through a man’s mind while he’s making love–and yes, there’s a good chance he’s fantasizing about someone or something else. And that’s okay, because you’re probably doing it too! What is he thinking during sex? While making love,…
Anal Edging: Pleasure Games to Blow Your Mind
Edging is the practice of stopping yourself just before you reach orgasm, when you are on the metaphorical “edge” of sexual climax. While originally invented as a treatment for premature ejaculation, edging can help people climax more easily, and enable us to develop control over when those orgasms happen (1). Not only that, it’s also…
Digital Secrets – An Erotic Story
Steve knocked on the front door of Brandon’s house on Sherwood Drive. Instead of his friend answering, it was Brandon’s mom. “Steve, how are you?” she said brightly. “Hi, Ms. Davis. I’m here to get Brandon.” “He’s not back yet. He was held up at track practice. It shouldn’t be too long though. You can…
Does Vegetarianism and Veganism Affect Your Sex Life & Who You Date?
There’s a well-known expression that goes, “birds of a feather, flock together”. So we were curious to find out whether this expression was applicable when it comes to sex and dating. Well, more so about whether vegetarians and vegans were more likely to date other vegetarians and vegans (spoiler alert? They are!), and if being…
The Many Benefits of Owning a Pocket Vibrator
First off, if it fits in your pocket, it’s immediately easier to own, use, and enjoy because of its small size. Whether it’s a wallet, keys, cards, or a sex toy! But when it comes to petite sex toys, there are even more benefits to revel in besides its cute size! Herewith, we’re dedicating this…
8 Natural Ways to Boost Testosterone
It’s a common concern for many men, especially as they age – as testosterone levels level off and begin to decrease, what can we do to keep them at their peak levels? The answers are actually easier than you think, so read on for the 8 ways to naturally maintain and even maybe increase your…
The 2022 Halftime Show: Controversial or a Piece of Music History
An opinion piece… Ah, American football, a classic pastime in the U.S. The season builds up to its peak, the Super Bowl, which is essentially an American holiday. One where drunkenness, layered bean dips, and betting are some of the most time-honored traditions. The highlight of these festivities is the halftime show. The Superbowl halftime…
This Valentine’s Day Wasn’t for Couples—It was for Throuples
It’s fair to say that Valentine’s Day has always been geared towards couples. Year after year, restaurants on February 14th are packed with tables of twosomes. But times have changed and the idea that the most romantic day of the year should be limited to duos is dated. So this year sexual wellness brand LELO is…
7 Relationship Red Flags to Watch Out For
Being in a relationship is hard–especially when they’re long term. For some, they form their identity around their partner, making it hard to spot things that they perhaps once believed to be a deal breaker. Not just that, but seeing those waving red flags are even harder when you’re so invested in another human. And…
The Principal’s Principles – An Erotic Story
“Mrs. Mower…” Mr. Simmon said sternly through her classroom’s doorway. The woman erasing the whiteboard turned around when hearing her name. “… in my office now.” Before she could respond, he cut her off. “Yes, now.” And he ducked out. “But …” She wanted to object because her husband was off work for an evening,…
A Penis Ring Guide: How To Use the LELO TOR 2
As a child, we’re often taught to share our toys. And with much fighting and fussing, some of us managed to learn about the art of sharing and how important it would be later on in life. The TOR 2 is simply a testament thereof! You see, the TOR 2 is a penis ring that’s…
Your Guide to Different Vibrations: Buzzy and Rumbly Vibrators
Most vibrator guides on the internet will tell you all about the different shapes, sizes, and materials of sex toys. While these things are important when choosing the right toy, there is also something else you want to keep in mind – different vibration types. There are two distinct types of vibes that avid sex…
LELO Beads Plus: The Sexiest Kind of Exercise for Women
Exercise… What a drag, right? Yeah, it’s good for our health, keeps us fit and rewards us with a rush of feel-good hormones, but surely everyone has been in the position where they simply do not feel like getting their work out on. Today however, we’re going to introduce you to a new kind of…
Candy Land – An Erotic Story
Lacy puffed up the pillows on her cream-colored sectional one more time, and then considered where else in her apartment that may need sprucing. The living room carpet was freshly vacuumed with angled lines. The large-faced clock atop the fireplace mantel was dusted. The wine rack was full of the dark reds she loved. The…
7 Tips To Help You Be a Better Lover
If your satisfaction with your sex life has been lackluster, instead of finding a new partner or blaming it on both of you being incompatible in bed, it might be a good idea to learn how to be a better lover instead. Bad sex doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you or your partner.…
Stamina Training with LELO’s F1S V2
Sexual stamina training, erotic bliss, intense power, all in one console… is it possible? Well, yes, actually. LELO’s F1S V2 is all that and then some. It’s a pleasure product for penis-owners that’ll not only allow you to last longer in the sheets, but will also shower you with new and even better bouts of…
Do You Have “Penis Envy?”
As a term, Penis Envy is quite well-known, and as a concept, it’s an easy-to-grasp one, as it’s right there on the tin: being envious of a penis, as in a penis that is not yours. Among men and penis-having individuals, this is simple enough to understand, as who hasn’t at least wondered about the…
Understanding Your Sexual Desire Response Type with Emily Nagoski
Sexual desire (or sex drive, or libido – however you want to call it) is a rather misunderstood concept to this day. And not without reason. Due to the lack of sexual education in the majority of the world and mixed signals regarding sex in media, it’s natural that people are confused. The good news…
New Vibrator Alert! What’s the Difference Between SILA and SILA Cruise?
Looking for the culmination of sexual wellness and slow sex? You’ve come to the right place. SILA is strong when you need it and gentle until you want it. What is the difference between SILA and SILA Cruise? Cruise. Control. Technology. What is it? LELO toys with Cruise Control Technology save 20% of their overall…
Isn’t it Time You Try a “Vibrator Handjob?”
Consider this guys: the way you masturbate is the same way you’ve been doing it for your entire sexually active life. For instance, this writer is in his mid-30s, which means that it’s been the same rub-and-tug for over 20 years now. Now, I am sure that you’re not sick of masturbating or anything–but what…
First Time Sex Positions and Tips for Physical & Emotional Wellbeing
Having sex for the first time can be a daunting and nerve wracking experience for many. And while sex education, reading up on the topic, or even engaging in other sexual practices can never fully prepare you for your first time, there are some things that can aid in having a positive and pleasant experience. …
How to Stimulate the Foreskin
It is estimated that 37 to 39 percent of penis-owners are circumcised globally. This means the majority of penises have foreskins and yet, there are too few resources for how to effectively stimulate an uncircumcised penis. Part of the blame, at least in my opinion, is that anywhere between 76 to 92 percent of Americans…
What’s a “Hands-Free Masturbator” for Men?
The hands-free orgasm is certainly something you’ve come across on your favorite porn streaming site by now, and as a concept, you have to admit that it’s pretty intriguing. To climax without using one’s hands? For men, there are many ways that this can be done (mainly through prostate massage), but there are other ways…
Why People with Penises Should Embrace Strap-Ons
For many men and people with penises, it may never even occur to them to try strap-on sex. If one’s parts are functioning as expected they might not see no reason to experiment with such a thing. Society in general has deeply-rooted ideas about masculinity and penises that lead men to regard such playthings as…
Waves of Rippling Pleasure: How to Have a Full Body Orgasm
As Colbie Caillat sang, “It starts in my toes, makes me crinkle my nose,” a full body orgasm is kind of like that, but in the most satisfyingly sexual way possible. To enjoy a full body orgasm, it feels as though rippling waves are coursing through you with muscle contractions in your abdomen and other…
How to Make a Man Cry in the Bedroom
We know what you may be thinking… “Why would I want to make a man cry in the bedroom?”. Well, firstly, we don’t judge! There are many facets to sexuality, and how one experiences arousal and pleasure is not linear nor predictable. Whether you’re wanting to make a man cry in the bedroom in the…
Make Love Better with 4 Valentine’s Day Sex Positions
You chose the perfect gift, cooked a dinner based exclusively on aphrodisiac foods, sprinkled the bed of rose petals… what could you still be missing for a perfect night of passion? Why, the 4 perfect positions for Valentine’s Day, of course! If it’s all About Romance Romance is not for everyone – some people break…
Why We Absolutely Love Comfort Sex!
So often, when we read literature online or self-help books on the topic of sex, we find ourselves talking about experimenting, trying new things in the bedroom, and different way to avoid boredom in between the sheets. But what if the narrative changed? What if, instead of going for a one night stand or partnering…
Sexual Health Q&A with Dr. Zhana
For our January Q&A with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, we’re talking about Sexual Health. How much sex is necessary to keep a balanced, healthy sexual relationship? This is a remarkably common question that I get. There’s no one right answer. How often you and your partner should have sex really depends on how often the two…
The Ultimate Guide to Giving a Mindblowing Lingam Massage
If you’re looking for a way to surprise your partner, lingam massage might be a great option. It’s a practice that’s created with all the penis owners in mind. It guarantees a good time and a great way to connect with your partner. What Is Lingam Massage? Lingam massage is one of the tantric sex…
What Kind of Charger Does LELO Use? All Your Charging Qs—Answered!
Have a question about LELO chargers? Skip to the section you need below. What kind of charger does LELO use? Should I charge my LELO toy before first use? How long do I need to charge my LELO toy? Can you use LELO while charging? How do I know my LELO is fully charged? How…
What is a Happy Ending Massage? Your Guide on Giving One to Your Partner at Home
You’ve probably heard the term “happy ending” in the movies, social media, and even in magazines where people share their crazy stories from that time they went on vacation. And you’ve probably been curious what all the fuss is about. Is the happy ending common for every message? Is it only reserved for men alone,…
1000 Seconds to Mars – An Erotic Story
Your mouth puckers and shoulders shiver from the sour flavor. The Gimlet is more lime than liquor. In fact, the shot of Grey Goose is questionable. And that’s how your night has gone. You are mentally absent and not participating in Isabel’s and Carla’s chit-chatting. This smoky rock club is awkward for you. It’s packed…
How to Milk Your Prostate in Five Easy Steps
Ahh, the magical prostate! A walnut-sized gland found in penis owners that, when stimulated, can create a whirlwind of sexual bliss and full-body orgasms. And while massaging the prostate has been ‘a thing’ since the late 19th century, when doctors began performing it to treat inflammation aka prostatitis, it soon became a practice enjoyed by…
The Kama Sutra: More Than Just “Indian Sex Stories”
To hear tell of it, the ancient Hindu text Kama Sutra sounds like a book detailing many acrobatic sexual positions practised by people in India and the Hindu world. And when we say “ancient,” we truly mean it: While scholars can’t say for sure, the Kama Sutra was written sometime between 400 BCE and 300CE. …
Monogamous Relationships & Their Benefits
While polygamy is rife in many societies, monogamy still seems like the most mainstream way in which to have a relationship. We’re often bombarded with images, influences, and expectations to get married, have that white picket fence, three children, and a dog, then live happily ever after. But because we’re more open-minded today in exploring…
Why Am I So Horny? The Science Behind High Libido and How to Manage It
“Why am I so horny recently?” You might be asking yourself that if it’s been five days in a row of having sex with your partner, and yet, on the sixth day, you still wake up ready for another round. Different people have different sex drives, and they can vary depending on various things happening…
How to Use HUGO to Open New Realms of Pleasure
Imagine seeing the world only in black and white 2D perspective all your life and then, all of a sudden, opening your eyes to a colorful 3D vision. Basically that’s what it feels like to incorporate a quality prostate massaging toy in your regular sex act. And if this text manages to convince you to…
Sauna Hot – An Erotic Story
Charlotte toweled off in her steam-fogged bathroom. To her dislike, rubbing the thick cloth against herself made her lower body jiggle. She flung the white towel over a hanger and wiped off the moisture from the mirror with her hand. When she saw her reflection, the comments of a former lover came to mind. She…
Creating Your Own Personalised Sex Bucket List: 110 Ideas for Passionate Adventures
Familiar with a bucket list? You know, a list of things you simply must do before you die? Maybe you want to visit Thailand. Perhaps you’d like to go swimming with dolphins or get a tattoo? The beauty of a bucket list is that it can be as personal and meaningful as you want it…
How to Use F1s Red for Best Results in Solo or Partnered Sex
As far as penis masturbation tools go, the idea is pretty simple, you stick your dick in it, turn it on, and it does its thing… what more could there be, right? Wrong. Science and technology have gone a long way in turning those gadgets, especially the ones on the high-end of the spectrum, into…
Here are 21 Weirdest Kinks People Have
Everyone has at least one kink, however mild it might be. Whether you’re into praising, spanking, or some BDSM role-playing, everything is healthy when practiced safely. But there are some weird kinks out there that you might not be familiar with. So, let’s explore some of the weirdest kinks people have. Sex as a Woman…
What is Vibrator Punishment?
While browsing your front page of your most-trusted porn site like XVideos or Pornhub, you’re opening yourself up to a lot of questions. As you become exposed to more and more different sexual proclivities by way of titled thumbnails, you might ask yourself things like “does everyone suddenly want to have sex with their stepmom?”…
Your Beginner’s Guide To Dual Vibrators
Dual vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys on the market. And there is no surprise why. With the wide array of shapes and sizes that they come in, it’s a sex toy worth the attention for enhancing both, solo and partnered play. What Is a Double Vibrator? Double vibrators are sex toys…
What is Anal Training?
Anal training is a process that helps make anal sex more pleasurable. Just like your genitalia, the anus has many sensitive nerve endings that can feel nice when stimulated. Also, the prostate is inside men’s anus, which is an extremely sensitive spot that can give mindblowing prostate orgasms. However, anal sex can be pleasurable even…
Discreet Sex Toys for the More Modest Pleasure-Seekers
While we’re in the era of removing the stigma attached to using sex toys, it’s true that not everyone is comfortable with having their favourite pleasure products on display for the world to see… and that’s completely fine! Despite this shift in mindset, sexuality is a very personal and intimate journey, and having the ability…
What is the Meaning of Your Sexy Dream?
So you’ve woken up all flustered, perhaps a little sweaty and well, aroused! Or it could have been the complete opposite—freaked out, overwhelmed, and possibly even disgusted. Sexy dreams happen to the best of us, and we don’t always get to choose who we have these lustful dreams about (cue lucid dreaming). But whether you’re…
Water-Resistant or 100% Waterproof Sex Toys: What’s the Difference?
To use our favourite sex toy is to give ourselves the ability to escape into a magical dream world. A world filled with pleasure, happy hormones, and insatiable orgasms. No longer are we looking at battery-operated vibes, nor ones with annoying cables. Today, we’re in the era of sex toys that bring pleasure to whomever…
Ask a Therapist: Desire Discrepancy Q&A with Casey Tanner
What are things you can do to increase sexual desire with a partner To begin, it’s helpful to understand what kind of desire you and your partner have. There are at least two kinds of desire that we know of: spontaneous desire and responsive desire. Those with spontaneous desire might have the experience of feeling…